@clearbluesky15 HYGIENE!! Is the biggest in my books. If you don't have clean foreskin and a clean bum, I can't continue. My terms have been set by others because they failed to be at their freshest or because other's have had to deal with the issue(s).
Followed by safety and reliability. If I can count on the client for whenever I am touring the area or when I am home, they show up everytime they book (extreme life happens, I totally understand) and I feel safe and continue to feel safe in their presence.
Generosity is never expect over my rates for my time but I do appreciate those clients that do. Especially gas, groceries, restaurants and bridge tolls. If it helps keeps business expenses down while touring. It's more for me to keep pushing my goals and making them happen sooner. Also, for me, or your favorite companion, to come visit more often.
Communication is hugely important to us. As we don't want to legally compromise our time together (you ask for illegal activities), and for us to feel safe enough to bring you into our space for a discreet experience (i.e. the location, room number, and what happens in that time is between the sober consenting adults) for us and for other clients that will visit us in that space. Keep it polite and brief. Most professionals want to know their safe to see you and that you will show up for our time together. Most don't need skin colour, or health shape. I am going to appreciate you and your body as it is, in that moment and where it is. No need to overly perform or put on a show. I know I have, and I am sure other's, have created complete magic and miracles from absolutely nothing. 😘 Nervousness is common and most SWs instinctually know how to work with it. Honestly, there is clients I have been seeing for 4+ years, that our time together keeps getting better. First time nervous are a tip to the excitement to come.
Overall, if you take your time to go through Lyla and chat with a couple of the good gentlemen and SPs here. I am sure you will find the right companion for you.