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2 pointsCheeky Charlie is pretty natural. 😉 I also go months at a time without shaving now... but do need extremely advanced notice. 😆
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2 pointsHello Everyone, 👋 It's been a long time. I'm just sending a message to everyone that has reached out, and continue to reach out, checking in on me. I'm doing great. I'm still living in France, 🇫🇷 and have been since the 1st Border Lockdown. I am working in France now, and continue to study the language, French. However, I do go to New Brunswick, Canada a few times a year for Vacation, and to visit family. I do receive your emails, and PM's. You hold a special place in my heart, I did enjoy Hosting. You gentlemen were my way of dating. I stayed single for a long time while I hosted, at my choice. Thinking of you at times, and thank you for spending the time you did with me. Someone captured my heart, and I took the leap. My France Love ❤️ I learned to never say "Never", so I won't say it. I'm still here, just not hosting. I hope you all are staying safe and happy! Thinking of you.. Katie xoxo's 😘
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2 pointsThis gunna be long, so buckle up, lol. (Summarization is not my strong suit :D) Personally, it's my opinion that sex work, on its own, is morally neutral. We know that sex is a normal and natural human behaviour. Humans are wired for connection and are naturally drawn towards physical contact with others. The reasons to purchase sexual services varies from patron to patron. Things like; stress relief, kink exploration, human contact, engaging conversation, and "mental vacation" are just some of the reasons I've heard. If there are people who are willing to provide a supply for the demand, that's not inherently exploitative just on its own. (From a worker's standpoint, I felt far more exploited while employed by a cafe for just above minimum wage than I do in sex work where I set my own rates and hours.) I would argue that while sex and human contact can have a therapeutic benefit, it is a far cry from an actual form of therapy. The key difference here being that therapy has a mindfully structured and goal-oriented treatment protocol that aligns with specific methodologies. I would encourage people to do away with the idea that sex workers are therapists. (Even if a sex worker is certified in the field, they may be a therapist, but they not your therapist.) To quote a fellow sex worker on this: We are twice as expensive and half as qualified. As far as sex addiction goes, there's a mounting body of evidence that suggests it doesn't actually exist. At least, not in the way people think. This is because "sex addiction" fails to activate the same parts of the brain that typical addictions do. It does not appear in the DSM-5 as a diagnosable mental health condition. An interesting fact is that, on average, self proclaimed "sex addicts" do not engage in sexual activities (intercourse/masturbation) more than the general population. The difference here is the internalized shame that "sex addicts" themselves have attached to the specific activity. That shame is often rooted in religious ideology that has been taught to them about sex throughout the duration of their lives. Alternatively, shame can come just from the moral code of your environmental setting as well. One of the growing pains of the present time is that our society still has a lot of contradictory views around sex and around the morality of how we engage with sex. These views are mostly left over from a more puritanical time. It really wasn't that long ago that even divorce was a whispered subject and children born out of wedlock were widely considered as products of sin. That's not to say that sexual activity can't become problematic. There are many people that engage in sex and masturbation to the point that it does interfere with their day to day life. This is more effectively treated as a symptom of a larger issue, rather than the primary issue itself. It can also be viewed as a compulsive behaviour. The importance of distinguishing between this and a true addiction is that the treatment procedures for addiction vs. lack of impulse control look very different. As far as trafficking goes, you'd be hard pressed to find someone who doesn't agree that it's a tragic evil. The fallacy with your thinking here though is that labour trafficking exists across nearly every sector. I would not say that there are good reasons to see farming, fishing, or hospitality as "evil" industries because of the trafficking that is rampant within them. Labour rights and legal policies that offer protections based in human rights are essential in actually combatting all forms of trafficking. I won't get into the "legal and regulated", because I've already written a novel here, but there is a reason sex workers advocate for a decriminalized legal framework. Legalization models sound great on paper but are often counterintuitive and only cause further harm.
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1 pointMy experience of compensating companions for their time has had me wrestling with ethical dilemmas. I'd like to share my thoughts and invite constructive comments. Why is Sex Work illegal? Our culture heightens sexual cravings by sexualizing people and products. We are conditioned to crave intimacy as an expression of our wholeness as human beings, and when under other stresses, a lack of healthy opportunities for intimacy can become an unmet need causing suffering and heightening the risk of mental illness and self-harming. So an argument can be made that Companions who provide such services are relieving suffering, and providing a kind of therapy. This has been my experience. I have appreciated the humanity and respect shared in my interactions as a client. But I also recognize that scratching the itch often makes it worse. Once a lonely heart take the huge risk of seeing a companion, a positive experience intensifies the craving for more, more, more. So there is an obvious parallel to other forms of addiction. Some former taboos, like the use of marijuana, have been legalized and its use is now largely benevolent. By removing the trade from the hands of illegal suppliers the acceptance of such use has also seen larger numbers of people having a net benefit; just as I will enjoy a glass of Zinfandel after this post. So if the provision of companionship can be genuinely therapeutic (relieving suffering), why does it continue to be regarded as illegal? There are many good reasons to regard sex work as an evil. Human trafficking is an evil. Getting vulnerable people hooked on hard drugs so they can be pimped out to feed their addition is an evil. Huge amounts of money are passing into the hand of criminals who thrive on hurting people by whatever means enhances their profit. So there are aspects of the industry that are and should be prosecuted as criminal. Under our present laws, selling sexual services is legal, but buying such services is illegal. For Sex Workers the legalization of providing services must be a great benefit, adding to the dignity and lessening the risk of choosing this profession. It is reasonable to criminalize those who seek their services? I would argue that because much of sex work still does involve horrific exploitation, the answer is not a simple "no." But the harms are greater because the trade is still illegal for those seeking it. Were it legal, and protected as a human right (both providing and seeking), the opportunities for criminal exploitation would lessen and the mortal outrage against such activities would become harder to sustain rationally. IMO, making sex work legal and regulated would be a positive step in the ethical evolution of our culture. Sex itself would become recognized as a healthy expression of human interactions rather than a dirty taboo, at least when paying for it. In my experience, the companions I have met have been lovely persons with their own agency, enjoying dignity and treating me with respect in my vulnerability. Thank you.
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1 pointHas anyone seen the lady advertising as Kylie since few days on LL? The pics look good and would appreciate feedback. Thank you. https://www.leolist.cc/personals/female-escorts/nova-scotia/halifax_new_sexy_upscale_girl_in_town-7832379?source=list
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1 pointI’m Ms. Styles, an Independent Companion. I love music, chocolate, animals, interesting conversations, intellect, kindness, generosity, humor, excitement and intensity. I am a down to earth free spirit with a wild side. I am selective in choosing my dates and will only devote my energy to a person I feel I could have an amazing time with. I value substantial and memorable connections, which is why I am low volume, and have a personal screening process for compatibility. I love having long term clients and relationships that flourish and I’ve found that this is the best way to do that. In the end, I want us to both have the best time. My aim is to make you feel at ease and relaxed at all times as I strive to create an unforgettable, personalized experience, without the drama of everyday life. My hope is to create a discreet friendship, where we connect on many different levels. My ideal gentleman is someone who can bring out my feminine energy. He understands that a strong bond can only be created with trust & time. Every engagement we have will only increase in value, as extended engagements allow me to be my most authentic self. I am a giver and I love connecting on a deep level and helping to create a unique and incredible experience. Let me take you on a heart-pounding journey full of unforgettable pleasures. Contact me now and get ready for an unparalleled experience in erotic companionship. Inquire about Fetish sessions and 2 girl playdates, meetings with us get pretty hot! Natalia is Available all day Tuesday April 18 th . Thank you for your consideration, Ms Styles
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1 pointHi, This is for the first time i am able to read it in full without distraction. Ethical and norm of our society vary depending on the region. If you happen to travel to Samoa, you might be surprised when someone ask you openly and honestly to have sex with you. Over there it's part of the norm. I was surprised when a man approached me to have SEX few hours after i land on the island for the first time. On the second day, i have few more offers, on third day i have already become a queen of Samoa lol. It's part of their culture since they see sex as something as natural as eating their favorite casava. "Selling" sexual service is illegal in certain countries because the "conservative, old" value of the society from religious points of view to other ethical points of view that may contradict this profession to exist legally, yet men still come to see escort discreetly. And as you mentioned, the sex trafficking and pimping make it even harder and complicated for this profession to be legalized. Urgh. Good things, It's proven that decriminalization and/or legalization actually decrease the cases of sex violence. It's proven, from my personal experience that married men can stay married because of us, escorts. It's proven that sex, human touch and good communication in bed elevate our physical and mental health And so on...and so on. So yes, legalization and decrimination of escorting are the way to go. We are blessed here in Canada. As a client, i don't think police will bother you either if you see a legitimate, well reputable escort. We don't kiss and tell anyway so your secret is safe with us. To sum it up, Sex itself is not an addiction. It's part of our basic needs. Sex along with intimate human touch and genuine good conversations definitely is therapeutic. We all need that. The third one is more complex but we want to aim as a benevolent service indeed Happy hunting 😃 Going back home to NB tomorrow! Allie
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1 pointHallelujah! Canada is way better than the US with regards to escorting. The law can be contradicting sometimes since it has to be reviewed and are gathered from multiple sources, parties, groups, etc before announcing and Legalizing it. You have come up with open ended questions but in the end, you sum it up nicely with regards to this industry. Sorry for the late reply, I will answer in more details once I'm back home. On tour now, so exhausting 😞 Allie
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1 pointThank you for your rich response. You name many nuances that deepen my own understanding. For now I refrain from further comment, hoping that others will engage with your observations,
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1 pointHello dear gentlemen, A taste of sensuality and passion with a hint of naugthiness that is the perfect recipe for memorable moment ...and that is totally what im aiming for when you come to my world ... Don't look further and cum to me , i will drag you to heaven ... Sexy and romantic atmosphere with lingerie , nylon , high heels and candles light ... ***About me : I HAVE a wonderful combination of beauty, intelligence and class.I aim to please, and my time with you is YOUR time, it will goes Un-Rushed...I can play the sweet innocent girlfriend or an aggresive goddess. I know exactly what you need,my warm smile eyes will quickly put you at ease while I further indulge you with my charm. I stand 5'7,soft, long dark hair and seductive curves in all the right places.While my photos are blurred for my privacy, I assure you my look is seductive,very feminine and mesmerizing. I am an exotic mediterranean beauty with captivating dark eyes. I am a very sweet girl next door , always in a good mood ,natural and fun.You are going to be instantly at ease with me . Our encounter will be friendly& sensual, Im very receptive, I loooooooove to be pleased ( OMG !!!) and of course to please as well.But please note that I do prefer longer date with lot of interactions (intellectual, physical to bring us slowly to some wonderful intimate moments). I have no discrimination about age or nationality as long as you are nice, respectful , honest and clean you are more than welcome to come have fun with me !! As i said Im a very clean person, , Im very respectful and I expect the same from you . Thank you for your understanding If you treat me right i will treat you even better ... I have a lot of repeat encounter and thats what i like the most ...we get to know eache other very well ...like a real boyfriend and girlfriend ;-) Im a woman in my early 30's, Im half French-Canadian/Mediterranean Im 5''7, about 135pounds, 36D (firm & natural),with silky soft tanned skin . I enjoy interesting conversations, am flirtatious, affectionate, outgoing, passionate and thoroughly enjoy spending quality time with gentlemen/couples of style and class. An encounter with me could be described as a compete girlfriend experience. I am that rare combination of beauty and brains. Physically, mentally, or emotionally connected with someone, I enjoy building a deep connection and enjoying our time spent together. Successful and powerful men attract and attract me a lot. I understand that your happiness and satisfaction are paramount and I will enjoy every minute of our time spent together I am devoted to providing high class services for affluent gentlemen ( and their life partners if wished) who demand nothing but the very best from life. Whether you require elite companionship for a dinner date, an evening event, a romantic weekend, perhaps a work related function or a business/pleeasure trip overseas, I can assure you that you will find complete and total satisfaction with me. Discretely catering to an elite clientele,I have built a reputation for representing international finest high class lady ,educated and stunning,i am waiting to meet you and escort you tothe 7th heaven.Im the perfect companion that you have always dremed of , either to join you on your arm at any restaurant or theater, a tropical and exotic getaway and of course, privately, behind closed doors. Im making in absolute discretion and i am seeking for long term business relations with my clientele. I will make your desires and your fantasies a reality. I will be hosting in my discret and clean hotel downtown. *** My Ottawa rates for incalls downtown are as follows: 30min. Blink of an eye /240 45 min.Warm up / 260 1hr Escape to paradise /300 1hr30 Get to know each other more / 480 2hrs Sexy adventure / 600 2hr30 Sensuality and bubble bath /720 3hrs Like your real mistress / 800 4hrs Flirty encounter Dinner date /800 (2hours dinner +2hrs intimacy) 15hrs Naughty indulgence (Dinner to breakfast) / 2000 *If you want to bring me to a weekend escape or on your business/personal trip ( my passport is always ready !!! :-) ) i would be very happy to join you !! Please contact me for more informations at [email protected] or 514-258-5822 ***Outcalls *** I usually prefer incalls but if it works with my schedule I could go visit you to your 4* and up hotels or at your residence wich im expecting classy and clean , 90 min date minimum, references may be required and a driver fee will apply (minimum $50 depending on your location) . I'm very fast to reply,unless Im already busy I will reply within 2 hours(excepted on my days off) **Cancellation: Please be sure to do so at least 24 hours in advance or I will require a 50$ compensation payable during our next ecounter. Short notice cancellations and no shows will get you blocked and put on the blacklists (unless we have met before and i trust that your cancellation is for a personnal or professional emergency ) **Confirmation: Every bookings must be confirmed the day before and morning of or I will not hold your appointment. I am flattered you taking the time to contact me to share a sexy and memorable moment together, and in order to facilitate the communication and booking process, please ensure that you have included the following informations ° Your Name ° Age ° Date, time & location(if outcalls) ° Length of the encounter desired ° Where you saw my advertising ° If you want your request treated in priority please give me name,website/email of an established independent companion or agency that you have previously met (that I can contact for references if needed) ° Also include a brief introduction so we can be better acquainted Note that I do not reply to explicite, vulgar,disrespectful or rude emails. CONTACT ME AT 514-258-5822 ( CALLS OR SMS ) OR [email protected] ***In conclusion : Please note that my donation is firm and clearly posted on my ad, so there is no need to discuss it or try to negociate it. Im also couples friendly I offer multiple hours special The donation is solely for companionship and time, that'it.Anything else that may happen is a matter of personal choice between two consenting adults of legal age. Upon arrival of our first date, please have all donations/gifts placed in an envelope/gift bag. For the sake of any uncomfort, please discreetly hand over said items to me at the beginning of our date. PLEASE DON'T HESITATE TO ASK FOR MY REFERENCES , I ONLY HAVE GOOD ONES ON THE MONTREAL BOARD
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