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3 pointsI not only agree with Berlin Moss but enjoyed the read, very intuitive. I believe we all at times question our role male or female. When I worked for an agency how I viewed things is completely different to my thoughts and feelings now. I actually love what I do now, because I answer to no one, I run things to what makes me happy & enjoy, I've used the industry to explore my own sexuality, broaden my horizions & my personal growth. Not many know me on here but on another board I literally tell gents what I want to try , or what mood I am in that day and theres usually a couple that step up to the plate ;) As any job / career there are good & bad days. Is it morally right or wrong ? I believe the answer is with in each and everyone of us and varies. Depending on the mind set you come into it with. To harm , degrade, heal, pure sensual pleasure or commpanionship. Some its fantasy, bucklist checking others its human touch, connection there are so many varibles of why. My take , As long as ppl are respectful, not harming others or themselves, respect boundaries and both partys or all envolved are consenting adults of the event. I personally have no issues with the moral side. Legally it has come a long way. Personally I think complete legalization would make things safer for sex workers. I have laughed at my gf that was very promiscuous talking down about sex workers. She was my room mate. I asked how many guys have you had back in the last month she laughed it was lets say a few .. I asked her what she got out of it she replied half as many orgasms then men. We laughted and I replied now if you charged them you would have over 4000 in cash and called her free hoe and we laughed so hard. She totally had a different outlook since that day and we still giggle about it. Well thats my 2 cents
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1 pointMy experience of compensating companions for their time has had me wrestling with ethical dilemmas. I'd like to share my thoughts and invite constructive comments. Why is Sex Work illegal? Our culture heightens sexual cravings by sexualizing people and products. We are conditioned to crave intimacy as an expression of our wholeness as human beings, and when under other stresses, a lack of healthy opportunities for intimacy can become an unmet need causing suffering and heightening the risk of mental illness and self-harming. So an argument can be made that Companions who provide such services are relieving suffering, and providing a kind of therapy. This has been my experience. I have appreciated the humanity and respect shared in my interactions as a client. But I also recognize that scratching the itch often makes it worse. Once a lonely heart take the huge risk of seeing a companion, a positive experience intensifies the craving for more, more, more. So there is an obvious parallel to other forms of addiction. Some former taboos, like the use of marijuana, have been legalized and its use is now largely benevolent. By removing the trade from the hands of illegal suppliers the acceptance of such use has also seen larger numbers of people having a net benefit; just as I will enjoy a glass of Zinfandel after this post. So if the provision of companionship can be genuinely therapeutic (relieving suffering), why does it continue to be regarded as illegal? There are many good reasons to regard sex work as an evil. Human trafficking is an evil. Getting vulnerable people hooked on hard drugs so they can be pimped out to feed their addition is an evil. Huge amounts of money are passing into the hand of criminals who thrive on hurting people by whatever means enhances their profit. So there are aspects of the industry that are and should be prosecuted as criminal. Under our present laws, selling sexual services is legal, but buying such services is illegal. For Sex Workers the legalization of providing services must be a great benefit, adding to the dignity and lessening the risk of choosing this profession. It is reasonable to criminalize those who seek their services? I would argue that because much of sex work still does involve horrific exploitation, the answer is not a simple "no." But the harms are greater because the trade is still illegal for those seeking it. Were it legal, and protected as a human right (both providing and seeking), the opportunities for criminal exploitation would lessen and the mortal outrage against such activities would become harder to sustain rationally. IMO, making sex work legal and regulated would be a positive step in the ethical evolution of our culture. Sex itself would become recognized as a healthy expression of human interactions rather than a dirty taboo, at least when paying for it. In my experience, the companions I have met have been lovely persons with their own agency, enjoying dignity and treating me with respect in my vulnerability. Thank you.
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1 pointAfter reading this thread, I'm now addicted to reading anything Berlin Moss cares to write ! ๐
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1 point๐ Iโm enchanting and sensual; a hedonist to my core. Letting the outside world drop away as we stare into each other, breathing together; like we are the only two people in the universe. Teasing and tantalizing to get the blood pumping, the mind racing about what might come next. Let me take you on a wild erotic journey and fulfill your deepest desires! ๐ Halifax - 80% BOOKED! May 16th ~ FULLY BOOKED! May 17th ~ FULLY BOOKED! May 18th ~ only 10pm left! May 19th ~ 11am & 7 - 11pm May 20th ~ 11am - 2pm ๐ ๐ ๐ GFE and Kinky GFE 34 years old 5โ1โ/155cm 34E (natural) ~ 22 ~ 34 103lbs/46kg Blue eyes Brunette with pink tips Tattoos & Piercings ๐ ๐ GFE $400/hour Kinky GFE $500/hour Want a longer date or a kinky date? See my website www.meetcherry.ca/experiences for rates. Screening and deposit required. Ask about duos with my friend @charlottequinn123 ๐ ๐ Whatโs the buzz about me? โบ๏ธ https://www.lyla.ch/topic/199501-some-sp-i-can%E2%80%99t-get-enough-of/ https://www.lyla.ch/topic/198911-cherry-tartlette-%E2%80%A2-white/ https://www.lyla.ch/topic/198412-cherry-tartlette-%E2%80%A2-white/ https://www.lyla.ch/topic/196717-cherry/ ๐ ๐Come experience for yourself, I know Cherry will be your new favourite flavour!๐ www.meetcherry.ca
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1 pointHallelujah! Canada is way better than the US with regards to escorting. The law can be contradicting sometimes since it has to be reviewed and are gathered from multiple sources, parties, groups, etc before announcing and Legalizing it. You have come up with open ended questions but in the end, you sum it up nicely with regards to this industry. Sorry for the late reply, I will answer in more details once I'm back home. On tour now, so exhausting ๐ Allie
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1 pointUnderlying my inclusion of addiction and compulsive behavior in the same Venn circle is the suggestion made by many including Dr. Gabor Mate that such learned adaptations are rooted as reactions to relieve the pain of emotional/psychological trauma. The hypothesis is that everyone has experienced intense suffering. Some of us have matured enough to not be as vulnerable to compulsive/addictive temptations, but IMO no-one is immune. Given sufficient negative stimulation (a shyte-storm) we all may find ourselves driven to seek something for relief. I am not denying the facts of physiological addition to mind-altering substances, but suggest that indulging in such substances begins as part of the same pathology. When we cannot (or are not wise enough to) access healthier forms of relief from suffering, our habitual use of a familiar (but riskier) source of relief conditions us to weakened impulse control and/or the onset of physiological addiction. If I may return to the original focus on asking if the provision of sexual services relieves or aggravates suffering, it is a complex question. Sex involves the activation of instinctual parts of our brain similar to an addiction, but has far deeper meaning to us than the numbing, distraction, or euphoria of many addictions. Sex fulfills a natural and wonderful human instinct, but is also bound up with our deepest desire for belonging, acceptance, relationship, affection, and bonding. Sexual services cannot truly be all these things, but is a surrogate for them. By seeking the surrogate does a client help themselves, or create a deeper wound because the sexual acts provided were not a genuine expression of love between two or more human beings? I had a psychiatrist once whose loving manner felt genuine, and I asked him about it. He said that as a professional he provides his services with genuine compassion -- with love, which is not the same thing as being "in love." I believe that professional companions may be able to do this as well; but it is not easy. Each is a human being with their own issues and experiences. This is why I find it so important to respect and boundaries each sets, and why intimacy like genuine kissing is uncommon. I have found that as a client when my companion welcomes my tenderness and compassion into the room, our time together is truly wonderful because I can give "with love" as well as receive.
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1 pointCongratulations on your Zen mastery of summarization!
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1 pointHe ain't the only one! I guess the argument comes down to whether the addiction is to the behavior or the response. Either way it isn't a good place to be.
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1 pointThat's actually a common misconception! You can't be addicted to dopamine, or any neurotransmitter for that matter. You can develop a compulsive pattern of behaviour that triggers its release, but that is not a true addiction. Compulsion is an intense urge, whereas addiction is physical dependency. So while a compulsive behaviour can feel like an addiction, it's not. The "tolerance" you reference is largely attributed to dissociation in the individual while engaging in the compulsive behaviour.
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1 pointMoncton client here. Do you plan on returning, and where can I find your schedule? Thanks
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1 pointBella has a couple of review threads, this one and another under Bella, this is the larger one, it may be a bit confusing for some, I'm posting my review in both anyway since nobody has done a review in a while and she's superb. I saw Bella recently, twice in fact. It was my first time visiting a professional SP in a very long time, and first time with any girl in forever. I can not stress enough how AMAZING she was and is! So much more then I could have hoped for. I was very nervous and self conscious, from the moment I arrived and got my first hug I felt safe and comfortable. Bella's space is very upscale, you hear that a lot in ads, but in her case it's very true. She spends a lot of money on her environment, it felt kind of like being in a nice nightclub you would find in Manhattan but without the crowd of people. Bella thinks of all the details and she provides all the little amenities you could think of as well as little delicious treats from chocolates to candies, all sorts of gum, even healthy treats like roasted Plantar's peanuts. She's such a sweety. It's very warm and inviting, nice music, lovely candles and pretty lighting all around. Her play space is equally great, her pro massage table with warm, comfy, microfibre blankets and fuzzy pillow is a dreamy place to spend time. Bella herself is beautiful, her eyes sparkle, her lips are lovely, I love her face. She exudes a feeling of comfort and a gentle sexiness that's infectious and highly addictive. Her body is a joy to caress and squeeze, whether it's in a hug, or other play time activities. Long story short, she's a 14 out of 10 in every category. Will repeat as many times as she'll have me. She's a true gem.
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