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We maybe need a Do Discuss list. DD

Hello there! No worries, everybody starts out somewhere, so no worries at all about your situation. Some small suggestions, if you will. First, you’ve taken the right first step. Starting out, I’d highly suggest calling upon a well established regular lady on Lyla than a random ad on Leolist or another site. I'm not knocking LL at all; just, starting out, you’re so much more likely to have a great time from an established lady from here. Remember that when you communicate, be polite and don’t be graphic. Nothing wrong letting them know you're new to seeing escorts; most ladies will be exceptionally understanding and go the extra effort for you. I'd start by looking in the forum "Nova Scotia - Schedules and Announcements". See if anyone interests you, and check their profile, look at their pictures. Many have websites and/or twitter accounts; research there as well. You can also check out the recommendations thread, to see what other people have said. Each lady has different levels of screening to their comfort level. Once you make you decision to whom, contact them and see what theirs is. Some may request a reference from another provider. Some may request a copy of photo ID. Some may request a deposit; sometimes, that’s a warning sign of a scam, but the Lyla ladies are 100% legit and you have absolutely nothing to worry about. Take the screening in stride; these ladies are placing themselves in a state of vulnerability with an unknown stranger, so understand their caution. They’re not out to cause you grief, they’re looking out for themselves. I would be VERY hesitant providing any information (or deposit) to a lady contacted at random from Leolist, but you really don't have that worry here. You’re going to be nervous as the time approaches, that’s expected. Here’s the thing... IF you get cold feet and back out, DO NOT ghost the woman waiting for you. Text (or call) and let them know about your anxiety. These ladies have cancelled their plans for the evening just to meet with you, and it’s wrong on so many levels to just not show up. Again, these ladies are awesome and can help you through your nerves. Show up on time; If you arrive early, hang out nearby (though not on the doorstep!) til it’s your time, don’t show up 15 minutes early. Shower before you head out, brush your teeth. Manscape a bit (no one likes a jungle), and shave (or trim if you have a beard / mustache). I don’t know your financial situation, but I'd suggest get at least an hour of time with the lady. I’d even consider an hour and a half or two hours, if you can swing it financially. You'll enjoyting yourself tremendously. Respect their limitations completely; if you’re unsure, simply ask once you’re there. No means no, it doesn't mean "what if I offer you more money". As for who... there’s several options. There literally is no wrong decision if you pick any of these (this isn’t by any means an exclusive list!).... if it were me in your position, I would think Kylie Jane would be a no-brainer decision as one of the best ladies to visit. Charlotte Quinn is a sensual woman who would absolutely rock your world; I've never walked away from a session with her and not been exhaustively ecstatic. Ms Manda has a stellar reputation and would give you a night to remember for the rest of your life. If you prefer the girl next door type, Melanie Rose is breathtaking and such an amazingly nice person, and quite possibly the best "girlfriend experience" I've ever had. Stephanie Mystique is energetic, fun, and sensuous and definitely put the effort into making your time memorable. Re: Covid, the ladies on Lyla are as concerned (if not more so) than you are. Most advertise that they are double vaxxed. Many have cut their client intake down because of the situation. Most will require you to sanitize on arrival. I share your concern as I am equally concerned with Covid (I have a person who is immune-compromised in my inner circle); I would have zero concerns with any of the ladies mentioned above. They have a high level of professionalism; it's their health as well as yours. I would not have the same level of trust in a random person off Leolist. Any questions, shoot me a message!

A lot of great advice here. I'd like to expand on this one point a bit, as it's the newbies that often fall victim. Many of the legitimate providers do require a deposit to secure their time. Not all do, but some choose to take that step. It is understandable in my opinion as it can make sure the client isn't wasting her time. There are also tons of "deposit scammers" out there, who post ads to simply get you to e-transfer a deposit and then you never hear from them again. The trick is being able to spot the difference. Legitimate sp's often have reviews, web sites, social media presence, and many other means of confirming they are legit. It is normally pretty easy to find information on them if you look for it. The scam ads normally do not have any of these things. They also often use stolen photos. (Learning to do a quick image search will help you rule out many of them.) Basically, if you are asked to send a deposit, make sure you can find some verifying info before you send it. Also, keep an eye on the warning section here as many scammers get reported there. Good luck and have fun! Mikey

Went to see Ivona last Thursday. Very easy to book. Made me feel comfortable the entire time. She is arguably the best provider I have ever encountered. Service was out of this world. Don't miss out if you get a chance.

I have to call BS on this one. The community is small. If one person quits, in less than a week the bosses will know where they moved to without our help. It's not like Forever is still wondering what happened to Rose. While it's not good to discuss what exactly happens behind closed doors, some people go completely overboard when it comes to other things. Like "OMG! Don't say the full address. Just say the street!". Yeah. Like Johnny Law is going to be chasing his tail for months trying to figure out which of two places on that street you're talking about. They know. I'm sure their firewall at work is not blocking LL and kijiji. They probably got better intel on who's doing what than we do. Either we're here to discuss and help each other, or we turn out the lights. Better no information than bad/one-sided information.

Rom, I have to disagree. If I’m reviewing a auto mechanic I am not reviewing him for how great he makes potato soup, I’m reviewing him on the skills I have hired him for. If you are an escort by choice people should be able to review your escort services and if you work at a rub and tug people should be able to review your rubbing services as well as your tugging services, all of them. This respect the privacy holly mother of god crap makes no sense. The choice was made to be in that “profession”. I understand if someone found out and posted their real name, home address or something private but to use their fake name with info on services, why not?

Have to agree. Then you add the pandemic on top of things. too bad this used to be very helpful place to come to

I’ve been reading a new book recently published, entitled “Madam Of The Maritimes: The Life And Times Of Ada McCallum.” It’s pretty interesting, and sometimes shocking E.g. (regarding condom use, or lack thereof in the 1970’s). Definitely worth picking up.

I’ve noticed over past few months that the amount of discussion on this site is nothing like it was a year or more ago. Even the private massage group is completely dead. Just wondering if it’s due to the long list of DND, lack of any new talent in the city, or too many restrictions on what we can and cannot talk about on here? Other similar sites appear to have a more active membership.

We have a private massage group chat. It’s pretty much dead. Mod steps in, chastises us for saying things against the rules even though no one can see what we’re saying, then deletes 2/3 of our posts and comments. 🤷‍♂️

There are no stupid questions if asked respectfully. 😉 Make sure you read the ads thoroughly to see if it has already been answered. Also read all of the recco's and see if it was mentioned. If not, then you can ask her. Again be polite and respectful in your communications. Most don't mind inquiries as long as they are polite and brief. (They aren't looking for pen pals, they are running a business.) I'm guessing there aren't many requests they haven't heard already. They will let you know where they stand on it. You can also reach out to gents who post recco's. Many don't mind answering, at least from their experience. Just remember YMMV. (Your results may vary).

I met her this afternoon in Saint John. She is real and definitely the girl in the photos. Contacting her was easy . I will not get into details but she is very friendly and sweet and I enjoyed myself

I get the DND from the MP side of things, but that totally defeats the purpose of the board here. I have a few guys I chat with though PMs here, but its almost like we need another deeper group chat unavailable to the public to talk anymore. Like, I seen an add today from a spa east of the forks, but west of regent. I'd love to ask whos working there, but... I can't? Am I even allow to be that vauge?

Code is good I got R at Dr but no T at sc gonna try L on F see how it goes. T Y

Winnipeg’s Top Chef

Food review? Wrong form,

What I do, I usually answer privately. But is difficult to ask, like "info abou R... at T....... Dr" . Some people got it and answer you. Some just ignored it. Who knows. Maybe in a future we are gonna use this to talk about going to church ....

Nope. Based on past experience, here's what you can expect: 1st post: Where? ........(wait 3 days)....... 2nd post: Who? .......(wait 3 days)........ 3rd post: Who's on first!!!!! Rinse and repeat Just for the hell of it, here's a snapshot of the past 10 years. Back when this was CERB, the board enjoyed the same if not more foot traffic than the other ERB. Now they have about 5 times more foot traffic on average. Quite a few things need to change on here to get that membership back.

This was a great article for getting started to. It's by a well written SP from the states. https://www.buzzfeed.com/jessiesage/how-to-reach-out-to-a-sex-worker I do want to comment on activities; As per Canadian laws, it's legal to solicit activities, it's illegal to purchase them. Many of us have multiple profiles available that have an outline on activities we may be willing to provide and are linked on our websites. Most of us want to keep you safe and not bring any harm to either of us, thus trying to keep within the lines of the law. All the ladies recommended by @Zachmont are incredible and would cover almost anything you could want or have a fantasy for. 😘

The snugness of the arrangement to keep if from falling off is enough to keep your parts close to one thigh and not risk any embarrassment. I tried it with one of the large dance bandanas I have laying around (I was making tie-dye ones for dancers for a while and have a few left over) and it worked out quite well. No, there are no pics. Stop asking.

The review was very real. Book with caution.

all of the above and ... 1) if age is not an issue - then go for a recommended mature companion 🥰 mature ladies are best - for beginners (& in general) - because they know exactly what to do. 2) if you wear strong perfume &/or smoke - ASK if that is okay 🙊 if the companion has issues - then use odourless deodorant & gallons of mouthwash 3) no matter what anyone says - never drink Red-bull (or similar stuff) before love making - very bad idea 🥵 keep water bottle for hydrating ~

Great advice. Something I wish I would have received when I started three years ago. Instead I got insults and was accused of being too promotional in my recommendations. But indeed you give sound advice and well written. Research is all important and the best place to start is right here on Lyla.

Kinda, no, hell yes. The DND does put a damper on some stuff. I can see it's purpose, though. There seems to be new places opening up all the time, so there is new talent coming in. The biggest problem is the rules actively discourage participation. It's impossible to give an honest review. Have a bad experience? All you can do is sit back and watch another guy TOFTT because you can't post a review. If there is a known bad MP, all they have to do is change their name and they get a clean slate to take advantage of even more customers. WTF? We can't warn or recommend due to it possibly outing the offender. It's complete bullshit. The only allowed purpose of this site is to shill for providers so they can claim to be "well reviewed". Well homie don't play dat game. If I can't post a deserved bad review, I won't post a recommendation either. Not about to have this site benefit from my effort while censoring me for telling the truth. So for anyone asking "Has anyone tried xxxxxx?" The answer is probably yes. You'll just have to ask elsewhere if you want an honest answer instead of the site sanctioned "AAA+++ 5-Stars! Great eBayer! Worth double the price!".

There are a lot of dnd. Kind of makes it tough to achieve what this site is intended for. Also, massage places do not have the travelling ladies or amount of new ladies that the main escort site has. I mean how many times can we comment on the same few places that we are allowed to?

I regularly (1-2x/week) attend the clinic at the local massage college. Its typically 1 on 1 in a large room with curtains drawn between beds. Sometimes you'll have students shadow each other. Other times it's their teacher. Since it's in school, they have to go through the entire speach every single time. From explaining potential benefits and side effects of a massage, detailing their massage plan to you, talking about consent and ability to revoke consent, etc. Etc. The whole experience is nothing like visiting an RMT in a clinic. Part of the speach, that they are all trained to say is "undress to your comfort level, however I will be able to provide a better treatment with skin to skin contact" and they flow right into the ability to revoke consent at any point if feeling uncomfortable or for any reason. If fully nude were not acceptable, this part of the speach would not exist.

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I didn’t put her number up as I didn’t have it on me when I wrote review just put something in. I assumed anyone looking at review could figure out how to contact her.

Always nude. I've been lucky enough to find an RMT that allows me to be nude and undraped and it's the best experience ever.

Damn that sucks! She even said she'd video verify just before I left to see her. I didn't have time as work got in the way but she did offer. Maybe she went to Hali for the week? I did see from Google's cache that she was in Hali in 2019 advertising on LL. Weird that she's "in" Moncton and "in" Hali at the same time. Big red flag! Thanks for the heads up! Either way, I'll find out for certain and report back.

Reminds me o the guy that tattoo'd his girlfiends name on his dick... you could read Wnedy when it was errect, but usually only saw they W and Y. He was in Jamaica and happened to glace across at the urinal and saw a local with w WY on his dick and said "Hey, is your girlfriend's name Wendy too?" to which he responded, "No, my tattoo says "Welcome to Jamaica, have a nice day".