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Yes, I've heard that this is a significant problem. And even if the money doesn't get withheld until after the shoot, anyone who doesn't go along with it is still likely to be labelled "hard to work with" and will find their opportunities drying up. There are some explicitly ethical porn producers, but... not enough. Back to front happens all the time. Again, I think it's safe enough when you've spent enough time sanitizing everything beforehand and you're dealing with a rectum that's clean enough to eat your dinner off. But people forget that, and then start to emulate what they see on screen... I'm not even a fan of pina colada, so I'll definitely steer clear of the hepatitis one....

Hi naughty, Are you already my fans on onlyfans lol? Good remark btw. I have clients get turn off after joining my onlyfans because it's way too Raunchy for his taste. I told him not to look at the sex videos over there, instead just enjoy my day to day videos & photos. I have various styles and photos with different outfits and wigs and sexual acts from a sporty girl, sexy vixen to a dominatrix with latex and leather boots to satisfy the needs of all my fans. Few enjoy all contents, some unfortunately don't. From my observation, Majority of fans want something they don't have in real life therefore Raunchy contents sell the most. Anal, cum on face... etc etc. I do that just for the dollar sign to be honest lol. I can't believe I enjoy doing it in front of the camera. However, I won't do it for my regular clients unless they book me for my domination session simply because of the reasons you have stated above 🔥. Allie www.onlyfans.com/Allie_zeon

I'm not sure if this is over for the month yet but I loved seeing votes for @500 Pound Gorilla. The interview he provided was quite Brave (you know I love bravery!) and time with him is definitely worthwhile 💋 If it's too late for April considerate it a vote for May.

Oh man I enjoyed this thread. Things I agree with most would certainly be double-dipping is yucky and dangerous. A lot of what you see in porn like Phaedrus said does come with a lot of preparation. I am a fan of backdoor play from time to time and preparation for that is enough for me. I cannot imagine what they go through to prepare for some of the scenes I have watched. I do remember reading an article once about really hardcore scenes and some producers not signing the ladies cheques until after the performance was over, to encourage them to endure what they wanted on film. Horrible and when I read that I was quite happy I have never considered getting involved in that industry. I've always preferred to do my own thing. This way how weird I get is on me, not some dude with a pen. I know double dipping between ladies was mentioned but I'm not sure if I remember seeing from front to back. I'm not judging those who might be into something like that but I can certainly say the thought of it irks me. Ass to mouth is also a very hard limit of mine. I can go with it the hepatitis colada thank you! Some of the things mentioned were a little tame and with proper communication certainly enjoyable amongst certain personalities. I like to try new things and push it to the interesting side at times but don't go too far. Dominatrixes in porn are often very different from dominatrixes in real life. Every goddess has and sets her own style. A few times I've come across some confusion as I feel the client may have had a more porn based expectation in their mind. If this is the experience you seek, it is still valid but don't be afraid to admit that is all you know of it. It would be a shame to see anyone get themselves into a situation they're not sure how to talk their way out of 😸 More of these glorious and kinky conversations please!

There are sex moves from porn that many of us would never want to recreate and for good reasons. If you watch porn like most of us do(don't lie we all know you do), some scene can't be replicated or duplicated. Slapping her face with your penis, I tried that once and the look on her face said it all. Lubing with a loogie....I once was with a new lady and she was dry, she didn't have any lube so I offered some spit and she refused because some guy grossed her out by trying to get some spit from the bottom of his throat...I mean WTF ! ATM, need I say more? Or even when doing a duo don't switch from one lady to the next without changing the protective cover...right? Do you have any to add to the list...I invite the ladies to chime in and share stories

They are not the same person.

My pleasure dear 🤗 @Ava Maria Love

Here is a story for you. This happened with a lady that I was seeing regularly and will see her again as soon as Covid is over or we are all vaccinated. This was discussed between the both of us for a long time before it happened and it was very exciting to do. The plan was: She would wear and old bra or blouse at our meeting(unknown when) and I was to use a pocket knife that I carry with me all the time for work and is always very sharp, I was to cut open one or the other or both. One fine day when I showed up at our rendez vous I could see that she was wearing the secretary/librarian outfit, you know the see through blouse, pencil skirt etc... She approached me and said "today is your lucky day" and I couldn't take myself to take out my knife so while her eyes were closed I just took both hands and ripped that blouse open, buttons flying all over and her breasts liberated from that piece of clothing holding them captive. I was reluctant on posting this on here because some will say that it's dangerous to play with knifes etc...I just want to remind everyone that we have known each other for over 3 years before this and we built a trust in each other. I also want to point out that all fetishes require trust in the other person.

See I thought it was just really good marketing as well but after notches feedback I'm thinking maybe it might not be a bad idea to invest in a pair. Is there a specific brand name to them or they just called " those leggings from Amazon". I wouldn't mind a pair or two if they're comfortable. Snapping a photo or two for you @NotchJohnson and the other Gentleman on the board doesn't seem like a very large ask.

I am pretty sure Sassy Ashley is not Nadia. They are two different ladies.

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The articulation in your writing is impressive and this was an amazing interview. Taking the time to make sure others were aware that your views may not reflect everyone else's experience really stood out 👏 You are incredibly aware and truly a gem!

Oh @Ava Maria Love you hit so many important things in this interview and thank you for taking the time to join and share with us! Toxicity is something I am not a fan of myself and why I prefer just to hide here in this little nook that is Lyla. It truly is a wonderful place. I'm thrilled to have what seems to be another sweetheart around! The views must be amazing on the west coast. You seem amazing and the type of mind I could get along with. If I am ever fortunate enough to make out that way I certainly hope we could have a drink sometime. Usually when I travel its East, but the West I do need to explore more. When it's safe to do so of course. Regretting I shutdown my Twitter. Have been considering getting it back up now that school is finished for the summer. If I do I hope you wouldn't mind if I send you a follow 💋

Watching the action in porn is like watching the Fast and Furious franchise. Looks exciting but I hope people aren't trying to drive like they do in the movies. (OK, there are idiots out there that do drive like that but they're IDIOTS!) As it was mentioned before, there is a lot of prep work and need to get specific camera angles involved as well as the desire to come up with unique positions to add variety to the films. Not necessarily practical or enjoyable.

Very impressive to see such wisdom from such a young lady! Well done @Clara Fonseca @lydiahardwood Great topic , I am always learning so much on your site!

I totally agree. I have seen Serena many times over the last 10 years and she has never disappointed

The one and only Sensational Serena is the companion with the infamous billboard (she also has ads on Leolist and her own independent website). Not only is Serena very smart and wonderful to talk to, she also has a down-to-earth personality and a terrific sense of humor. Of course, she is a natural beauty, too -- with the most enchanting green eyes that I have ever seen. I love that Serena speaks her mind and doesn't pretend to be anything she isn't. She sees past my disability and treats me with dignity and respect. I have seen her several times already and they have always been some of the most pleasant experiences I've had and I will definitely see her again the next chance that I get.

she is real, its her pics and i would recommend, nice easy to talk too did not rush time, and host in a top hotel,

Ciara for sure. I’ve been there.

I spent the most fabulous weekend with Sam Gaines He fulfilled every fantasy a woman could haveHe was very caring, loving and sensitive to my needs. He truly made me happy and I felt a peace within that I had not felt for some time.For the time we were together it was very real for me and very real that I was loved.A weekend like that makes you wish for a weekend like that again and again. Till we meet again Sam... soon.Thank you so much for the experience of a lifetime.JJXox

I'd also like to nominate @500 Pound Gorilla. Both for being a great member of Lyla and he provided a good interview too. RG

I'd like to nominate @500 Pound Gorilla, ha also had a great interview and his a great member of Lyla as well !

I have a meeting scheduled with Sam early March. I have talked and FaceTimed with him and he is what he says he is. I am a widow and can usually find someone for just sex but what Sam offers is an intimate experience of being loved and to be loving. Also a friend and companion. Thanks for posting this interview. jj

@SamGaines you are the only straight male escort whom I know that can make it as full time career. Bravo to you dear. Obviously, the girls like you here simply because you are articulate and know how to treat us right. Yes, some of your comments are over the top but we like that too lol. We are selling part of the fantasy as a companion, something that is lacking or missing in our day-to-day life and you fill this niche perfectly 👍 Btw, you already answer my questions through your replies

Hey its my pleasure ;) Being that my market is very small, fortunately I don't get flooded with enquiries :p I can usually figure out very quickly if somebody is a scammer or not. I don't know exactly what it's like for a female escort but I can only guess they have to spend a lot of time filtering.

Probably aisle 6 and 9 too.

Wanna fly to Ottawa with me?

Hi Allie :) Yes I am doing this full time. You are right in that it is more challenging in that regard. The market is actually very small.

Hi everyone :) This is Sam here. Thanks for taking the time to comment and share your thoughts. I also want to say thanks to Lydia for taking the time to interview me. I will try to make sure to answer each question you guys have. Also if you have any other questions you want to ask me directly and discreetly, you can always contact me through my website www.samgaines.com or via email at [email protected]

He is a good marketer, probably a good businessman too. check this last quote of him: "I am very passionate about what I do and I think if done right it can really help people. I am here to give women what they need from a man. I just use my profession as an unconventional way to do it 😉" It;s almost exactly what i expressed on my interview with Lydia. Being an escort, either as a male, female, non binary, trans, gay or lesbian or anything in between (crossdresser) if we do it properly we really do make people happier and energized. Again, Sam has confirmed it on his interview. He is a smartie:)

I am a fan of debate and different perspectives as well. Thank you for sharing your pov’s @Allie Zeon and @Kitten.

I am happy you asked this @Allie Zeon as the raging feminist in me was quite curious as well. I am a fan of differing perspective and debate. Thank you Sharpe for sharing his. Although I can understand how those words may seem insulting, deep down those are the things that women want and helps us feel calm. I do very much like it when a man holds me and I can literally feel myself melt into him. We may not admit it but we do like to be vulnerable. Allie had the best point when she had brought up that he is marketing towards lonely women and feel hes hitting the target quite well there! I did cruise through the site a little more and this whole God thing might throw me off a little bit. Women do like to feel disneyfied and I feel that is what Sam is delivering here. We like your strength very much. Sadly more men (at least the ones I have known outside this type of work) use it to destroy then to protect.

I AM A FAN OF SAM! Do we have one of these humans in Ottawa? Thrilled to see that there are men providing for ladies as well and genuine connection is at the top of this lady's list. I believe that's why I adore worship so much. Men like Sam truly are precious 💋 Going give this another read but must bring my toy with me this time...

You are blunt Sharpe. Realistically I would agree with you but remember Sam's target market is women who are lonely, betrayed, unsure or women who want to be treated like a woman. O yes, we love being protected, loved and hugged...no matter how successful and independent we are. I cried a lot due to loneliness before I became an escort eventhough people think I was strong and successful and independent

Agreed. If I were his client I would recommend to my friends. Not too sure, how many women can be like me though

I would like to hear a different opinion from Sharpe. This is the first time I read the interview of a male escort and read his comments. Such an eye opener and much more complex than I thought originally. Love to hear different opinions from you. We are all adults here. As long as we respect the differences, having a different opinion or point of view will be totally fine imo

Technically, everybody can be an escort but only very few can make it as a fulfilling career. Being male escort is very challenging since most women can get laid pretty easily compared to men. This is rather personal question to Sam:. Are you doing this full time?

Thank you for this interview @lydiahardwood and thank you for the honesty and strength of your metal Sam Gaines. I can relate to some of the rudeness you have to deal with. As a Bi MtF CD Escort I deal with rude comments as well but they just make me more determined to carry on and never return the rude comments. I often counsel men with their nervousness about trying someone like me for the first time. I have been very successful doing that and have made many friends and help them with other disappointments in their life. Keep up the good work Sam and continue being very personable and understanding. You are right when you say it feels great to see the smiles on their faces when the find they can trust you. I am lucky to see that with the men I have counseled, pleasured and shown something they hadn't experienced before. It is my pleasure to give them a Great Experience without any attitude and never rush our sessions.