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It’s sad that people abuse trust with clients for lots of others by being dishonest and scamming. This industry is changing fast enough for everyone involved I don’t think anyone needs to be doing things that will make it any harder for any of us SPs thanks for sharing @Allie Zeon a good warning for gentlemen to be cautious & a reminder for us ladies to be authentic and TRUE!

Agreed. It's obviously not the clients who are not aware of the boards who post here and elsewhere seeking information without doing any homework nor exercising any common sense, which can be in short supply when the little head takes over brain function, lol. Generally I observe newbie questions posted here are gently guided to many of the excellent resources available on lyla. I think lyla is among the better/best of boards. That being said it's the only one I'm a member on .... yeah I've perused a few terb posts due to ladies providing reviews from there but the inevitable toxicity always shows up too. @Greenteal I agree with all your points but this one. I'm a fan of decriminalization as opposed to legalization for the sex trade. Our current laws just make it less safe for SWs but updating them isn't going to do anything to eliminate the "dark/grey market". That is grounded in place by personal circumstances, perceived need for discretion, stigma and judgement. There is a long road ahead of us.

Thank you @lydiahardwood, @Allie Zeonand @waterat.It looks like Twitter is trying to block anyone that is trying to inform law abiding citazens about dangerous violent sexual predators in our communities. The Edmonton City Police have warned about this sexual predator in our community yesterday in a news release. Why is Twitter trying to protect these types of low lifes. I know we are supposed to be all positive with our comments here on Lyla but I feel the general public should be aware of these persons in our neighbourhoods. Below is the Edmonton Police Service warning of this person EDMONTON -- The Edmonton Police Service is issuing a warning about a convicted sexual offender who has been released in the Edmonton area. EPS says Russell Sikyea is not subject to any court orders or conditions. Police also believe he poses a significant risk of harm to the community, especially to vulnerable women. Sikyea has a history of breaking into homes and sexually assaulting women. He also has a history of voyeurism and breaking into the homes of women, including minors, when they’re sleeping. Police said his risk for violence, including sexual violence, increases with the consumption of drugs and alcohol. Anyone who sees Sikyea in public should avoid him. He is described as 5’6”, weighing 208 pounds. He has black hair, brown eyes, and the word “blessed” tattooed on his right cheek. Anyone with information about Sikyea can contact the Edmonton Police Service at 780-423-4567.

Yes. I’ve had some beginners who have seen me and ask some questions that can be perceived “naive” to those who are experienced in this hobby but yes, they are still naive and definitely need to be given more infos. “Escorting for dummies 101” lol

Strange thoughts going through my head back in the days. It's been many years since I did the deed for for some kind of compensation. At first it was fun and exciting as a male dancer/stripper who would help out some of the ladies' at the club. Most of the ladies were married or about to get married and wanted a fling with a Bad-Boy. Sometimes we did dinner first and tried to make some kind of connection. I would mostly chuckle to myself inside. Made up some crazy bull-shit stories and then went to a motel or their place. After many different adventures it took some alcohol to get the job done. I remember a date where the lady got a phone call during our time together. Hubby was coming to take care of business. I ran trying to get out the front door but had to go through the back of the house. A car chase started in Gatineau which led to gun-fire from hubby. I escaped and said to myself that I would never do that again. Many nights I would laugh and say ' I didn't do that" . I certainly felt sorry for some of those women. One time I Climbed out the bedroom window and shimmied down the front porch, Met up with the woman who handed me my shoes at the front door. Many nights had to pretend they were the only person in my life . Lost myself in the crap. I know that any time I go to a wedding now I wonder to myself what is going through the brides mind. Maybe tainted for life. Now when I go for a massage or take the time to see an SP I still think back and laugh about the small talk. It's all about growing up and having stories to share. I wish I would have done a better job of screening clients as there was not any internet or even cell-phones back then.

I have more and more clients complain about some verified girls on Leolist.Cc scamming people asking for online gift card or etransfer before hand and never return the call nor text once received. One guy who just saw me also complain about a girl who has been discussed in here and “vouched “ by members of Lyla who turn out to be not exactly as advertised. I won’t say names but I just want to say that you guys have to be careful even when the girls have been discussed in here but without proper recos from “verified” hobbyists who have seen us often. Sincerely Allie

Thank you Allie

Be very careful Deanna. Please screen very well😊

A little off topic but @newfy's post reminded me of this classic. Going to spin the vinyl now!

Let's face it, many of the dates that you have with that special lady that you found online are not always planned and everyone is ready. So here are some thoughts from some ladies that I spoke with about that. You are welcome to add more if you have some. Even times it's the guys that have those thoughts too. 1) "Damn","I forgot to shave". I know that hair is coming back but sometimes it's just not enough time to get it done before the date. 2) "Oh my god this is the messiest apartment ever" Please clean up your apartment guys before inviting the lady over. 3) "So we have to talk first, or...?" Some guys are a bit shy about talking to these fine ladies but not to get undressed. 4)"Ok...were naked now...that escalated quickly." So guys will start sucking on the ladies face like a vacuum cleaner. Take your time and work your way slowly. 5) When was the last time these sheets were washed? They don't look dirty but there is a smell coming out of them. 6) He is actually not bad at this. Despite not kissing well he did get me off so it was alright. 7) "Um...wait..my legs don't bend that way." These ladies are not blow up dolls that some guys might be used to. so be a bit careful. 😎 "That was it..?" Easy grasshopper, this is not a race. Into this for 2 minutes and it's already done. 9) "Should I stay or should I go now?" This one follows the last one, he finished early and is about to fall asleep. "Were did I leave my clothes?" Do you have anymore that you can add to this list. Please have respect and no name mentioning on here.

Further more, Lydia just had an interesting interview with Alison that shows some lights how the business has evolved over the years, both for clients and providers. Lydia @lydiahardwood has just posted a topic about the new social network called lips that is supposed to be queer, non binary, stripper, escort, cam girl, or anything sex related friendly. Love it! Sex is not a sin. It’s our needs as human and we have to embrace it instead of hiding it or seeing it as something dirty or taboos. I’ve been happier physically as an escort. I need, excuse my language, Dick in my life 😎 Happy hunting and happy escorting! Do your homework and research well first though 😎 Allie

And some people who are new to this hobby may not be aware of bulletin boards and may not know anyone/feel comfortable speaking with someone in regards to the do’s/don’ts and what to look out for, both good and bad. It took me over two years to find out about boards and have learned a lot, which would have been helpful when I was first starting out.

This is an amazing way to start the day. Gracias!

I'm confident if he ever gets that 'strange' call about contact tracing I'll hear about it. :D I'll just play dumb. 'Gosh ... thats crazy. Really? Where did they say you went? Thats nuts.'.

FWIW it's at https://lips.social/. I've just signed up (I'm Phaedrus there too). Although it appears that there's an approval process, so we'll see what happens with that... According to their FAQ they do have an app but you have to go to their site to get it as they don't want to be at the mercy of Google/Apple, who may decide they don't like all the sex or something.

Btw, I do require a deposit and/or screening as well. So, please don’t thing that every girl who asks a deposit is a scammer lol. I request a deposit for several reasons. One of the reasons is the sender can be tracked or reported just in case something goes wrong. The clients also can report it if the lady goes silent after receiving it. So it goes both way. However, I totally understand for those who hesitate to send the etransfer. That’s fine, I will screen you instead:) Bottom line is, do our homework and research and don’t be lured simply by beautiful pics. It might not be her, it might be a 7 feet big guy with tattoos waiting 😎

Thanks for the input boys. We can’t blame new hobbyists simply because they are beginner. It’s a learning processs and it will get better over time and hopefully by reading this, the beginners will be more careful in selecting the right ladies and can avoid any hassle or problem:)

I have seen her this week and confirming that it is the same Lily that worked earlier at YFL and is now independent by her choice. She is beautiful, hot and kind. You will have a great time.

I may have to try this site. Last night I retweeted a tweet informing everyone about a sex offender in Edmonton. My Twitter account has now been suspended. I don't know how to have my account unlocked. Maybe Lips is the way to go. I have to get ready to go to work so I will check this site out tomorrow.

I just will not go to any external site if they require it, LOL or etransfer without knowing the lady in person first. I don’t find it that hard to avoid the many fakes. Any ad that has clear face shots are always suspect to me...unless they are well established and well known like you Allie. 🤘🏼

Yes you are right! I read "vouches" and somehow translated it to recomends as I read the other comments. My appologies!

I had great experience with @StephanieMystique a couple of times. She has all the skills and really knows how to treat a man. She is caring, great to chat with and knows where to touch. She gives you the complete package of services along with showring together. All in all, a 5-star experience and a must visit. Love you Stephanie.

I had the opportunity to finally spend some time with this Pleasant young lady on Friday the 22nd! I was a little skeptical because her ad looked a little too good to be true and booking her wasn’t the easiest because of her schedule. Her tattoos matched up with the pictures, Her body is Slim with a nice little booty She was way prettier than I imagined her to be. Her lips are magical 😉 She definitely knows how to treat a gentleman. When I got to her locating she greeted me with a warm smile and asked if she could give me hand sanitizer. She gave me a wonderful non rushed time! I would recommend her to anyone that enjoys young upscale exuberant lady! ~Charles https://www.leolist.cc/personals/female-escorts/nova-scotia/halifax_y-6290511

Maybe I’ve been in Lockdown too long, but my God that’s 😆 Funny

I'd like to nominate Katherine Of Halifax for Jan 2021 More so for private communication information she sent me which was very much appreciated It was behind the scenes but I appreciated what Katherine did A Jan 2021 Rambling RG

A Virtual Reality head set 🙂

From 8 years ago.....???

I recently (safely) had the wonderful opportunity to share some time with Alexx. It was, without question, one of the best encounters I have had. Her screening process gave me confidence that it would be a safe meeting and it was a relaxed process. I appreciated that she was careful, it made me feel that all would be well. Safety is a constant watch-word, especially in these times, so when she greeted me to check my temperature I was so comfortable. Alexx’s incall place is wonderful, super clean and comfortable. Alexx herself is a exceptionally classy lady and, as hard as it might be to believe, more attractive than her pictures imply. Beautiful and sexy are words that fail to adequately describe her. Her physical appearance, as incredible as it is, is only exceeded by her intelligence and thoughtfulness. She is so great to talk to, sharing bits of what she likes and taking an interest in what you are into. I would have been happy just talking with her for our entire time together. That said we did move on to other activities. She has extraordinary massage skills that are not to be missed. The balance of our time together was even better...that you will have to experience for yourself… extraordinary would be a close one word description of that part of our meeting. An encounter with her is not be missed. Highly recommended!

I find this one very erotic....