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I particularly don’t think you’ll find what you’re looking for on here… from looking at the other thread.. about meeting up and such before hand….. maybe search dominatrix in Halifax.. but every LEGIT dominatrix that is SERIOUS all have the same precautions and screening as majority of us.. my best advice is perhaps walk around some sketchy areas/streets and perhaps just approach someone who you think can “beat” you up… who knows maybe they’ll take your offer for coffee or “wrestle” you for free.. I think for your best outcome is to just be yourself and you’ll probably get into that fight you want 🙂 Hope this helps!

His full face is shown in all the videos he posted, and on the Twitter linked in his profile. You didn't need to wait until he posted the Fetlife profile to see that. There are literally hundreds of wrestling fetish videos of this guy wrestling online. I'm pretty sure he's not too worried about you seeing his face. I don't even know him, but have seen him in a lot of videos, as I enjoy watching that kinda content. Also, I've had better luck on Lyla finding SPs who are willing to engage in fetishes than I have on Fetlife. I've tried both. Just because they don't post on every thread and talk a lot in here, there are SPs who will probably offer what he's looking for in here. It's worth trying both anyway. Hot Carpenter Kitty when she was working was super strong and fit and was up for the sort of thing he's asking for.

Are you looking for publicity? You aren't going to find it. You need to stop soliciting unless you wanna sign up to be a verified independent. It's highly frown upon. Just go to Fetlife and try it out. You got nothing to lose. But like you and many others have said, you won't find what youre looking for here... so you might as well move on and try another method. Jumping through hoops and prepaying have nothing to do with what I just said. I said Fetlife will help you find what you are looking for. As in, you might find someone who doesn't require payment or IDs/screening... you may not... but you just might. If you don't take the step to try, there's no sense in talking all this game. As Manda said, most people wanna talk talk talk, but never BOOK BOOK BOOK. If Toronto worked so well for you, go there or find the girls you've had before and pay for a FMTY. You don't have many options here, but you keep talking like you do, or if by somehow, we would be impressed by your previous antics. Again, try Fetlife. You WILL have a better outcome.

Hahah, idk about that. @cactuskilla nailed that comedic climax pretty good. What a fun episode that was guys! It's a wrap. Great job!

I wrestle dudes 💪 and am fairly skilled in this department, but unfortunately we've already decided on another thread that we're definitely not a good fit for each other I can say that a big issue with offering this, is the tendency for people to talk a lot via email, but rarely book/confirm solid plans when deposit time comes 🤷 It's unfortunately quite common with most niche fetishes, so finding someone willing to accomodate can be tricky.. Finding someone willing to discuss your fetish at length and in detail for any period of time is even harder 😞 There are only so many ladies in the country who offer this, unfortunately.. We've gotta make em feel respected ♥️ Hope you find what you're looking for though!

Have you tried Fetlife? Not even here to make a stab anymore, legit trying to find you an outlet to get your head on straight. There's tons of "fetish/fantasy wrestling" groups on there. All you have to do is create a profile and join. However, there's alot of ProDommes as well, I assume they all have a specific protocol, but if you're looking for irl first meetings, that might actually be the best place for you to start in the area, while also fitting your wants and needs and old fashion style.

I think you just enjoy being talked down to. I think its goes back to the whole "how do you feel about beating up guys?" and I've finally come to realize, you're probably knocking off to this. Kinda hot. Kinda not. All perspective I guess. 😆

Polite gentlemen are my absolute favorite! And, while I respect others and myself -and require the same (hence my avid love of gentlemen), I dont think so highly of myself that I believe Im a rare breed in that way around here!! Most of the lyla ladies directly speak of respect in their ads 💯 Fair warning: I can smell a fake though so you have to be genuinely polite and respectful, not using niceties to mask arrogance. For any new SWs here, if you want to but dont know how to yet, read Clays posts closely and you will find examples of this so you too can learn to spot the fake gentlemen. They dont come around here often, or last long here! Thank you to Clay for the educational examples provided here, such a prince... Last words from me on this are directly for all the impeccable gentlemen of Lyla; I adore you ALL and what better time to extend my heartfelt thanks to each of you for making being part of this industry worth the toll it sometimes takes. Every industry has its downside, and you all are definitely top the list of upsides! Cheers 🥂 S.

Then carry on. Because the sexy trail you left behind here, isn't going to get you far on this site. Try SeekingArrangements. You might have more luck. But youde have to dish out the membership fee. 😆

You eat pasta and pussy?

Oh it shows. 🤷‍♀️ Gotta run! Having lunch with another provider. I'm gunna ask my waitress if I can sample the food first, before I decide to pay for it. Wish me luck!

Hey all, I know I’m just a small player in this big world of chaos! But I have something to say, as escorts, what do we offer if not privacy and discretion. If someone isn’t respecting our clients private lives that looks bad on all of us. I’ve NEVER had an issue getting deposits and in the last week twice I’ve been told by Lyla members trying to book they cannot send a deposit with their name due to what happened on this site and the lack of consequence. I would never make a client ID public unless something had happened that warranted me going to the police. Time wasting happens. And it’s not an excuse to put someone. Escorts and clients together place immense trust in one another. I am not a member of the SP only side so I never saw any of this myself, but it sucks that clients are being scared away from other girls screening because of one person being allowed to disrespect the entire premise of our industry. that’s all I have to say. hope everyone has a beautiful and amazing rest of the week!!

Right!? One of the first things we quickly learn as a new sp, is that the people asking for pics, generally don't book. Even before I knew this, I'd not have taken personalized pics for a stranger online, for free? 😕

https://www.leolist.cc/personals/female-escorts/nova-scotia/halifax_other_looking_to_have_some_fun-6503060?source=list Anyone know if she's legit? I've seen her posts for a while, but couldn't find anything in here on her! TIA!

Just look at the photos. See how the "leolist" logo is superimposed over itself? That indicates the person took the photos from another ad and uploaded them to this ad. I didn't bother searching the photos because y'all do need to start doing some research for yourselves but go ahead and search them on Yandex.

Was one of the first people I saw when I started this hobby. She is amazing. Kind, warm, funny, charming. Made me feel right at home and had me laughing within minutes with her stories. One on one was fantastic, and duo with her friend was even better. Details I shall keep to myself, but do yourself a favour and pay her a visit!

lmao having read this whole thread, probably the best comment yet lol your awesome @SarahAlexxx, love your Attitude!!

My fetlife: https://fetlife.com/users/574623

I don't want to talk via email or get free pics. I don't want to discuss my fetish in detail, that's why I shared the pics and clips. I also prefer not to jump through hoops or pre-pay for something with someone I haven't even met, due to complications in the past. That desire for respect is mutual, and I too hope you find what it is you're looking for.

Maybe she doesn't want to bump into family members or acquaintances that she doesn't want them to know that she's an escort? Can you imagine if your uncle or 2nd cousin showed up as your client? The 6 degrees of separation in Halifax in this small community is interesting and some of them would rather leave the business anonymously when the time comes to leave.

She is from NS. Try the search in NS

Oh cool! Me too. I didn't plan on going anywhere. You said bye, I figured youde be gone by now. Lucky for me there's no block button on this site... so I'll continue to have the last word until you disappear. You said yourself you won't find what youre looking for on this site. Have a good day!

YES! The ones that know, know. Gentlemen don't need to say they are. They keep there mouth shut (can't talk with a full mouth. 😉 ) You get it!

She’s top notch. I seen her a few months ago, pics don’t do her justice and provides a great service

This may totally work for you and I'm glad it does. But there will be NO negotiations on my rates. Meet me for dinner for 10 minutes when I only allow one hour minimums, means you will still be required to pay me for the HOUR I set aside for you... even if you leave after 10 minutes.

This thread is hilarious, I've learned a ton and am going to change the way I approach making bookings. I'm gonna start requiring SPs to send me a photo of them with their keyboard on their head to verify their pics. If they can accomplish this task then they may have the privilege of meeting me for coffee so I can determine if they're truly worthy of me. I'm an old fashioned guy though so I'll gladly pay for their coffee (none of that frappuccino shit though, I don't come across money easily). I expect this rigorous screening process will weed out approximately 100% of all SPs on planet earth and I'll finally have the time and energy to get back to my true passion: whittling.

Then don't eat it. But don't expect those who do eat it, to let you try a bite of theirs. XD

I play fair. Doesn't always mean nice. 😉 There's a difference between bullying and educating. Sometimes children throw tempertantrums to get what they want. It's up to the parent to explain why ABC isn't happening. Exactly what's going on here. We (as a SW community) are trying to EDUCATE someone on how things are done, as well as protect other, and future SW in the industry. This thread and kind of discussion are extremely important for new people. However, if they don't want to listen to the class, they WILL get detention. 😉 I know how to use a meter stick.

Not that in any way I'm against free speech but this thread is about to go sideways very soon in my opinion . Sometimes we must agree to disagree and move on . Prince Clay will continue to justify his actions and those on the other side will put theirs forward , I don't see any common ground here . That's my final say . Let's remember to all play nice .

Then pay for their time that they meet you. But you'll rarely get a yes. You're allowed to have your view and allowed to be old fashion... but knowledge is power and if you open your mind up to other peoples thoughts, feelings, emotions and SAFETY... you might get somewhere instead of bitching on the internet. Like someone else said... YOU are the common factor here. Fix yourself. Fix the issue.

Using SWs as a therapist or ANY kind of emotional outlet is extremely selfish. We aren't trained professionals - seek help. Also, your emotional and financial safety is NOTHING compared to finding one of us dead in a hotel room, or as Manda said, stalked and beaten. I'm sorry, but I do not give you sympathy. You need to seek your own aid that isn't putting someone else at risk.

THIS! WE ARE A LUXURY, NOT A RIGHT. If you can't afford to keep your phone on, then you can't afford a SW. That simple. If someone tells me they don't have an active number, how will they text when they arrive? Not an excuse. You are not a Prince and we are not "hired by you" we accept you as a client and you PAY our SERVICE FEE. You are not owners of our time. Simple as that. Have good day!

I came here to leave my 2 cents but I see I don’t have to because @SarahAlexxx @StephanieMystique and @MsManda have all said everything crossing my mind!

If this is "always" being told to you, and "many" try to diagnose you...YOU are the common factor here. I don't know about the gaslighting, but I do know denial isn't just a river in Egypt. To everyone else...I'm sorry, yes, I know that was lame. I have my brilliant moments, today isn't one of them.

I will not be spending any extra time, money or effort above what I have put into my marketing (website, social medias, Lyla, online content, creating profiles, advertising, professional photos, ect) to meet some entitled person who thinks they are above my safety, security and thinks less of me because they don't value my time to compensate for meeting. As @MsManda put it, we leave sexy breadcrumb trails for you to follow and get all the information you need to make a decision to see us. For an SP that is new, don't send them photos. I have seen enough pic collector collections to know you are risking your safety. It takes them showing the wrong person or blasting it out to hurt you, be it psychical, mental or emotionally, or lose your job(s), family and housing. Build your content, build you ads, build your website if you choose too. If you need help, there is a ton of helpful information on this board to get you up and running. AMEN!!!!

Not the "lockdown" part of it.

I have to question how many times this has actually worked for you? I've been at this a long time and I think most of the ladies I have met over the years would immediately block/ignore you for even asking. (Especially for a one hour appointment). The rest of them would likely have some choice words for you ;) . Maybe I'm wrong but I have a hard time believing that you ask this regularly with any degree of success, at least without offering some compensation for their time.

Review Recently, I had the pleasure of meeting Vesna in Windsor. I typically don't review but thought this lady was worth the review for sure. The booking process was simple with a few texts and was confirmed with a quick phone call, as per request. We settled on a time at a nice local hotel for that night. I'll have you know that her pics are true and accurate and she is even more amazing in person, well spoken, great personality. She has a very fit body, tight booty, shapely legs, beautiful skin and very pretty with striking features. I love eastern european looking ladies! We started with a massage and some intelligent conversation to get to know one another. Then I returned the favour, giving her the best deep tissue massage allowing me to explore every part of her body (almost). lol. After that, Vesna showed off her unmatched bj ( covered of course ) skills to the point where I had to stop her. She then proceeded to please me in every other way possible and before you know it , the hour was gone. She did not watch the clock at all and allowed me to finish in doggy ( what a view! ) as we went into a little overtime. Vesna is not your average provider and definitely worth the donation asked , she should be a “must see” on your list. Thanks Vesna. > PS. Needless to say, I was hooked, I booked her again two days later. Morgan

I agree with Ms Manda on this one. It's not fair nor realistic to expect an SP to meet you for free . Their time should be respected and compensated for . In my experience most providers allow a little chit chat to make sure the comfort level is there . I've left when I have not felt comfortable but I leave something for their time. Most have understood graciously some not so . Maybe this may not be considered proper but I feel it's fair .

I don't think the Bella in the domme and fetish section is this Bella. Although this one lists fetish friendly lol.

I think a lot of you replying have never seen the level of effort going into these scams. Im assuming a lot of you live in the major cities where there is literally dozens or even hundreds of women providing services. These scams go beyond being verified on LL. Some of them have twitter accounts, instsgrams etc. I have even been hustled by ads that have reviews on CAF. I have been hustled by ads that have websites.. and because i look for an outcall. I have even been hustled by legitimate providers. That's the absolute worst when they laugh because they already have "regulars" and hustling someone for outcall deposit is nothing to them and wont affect their bottom line. It's not as cut and dry as a lot of you make it seem but I do appreciate the suggestions

Many of these adds for very beautiful asian girls use photos and names that where being advertised in Toronto 10 years ago.

Welcome Gentlemen, For those of you who have not met me yet, I am Ms. Brooklyn Styles. I stand 5'4- 115 lbs, with long dark hair and dark brown eyes. I am a youthful looking, respectful and discreet, mature, and sensual Woman. Open minded, down to earth and accommodating to your needs and desires. A passionate, free spirited Woman who loves to indulge in her sensual and naughty side. I have been dedicated to the pursuit of pleasure, and my goal is to provide you with an unbelievable experience. my positive outlook and relaxing presence is calming and evident as soon as we meet. Independent, reliable and always an authentic session, I'm a petite Woman with magic hands, available to share unforgettable moments with you. I am selective in choosing my dates, so please introduce yourself and let me know what type of session you are seeking. MONCTON FEB 16th and 17 th Duo available 3:30 PM to 8:00 PM FREDERICTON I am arriving on Monday and leaving Wednesday evening. My beautiful Friend, who is new and only part time will be joining me on Wednesday from 10 AM to 8 PM She is 5'7 -120 lbs with brown hair and hazel eyes. Slim and gorgeous and is absolutely loving being an SW. Maturity and Hygiene is a must! 200 45 minute Erotic massage 300 hour Companionship 300 hour Fetish Sessions 400 90 Minute With Miss. Kit-Kat a Sweet and Mature Stunner Not available for solo dates 300 HH Duo 600 1 hr Duo Please text to book an appointment as it is the best means of communication. If texting is an issue, you can message me on Twitter. @msbsxxx 506-588-0397

She is part of a bait and switch with at least 3 other ads (Sarah,9024002233: Jessica,7787331219: Carly, 4313028599) leading to 1 chinese girl, tall and a bit overweight, who was involved in at least 2 similar schemes last year. (Previously reported ). Oh. And her ad is back.4313025968

As someone whose actually legit I would never take a photo touching my nose or ear to prove I’m legit. Maybe she is new ?? There are better ways at finding out fakes than asking for free pictures.

Sorry to say but the color of your skin does not determine the size of your package!

It's not necessarily a racist thing. If a lady's agent or SO is black, he/she may not want other black men to visit, which is why they explicitly put it in the ad. This also applies to other races where the lady may not feel comfortable seeing men from her community. I used to know an Asian lady who was not comfortable seeing Asian men. I am not sure if it appears tacky to actually put it in the ad, but at least they're being honest. The type of service we are offering is that of intimacy and whatever reason we choose not to see certain people, is really no one's business. For example, I am no longer entertaining clients under 30 because as a rule I have found it to be more trouble than it's worth. I still have a few younger ones that I let see me because they are the exception to the rule. But that was only because their initial contact was more than a "Hey" or "Yo escort lady, I wanna git with u" type of text.

Scorpion from London visited me in Toronto. At the time I had my own wrestling mats, so I hosted her and she held a couple sessions in my apartment, in exchange for a roll with me: https://mixedwrestling.video/watch/dOw5BX6JWeLjJOx