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I don't know about anyone else, but I miss the community that had grown here over a year long period. There was a lot of engagement, a lot of fun, and a lot of sharing of useful information. Of course, as always, there was also a fair amount of BS, which forced me to take a little break for awhile, but once I came back, Lydia left, things seem to be unmoderated for the most part, and generally it seems only newbies are posting the same old "anyone see her?" Posts over and over again. It makes me somewhat sad.

These are my personal thoughts only. Please feel free to comment but please be positive. I am doing this to learn more about being a client. First a little background. I was married twice. The first ended in divorce after 28 years. The second ended almost 4 years ago when my wife passed away from cancer. During both marriages, good or bad, I never cheated. No, not looking for a medal. It is just the way I am. I am now a mature, 69 yrs old man who had only experience a visit to a SW once. My very first sexual experience. It lasted no more than 15 minutes. Then married life set in. But 3 1/2yrs ago after the death of my wife, loneliness was overpowering. So I thought I would,d try this avenue as I did not want a relationship. My first try, a lady(???) From newspaper ad ghosted me. First lesson. The second one double booked me and I arrive second. After some expletives directed at me. I was on my way. Lesson number two. Took a time out. Look at various websites. Had no idea was I was doing. Finally found a lady that caught my interest. Texted her. She was on Christmas holiday but she gave a date to reach her after the holiday. Booked an appointment and went. Totally nervous but this time I had done just enough research to know she was legit. Spent a good portion of this first visit talking and learning. One thing I knew is you don't go on a date empty handed. So I did bring her flowers. One good step. I also learned her like and dislikes. She gave me some tips on where to do research. One site was this one(Lyla) where found a wealth of info. Twitter also become a useful tool. Gradually I learn and continue to learn because things change. When I began, deposits were never mentioned, now they are pretty much a standard. So we must never let up on learning about protocol, etiquette and also the lady you wish to meet. I just finished going back in time for 8 years and saw how the business evolved. Here are a few things that I diligently practice. Never cancel, never "no-show", never be late, never haggle over rates, never expect what she does not offer. Be respectful, don't show up empty handed( pick a dandelion somewhere, lol).BE HYGIENIC!!! Be showered before going and again when you arrive if it is her wish. Don't be rude! You really want her, pay the deposit, it will serve you well. Don't forget a little tip maybe. Yes I practice all this. For health reason I had to cancel one visit that I always enjoyed and I have been kicking my butt since. And I notified her weeks ahead. I have written all this in hope it might help some new ones. Something I lacked at the beginning. I got the opposite, insults from other clients for being too enthusiastic! Please, constructive comments. I want to continue to learn so I can make each visit better! Thank you for your time!

Thank you Ray. all great advice and very helpful. I’m 59 and I think guys like us are more respectful and polite then the younger people. Lol. Being rude to the ladies is counter productive and we all pay for it also what I hear is the biggest problem for the ladies is the time wasters who text on and on without any intention of booking. We all take shit for these people. If anyone cares my best advice is to find 1 or 2 providers and become a regular client. This type of arrangement can be Glorious for both parties ✅🙏

Lydia definitely gave this place life and it's sad she didn't have a replacement in place to take over (even if it was a different person under the same name). I do hope we can bring it back. As things shift in the world around us (new bills and laws being passed) I think it may be a little bit before we bring new life here. I've been a little crazy with touring so my marketing/advertising has been lacking. Giving myself a kick in the butt to get back on track. I will hopefully be around a bit more.

Yeah I do too. I just don’t feel able to discuss things in the same context before without rubbing one person or another the wrong way. So I don’t! I think that’s not an uncommon feel here at the movement. Hopefully we can all find a way to reset and be more patient with each other. Take the bitching to the inboxes and cut each other some slack. I think we all miss old lyla. And Lydia…this place is not the same without her. She was the 💗 and a force. Big loss for all of us and the site in general.

In the 14 or so years I have been here, the site has ebbed and flowed a lot. It has gone through periods of high activity and participation, but also through times when there were just a few of the core participants around. The good news is it always comes back around. We just all have to do our part to be respectful of each other and keep the BS to a minimum and it will happen. The one thing that has been consistent here though since I have been here (and likely far longer) is people longing for the 'good ol days' when the site was "better". Make it what you want it to be now.

@RayRenpelle you are truly a gift to all of us and especially the community. You help set the bar for clients and their etiquette so we can all have a memorable experience together that we will want to repeat often. ❤️ Thank you for all you do and I hope things are looking up for you health wise.

Those are good points also. Thanks for pointing them out. Time wasters certainly are a problem and it does eventually affect us all. Also a good point is to limit how many providers you see. Unless your goal is to see as many as possible and check out all the new ones, then a limit in number is beneficial. The connection you can make is great and makes for really good visits. I only see 3, one regular and two on special occasions. It is an good arrangement. But may not work for all.

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I'm sorry this has happened, but I'm afraid you have to take some responsibility for this yourself. You've posted in another thread that it has happened to you multiple times. You know the old adage: Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me. 😉 Long story short, stop sending money to people with nothing to lose by ripping you off. Established ladies with good reputations simply won't. (It would be stupid to risk their reputation and their investment for such a small amount of money.) Things to look for: Multiple recommendations from established members over time. (Not just first posts from a new accounts.) Social media presence that is established (active and not new) Professional Website Photos in ads that aren't stolen (learn to do an image search) Basically, any indication that it is someone who has put time, effort and money into establishing their business. If you can't find those things, then don't send a deposit. Plain and simple. Otherwise, a fool and his money....

Thank you for your reply. I am hesitant against booking as I was scammed of 1100 dollars. Initially, 100 for booking, then asked for 500 as insurance. Then further 350 as refund fee after cancellation. To say the least, didnt get the money. In other occasions, twice I booked (50 and 100) but was a no show. It was second time trying to book an appointment and it was before I discovered lyla. The provider/agency had a website and all. Typically, I say "hello, how are you doing" and compliment the pictures before asking for further details. Do not want to share my detailed information unless I feel secured because of robbery and blackmail posts that I have seen somewhere else. So, please suggest me better opening. In the past, despite not being avail to perform in the specific occasions, I paid my share and left early. No questions and didn't argue. So don't why the bad reputation 😕 I simply do not get aroused by nudity or lap dances (I don't know, too much porn effect or something but get erection while reading erotica and in the past relationships. Don't feel like it's a medical issue). So wanted to know full details so that I no longer disappoint the providers and myself. I don't know whether that enrages the providers. Sorry in advance to all the providers who are reading this.