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I not only agree with Berlin Moss but enjoyed the read, very intuitive. I believe we all at times question our role male or female. When I worked for an agency how I viewed things is completely different to my thoughts and feelings now. I actually love what I do now, because I answer to no one, I run things to what makes me happy & enjoy, I've used the industry to explore my own sexuality, broaden my horizions & my personal growth. Not many know me on here but on another board I literally tell gents what I want to try , or what mood I am in that day and theres usually a couple that step up to the plate ;) As any job / career there are good & bad days. Is it morally right or wrong ? I believe the answer is with in each and everyone of us and varies. Depending on the mind set you come into it with. To harm , degrade, heal, pure sensual pleasure or commpanionship. Some its fantasy, bucklist checking others its human touch, connection there are so many varibles of why. My take , As long as ppl are respectful, not harming others or themselves, respect boundaries and both partys or all envolved are consenting adults of the event. I personally have no issues with the moral side. Legally it has come a long way. Personally I think complete legalization would make things safer for sex workers. I have laughed at my gf that was very promiscuous talking down about sex workers. She was my room mate. I asked how many guys have you had back in the last month she laughed it was lets say a few .. I asked her what she got out of it she replied half as many orgasms then men. We laughted and I replied now if you charged them you would have over 4000 in cash and called her free hoe and we laughed so hard. She totally had a different outlook since that day and we still giggle about it. Well thats my 2 cents

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This exactly. when you receive the results they say neg or pos - not dirty or clean! we say HIV+ or Neg. Not hiv dirty ir clean. theres nothing about having any other kind of infection that makes ppl use language like dirty. We say they are sick! so why is it different for sexual health? Stigma perhaps?

This is a great post! I struggle with the dilemma too! I am someone that fights for the underdog and have worked with the homeless, addicted, mentally unwell, and other areas of people facing disadvantages. Some women (men and others also) readily and freely choose this line of work. Others choose to do it out of a necessity to survive. And yet some are forced into it by people profiting off their backs. I hate to feel that im contributing to any negative repercussions, but I think it’s impossible not to contribute at least in some way to the negatives, if using these services. The way I’ve tried to justify it in my head: 1. These ladies are doing a great service for me. 2. Whether or not I use their services they’ll still have to do the work. 3. At least I know that while they are with me they will be treated with dignity and respect (not including the argument that it’s disrespectful in some way to be using the services to begin with). I have heard the stories about the A-holes and dangerous situations some of these ladies have been placed in and I think they at least appreciate not having to worry about these things with me. I don’t think there is an easy answer. Although some might say there is an east answer “just don’t use the services”. But some of us have a genuine need for these services IMO. All that said, if you do use these services please be good to these people. Respect them, and still ask for consent! If being rude or disrespectful somehow gets you off, talk to them up front to let them know what you’re looking for and see if it can be a mutually agreeable experience. We are all humans and we’re all dealing with something. So please be nice! “We are all in this (life) together”

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The way this thread devolved into this massive dumpster fire of drama is the perfect illustration on why Halifax is a hard place to hobby - and from the authors of the drama, it looks like both sides can share that blame. Lyla definitely doesn't help. I remember a few years back, when it was so defensive about posting critical reviews, but at the bottom of the review section you could rate the SP out of 5 stars. So one hobbyist (that is still such a silly term to me), gave one particular SP a good textual review, but a poor star rating. So, naturally, the lyla police were called, and the hobbyist was publicly taken to task. But, for what, the hobbyist argued - for using the 5 star system in the exact manner to which it was designed? Needless to say, the star rating option disappeared shortly after. One person commented above (before things got flame-y) that this board is full of single-post threads where one person asks if anyone has ever seen so-and-so, and no one responds (except sometimes GreenTeal who will patiently explain how to spot scams). Well, now you know why no one posts. Because it rarely adds value. I won't even look at lyla - to luck out and find the 1% truth in the 99%scam, is not worth my time. I come here to check those few out-of-town SPs that still post their tour schedules. Nothing against the few non-drama locals here, I've just never gone to a local SP from lyla - as someone else mentioned in a different post, I prefer exotic tastes. But to watch what this place has turned into....I wish there were more choices....

Fair enough. I honestly don't know enough about neuroscience to comment on that. I do know that a lot of times, what we consider "behavioural addictions" are often solved through different treatments than those typically used for substance use disorder, or even gambling (which is the only behavioural addiction that is recognized in the DSM 5). Oftentimes, these "addictive" behaviours actually become less problematic on their own when the root causes, such as low self-esteem, are addressed.

Interesting, but the key word I think is "extreme." What I gathered from the Lustig video is that over exposure to dopamine actually caused cell death. I don't know if "fasting" can repair this, but if you go cold turkey early enough, perhaps it can be mitigated.

It does get a bit tricky because compulsion and addiction are used so interchangeably, and because there is obviously a compulsive element to addiction. Addiction itself is far more complex than impulse control though because of physiological changes to the brain's communication pathways. I've just done a lot of reading of criticism on sex addiction though, and why it's largely rejected by science. It's quite interesting! Mostly it just turns out to be high libido and low impulse control though. I'm far from a neuroscientist, obviously lol, but the things I've read point to a general misunderstanding by the public about how dopamine actually works. Absolutely! There will always be criticisms of anyone! This guy in particular isn't a quack by any means... he just sells an idea that we are all addicted to dopamine, sugar is poison, and that's why we're so miserable... but buy his book so you can fix it. I'll be the first to admit that he guy's far more knowledgeable about brain and body things than myself, but it's been pointed out that he's used to his knowledge to misrepresent science to people who don't know better.

Thank you for your rich response. You name many nuances that deepen my own understanding. For now I refrain from further comment, hoping that others will engage with your observations,

Mind you, a lot of eminent people in the medical field have been accused of that lately. With disastrous consequences. I don't know enough to critique him myself, but happy to learn.

Two very thoughtful posts. Well considered and written. Just to throw something in, I was watching a fascinating video regarding serotonin and dopamine. (Happy to provide the link if anyone is interested). Interestingly, they interfere with each other, but the big take away is that you can easily and quickly become acclimated to dopamine. It actually becomes a clinical addiction. You need more and more to achieve the same "high". So while you may not be sex addicted, you can become so to the neurochemical effects that sex produces. As for Berlin's penultimate paragraph, that is truly inspired. Pretty much every trade and many products can be "evil" if used or sold by the ill-intentioned. Just think of the slave labour that is used to produce everyday objects. As Orpheo says and Berlin agrees, just because something can be evil is no reason to ban it outright. People often clamour for "clamping down" or making up new laws, when our basic legal code already allows for effective prosecution, if only the officials responsible would do their job.

This gunna be long, so buckle up, lol. (Summarization is not my strong suit :D) Personally, it's my opinion that sex work, on its own, is morally neutral. We know that sex is a normal and natural human behaviour. Humans are wired for connection and are naturally drawn towards physical contact with others. The reasons to purchase sexual services varies from patron to patron. Things like; stress relief, kink exploration, human contact, engaging conversation, and "mental vacation" are just some of the reasons I've heard. If there are people who are willing to provide a supply for the demand, that's not inherently exploitative just on its own. (From a worker's standpoint, I felt far more exploited while employed by a cafe for just above minimum wage than I do in sex work where I set my own rates and hours.) I would argue that while sex and human contact can have a therapeutic benefit, it is a far cry from an actual form of therapy. The key difference here being that therapy has a mindfully structured and goal-oriented treatment protocol that aligns with specific methodologies. I would encourage people to do away with the idea that sex workers are therapists. (Even if a sex worker is certified in the field, they may be a therapist, but they not your therapist.) To quote a fellow sex worker on this: We are twice as expensive and half as qualified. As far as sex addiction goes, there's a mounting body of evidence that suggests it doesn't actually exist. At least, not in the way people think. This is because "sex addiction" fails to activate the same parts of the brain that typical addictions do. It does not appear in the DSM-5 as a diagnosable mental health condition. An interesting fact is that, on average, self proclaimed "sex addicts" do not engage in sexual activities (intercourse/masturbation) more than the general population. The difference here is the internalized shame that "sex addicts" themselves have attached to the specific activity. That shame is often rooted in religious ideology that has been taught to them about sex throughout the duration of their lives. Alternatively, shame can come just from the moral code of your environmental setting as well. One of the growing pains of the present time is that our society still has a lot of contradictory views around sex and around the morality of how we engage with sex. These views are mostly left over from a more puritanical time. It really wasn't that long ago that even divorce was a whispered subject and children born out of wedlock were widely considered as products of sin. That's not to say that sexual activity can't become problematic. There are many people that engage in sex and masturbation to the point that it does interfere with their day to day life. This is more effectively treated as a symptom of a larger issue, rather than the primary issue itself. It can also be viewed as a compulsive behaviour. The importance of distinguishing between this and a true addiction is that the treatment procedures for addiction vs. lack of impulse control look very different. As far as trafficking goes, you'd be hard pressed to find someone who doesn't agree that it's a tragic evil. The fallacy with your thinking here though is that labour trafficking exists across nearly every sector. I would not say that there are good reasons to see farming, fishing, or hospitality as "evil" industries because of the trafficking that is rampant within them. Labour rights and legal policies that offer protections based in human rights are essential in actually combatting all forms of trafficking. I won't get into the "legal and regulated", because I've already written a novel here, but there is a reason sex workers advocate for a decriminalized legal framework. Legalization models sound great on paper but are often counterintuitive and only cause further harm.

Streaky brown chili cheese dog

Nice to hear...any link to her ad etc??

Maroon Grilled Cheese Yum

White Waffles lol

Naked spaghetti 🍝

Red pizza omg haha

Gnocchi di patate blu

Blue Oatmeal

Finger licking good indeed 😋 😉 very fitting slogan @Janebondage 😝

So finger licking good! 😂😉 (Dating myself with that reference) #GenXSlut

Green Poutine 😂

Blue pizzq

Black coffee

Commando pineapple.. 🍍 😉

Black prime rib.....😂 Has a bit of a catch to it...🤔😁

Hardwood Lydia. I wish. No, mine would be Hardwood Quiche.

Black sausage. Ha ha. That’s funny as heck.

grey chicken

Today it's "No Banana and Peanut Butter Smoothie" A Before Lunch Rambling RG

Today it's "No Leftover Spaghetti" An After Supper Rambling RG

Glitter Pancakes

Black May Gardens.

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Nude coffee???? No panties and having coffee. What?!? LOL

Black fish and chips 😂

Black Perogies

Blue (meat) balls.... Joking : Black martini (yes I eat my martini: 3 piri-piri olives and one hot pepper)

I can't wait to see which one of our fine lady who will say "Nude Salad" or "Nude 10 OZ steak". lol

(SAXX) Maple leaf Big Mac