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Wow, thank you so much. What a difference in this site over the past year. So professionally done and looked after. It has become such a valuable resource for SWs that for myself i really rely on its access. And Although we have our own opinions the debates are always enjoyable to read and sometimes participate in. Even though i don't always post on alot of things, I believe in posting when my opinion is valuable, i do enjoy reading them. Thank you again, I'm overly flattered. Thank you to those who selected me and thank you to @lydiahardwood for all the hard work for us, xo.

Thank you for sharing this Ray. I’m hoping you’re doing well. It feels like it should be the subject of a Lydia interview. This is quite a tribute to these three wonderful ladies. I’ve never seen such a glowing recommendation! Nice to see some positive stories especially considering what’s going on in the news these days.

I vote for @EmilyRushton. She has supported me in so many ways... there for me when I need advice. Her thoughts on the industry get me thinking and her over all support of the industry makes me feel so valued. Thank you Emily, for being a support network and caring about what I have to say. I couldnt continue being in this industry if I didn't have my support group... Lyla, Lydia, Mod cat... none of this would be possible without you having our backs. So, with the dawn of 2021... I wanna nominate all of you for being part of such an inviting, supportive and open community. Keep being awesome babes.

I already did up two. One for his professional file which is lighter then he one I wrote for his wife/MIL. Nothing was mentioned about his home life in the one to his wife except for the internet stuff, but only to start a timeline of the missed work. I did tell him that this was the last I was willing to do this. I don’t want to actually get involved anymore. I am still his boss and have to remain somewhat distance. Writing this email for his wife is a one off. If this keeps going and the wife doesn’t get the hint, then I have no choice but to be boss and let him go. I wish I could do more but I have to weigh the pros and cons of my business.

Not sure if this is the right place but I will be discussing escorts so this is where I write it! It is hard to believe that in a few days it will be two years since I became a hobbyist. I came into this knowing nothing having been married for 45 year's total, spanning two marriages. And I never cheated. So I came into this with so many misconceptions. My only experience with escort was when I was in Germany where you went to this house, paid and picked a girl and did your thing. Whether it took ten minutes or an hour you did your thing and got out. Purely physical! So I was kind of expecting similar when I contacted @KylieJane for my first modern day experience. What a surprise I got. I met a beautiful blonde lady, impeccably dressed, with a gorgeous smile. My education started. I credit Kylie Jane for bringing me out of the rock I had been under for so long. She accepted me for who I was and treated me with respect, never ridiculed my naivety(?). She taught me about etiquette, encouraged me to learn all I could. She directed me to site like this one where much information can be found. When she felt I was ready she talked about duo with another lady. Only issue I had was I never was a man to share the woman I am with with anyone. I gave it some thought and decided that I was ready for new experiences. So it came that I was introduced to @StephanieMystique. I have to admit that I was distant at first. Kylie and Stephanie were wonderful at loosening the tension and making feel at ease. There followed more duos for longer time. Then I was introduced to @charlottequinn123. Again a great lady. That first year was such a learning time. Kylie taught me so many things. One thing I really liked is that our visits were not just sexual but involved so many nice moments with great conversations. Then the pandemic struck. Being a mature man in a high risk condition, cleanliness and good hygiene became very important to me. We managed to navigate the lock downs, restrictions and limited contacts and we able to continue some contact. Then when things got better as far as being able to visit, my personal life took a thimble. I now had to fight for my grandkids, support them financially. That and taking care of my house which needed work done. It became overwhelming and I decided to sell my house. My activity as hobbyist had almost stopped. Then the car accident came. Just at a time when I finally had an appointment with Kylie Jane. I did not think she would want to see me with a disfigured face, broken tooth and a sore acky body. But she did and she was so gentle with me. I also found out during scans after the accident that I have lung cancer. Again, she did not pity but very encouraging and understanding. Finally at the end of November I was able to pick up my activities again and try to make up for loss time. When I look back I am so thankful to @KylieJanefor never giving up on me. I have learned a lot from her about this life. Also Stephanie and Charlotte have been there also. I hope to see more of them this year. At the beginning some have rebuked me for praising this lady. Too bad. If I feel that someone deserves praise I will not hesitate to give it. Kylie Jane does indeed. She has shown me how far showing respect and appreciation can go. I am proud to say she is my companion and my friend. I have no hesitation in being public with it also. Thank you @KylieJane and Stephanie and Charlotte. Maybe this year will bring the four of together again! .PS:I am alone, so I talk and write a lot!!!

Unfortunately it's almost impossible to get something removed from there without legal action. Someone I worked with was put on there a few years ago and she eventually just gave up as she didn't want to pay a lawyer. She tried for over a year. That site is notorious for not taking things down unless it will impact their bottom line. There are also a few services that you subscribe to that will scrub the internet of content by doing the fighting for you. One example would be https://www.reputationdefender.com/individuals Maybe take the plunge and book a consult and see if they can help you manage it?

That's fair enough. What it comes down to as much as anything is how much you really *want* to keep him, and there will always be a limit.

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The Gentleman's Club was my first experience with the industry. (I think I'm dating myself). It wasn't as intimate of an encounter as seeing an independent sp by any means, but there is something to be said for the convenience of the "no appointments necessary" format lol. They closed down not long after that. Apparently they got raided and harassed by LE so often that it just wasn't worth it to continue. I believe the laws are such here that it would be very difficult for most agency models to exist. (At least that's my understanding.)

I am fully aligned with your feelings. Unfortunately with life now booking with a great SP is often last minute and not always successful; understandably. The "member club business model" has baffled me. I assume you mean like CMJ in Ottawa ? Can you shed some light on how these work ? Feel free to PM.

Thanks for the update! Good to know that things are on the road to resolution, one way or another. It sounds like you've handled it pretty well. One further bit of unsolicited advice: I think it's great that he's asked you to send him an email that he can show to the wife/MIL. It might actually be worth sending two; one for just him that accurately reflects the situation, and another than he can use for domestic propaganda purposes (you might want to leave some stuff out of the second). I'm speculating here, but it's possible that the wife/MIL could react badly if they knew he'd told you what was going on. Also, that second one could be repeated/reinforced if he needs it. What might happen is that he'll be OK for a bit until the shock wears off, and then he'll be asked to do "just one little thing", and then another, and before you know it he's right back where he is now. If he needs more ammunition to get them off his back again, let him know you can supply it :)

Ok so the update First, I am glad I didn’t just fire him out right and I am glad that I talked with him. The internet problems where true. I believe that. The problem with working at home apparently is two women who consistently ask for things during the day. Since the pandemic, his MIL moved in so that she can be cared for as she is elderly and they did not want her in LTC. I get that. He is the only one to go outside, unless it is for their daily walk. So he has to do all the shopping, and anything else dealing with outside the home. He had to arrange the entire move of his MIL on his own. Only his brother was allowed to help move. There was a list of other things he gave examples of. Like cleaning out the garage and small home repairs and renos to make wife and MIL happy. They would insist that he do this during the day when they are awake and would keep saying that he can do his work ”later” as in doing it in the evening. Which his says he tries to do but by the end of the day he is exhausted. I get his issue, but of course I need work done when I need it done. He says he is going to have a talk with his wife and tell her his job is now on the line. He wants me to actually email him about it so he can show it to his wife. Which I would have done anyway for record keeping, but hopefully it works. So the plan; We are coming up with a check-in reporting system. Something like a punch clock but different to accommodate our business. He is creating a dedicated office space where he can close the door and let the women know that means do not disturb for any reason other then death or fire. He is going to train the receptionist with the basics and she is going to obtain proper education to learn everything properly. She is interested in the field. For all employees, yearly salary increases are based on a performance review. Not just given because it is the end of the year. Weekly progress reports will now be required which will be given in in-person meetings weekly when the pandemic is over. For now it will be remote over zoom and email. For him, we will be doing bi-weekly reviews until I am sure we have his remote working under control. His yearly performance review is in April. I have explained that one more missed deadline will mean he doesn’t even make to that yearly review. He understand and accepts this. It is hard because I understand his problem. He understands my position. I don’t want to fire him, he doesn’t want to lose his job. We work well together. When we are working. It just seems like the women in his life need to stop taking advantage of him and me. I am not paying him to move MIL into the house. I know to some this may sound like I went soft on him. And maybe I did, but I feel for him. And I need him still until my receptionist, who will have a new title soon, is able to take over the job. Which won’t be for awhile. So I hope he is able to seriously convey to his wife how serious this is. If I have to, I will fire him and outsource temporarily. Anyway, I wish I knew if he hobbies. I would gift him a session with a woman of his choosing. He really sounds like he needs it.

Telework will become a norm, which is good for the environment; Some people have made a conscious effort to help small and local businesses; What we took for granted, like going to the gym or meeting a friend at the local coffee shop feels much more valuable now; Some (yoga, dance... you name it) classes that were only available in person are now available online... It's actually very interesting to see that you can find some good in any situation!

Thank you gentleman for the wonderful words. We will be sure to make 2021 an incredible year for you Ray. It'll be another one for the book of memories to never forget. 😘 Stay strong and in good spirits till then. ❤️

I would like to send some special holiday cheers to @Exotic Touch Danielle and to @StephanieMystique, although we never met I find you both very attractive both in pictures and in your way to communicate. XOXO

I used to get clothing , dress, lingerie requests and I kind of liked it . It was a small thing I could do and usually I had the requested item. These days I have noticed much less of that and am told to wear what is comfortable. I like dressing up , it makes me feel like I tried and also I feel a little sexier. Deep down I'm a Tomboy Betty and I embrace that side as well . Lots of visitors like the look so its a nice change. These guests like the casual look as it is more authentic for them . Makes sense . We don't spend a lot of time at home in high heels, stockings and garter belts. 🙂 I agree with Mark , conservation and a few laughs get the chemistry brewing and without conversation and some banter it can be a dull date. When I entertain at home I'm not busy and would far prefer some chat on the couch, I'm not concerned about being over time . Hey my overhead is low . 🙂 My way may not be for everyone but it works best for me . If I'm happy it means my guest is happy . We all approach our dates different and I am sure everyone has their special way to make the most of the time .

I don’t see anything wrong with saying “PM me for details”. It’s just an invitation to discuss an experience in private. You can read into that as much as you like. besides how should we interpret a lack of recommendations? It doesn’t always mean something negative. It might be more of a reflection on members not being as active as we should be. I agree with @waterrat, the more we all participate the better off we all are.

I don't think he said anything wrong. 'I have. PM for details' doesn't say it was a bad experience or not. There wasn't also a need to ask him for recommendation to be honest.

A recommendation would be wonderful if you care to post one for her. 😊