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Not sure if this is the right place to post this but I'm happy to say my warranted suspension from a few years back has been lifted and I look forward to be able to participate on this site once again. Thank you to Mod and a special thanks to Lydia H. for giving me a second chance so to speak . It will be a kinder more diplomatic version of me I promise , I missed not having access to what Lyla offers to us Hobbiests. With a lot of scams out there I always felt this community offered comfort and security to all parties involved. Now the fun begins !

What do you do when you fall in love with your SP? I mean, I was not expecting this! Does anyone else have this experience?

Bonus on this one, she has nice fripples too !

Welcome back Boomer! Glad to see you back here.

A second welcome back boomer01!

Good to have you back boomer01 !

#1 how long have you been seeing her? #2 our you a preferred client with her? regular? #3 how long are the sessions? #4 have you had a overnight or longer time spent together? #5 have you ever discussed a sugar daddy arrangement with her?

I nominate @MsMandafor her bold, genuine comments. Proud of her 😎

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Thanks for the input! I have had an open discussion with her. She was very sweet about the whole thing. Looks like this happens frequently for her so she was not shocked when I confessed how I feel but clearly asserted her policy of keeping professional life separate from personal. Pardon me if this was the wrong forum. I was simply hoping my fellows on lyla had experienced the same and could advise me. She suggested a dating site if I want a partner lol. Win some, loose some.

I'd like to nominate Katherine Of Halifax for Jan 2021 More so for private communication information she sent me which was very much appreciated It was behind the scenes but I appreciated what Katherine did A Jan 2021 Rambling RG

I believe a love relationship survives long term if both people are mature thinking people who are very compatible regardless of what their occupations are or have been. Do they fight fair and really listen to each other. Many ladies in the sex trade have fallen in love with their clients and worked out an arrangement with them that works for both of them. Those who marry and leave the business just don't report back to the public as a rule so gathering reliable stats on how well they work out is impossible and not really a yardstick to use anyway. If they didn't work out well, it likely has more to do with the characters and personalities of the people than it did with working in the sex trade. Leaving the sex trade would remove much possible conflict clearly, but it depends on what kind of love relationship the couple wants and needs for themselves that is the real bottom line. If you define love as "strong liking" as opposed to the more "forsaking all others" kind of devotion, a couple can still be in love long term and be happy if they have maturity no matter what they do for a living in my opinion. .

Well I notice you said "when YOU fall in love" so the question I have is...is it mutual? If it's not.... remember you went into this as a business relationship so you don't have the right to decide it is something different now. If it's mutual then you need to be talking to her and not us. Just my Opinion.

I have never heard of a situation like this ending well, with everyone living happily ever after. Cease all contact, leave the country, and join the French Foreign Legion.

Thank you so much for the kind comments!

Long time members of this site might remember other similar threads over the years ... they might even recall my strongly insisting that "Real Friendships" can be developed in this industry ... well here we are years later and significantly wiser.. This is a business plain and simple... and yes in a business you can have friendly relationships that extend beyond the pure business transaction but you need to keep in mind that it is all dependent on that business transaction. When you become a regular with a lady of course the relationship changes ... you learn more about each other and may even extend your interactions outside the actual business arrangement... there may be celebrations of special events Christmas, birthday etc but I have learner that it is extremely wise to remind yourself on what this is all built ... a sexual fantasy... a business arrangement and even with the best intents by both parties letting it go further then that will result in problems. Both parties need to ensure that they nip these things in the bud. When they are not nipped in the bud trust me one party or the other will misuse the situation maybe not intentionally but regardless one or the other or both will get hurt. My suggestion for this industry is to be lead by your little head and leave your heart out of a business arrangement. Your not here to be a part of her personal life or to save her... and she is not here looking for a BF or Husband. Just my Opinion