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Hi Happy Saturday! To each their own but there is no way in HELL I would ever meet in public, nor would most providers. This isnt tinder. We get a load of weirdos who are address collectors, let alone if we met in public for anyone and everyone to see what our face looks like, take a pic and either become a stalker, follow us or blackmail. Noooooo way! way too dangerous. Also, this is a biz, we dont have time to meet people and get assessed. Not to mention the legal implications. Under the law, we are to keep our biz behind closed doors at all times and I agree fully with this law. People have the right to eat their diner breakfast without JessyCeleste walking in for a potential client. Your point that a horrible Torontonian still scammed u after meeting is my point entirely. Who was kept safe? No one. Who was put at extreme risk? Both of you and the patrons in public who had the right not to overhear such exchanges. I also find it... several things... to assume someone is a scam in an industry for behaving in the exact way the industry works. You are deeming industry standard a sign of a scam? Here's what, most providers would block the number of someone asking to meet in public immediately. Major red flag. You may want to investigate an industry prior to deciding and spreading info on what is a sign of a scam or not. You'll find many laughing emojis, while I dont want to laugh, I hope you will see that as a sign that what you suggested is beyond unheard of in the industry. Most hobbyists would not want to do this. If you do, cool, but pls dont go around saying that women who have maintained great reps for a decade should be seen as a scam for not becoming the equivalent of a street walker for your comfort or whims on what the standard policy should be in our industry. Its insulting and dangerous hon. This suggestion goes from the SP asking for deposits to the hobbyist asking for one at a way higher value (time away) and personal risk instead of financial... hell financial too if i get stood up and then jumped on the way home. Ya... not happening lol And you shouldnt either, same reason! When I become a hobbyist (yup i wrote that.. i'll be old and nasty one day but still want pretty girls lol) I would way rather risk a 50 than personal safety and social exposure. Please for so many reasons readers DO NOT ATTEMPT OR ACCEPT TO DO THINGS THIS WAY! Worker or client!!!! On the contrary, most who request this are indeed a scam of some sort. With few exceptions relating to ignorance of how and why things work. If someone is reputable, I dont ask for deposits. And for me, its a one time thing. Once we've been together, we are good. I know it sucks to jump hoops guys. Man is it ever hard for y'all to find a new lady and for a new lady to start out. Sucks but whats the solutiion? Personally I think its this. Having a dialogue where we all say our POVs and try to find balance and once we have, stick with those who operate in the way we are comfy with. I don't want to shoot anyone's post down but as a long time professional in this industry I would vehemently discourage meeting in public. Not only for the SWs sake but for your own. Blackmail works both ways. If someone ends up being a scam, you're still in trouble. Now they got your face and proof you were meeting an SW. Very dangerous idea in this industry. Fine on tinder or fetlife but for this, we are targets and so are you. Be safe lovers! xoxo And thanks for the compliments. Its my sincere pleasure to stop people getting scammed. Maybe I should start a youtube channel like the ones for call center scams but do it for SW scams. lol DEMONITIZED. Still, if only I had time, itd be so fun to expose them AND waste their time. If anyone wants to do this, feel free to take my idea with my compliments and blessing. Hate these sociopaths who make this industry more dangerous for all of us. One more good tip. For those who know good SWers, dont hesitate to ask if they know anyone. Sometimes we know someone who doesnt advertise for various reasons and know them well enough to vouch for them to a person we value. Kisses, Jessy PS To be clear. I have zero animosity toward my sisters who work the streets. Only love and compassion for their situation and a constant thought (and some small action) on how to help.

I plan to add a FAQ area on Lyla for posting etiquette and I wanted to ask our seasoned members if they have anything to add before I post it. Posting etiquette (Some for clients, some for providers, some for both) 1 ) Do not discuss providers' rates (unless you are the provider or agency doing the posting) 2 ) Do not comment on a service providers rates being too expensive or cheap! 3 ) Do not discuss street walkers 4 ) Please use discretion! Do not discuss drug use, illegal activities, violent acts and anything that would bring unwanted attention to someone, some business or our community here on Lyla. If you are aware of a illegal activity taking place you should contact the police (not post it here) as posting it here brings unwanted attention to Lyla! 5 ) Do not fight or flame anyone (this includes flaming the lurkers or low post count guys and includes fighting with each other in the PM system) 6 ) Do not spread rumors! 7 ) If you have a problem with another member bring it to the attention of the mod and DO NOT post about it in public. 8 ) Do not post a provider's personal info such as addresses or share this info in a PM unless you are the provider. You risk her safety if you do this! 9 ) Do not ask for prices of providers from other members (you should ask them directly) 10 ) Before you post a recommendation for a provider you should ask her for permission and you should ask her for permission to put one of her photos on the recommendation as well. 11 ) Do not post ads to sell products on the site (free ads are for sex workers, massage spas, etc... not toys, web design, etc...) If you wish to promote a different product or service PM the mod first as we may have banners available. 12 ) Do not post links to porn sites 13 ) Do not use the site to complain about a service provider or post negative reviews! 14 ) Keep the site positive and fun! If you have an issue before posting it take a breath and think "Is it a positive contribution to the site?" if the answer is no... it's most likely not welcome! Additional Comments: If you disagree with a decision a moderator has made, you can PM one of us about it (not post publicly about it).

First of all, you Sir, are beautiful! As the others state, you can bring a horse to water, but you cant make them drink. Definitely do not drop by. I would say reach out via remote means. Text, email, whatever you got. And just tell her how you feel and that you are there to help in anyway you both think may be helpful. She sounds extremely troubled and I will not speculate (nor should anyone) what the problems are. But do please remember self-care while caring for others. I would refrain from offering money for several good reasons. Just contact her, let her know u genuinely care as a person and u are worried but also understand she may need space and you are hoping the silence is her recovering. You may never hear from her again and if you dont, it may actually be a good thing, meaning it may be because she's better and has changed everything in life. Its a sad fact in the industry that yin/yang applies as ever. Its great that the money symbolizes boundaries that either party may suddenly disappear but it also sucks to love /care for someone and just never know what became of them. Its the downside. I just send them love and good energy and hope they feel it. Take care! xo

Well said!

I have been around over the years, on and off. I did not meet Amber Phoenix yet, (as I am away). However, she responded to message quickly and politely, and seems very nice to correspond with.

I saw Catherine last weekend for the first time. The recommendations were totally on point. Beautiful face and curves in the right place. Her pictures are accurate. She has a great personality, bubbly demeanor, knows nerdy subjects, and is quite smart. What I liked most about her was that she's a very PASSIONATE SP and by no means rushes you. After our session we talked for awhile and discussed a variety of topics. I highly recommend her. https://www.leolist.cc/d/catherine314 I'll note her ad says she might take a bit to respond sometimes. But she's worth the wait.

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To clarify something, she reached out to me. I haven't fallen for this lady and I'm under no illusions that I'm here to save her. I understand this is normally a business, and I was a customer, but we are all human so I'm not going to turn a blind eye if someone is struggling. I interpreted her reaching out as wanting help, so I came here for some advice. @fatboyNOTslimWhile I understand the point you're making, but I don't need to get something from someone in order to help them. Just like when I give a gift, I'm not expecting anything in return. I'm not throwing money at her, or opening up my house so she has a place to stay, I just don't want her to hurt herself or feel so isolated that she doesn't matter. Anyway, I appreciate everyone's advice and opinions, that fact that you read my post and spent time either messaging me or posting here has been really helpful.

I can't speak for everybody, but I think most dudes are simply looking for drama-free intimacy in this hobby, so why invite problems into your life? I know a man who is miserable because he felt it was his duty to 'save' somebody, and he doesn't even get anything out of it (yet the bad boy on/off boyfriend certainly does lol).

At the end of the day its still a BUISNESS ... Not judging on anyone im a SP myself .. but ourselves ,i mean our life is our own responsibility ... Not anyone burden i get it things get hard n tough sometimes but thats not others to burden everyone struggles too..its just in a different manner or in other ways or form . lets not forget that

Hi! You are out of town when I am visiting 😞 Next time!

Yes I does make it hard for us BUT we wouldn't have to ask for deposits or other means of security if we didn't have reason to I have been in this industry for along time and I have always tried to give people the benefit of the doubt and over look deposits to only have my time wasted..people sometimes like to take advantage of others when they can I feel alot better now asking for a deposit knowing I can secure my time at least Especially when I am inviting you into my personal space If uncomfortable with sending a deposit or I.d they can always contact a lady that doesn't require one