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Leolist has definitely become a bit of a shitshow. Never been a fan of combing through those places for work. Caveat emptor however still very much applicable. Especially in an element like that. There are ways both sides are responsible for protecting themselves. It's not just on one or the other. This is an interesting thread and I'm happy it's a thing. I do feel there could be a lot more discussion on this board in these respects. Was happy to see someone else mention the same. I think what is really important to keep in mind however that looks are completely subjective. What is gorgeous to one maybe a complete turn-off to another and I think we need to be careful with the guys who complain to other providers about these things. We should also be careful that their expectations are not getting the best of them. My mind can't help but to see a possible in for someone to take advantage. Much can be said for screening and deposits. If this information is so important for providers, why have I seen little to no education or awareness for fellow SW's? From what I've noticed there isn't much of that out there at all. Thankfully I am capable of establishing my own process. As much as they can help tighten security, I do feel we should also be careful that they are not being used to discriminate against others as well. If brainstorming together to develop a system to help protect those being scammed is possible you can definitely count me in on that process!

It saddens me to see that some individual get scammed by those taking advantage of others. Reputable, established SW's screen for their safety as well as the safety of their clients - in other words, they do their homework before meeting with clients. Clients to have an obligation. Research the SW you are hoping to meet with. Where does she advertise? Does she have a website? Look for reviews, recommendations - sadly these are subjective and may be mis-leading. What method of contact does she prefer? What kind of pictures does she post? Does she offer outcall only? What payment methods do they accept/expect? While far from an exhaustive list of what a potential client needs to do to ensure who ever they are meeting with is legitimate, it is sometimes easy to lay the blame solely at the feet of an SW's. If it looks too good to be true or makes you have doubts, perhaps you need to look elsewhere. Anyway, my thoughts. and in no way directed at anyone specific. Stay safe everyone.

Wanting to know if Pearl is still around she gives a good massage

Thank you for this interview @lydiahardwood and thank you for the honesty and strength of your metal Sam Gaines. I can relate to some of the rudeness you have to deal with. As a Bi MtF CD Escort I deal with rude comments as well but they just make me more determined to carry on and never return the rude comments. I often counsel men with their nervousness about trying someone like me for the first time. I have been very successful doing that and have made many friends and help them with other disappointments in their life. Keep up the good work Sam and continue being very personable and understanding. You are right when you say it feels great to see the smiles on their faces when the find they can trust you. I am lucky to see that with the men I have counseled, pleasured and shown something they hadn't experienced before. It is my pleasure to give them a Great Experience without any attitude and never rush our sessions.

Wow...I'm blown away with Sam's answers, care to share your website to the rest of us? Thanks ☺️

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Good for you (& your lovers) dude. If companionship became fully legal in Canada, I would do it part time. I am sure there is a niche market for overweight - frighteningly unconventional looking - mid age man, specializing in South Park & other morbid humour (basically Shrek .. but human) 😁

Thanks for the interview @lydiahardwood. Although I take issue with some of his comments and don’t agree, I do appreciate the opportunity to read about and try to understand his point of view. Thanks!

Slit dress, oh yes please! Especially when the slit goes above the hip. So sexy.

And as soon as we started talking about this the beautiful @cassiesteele posted she will be visiting this week. She’s a wonderful lady.

I visited Lily this afternoon. She's been here for a few weeks, and I'm glad I got to see her before she left. She's just as beautiful as I remembered, and I had a great time. I know there were some questions floating around about her, but to paraphrase an old Seinfeld episode, she's real, and she's spectacular.

Agreed. It's obviously not the clients who are not aware of the boards who post here and elsewhere seeking information without doing any homework nor exercising any common sense, which can be in short supply when the little head takes over brain function, lol. Generally I observe newbie questions posted here are gently guided to many of the excellent resources available on lyla. I think lyla is among the better/best of boards. That being said it's the only one I'm a member on .... yeah I've perused a few terb posts due to ladies providing reviews from there but the inevitable toxicity always shows up too. @Greenteal I agree with all your points but this one. I'm a fan of decriminalization as opposed to legalization for the sex trade. Our current laws just make it less safe for SWs but updating them isn't going to do anything to eliminate the "dark/grey market". That is grounded in place by personal circumstances, perceived need for discretion, stigma and judgement. There is a long road ahead of us.

Further more, Lydia just had an interesting interview with Alison that shows some lights how the business has evolved over the years, both for clients and providers. Lydia @lydiahardwood has just posted a topic about the new social network called lips that is supposed to be queer, non binary, stripper, escort, cam girl, or anything sex related friendly. Love it! Sex is not a sin. It’s our needs as human and we have to embrace it instead of hiding it or seeing it as something dirty or taboos. I’ve been happier physically as an escort. I need, excuse my language, Dick in my life 😎 Happy hunting and happy escorting! Do your homework and research well first though 😎 Allie

Btw, I do require a deposit and/or screening as well. So, please don’t thing that every girl who asks a deposit is a scammer lol. I request a deposit for several reasons. One of the reasons is the sender can be tracked or reported just in case something goes wrong. The clients also can report it if the lady goes silent after receiving it. So it goes both way. However, I totally understand for those who hesitate to send the etransfer. That’s fine, I will screen you instead:) Bottom line is, do our homework and research and don’t be lured simply by beautiful pics. It might not be her, it might be a 7 feet big guy with tattoos waiting 😎

Leolist verification is meaningless. It basically means the pic included something scrawled on a piece of paper. There was no statement about a lyla recommendation - see quote below and note the "quotes". This situation seems to me to be someone who simply didn't do any basic homework and ignored multiple warning about gift cards, etc. There is far more valuable advice here on lyla than there are false "vouches". Leolist is the source of just about all the fakers and results in all sorts of goofy requests like 'anybody seen her?' 'any info?' I highly recommend reviewing the profile of any member who provides a reco or posts an ad. You can discern a lot by doing this: when they joined, when they last visited, review their content (where they post from - i.e. location if they haven;t listed in in their profile) and the type of posts they've made. Shills and suspicious posts tend to stick out like a sore thumb. As an example I recently saw one member who is closing in on his 4th year on the board whose posts paint a troublesome picture: on one thread he was called out by a couple of maritime based SPs as a 'wanna be pimp' (I agree) and he clearly lives nowhere near the east coast. I appreciate @Allie Zeon for raising this concern as it reflects back on reputable SWs (though it really shouldn't) like herself and helps protect the less experienced clients. I have to admit I have difficulty being sympathetic with clients who do virtually no homework. Members like @Greenteal have posted simple instruction on how to verify pics (if that's a concern for you). I happen to use e-transfers where possible but that's because I can and I generally only see reputable Lyla members who have some history on here. Once an SP has established a brand and reputation (reco or no reco) they've no interest in doing anything to mess that up. They want repeat clients. I note my perspective is being posted from a population centre in Ontario so the challenges in NB are different.

Yes! Thanks for supporting me. I was actually hesitating when I posted this but I feel so bad for my clients who have been scammed so I posted anyway 😊