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HI: she will be travelling in NS soon...book asap..you won't regret it...trust me!!!...she will book fast.mmmm please no pm's...seen her once & wished I had booked previously with her when she had ad's posted..she's like the energizer bunny!!!

I am a fan of dry as they can lead to opportunity and safety 💋 The automated systems very well could become better with time, but that also very much depends on who is responsible for their tweaking. It is however very hard to compete with free. No matter what kind of SCR grips the wheel. I am a bit of a dreamer still 😉

The problem is that moderation becomes impossible at the scale of the big social media platforms. Automated systems don't work that well and getting humans to do it costs far too much money. Maybe if it were a paid service... but who's going to pay for these things now that we're all accustomed to having them for free (or at least, for a non-obvious price)? I'm glad someone likes the section 230 stuff... it's important, but rather dry for most folks' taste!

Ashley is in town (complying with Atlantic bubble, so no worries). She is amazing. Very easy to talk to and we hit it right away with our common interest in gaming. Very skilled and lovely personality. We had a good time together and looking forward to meeting her again. Don't miss out.

I have never considered it a fetishist but I have a compulsion to preform oral on a lady... I know... I know who doesn't lol. It blows my mind to see the effect just a tongue, lips and a few well placed fingers can have on a woman. I love to watch and listen to how the lady reacts ... that initial touch of the tongue... the feel of her hand on the back of my head.... the way you feel her body tense up.... her reaction to two well placed fingers that bend and extend....noticing how her breathing changes.... watching for her lower back to arch .... hearing that little gasp of air just before we are both rewarded. If that was a whole session I would be happy. Just my Opinion

What do you do when you fall in love with your SP? I mean, I was not expecting this! Does anyone else have this experience?

She’s most definitely real. I saw her in SJ many years ago as well and the experience was great. Not partaking on he hobby ATM, but I contacted her to say hello and can assure you, it’s really her and those pictures are all her.

Hello friends! I’m touring to Halifax and I can’t wait to see you! Please don’t worry, I am quarantining already. I am available for in person dates from Jan 29 to Feb 7, and available for sext or video dates now! Pre-bookings and longer dates are being prioritized, so schedule a date while you still can! Follow me on Twitter - @junestarr18 - there are more pictures there 😉

Even though chances were slim that she would feel the same way, I think it was brave of you to try. I’m glad she responded to you with compassion. It brings to mind @waterrat’s interview and his valuable insights on the topic.

Okay, so against popular opinion, I went out and saw Nadia. And although not as bad an experience as I was expecting. There was an unprofessional moment when I arrived, another service provider in the room but she was promptly asked to leave. Nadia seemed to really care about her service and she was very open minded to my requests (communicated in advance). I have my doubts about some of her ad pics and how recent they are but some are recent and really her. And her incall hotel certainly isn't one of Moncton's finer establishment and the room had the "lived in" look. I've never met with Lexus, so I can't confirm if they are the same girl. I am however leaning towards this not being true. They are no ties between the two accounts on LL (number, email, chat name, content, etc.). I've texted with both and one is open minded about my request and the other wants nothing to do with it, and their writing style via text are completely different. Certainly not the same category as some of the professional SP's out there. For a travelling girl, I would say it was a good experience.

Thanks for the input! I have had an open discussion with her. She was very sweet about the whole thing. Looks like this happens frequently for her so she was not shocked when I confessed how I feel but clearly asserted her policy of keeping professional life separate from personal. Pardon me if this was the wrong forum. I was simply hoping my fellows on lyla had experienced the same and could advise me. She suggested a dating site if I want a partner lol. Win some, loose some.

I have a thing for public sex. The risk of being caught is very exciting!

Is that her picture in the Ad

I believe a love relationship survives long term if both people are mature thinking people who are very compatible regardless of what their occupations are or have been. Do they fight fair and really listen to each other. Many ladies in the sex trade have fallen in love with their clients and worked out an arrangement with them that works for both of them. Those who marry and leave the business just don't report back to the public as a rule so gathering reliable stats on how well they work out is impossible and not really a yardstick to use anyway. If they didn't work out well, it likely has more to do with the characters and personalities of the people than it did with working in the sex trade. Leaving the sex trade would remove much possible conflict clearly, but it depends on what kind of love relationship the couple wants and needs for themselves that is the real bottom line. If you define love as "strong liking" as opposed to the more "forsaking all others" kind of devotion, a couple can still be in love long term and be happy if they have maturity no matter what they do for a living in my opinion. .

Try it you will enjoy... trust me.

Sorry @Jackrlx9691 I prefer the first statement that you said about joining them, I did this before and for them it was time for me to do it. I waited about 15 minutes to join because it was so sensual and they seemed to have fun, I didn't want to ruin that for them but when I did they took off my clothes real fast and I thought they were going to eat me alive. Luckily I'm still around to tell the story and would love to live it again. I do understand your point of view of just watching because women are so soft with each other and they love touching each other softly and firmly with lots of kissing of body parts, it's like they want to compare their own body to the partner that they are with. You understand what I mean?

Ashley's fantastic, as are all the French Ladies. Let's keep 'em coming!

The latest YFL, Ashley, is in town. She’s attractive, skilled, and very easy to talk with. Booking was effortless. Location is a very nice downtown hotel. Her English is great. Enjoy, BD

It's not complicated, pretty simple actually. This industry is just like everything else between any two people should be in the realm of life, 'Mutual'. It really doesn't matter what mutual agreements are made, completely mutual (uncoerced in any manner), two adults are free to do as they wish with their time. When situations arise where feelings are formed by one person, either party, is when unpleasant issues can occur. Including Sugar Dating, I've experienced both sides of such a scenario and not one position is any easier than the other. Be real with yourself, be civilized, respect yourself as well as the other person involved at all times and in such a situation two caring humans can work out any differences in an amicable manner. Even if for one it leads to disappointment it still doesn't leave the other with a pleasant feeling.

I was in similar (maybe ??) situation in the past but I consider it differently. Of course, we all come to escort world to satisfy our dream or fantasy, something what is not present in our real life. And why should one regret if something like this happened? Over the years, I had several regular Ladies for different reasons. But with that one it was very simple - I just could not see the other Ladies. I thought about her being with the other woman and such a date did not have any sense. This made her not just regular but exclusive one. I always waited for our next date and I missed talking to her, I missed her smile, the feel of her body when I hug her, taste of her kiss, her laughing eyes, her silky hair... I have forgotten long time ago that I can feel something like this. And I will be always grateful to this woman for that wonderful year when I felt really alive again.

I also find there is another issue at hand relating to this subject where things can go in the wrong direction. For example: when a provider offers an excellent service and perhaps even has gone overtime in the session while having an interesting conversation...or has been seeing a regular for a long time and goes out to dinner with him and doesn’t charge him extra for her time because he has been extremely generous with gifts etc. Suddenly it’s expected and if the SP says no at a later date, suddenly the client takes offence and accuses her of being too business like when in reality she is not obligated to go anywhere with him or spend extra time when not being compensated. Or suddenly after being generous with her time to show appreciation for something the client has done for her, now they just want to “pop by” when they feel like it and get pretty aggressive about it. After being told no, they start to get passive aggressive or angry accusing the SP that it’s all about the money. Keep in mind I’m not referring to women blantantly exploiting clients telling them they “ love them” and want to be in a relationship with them while knowing exactly what they were doing. That is with intent and pathological. I’m referring to an SP/client who have a good connection and client takes that and runs with it or SP is too nice and gets taken advantage of or SP relies too heavily on client and starts asking for money. Its safe to say that keep it within the limits. Don’t go outside the boundaries no matter how casual the relationship seems because that’s when people get too comfortable and as they say ( and this is for either side) “You give an inch and they will take a mile”. Then people wonder why they got “taken”. If a provider says no to a client’s advances such as going out to dinner off the clock or offering to bring her chicken soup when she is sick, understand that this is for the client’s own good and maintaining those boundaries. In the end the provider gets blamed for just trying to do her job and how it’s all about the money for her. This is a business and for many how women make a living full time. We are offering a service and many of us enjoy meeting people but we are not looking to date or have a personal relationship outside of offering our services. Just dont go there no no matter how nice she is or how nice a client is. Maintain the connection in a friendly way within the parameters of how you both have met.

I think some things were left out by the OP here. He said he helped her out financially to stop working. Did he expect her to stop working? A lot about this situation is not clear. I think one has to keep in mind that no matter how one may feel about an SP and they are paying to see her, they cannot be upset about the nature and circumstances of the relationship between client and SP. Unless the SP blatantly leads him on and taking things to another level and still expecting some sort of compensation, then that is outside of the regular SP -client relationship. No one can blame an SP for a client having feelings and then getting upset that he has to pay her for her time. It doesn’t work that way. I know feelings can sometimes get ahead of reality but we all have to remember why we are here and how a client has met an SP. Escort ads aren’t dating sites. We are here to provide an experience with no strings attached. Bottom line.. don’t cross into uncharted waters. It can be a rough aftermath. Just enjoy the experience for however long it lasts.

I feel for you. There are some marvelous people on here, but there is also the odd deceptive one. I got taken by a deceptive one. Nobody to blame but myself. Like you, I should maybe have asked others. Likely wouldn't have listened anyways. Having said that, the majority here are straight up good folks. However, be very careful when approaching the line.

Thanks for sharing... I don’t presume to know the specifics of your situation, although I can certainly understand why you feel the way you do. When you’re with someone that you feel you really connect with, the emotions and feelings you experience are real. However, and I want to say this gently, try not to forget the context of your interaction. In other words, you likely met this woman in a business capacity. Now, that’s not to say genuine feelings cannot develop- they certainly can. In my experience, I’ve come to know some incredible women over the years, some of whom I consider friends - however, I don’t lose sight of the broader picture. I enjoy the time we have when we’re together, but I never expect anything more than that. In all my years in this industry, I’ve only heard of a few instances where a real relationship has developed. I’m not saying this to be harsh; On the contrary, I wouldn’t want to see you get hurt. If you feel that broaching the subject with her may assuage some of your trepidations, you can certainly discuss how you feel. However, be prepared that she may not feel the same way. Another suggestion may be to try and find a genuine, reciprocal connection by exploring real life dating etc.. That may be one way to fill the void. You may also want to consider talking to a therapist to try to get at the root cause of what’s missing in your life and how you’re feeling. Trust me, there’s no shame in that. I once went through a bad break up with a woman I’d been dating, and it helped me see things clearer. Again, these are simply some ideas and options.... not saying what you should or shouldn’t do. Please accept my fondest wishes that everything works out for you!