To clarify something, she reached out to me. I haven't fallen for this lady and I'm under no illusions that I'm here to save her. I understand this is normally a business, and I was a customer, but we are all human so I'm not going to turn a blind eye if someone is struggling. I interpreted her reaching out as wanting help, so I came here for some advice.
@fatboyNOTslimWhile I understand the point you're making, but I don't need to get something from someone in order to help them. Just like when I give a gift, I'm not expecting anything in return. I'm not throwing money at her, or opening up my house so she has a place to stay, I just don't want her to hurt herself or feel so isolated that she doesn't matter.
Anyway, I appreciate everyone's advice and opinions, that fact that you read my post and spent time either messaging me or posting here has been really helpful.