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HI: she will be travelling in NS soon...book asap..you won't regret it...trust me!!!...she will book fast.mmmm please no pm's...seen her once & wished I had booked previously with her when she had ad's posted..she's like the energizer bunny!!!

I am a fan of dry as they can lead to opportunity and safety 💋 The automated systems very well could become better with time, but that also very much depends on who is responsible for their tweaking. It is however very hard to compete with free. No matter what kind of SCR grips the wheel. I am a bit of a dreamer still 😉

The problem is that moderation becomes impossible at the scale of the big social media platforms. Automated systems don't work that well and getting humans to do it costs far too much money. Maybe if it were a paid service... but who's going to pay for these things now that we're all accustomed to having them for free (or at least, for a non-obvious price)? I'm glad someone likes the section 230 stuff... it's important, but rather dry for most folks' taste!

Ashley is in town (complying with Atlantic bubble, so no worries). She is amazing. Very easy to talk to and we hit it right away with our common interest in gaming. Very skilled and lovely personality. We had a good time together and looking forward to meeting her again. Don't miss out.

I have never considered it a fetishist but I have a compulsion to preform oral on a lady... I know... I know who doesn't lol. It blows my mind to see the effect just a tongue, lips and a few well placed fingers can have on a woman. I love to watch and listen to how the lady reacts ... that initial touch of the tongue... the feel of her hand on the back of my head.... the way you feel her body tense up.... her reaction to two well placed fingers that bend and extend....noticing how her breathing changes.... watching for her lower back to arch .... hearing that little gasp of air just before we are both rewarded. If that was a whole session I would be happy. Just my Opinion

What do you do when you fall in love with your SP? I mean, I was not expecting this! Does anyone else have this experience?

I can totally ditto that. Super friendly and very open minded. Makes you at ease. Very good service. Definitely recommend.

Remember when we could go anywhere, at any time without having to wear a mask?

Hello friends! I’m touring to Halifax and I can’t wait to see you! Please don’t worry, I am quarantining already. I am available for in person dates from Jan 29 to Feb 7, and available for sext or video dates now! Pre-bookings and longer dates are being prioritized, so schedule a date while you still can! Follow me on Twitter - @junestarr18 - there are more pictures there 😉

Thanks for the input! I have had an open discussion with her. She was very sweet about the whole thing. Looks like this happens frequently for her so she was not shocked when I confessed how I feel but clearly asserted her policy of keeping professional life separate from personal. Pardon me if this was the wrong forum. I was simply hoping my fellows on lyla had experienced the same and could advise me. She suggested a dating site if I want a partner lol. Win some, loose some.

Is that her picture in the Ad

Try it you will enjoy... trust me.

Well I notice you said "when YOU fall in love" so the question I have is...is it mutual? If it's not.... remember you went into this as a business relationship so you don't have the right to decide it is something different now. If it's mutual then you need to be talking to her and not us. Just my Opinion.

Well, if you're in love. then I suggest living together, getting married, have an open relationship.... whatever turns your crank and both parties agree to and find fulfilling. Of course any of these options will be more expensive than the current situation. This is the voice of experience here.... to quote my dear friend Zorba the Greek: "Am I not a man? And is not a man stupid? I'm a man, so I'm married. Wife, children, house--everything. The full catastrophe."

Ashley's fantastic, as are all the French Ladies. Let's keep 'em coming!

It's not complicated, pretty simple actually. This industry is just like everything else between any two people should be in the realm of life, 'Mutual'. It really doesn't matter what mutual agreements are made, completely mutual (uncoerced in any manner), two adults are free to do as they wish with their time. When situations arise where feelings are formed by one person, either party, is when unpleasant issues can occur. Including Sugar Dating, I've experienced both sides of such a scenario and not one position is any easier than the other. Be real with yourself, be civilized, respect yourself as well as the other person involved at all times and in such a situation two caring humans can work out any differences in an amicable manner. Even if for one it leads to disappointment it still doesn't leave the other with a pleasant feeling.

I also find there is another issue at hand relating to this subject where things can go in the wrong direction. For example: when a provider offers an excellent service and perhaps even has gone overtime in the session while having an interesting conversation...or has been seeing a regular for a long time and goes out to dinner with him and doesn’t charge him extra for her time because he has been extremely generous with gifts etc. Suddenly it’s expected and if the SP says no at a later date, suddenly the client takes offence and accuses her of being too business like when in reality she is not obligated to go anywhere with him or spend extra time when not being compensated. Or suddenly after being generous with her time to show appreciation for something the client has done for her, now they just want to “pop by” when they feel like it and get pretty aggressive about it. After being told no, they start to get passive aggressive or angry accusing the SP that it’s all about the money. Keep in mind I’m not referring to women blantantly exploiting clients telling them they “ love them” and want to be in a relationship with them while knowing exactly what they were doing. That is with intent and pathological. I’m referring to an SP/client who have a good connection and client takes that and runs with it or SP is too nice and gets taken advantage of or SP relies too heavily on client and starts asking for money. Its safe to say that keep it within the limits. Don’t go outside the boundaries no matter how casual the relationship seems because that’s when people get too comfortable and as they say ( and this is for either side) “You give an inch and they will take a mile”. Then people wonder why they got “taken”. If a provider says no to a client’s advances such as going out to dinner off the clock or offering to bring her chicken soup when she is sick, understand that this is for the client’s own good and maintaining those boundaries. In the end the provider gets blamed for just trying to do her job and how it’s all about the money for her. This is a business and for many how women make a living full time. We are offering a service and many of us enjoy meeting people but we are not looking to date or have a personal relationship outside of offering our services. Just dont go there no no matter how nice she is or how nice a client is. Maintain the connection in a friendly way within the parameters of how you both have met.

I feel for you. There are some marvelous people on here, but there is also the odd deceptive one. I got taken by a deceptive one. Nobody to blame but myself. Like you, I should maybe have asked others. Likely wouldn't have listened anyways. Having said that, the majority here are straight up good folks. However, be very careful when approaching the line.

Keep in mind that the reason why you go and see all the wonderful ladies that help you realize that fantasy that you want, you let yourself be vulnerable and if you enjoyed her company you will want to return for more. The chances that she will quit this profession is small and will you have this in the back of your head for the length of time you 2 will share together? After a days work when you come home from a tough day you will need someone to vent to, someone neutral about their feelings, will you do the same with her? Take a look at the big picture for now and see if you fit in it.

Greenteal and DrLove made very good points. I have also met some wonderful ladies that I have seen many times and fantasized about what it might have been like to meet them outside of this hobby. And that's where I always stop. I met them in an environment where we are expected to keep the boundaries in mind, especially after many wonderful sessions. It has happened where feelings are mutual and a genuine relationship has developed, but I believe these instances to be very rare. Maybe you are lucky and have been able to find one of these special relationships. My one caution to you would be to consider that if you do express a desire to move beyond the client-SP relationship you may risk scaring her off. Or are you better off continuing within the confines of your current relationship where you have met someone you can feel comfortable with during the time you spend together? In the end, whatever you choose to do will be right for you but be aware there could be unanticipated consequences. Good luck!