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Yayyyy! Glad my nomination went through 💋💜 congrats to @Lexy Grace ! xoxoxo

So there are a lot of online directories that try to get into the adult advertising game by scouting out ads on popular sites like LeoList, copying the ad, stealing the pics and content, and placing them on their site. It is a way to make the site look full and busy and hopefully bring in traffic to start making it profitable. Well, I have had 4 “sites” steal my content now. 2 of them have actually edited my pics and taken out my watermark. I ask politely to remove my stolen content and one company actually said no. So I went above their head to their hosting company and got them shut down. Don’t steal my shit and I won’t fuck up you site! Now I have an escort all pissed off with me saying it is my fault that thousands of women may be out of an advertising source because I got the site shut down. How is it my fault? The site was unprofessional and stolen my content. Content creation is a huge business. I take a lot of time and care, {as you can see by my site} into my ads, my pics, and my content. I work hard at making my content. I watermark my stuff for a reason. I don’t want to have to start having my watermark bold and covering my body to ensure it is not stolen. That is not fair to guys viewing the pics. Am I wrong for going to the hosting company? I know it is not my fault they got shut down. They stole my content. They refused to remove it, what else am I suppose to do? Lyla members are little more leveled headed so I need to double check. I am not wrong here, right? It is not my fault that other escorts, some survival escorts, loose a possible advertising source? I know I am privileged in that I am white, have another income source, can work independently and I have put my foot in my mouth before when comparing different aspects of this industry and have been insensitive to other survival sex workers, so I just want to double check.

It has nothing to do with the business you're in. If someone steals from you, you do what you can to lessen the impact. I don't see that you've done anything wrong. You didn't attack the providers. You retaliated against the company that had wronged you. What happens after that has nothing to do with you. The only way to take down your content was to take down the site. That's on them for being recalcitrant.

This has been a problem for some time and not just within thr sex work industry. There are a plethora of little scammy aggregation websites popping up, scraping content from various other sites, and presenting that info as their own. I have a small side business and my website got scraped by one of these sites, and the only way to get my business removed from it is to "claim" the business on their aggregation site, and then pay to remove it. It's very frustrating, but the nature of the web makes content easily available to download. Thats the whole underlying basis of how the WWW was designed from the start, so there's really no permanent way to keep it from happening. In my case at least it's not really impacting the business, and the only reason I found out about it was I had a customer contact me via the third party aggregate site and ask a question. But for someone like you @Jenesis, who is marketing yourself as the "product" (sorry - that sounds way worse than I'd like it to, but I hope you know what I mean) I'm sure it's a much bigger impact as you lose control over your brand and also that modicum of control over who you're marketing to, so no, you're not wrong about taking care of it the way you did. You gotta protect yourself, your business and your brand.

No blasting @Steampunk, as a consumer of the services of these ladies I would hate to see one ad with fake pics (they are fake if it's not the person opening the door and offering the service). So assume I travel for business and see the same pics in another city and assume they are fake again but this time they are from the original poster and not fake? She would automatically lose a client. I've been in business for a long time and I can tell you it takes a lot of time to earn trust from clients and your name can be ruined in no time at all. Just saying...

Congratulations @Lexy Grace 🥳🎉🎊 Thank you @lydiahardwood for running such an awesome draw 🙏🏻🤑 Thanks @rykky for nominating me!😘 To all who voted and shared the kindest most uplifting words of affirmation with each other, thank you for posting. I enjoyed reading each post and seeing all the positivity so many bring to the Lyla community! 😍🙏🏻

I am still away and unsure as to when I'll be returning. When I do there will be a few changes. Leaving it as a mystery at the moment. Looking forward to seeing you in the near future. We will be riding different tracks but it will lead to the same station 😘 Thinking of you and missing you, Sasha XO

Jenesis, you did exactly the right thing. These sites rely on the fact that most people they steal content from won't notice, and most of those won't care enough to do anything about it. It's kinda like killing mosquitoes in that getting one really doesn't put a dent in the overall population, but... it feels good, no? :) The fact that the fight is probably unwinnable doesn't mean it's not worth fighting. I see this as being very similar to the arguments about downloading music for free (by which I mean ripped MP3s or similar, not ad-funded "free" services). Or movies, or any other copyrighted content. If everyone does it, artists and producers won't get paid, and they'll simply stop doing it. And then we all lose. In the case of stolen pics, think about what might happen if it became the norm, and everyone did it. Providers would stop posting their own pics - after all, why go to the expense and hassle of a photoshoot? Why post pics of yourself at all, and accept the risk of someone figuring out who you are in real life? Isn't it much easier to just find some pics somewhere that look more or less like you (or more or less how you want to advertise yourself)? The reason providers post their own pics and put time and effort into doing so is because it pays off: those pics make them stand out from the crowd. But if the crowd just steals and uses your pics, what's the point? I'm not sure how much that would really hurt the providers. But I'm pretty sure that we consumers would *really* notice the difference. You'd have to book someone without really having a clue what they looked like, which would be a problem if you had any preferences at all (let's face it, we all do) and would be a really serious problem if anything related to appearance was a deal-breaker for you. The research that clients do would also become far harder; if everyone's using fake pics, it's now much more difficult to spot the scammers And even if they're genuine, there's no good way to find out whether a given provider is really what your looking for or not.

Any recommendations on a provider that would be comfortable seeing two guy friends at the same time? Feel free to pm if you prefer.

Please take the time to fully read below, as booking requires a specific protocol. ___ Hey! How are you? You can call me Sarah. I'm an extroverted bundle of chaos, with green eyes of fire, brunette hair, a teenie tiny body and an unapologetic mouth. I weigh in at 115lbs and can't reach the top shelf due to my 5'2 stature. All of my assets are completely proportionate and natural. My personality allows me to easily sway to the beat of any drum and relate to almost anyone, in some way. I'm genuine and pride myself on offering the most intimate and realistic experiences. I love conversing and talking about life - I could just stare off listening to you talk about your passions for hours. Humans interest me more than anything else on this planet. I enjoy taking my time. I want to know all your quirks, your hopes, dreams and fears.... every fantasy, every lust, every craving touch. I want to make you feel special, appreciated, and fulfilled. From cuddles and laughs, to toe curling sensations, I will work with you to create our perfect dynamic. I consider myself an Empath. Your pleasure is my happiness. There is no better day, than a day filled with endorphins. Whether it's before work, after that awful 6 hour meeting, or maybe even a quick stop for Lunch, I'll be sure to wash all those worries away. A warm greeting at the door and a simple smile to start us off... the rest is up to you. I don't play games, but I will be your toy. ___ New Comers: You are welcome to book. However, you WILL be required to send a deposit to secure your time. Covid-19 screenings will be required. ___ Duo Info: I have partnered up Mistress Annabelle Pain, @MsManda & @charlottequinn123 Rates will be matched to the top provider. Duos are not available with any other providers at this time. I can make excepts for other providers I'm familiar with, even if they aren't on my list. Please be aware that each provider has their own way of screening. ___ Schedule: Mon to Thurs: 4p - 8p Fri: 9a - 9p Sat: 9a - 9p Sun: 10a - 6p Pre-booking is usually mandatory. Please be aware I have a cat and a full-time (F) partner who share my space. Our alone time will never be interrupted by either and my focus will always be on you. ___ Donations: $260 / 1 hour. $350 / 90 minutes. $500 / 2 hours. + $200/additional hour. + $50/hr for kink/fetish/request. + $50/hr for outcalled duos only. ___ How do I contact you and what info do I need to give? When booking, please include: - YOUR NAME - AGE - LENGTH OF SESSION DESIRED - A BRIEF DESCRIPTION OF YOURSELF. I reserve all rights to screen my clients as I see fit. So, please be ready with a reference. ___ What if I don't have a reference or this is my first time seeing a provider? I will need a copy of your photo ID (if you do not have a reference). Full name and age must be visible, all other sensitive info can be blocked out. A selfie. A non-refundable deposit - amount will be based on time booked. (You may be subject to full payment up front if you have cancelled previously) ___ Your security, privacy and anonymity is critical to my work. I would never betray you. That begin said, if you do not follow protocol, break my rules, or disrespect my boundaries, you will be asked to leave. ___ Social Media/Reviews: Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/users/9805178 Twitter: https://twitter.com/ms_sarahalexxx Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/miss.sarah.alexandria/?hl=en Reviews: https://www.lyla.ch/topic/176638-miss-alexxx-%E2%80%A2-white/?tab=comments#comment-765660 __________ FAQ: Do you offer uncovered services? Nope and I will report you for asking. We book time, not activities. Do you see couples/females? Nope. Duos are my only FF interactions. Can I book you short notice? You can try, but reading above may help you out. Can I take pictures/videos? Hell no. You have a partner, can she join us? 100% No. No. No. No. If you ask this question, your visitations will be revoked. __________ To book: [email protected] or Text 902-500-5540 24 hours notice is preferred. ___ When booking, please don't forget your basic details - I do not reply to strangers, so introduce yourself. If it's been longer than 6 months since we've met, I may ask that you reverify yourself. Hope to meet you again soon. - SA. ♡

I nominate @emilyrushton

Why bother posting or replying? This forum is so over moderated. Everything gets deleted. There's no point.

Thank you Notch and thank you my pretty lady Kimmy 😘. As a matter of fact, all of us, Swers should be the winner IMO It's definitely not the easiest profession but yet...we are all still here. Lydia is right, I will help any of us as much as I could, especially if you ask me in person about anything related in this industry or even anything in life in general. I live all alone in this big country...but hey..I'm doing ok so I must do something right lol. Therefore simply email or text if you need any advice. I will be your virtual mom 😘

Let's start with a kiss and see where we end up. Hosting in Halifax June 7-13 Monday 11am-9pm Tuesday 11am-9pm Wednesday 11am-9pm Thursday 11am-9pm Friday 11am-9pm Saturday 1pm-8pm Sunday OFF My schedule is limited to one client a day on available days. Previously seen clients and longer dates will be given priority New clients will need to give ID and a real phone number for screening and Covid tracing, should an issue arise (information will be deleted after 14 days), and a $150 deposit to secure our time together. Full details available on my website www.stephaniemystique.vip Outcalls are available to previously met clients (+travel fees) Vigorous cleaning measures are still in place (before and after a clients arrival) to maintain safe and clean areas to enjoy together. When not working, I am a home body relaxing and keeping to myself or hiking in the woods with my dog. Rates GFE 1 hour - 400 90 Mins -500 2 hours - 600 +hour(s) - 250/hour FBSM Escape with me with traditional full body Swedish massage. Allow me to blur the lines between professional and provocateur. Not FS 45 min - 200 60 min - 220 90 min - 300 SP Massage Only - 60 min - 80 NURU A full pampering and relaxing experience. Starting with a shower for two, gliding to a full body to body massage, to the final moment of tension release. This is your moment to lie down, relax and allow me to pamper you to the fullest. 1 hour - 400 90 Min - 500 2 hour - 600 Connect with Me [email protected] (902)579-4210 Text ONLY www.stephaniemystique.vip Tweet & Snap me @StephanieMystiq to follow my adventures For those to whom I haven't had the pleasure of your company. Allow me to Introduce myself: I am a deliciously curvaceous woman, (36 DDD, 28, 32) with curves in all the right places. Silky white skin that glows with affection. Foxy red hair that reflects the fire and passion I have within me to share. Pretty brown eyes that build trust instantly and are full of depth. A charming and witty personality that will have you at ease in no time, or standing at attention. I am an easy going and confident woman thriving in the fun of my dirty thirties. I am not here for a long time but a good time. Whether it be short and sweet or a long lasting connection. Lets fill a world of our own full of passion with respect in a safe, discreet, and unrushed environment. I am smoke and party free, and expect you to be clean, drug and disease free as I am. This is a confidential, and discreet encounter that is held in respect. Rates are exchange for time and time only. Anything that happens within that time is mutually agreed upon as consenting adults. I look forward to seeing you, Stephanie ❤️ Check out my recommendations:

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Thanks for sharing dear @IsabellaDivine it's hard for me to believe you have a negative income when you did it first time. Look at you girl! So tell me how you finally recover from a 'negative income' to finally state 'will not see the future without escorting'? Please share the recipe 😋 Thanks

Hi guys, I am Alisonxox , well established hybrid provider in Ottawa .. Please take note that I have changed the colour of my hair. I’m now blond 😉 I am hosting from an upscale, private and clean condo .. Free parking and inroom shower. Big custom massage bed with memory foam mattress that can fit up to 3 persons. SPECIAL: Nuru session Get a session at regular rates and nuru will be included. COVID UPDATES Due to the Covid-19 situation I will be booking only ONE CLIENT/DAY in order to limit the amount of trafic in my incall. I will also ask you to wear a mask upon arrival and I will take your temperature with a non contact thermometer. I am not booking anyone that’s been travelling in the last 2-3 months , have been in contact with someone with covid-19 or has symptoms of Covid-19. I understand it is a little strict , but I am applying those rules in order to protect my clients and myself. Thanks for understanding 🙂 Update : I got tested and I am Covid-free 😉 Products that are available for you during your visit - Unscented and hypoallergenic massage oil - Disposable travel size bar soap, body wash, shampoo, conditionner, body cream ( PURE ) -Deodorant for men ( Dove Spray ) HOW TO CONTACT ME WEBSITE: https://Alisonxox.com REVIEWS: https://Alisonxox.com/reviews TWITTER: https://twitter.com/Sensual_Alison TEXT ONLY : 613-801-5777 5 min from Downtown Ottawa (Near the Museum of History) RATES / SERVICES 220/60min 420/120min Additional hour + 220$ Sp session 400/h Duo: Contact me to arrange our duo. VIP RATES Save 30$ on your session INCLUDING -Rmt quality massage ( Feel free to ask for therapeutic since I am Rmt ) -Sensual game -Reverse massage -Toys (upon request) - COB -Multiple release (upon request) -Edging -Shower for two (upon request) Extras: Please contact me if you have special request or fetish so we can built our session together according to your needs. For more services , we can discuss it in person ALL OF MY SERVICES ARE SAFE SERVICES RESTRICTIONS: NO UNSAFE SERVICES SCHEDULE **Please take note that we need a 24h notice for Nuru and Duo Sessions** NO explicit text NO dealing my prices NO unsafe services I am not offering insurance receipt Thanks Hope to see you very soon Your one and Only Alisonxox

I met with this young lady tonight, she is everything in her ad and more. She was bubbly and sweet. Her pictures don't do her justice. She does offer gfe and Greek, Kistler hernia that's what you want so she can prepare. And she said she does car calls, because that's what some people want. Very respectful and wonderful woman. Great experience