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I agree and thank you for the support! I would have went more in depth if I wanted to and felt comfortable to. I do understand the curiosity though of others, just not being able to understand and wanting to. As for turning a negative to a positve: I have had way far less bad things happen since I've chosen to enter the industry as a sex worker. I don't have to see anyone I don't want to. I get to pick my clients as much as they get to pick me too. That's created so much healing on its own! Honestly, I was having sex often and was going on lots of dates anyways for a while and a friend was like "hey, I work at this agency, come check it out". I talked to Rikki on the phone at Black Orchid Agency, then for Victoria, and started there the next day and didn't look back. She made me feel welcomed, powerful and strong, when I first started anyways. I then had a lovely woman, come into my life and she showed me the ropes as an independent. I worked at agencies part time and worked independent part time. As I gained more experience and gained more healing via varied therapies, counseling, writing, dancing, learning to fish etc. I met another provider who toured often and she also taught me a lot more about boundaries and self empowerment, and I became independent full time.

I was a little floored when she was asked about her trafficking experience. That was an incredibly intrusive. She would have elaborated if she cared to. Being a victim doesn't mean you have to be physically snatched up or coerced to the point you are helpless. It can also involve mental manipulation and intimidation. It can also effect more women than just young pretty helpless teenagers. We all matter 🖤 In the future I think it might be a little more respectful not to ask someone to elaborate on their abuse unless they are willing to freely offer it. I would be curious to hear the answer to @Phaedrus question. Could be a good chance to speak about turning a negative experience into something positive and beautiful! If you care to share but you don't have to. I think I have a bit of curiosity behind your answer. I wasn't forced into trafficking I did start this line of work on my own quite young due to an abusive experience. I would be curious if our opinions were similar at all. If you don't care to discuss this publicly I would 100% understand and respect your boundary. Thank you for sharing your experience with us 💋

❤️June 14th and 15th ❤️ Mon 14th: Hosting 12pm-10pm Tues 15th : Hosting 10am-10pm Outside of the above I do have limited out calls available at this time, ask for details 💕 My hosting hours fill up fast and pre booking is essential! To contact me the following two options are available Text on 1 (902) 930 1796 Email: [email protected] I post regularly to my Twitter it’s honestly the best place to follow for up to date info and pics! You can find me @Charlotte1Quinn My website is almost done!!! Watch this space lol 🥰❤️ Here’s a little recap of my rates, note no half hour appointments at this time ☺️ In call/hosting: 1 hour $260 Subsequent hours $200 Out calls :$300 Subsequent hours $200 Travel to out of area calls $50p/h (at my discretion) ask for details I don’t sell pics or videos Overnights with trusted established clients to be discussed Duo partners available... Ask me for the juicy details!! 🔥 About me.... I am an all natural, bubbly, 5’6” energetic brunette! Sexy and insatiable I offer a very natural GFE and am incredibly easy to get along with! I have been in this line of work for over 6.5 years and love it more than ever, I have a fantastic reputation, I am low volume and as such pre booking with me is essential to avoid disappointment or long wait times I can make a good day great, an expert at putting a smile on your face and leaving you feeling breathless and enchanted, most definitely looking to come back again and again ... I am your guilty pleasure, your little secret addiction and your perfect drug... Take a look at my adverts on leolist and massage republic to get an idea of what I offer ...

So there are a lot of online directories that try to get into the adult advertising game by scouting out ads on popular sites like LeoList, copying the ad, stealing the pics and content, and placing them on their site. It is a way to make the site look full and busy and hopefully bring in traffic to start making it profitable. Well, I have had 4 “sites” steal my content now. 2 of them have actually edited my pics and taken out my watermark. I ask politely to remove my stolen content and one company actually said no. So I went above their head to their hosting company and got them shut down. Don’t steal my shit and I won’t fuck up you site! Now I have an escort all pissed off with me saying it is my fault that thousands of women may be out of an advertising source because I got the site shut down. How is it my fault? The site was unprofessional and stolen my content. Content creation is a huge business. I take a lot of time and care, {as you can see by my site} into my ads, my pics, and my content. I work hard at making my content. I watermark my stuff for a reason. I don’t want to have to start having my watermark bold and covering my body to ensure it is not stolen. That is not fair to guys viewing the pics. Am I wrong for going to the hosting company? I know it is not my fault they got shut down. They stole my content. They refused to remove it, what else am I suppose to do? Lyla members are little more leveled headed so I need to double check. I am not wrong here, right? It is not my fault that other escorts, some survival escorts, loose a possible advertising source? I know I am privileged in that I am white, have another income source, can work independently and I have put my foot in my mouth before when comparing different aspects of this industry and have been insensitive to other survival sex workers, so I just want to double check.

Thank you for sharing. Autonomy is incredibly healing and think its why I chose to explore while younger. Also to get away from the noise of many others. Felt like I was taking my body back for myself but helped also helped me gain my voice and mind as well ❤️

I chose to become a sex worker from a past of being trafficked, based off of getting my power back. Becoming a sex worker really made me realize that I do have say in what I do with my body and mind. It's been a very healing and liberating experience. I've learned where my own boundaries stand and don't settle for anything less. There's not enough money in the world for me to back out of my boundaries now.

A few things that were not mentioned that I feel deserve a little attention 1) this is your likeness. You have every right to dictate what is and isn't done with it. 2) you hit the nail on the head when you mentioned content creation. It is a service just as well that needs to be paid for. Content creation is not cheap. If I was the owner of the site I would be questioning the professional I hired and their ability to do the job I have paid them for. I am proud to read that you have successfully got them to take it down and if anyone is upset with you about it they need to check their shame. They should be throwing it at the person (not professional) who decided to tailor the site in such a horrible manner rather than the person trying to defend their likeness. Had they not attacked you for that I would likely suggest inviting them here or offer some alternatives that are safer for them to consider. There is nothing wrong with what you did in fact I find it to be one hundred percent badass! I appreciate the guys for jumping in with their perspective as they are right with a diminishing the quality of the service and that is something you do not deserve. Having content good enough to steal should be flattering but I would say it feels a little better to be paid for it instead. Not with credit or exposure.

I'm from a small town in Ontario not far from Ottawa and here the cyclists will ride on the street in the same direction as the traffic unless they are kids then they use the sidewalk like a pedestrian. I have no issue with them but like you said when I visit Ottawa for my fun time I have to be double vigilant because you never know when one will cut you off or slam in your side door. Are they allowed to text and ride their bikes at the same time? I don't think so...but some do. I agree with you on this GT !

I saw her recently. She's easy going and I had a great time. If you like curvy girls, you'll probably be quite happy meeting Jessika.

It was my real content they stole. They did remove my watermark which makes it easier for others to steal if they were deterred by watermarks before hand. I tour and the ads posted were in norther city locations for a tour I did 2 weeks ago that I won't do again for another 2 months. I pride myself on accurate info. This leads guys to thinking I am available in their location when I am not. Attempts at booking that I then have to decline. The extra admin work that comes with that is a pain. I delete my own LL ads after I visit a location for strictly this reason. And one site, while I was continuing to search today, had an old ad from my old name that I have been scrubbing from the net. Thankfully that site took both ads down this afternoon. There is no physical harm, but as stated, I am a brand and that take managing, creative content creation, and lots of time. I don't need that fucked with causing me extra work, possible image issues and needless annoyances.

This has been a problem for some time and not just within thr sex work industry. There are a plethora of little scammy aggregation websites popping up, scraping content from various other sites, and presenting that info as their own. I have a small side business and my website got scraped by one of these sites, and the only way to get my business removed from it is to "claim" the business on their aggregation site, and then pay to remove it. It's very frustrating, but the nature of the web makes content easily available to download. Thats the whole underlying basis of how the WWW was designed from the start, so there's really no permanent way to keep it from happening. In my case at least it's not really impacting the business, and the only reason I found out about it was I had a customer contact me via the third party aggregate site and ask a question. But for someone like you @Jenesis, who is marketing yourself as the "product" (sorry - that sounds way worse than I'd like it to, but I hope you know what I mean) I'm sure it's a much bigger impact as you lose control over your brand and also that modicum of control over who you're marketing to, so no, you're not wrong about taking care of it the way you did. You gotta protect yourself, your business and your brand.

No blasting @Steampunk, as a consumer of the services of these ladies I would hate to see one ad with fake pics (they are fake if it's not the person opening the door and offering the service). So assume I travel for business and see the same pics in another city and assume they are fake again but this time they are from the original poster and not fake? She would automatically lose a client. I've been in business for a long time and I can tell you it takes a lot of time to earn trust from clients and your name can be ruined in no time at all. Just saying...

Yes it has @StephanieMystique, alot of fun, xo

Looking forward to that day @Exotic Touch Danielle! And for my other two wishes Genie I would like good health and a multi million dollar record contract. Besides I’m always showered when I visit so there’s more time to focus on ....enthusiastic greetings....

Whatever you feel comfortable doing..when my guys see me and take a shower first they usually dry off and just walk in the room with towel wrapped around their waist or naked Either way you will be naked with me🤣😂

I feel the need to start this thread, due to the lack of respect and attention to following simple instructions lately. Ive worded this in reference to no one, just a generalization to a few things. You contact me, we go through screening and agree on the date and time. You are told you will be contacted a few days prior with details to confirm. 3 days prior you are emailed with detailed instructions with a number and a date and time frame to call and confirm on. Scenarios as follows: Scenario A) You don't call within time frame - Encounter is cancelled and time is available Scenario B) You email letting me know you cant call within that time and we agree on another time in which you don't call - Same result as above - encounter cancelled. Scenario C) You call and confirm and encounter goes ahead as planned Scenario D) You email the morning of to ask if we are still on, yet I never heard from you - What do you think the answer to this question is? Scenario E) You leave a voice mail with we emailed and Im calling no name, number or anything else in the message - Chances are the encounter will be cancelled as its very rude to call a number back and say Who's this? And Ive asked you to call me, for discretion I would rather not return the call unless I have been given the ok to do so. We have a system in place that works for our own personal business, if you dont wish to follow instructions, dont waste our time. I value your time and respect your wishes on privacy, discretion and everything else. If you value mine, why does one feel its okay to not follow the simple instructions that I have given. I can be flexible with my confirmation policy when you let me know in advance. I ask you to call as that is how I confirm my dates, I wont email or text you any details so you have to call (my confirmation email is very clear on this), at this point if you don't like this policy it is your time to say that you are declining our date, I wont get mad as I would prefer your honesty over wasting my time and that of someone else who would have enjoyed the visit, but due to the games someone else has played they were unable to visit. When I ask you to call when your parking - I MEAN it, dont call from the lobby if I have asked you not too(considering discretion is SO important, why does the fact that your calling from in front of the hotel staff and repeating the suite number aloud not strike you as indiscreet?) Just because im not a revolving door, does not mean I want attention drawn to myself at any time. I enjoy the places I stay and wish to keep it that way. I also enjoy the company that I keep and NEVER want to jeopardize anyones privacy ever. You provide me your number and ask me not to call, I follow your instructions so how hard is it to show the same respect to mine. For an industry where discretion is key, I am just astounded as to why it is expected from me, but not returned by you.

Recently, I've been put in a very uncomfortable situation due to someone not following instructions. I had asked a gentleman to send me a quick text message to confirm his number because I knew I was going to be busy dealing with personal things that day and would be in the presence of family members. Well, instead of doing that, he decided to call me a few times. Obviously, I didn't answer his calls. Later that day, I checked my emails and he apologised for calling me but said that he didn't like to send or receive text messages and much preferred to hear my voice instead. Let's just say I wasn't my happy self when I read that. I kindly told him and explained that discretion was of the utmost importance for everyone when involved in this lifestyle only to get told that "we all play a dangerous game when we decide to play"... It's only 'dangerous' and risky if the need for discretion is not understood and the guidelines/instructions are not respected by everyone involved.