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Honestly, I believe in Live and Let Live. If you want to do the research for them and post it, great. If you don't, then that's fine too. Sometimes I'm in a mood to be helpful and show them an ad is fake. Sometimes I don't bother because it's so obvious. In those cases I don't bother replying at all. I do find that there is a lot of hostility and negativity towards new posters lately though. I believe it's to the detriment of the site to be scolding new posters who ask questions even if the answer should be obvious. This is after all a recommendation and discussion board. We shouldn't be trying to shut down every conversation. Just my 2 cents (if it's worth that ;) )

I have had it happen twice to me that when I arrived at the incall location there were police cars in the lot. Both times it was at the same hotel, known to be provider friendly and typically a no issue visit. First time i pull in the parking lot 10 min before the scheduled time and there are 3 cruisers out front of the main entrance. I park over by a side entrance I usually use and where I can see the front entrance. Naturally I'm wondering wtf is going on and a little nervous. As I'm sitting there another cop car pulls in and one leaves. Time comes to text for the room number and I get no response. This is not my first time seeing this lady and out of character for her not to respond right away when expecting me. Waited 10 min and sent another text. No response. Finally a third text saying I was leaving, mentioned the cops and told her I hope all is well. Couple days later I hear from her and was informed there was a problem with a client that escalated to the point police were involved. I expressed my regret it happened and that I was glad she was Ok. Second time was with a different lady, but at the same hotel. This time she texted me and gave me the heads up that there were two police cars in the lot, and that all was good, so I wouldn't get concerned. Showed up, acted like I owned the place and had a wonderful time. The circumstances will dictate whether you should stay or go, but communication (or lack of) should point you in the direction of the right decision. As others have said, they don't park marked cars in front of a sting, and they have no idea who you are. Communicate and don't let anxiety about the fuzz keep you from having a good time.

Well, yeah. I get that newbies can be irritating; I think it's just something we have to put up with. This is really a general netiquette problem. All communities have their own set of rules (some explicit, some not) and their own way of going about things. The right thing to do when joining a new forum is usually to lurk for a bit, get a feel for how it works, and then start to contribute. But a lot of people don't do that - they just sign up, post away, and annoy the more established members of the community. This really isn't unique to this forum; you can see the same playing out in other discussion boards, subreddits, and pretty much anywhere else people talk about things online. Hell, you can see it in real life, too. And we just have to put up with it, because it will never change. Finally, I'd like to reiterate what @Mikeyboy said, because it's important: if we scare off all the potential new members then we have no future. We can point them in the right direction without being overly harsh about it. And anyone who feels that's too much effort is entirely at liberty to simply ignore it and move on.

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I'm normally a "not rock the boat" kind of guy. (It's now beer 3 on Friday night when I tend to speak more honestly if you will indulge me). I just know that there are many out there who have tried this site once and moved on due to the scolding they got from their first post. I've heard the grumblings. Asking about an SP on a discussion board may not be how you "do your research" but for the uninitiated, that is actually what they are doing by asking the question. They are hoping that more experienced people will share their knowledge. They are then scolded for not doing their research before doing so instead of being pointed in the right direction. All I'm saying is help them or don't. There's no reason to try to make them feel small for asking a question. And yes, there are many situations when the questions are not appropriate. I just don't see her asking if anyone has any information on spacific SP on a website dedicated to discussing that very thing is inappropriate.

Yes, the no-show is still on the client. It would be on the client even if they had a good excuse, and I don't think this is one. I get that cops can make some folks nervous, but they can show up anywhere and that's something you have to factor in whenever you decide to leave the house. One of the things you have to realize in this world is that really, nobody else knows your business. You are not walking around with a flashing red light over your head and a big sign that says, "THIS GUYS IS GOING TO SEE AN ESCORT!!!". Unless you do something drastically stupid, nobody is going to know anything... including cops. I'm aware while writing this that I'm a white guy, so I'm not going to get the same attention that folks with more melanin than me might, but I still don't think it's a good reason to no-show. I suppose it might be OK to cancel if you had reason to believe the cops were explicitly looking for you, but if that's the case then you've probably got bigger problems than your pending appointment in the hotel... This does remind me of someone I saw who asked people to go to a particular hotel parking lot that was near her incall and call her from there for final directions. Thing is, that hotel was just over the road from the local police station... apparently she had some people who got there and decided to cancel.

So I had a client show up last night and there are two cop cars in the parking lot. Parked. Not even in front of the lobby. Don't know why but there were a few cops staying here as guest of the hotel. He mentioned it made him nervous and he was going to text and cancel but said fuck it and just came up.So it had me thinking. There would be some serious anxiety for some guys if they showed up to cop cars in the hotel.So what is the protocol here? If he doesn't show to the door because he got scared off, is that his fault? It can't really be can it? It can't be her fault, she has no control over cops. You can't get a cancellation fee out of cops either. Does this fall into the category of things that suck while escorting and we take it on as part of the job? Ladies, do you blacklist the guy personally?How does this work?

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I've said my piece and I hope you gents have a good weekend. My one piece of advice to leave you with is to go easy on the newbies. If we want this site to thrive (and I believe we all do) we need them. Make the site as welcoming as we can.

Just thinking outloud here...please don't ban me 😆 Thought One. Just wonder how many of these people are just consumers of Lyla and never become contributors. Not just lack of posts in other forums but no recommendations posted if they did have a date with a companion they sought to find out about (caveat if she didn't want a reco then not posting one is appropriate) Thought Two. Am I the only one who wonders if these members are bona fide clients or just guys who might likely contact a lady for free pics and never book a date nor intended to book a date. Thought Three Is it just me or does it seem the day a question is asked is the very same day they join...or am I wrong? And one comment. It's obvious that some of the new posters don't take time to read the rules and don't navigate/explore the site before posting. How many times have (hypothetical example) we seen posts like "Has anyone seen XYZ in Toronto" posted in General Discussion Area forum when it should be posted in the Toronto forum.If new members want Lyla members to put out effort to help them, shouldn't the new members put minimal effort (eg read rules etc) in before posting? Whew A Long Winded Rambling Don't Ban Me Please RG

Those multiple girls at a hotel is a terrible attractant of attention any Astute observer is going to pick up on what’s going on and complaints are more than likely and complaints get cops out of the coffee shops and giving tickets to people with missing tail lights and into action much better to see Individual working companions

I voted no in the poll. As mentioned in other comments the client faces quite a result if they are charged in this case. That being said, the no is contingent on maintaining communication with the provider, and also contingent on the previous relationship that has been established between provider and client. If this was a new visit/experience the level of "nope I'm outta here" would be higher than if the client and provider have seen each other multiple times.

I think that both parties cane come up with a solution. What if the lady was to meet the gentleman outside in the parking lot and they could both walk in at the same time in the room as if they were a couple? Who would consider this anything else then a common couple enjoying each other company? Maybe it's just me but I hope I'm never put in a situation like that.

I'm not sure the question of who is at fault is relevant. I certainly understand why gents would get skittish in this situation given the fact that it is them who is breaking the law under our current model. There is a lot at stake for them. I wouldn't blame them for turning around. That said, the polite thing to do is to still offer some compensation for her lost time. It isn't her fault either and the time is still gone regardless of what justification or who is to blame.

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This guy may be a shady character and has good reason to avoid cops. He may have done you a favor by cancelling. I wouldn't be scared off if I was in his shoes.

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I TOFTT. Was not a great decision. Would not repeat.

One that I would suggest is Cindy. She was at Ness, but I haven't see her for a while. Really focus on you.

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