You know - I might be called a hypocrite for this, but - a woman doesn't need to be strong, fit, and/or *particularly* interested in wrestling to be interested in wrestling. They do not necessarily have to offer it explicitly. Just ask an escort if she would be interested in putting you in some holds, and you might be surprised (I have a few petite women to wrestle, and one of them even had some experience; great company, great attitude towards wrestling). You might have to explain what exactly you want (which holds? Any roleplay), but that seems like more of a nuisance for the escort than the John. Deposits and screening tools are hardly hoops to jump through. If this is as important to you as it seems to be, just do the bit of work. Some escorts will likely not elect to wrestle after you explain what you want, and you will have to explain to someone else all over again; but no one is entitled to this sort of thing, so don't expect it to be easy on your part just because you are paying for it.