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Got to meet @Cheeky.char for the first time yesterday and I couldn't have asked for a better GFE. She looked amazing when I arrived at her secure incall and she was so easy to talk to and share with. I loved her chill and playful personality and she made sure I felt special and taken care of the entire time I was with her. Really looking forward to seeing her again when I'm able to❤

I don't know about anyone else, but I miss the community that had grown here over a year long period. There was a lot of engagement, a lot of fun, and a lot of sharing of useful information. Of course, as always, there was also a fair amount of BS, which forced me to take a little break for awhile, but once I came back, Lydia left, things seem to be unmoderated for the most part, and generally it seems only newbies are posting the same old "anyone see her?" Posts over and over again. It makes me somewhat sad.

Today I noted something I had never paid much attention to. Usually the "too good to be true" ads identify themselves with a critical read but I had never bothered to go to the bottom of the page to see the "more ads" by this user feature. I clicked on a couple of these. Today "Rose" is in New Brunswick , Burnaby,BC, Calgary and Halifax. I noted this type of activity with other ads. I wanted to share in case others had not noticed ,that this feature will help sort out the scams . Hope this helps and saves some folks their hard earned cash.

life is back to normal again. Was at the Rabbit this morning to visit with Jasmine. She has come back from her trip to China. The place brings back memories and the staff is more beautiful than ever. New girl is from Toronto and is quite something to look at . Will have to go back soon and see what skills she has. As always YMMV.

Book now or forever hold your own piece. 😉

Since there are so many fake adds being posted I was thinking on making a list on here of current reputable companions for each city and it could be updated weekly? Any thoughts? Ideas? Anyone in favour? Bad idea? Lol let me know your thoughts 🤔 Would be just names and no other info.

Oh boy. I am so excited to dissect all of this. 1. You have unfortunately focused on the negative point. I'm only offering truthful advise, and I have nothing but respect 😮‍💨. Correct. I have absolutely focussed on the negative points because your argument is based in deposits being a risk for clients. Which is a negative concern of booking a provider. your "advice" **** is UNSOLICITED and it isnt actually advise. telling other clients on a forum like this that you "cant get behind" deposits , is not advice. It is your opinion. And might I ask what your opinion is based in? is it based in anecdotal evidence? Is it from your lived experience of being scammed? You do not get to sit here ans claim you have "nothing but respect" when you are sitting here on a forum where YOU get to be anonymous and talk about your explorations with "high end" escorts while simultaneously suggesting that an extremely common business practice (depositing) is NOT a practice you believe sxx workers should be able to utilize. 2.This isn't going to Home depot or a reputable brick and motor business to give a deposit on materials. It is a virtual add, with a virtual deposit. It is intimidating as a client to filter though fake adds on sites like leolist, 95% of them are scams. Boy oh boy! Im excited for this one. First. I think you meant MORTAR not motor. secondly, comparing HUMAN beings offering an intimate service to giving a deposit to home depoit for "materials" is a perfect example of dehumanizing sxx workers. It displays your inability to distinguish the vast differences between procurring sexual services and buying construction materials. Which btw! You would BUY not put a deposit on. I personally rent from home depot often. virtual ad you say? Yes like most of our ads now a days are virtual - on the radio, TV, websites, via social media etc. you pay for deposits for MANY virtually purchased products and I wonder if you have ever made an online purchase- paid in FULL in advance and then waited for shipping..... ?????? most weed dispensaries require a deposit now. many service providers have a deposit or cancellation fee because of the harmful impacts to a business when people NO SHOW. you speak of the level of intimidation in scouring leolist for clients - have you considered the level of intimidation for providers in meeting up with some random man? our risk of murder is substantially higher and more common than you already on the basis of being "women". And the rates are even higher with adult workers because the violence we experience so often goes unchecked. even when we are murdered, you ever heard the term NHI? it refers to cases labelled by law enforcement as NO HUMAN INVOLVED and is frequently used on cases of sexx workers. so while I absolutely hold some level of understanding and compassion for clients regarding their fears - your fears of losing a deposit are nothing compared to the tribulations that sexx workers face. you fear loss of deposit I fear loss of my life. Tryst literally has a document now detailing how to book workers. you could also apply your knowledge and use transferable experience from other businesses youve procurred services from and paid deposits to figure out how to verify if a business is reputable. 95% is also a huge statistic. I could arguably say 95% of clients on there are aggressive, disrespectful and only text "you available" to a dozen workers at once. Id also like to say that maybbbe if men thought a little bit less with their cocks theyd be able to differentiate between a scam and a real genuine human being. 3.There are tons of shit clients, don't get me wrong. Definitely not denying that lol. But there are two sides to every coin, client and SP both need to understand the other point of view. I've already mentioned that I do often consider the perspective of clients and understand the risks associated with procuring services as a client. With that being said I am wondering if you personally have taken the time to familiarize yourself with the legislation around the adult industry and the risks posed to you as a client simply from a legislative standpoint? I would also like to point out that maybe you should consider hopping onto Twitter and seeing the continuous discourse of sex workers from across the globe around screening and deposits. Most SWs absolutely do consider The things that may or may not impact clients and I was such their own business. So since you are saying that we need to consider each other's plans I will once again reiterate the fact that you have concerns of paying a deposit because you're worried about being scammed, I have concerns about being sexually assaulted physically assaulted, stealthed, Pregnancy, PCOS, endometriosis, vaginal tearing, anal fissures, contracting an STI and having to take time off work or having to be on medication for the rest of my life, stalking, being banned from travelling, having my bank account closed, having my children taken from me, being denied or having accounts shutdown on payment processors or websites - these are just a few off the top of my noggin right now but I am sure if we made a ven diagram of all the concerns clients and sex workers have there would be some that are the same... and there woild be MANY on yhe side of workers that are not a concern for clients. Also. understanding the perspective of one another does not mean that you should be advocating against deposits. If you genuinely understood what it was that was behind this phenomenon and respected it you would not be advocating against it you would be sharing your own knowledge around the risks and how to mitigate those risk . 4.You're obviously real, but not all girls asking for deposits have a tag on a forum, or a Twitter to prove they're legit. One. I'm not a girl. For many reasons one because I don't need a man to infantilize me using language used to refer most commonly to females under the age of 18. But also because I am a non-binary provider and not all sex workers are women. If you wanna misgender me at the bare minimum do me the respect of acknowledging that I am an adult human being. Because you don't see us referring to you clients as "boys" And I just wanna point out the concerns I have with suggesting that because somebody is on a forum that that makes them real. Sure this is one of many places that I exist on the Internet. And you could verify of myriad of other places that I just on the Internet I'm also a face out provider and if you've been paying attention at all recently there are also a lot of fake Twitter's. And many workers have been calling out those pages and also providing clients with a number of different ways to verify that somebody is legitimate such as reverse image search. Searching up their name and seeing what pops up and not just within the first couple pages but doing a deep depth research of the business that you're contacting. 5. Please don't attack me based on my input. I felt my reply would offer valuable insight. your reply literally only said that you cannot get behind deposits I'm unsure what you think is valuable in terms of this or how it is insight when it is merely just your opinion that you are sharing with other prospective clients this is no way helps you other clients or sex workers genuinely find a happy medium of comfort when it comes to the booking process. And you might wanna consider looking into what rejection sensitivity is if you think that I am attacking you. I'm sharing my perspective as a worker who has been in this industry for nearly all of my adult life and for nearly a decade. And I'm calling into question the perspective of an anonymous man on a forum who is telling other men on a forum that they can't get behind adult workers requiring a deposit. 6. I understand this is a sensitive subject. I do not condone violence or disrespect on any level, especially SPs. Just wanted to point out this paragraph doesn't make sense I think he meant to say especially towards SPs. Regardless once again you sitting here on anonymous account telling other men to not provide deposits because you can't get behind it and because there's scammers out there is absolutely direct violence towards sex workers because you are literally sitting here undermining hundreds of workers efforts over the years to acquire deposits now that we have the ability to do so. Yes our safety is absolutely a sensitive subject considering the rates in which we are violently harmed including murdered. And part of our safety protocols includes screening and deposits and it's absolutely a privilege to be able to ask for those things. As a final note -- I regularly see high end SPs when they travel to Winnipeg. I have formed many great relationships with them, and all of which had met me with no depoit due to my referrals. They know I'll show up, pay, treat them well and respect them, all by using the referral system. I just want you to consider how often you may have been referred to some sort of product or business or experience and how the experience of somebody else may not be the experience that you have. And that is why over the last several years providers have begun to reject the referral system due to the fact that you can have an amazing experience with one provider and a horrible experience with another as a client in the same could be said about workers. It is also a classic tactic of abusers to create a support system around them of other reputable individuals that trust and believe in them and will absolutely stand up for their reputation of being a good person it's classic abuser behavior. And we have absolutely seen it with clients who will treat certain providers with the upmost respect and then proceed to treat other workers in disgustingly violent violent manners. And there have been dozens and dozens of cases of workers having a referral for a client and the client becoming violent or not paying or causing harm and some other way. Which is why screening with referral only is almost just as dangerous as seeing a client with absolutely no screening information. There have been so many instances where providers have been angry that their clients asked them for a referral and have lied to other workers either telling them they were terrible clients or telling them that a client was amazing even though that client repeatedly caused them harm. and I would be delighted to know the names of these high-end providers that you are claiming do not require deposits. Since you are sitting here telling people that they shouldn't deposit you should probably consider sharing the providers that don't require deposits and that screen in a way that is comfortable for you and possibly other clients. so to reiterate. Your initial post was not helpful whatsoever. It directly contradicts the current discourse in the community globally and is coming from an anonymous account from a male client, directed to other male clients. and I just want to make an honourable mention: rest in peace to Marilynne Levesque 23 year old women from Quebec who was working at a spa and was seeing a client there who then offered to book a hotel to see her so she could acquire all of the rate and not provide the spa with a cut. This client was out on parole for having violently murdered his ex girlfriend. He brutally murdered her with a hammer and then wrote slurs such as whore across her apartment walls in her blood before he walked himself to the police station and turned himself in. His parole officer allowed him access to a spa so that he would not be as likely to target "the general public". This is a perfect example of how even if you have a "referral" or have met someone in a BRICK AND MORTAR space , that doesnt make them safe. And that goes both ways. At this point I have nothing left to say to you lt any other individual who would like to sit here and try and rationalize advocatinf against business practices sex workers have implemented to protect themselves, but also to legitimize sex work as we continue to advocate for our humans and labour rights in an era where average Americans have been denied access to life saving medical care and body autonomy. I can guarantee you the violence you fear you might experience as a client is absolutely nothing compared to the violence experienced by women on a daily basis and is nothing compared to the violence sex workers experience. Also I wonder... does saying you book "high end" escorts make you feel better about paying for sex? Or was it just inserted so that you could suggest that "there are high end sps doing this!" obviously there are. and I myself have waived deposits so that I could make income to pay my bills, feed and house myself... and 9/10 those people no/show. and 1/10 those humans are lovely anazing AND were willing to pay me a higher rate because they werent depositing. but deposits are screening for me. and my right to safety and security as work and as a human being absolutely take precedence over your desire for anonymity or concerns of being scammed. And with that, I doubt you and I will ever connect. And not that I would know or could stop you from contacting me - but I am NOT interested in seeing you as a client BECAUSE of your original post advocating against deposits. And your subsequent reply where you have absolutely centred yourself. have the very best of times in your search for connection and companionship. i hope you have the life you deserve and I will not be affording you any further unpaid emotional or physical labour in the form of a digital reply. have the day you deserve🌟

Its hard to get behind deposits?????? Im not sure what planet you live on but its pretty common globally for bussinesses to have deposit requirements for a myriad of services. so to clarify you think sxx workers asking for deposits for shorter sessions isnt something you can get behind...? Why? imagine. I book 3 clients this week. none of them deposit. all of them no call/no show. I have now: possibly denied others those time slots am out all of my prospective income for the week i possible paid for ubers or an incall space I got ready, did makeup hair etc... possibly paid for childcare I do not have the ability to get provincial support. I have zero recourse for being ghosted and left with $0 after the time and energy of a back and forth to book someone. A great way to tell providers you don't respect us or care about the risks we deal eith in this industry and the financial abuse violence we experience is to say "I cant get behind deposits"🤪😅

Hi again, friends. Sending my best to all my contacts here, with lots of good memories. More to come!

I grew up in the 60s and 70s in Quebec and never heard of it.

Don’t reply. He’s trying to shake you down.

This is why I do deposits for all new clients and all outcalls... No exceptions. Other providers, people looking after them (usually visiting ones) or even anti sex work groups may try to submit fake bookings to discourage you. And when they try to pull the "I'm afraid of being scammed thing" I say do your research and learn about the many reputable providers in our area. You don't get a great reputation, great reviews by scamming people.

I can confirm this happens often. Some will message, set up appointments, ghost and will text a week later and try to book again acting as though nothing happened. I have recommendations here and still have a hard time with asking for deposits. This is why it’s difficult for me to host as getting accommodation and not having clients show is not only frustrating but often costs SPs. I have reached out to other SPs to discuss potential scammers, no show clients or even dangerous clients; SPs here seem weary to work together.

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I am definitely one of them but I am not alone. Sadly, I can't speak for most of Canada but there are several I know of in Ottawa & Montreal. I know this not just by gents telling me but because I've witnessed it, either in person or by how they speak when not advertising. Several I know of are intimate, affectionate and love shutting the world out for an hour dedicated to relaxing, having fun and making someone who wants you to feel good, feel good. I don't know what your type is or if any specifics matter to you but there is definitely a far better chance of the true GFE with an older Companion than a younger one. This is a generalization of course and there's an exception to every rule and of course, there's no guarantee that a mature SP will be this way. But if I were you, I'd start my search with the 30+ Companions. From there, definitely check out their recos, this is definitely something that is touched on by those it is important to. Id also say, use her site and ads to gain insight into what type of Provider she is. If its caring, detailed, friendly, and personable, that's an indication that she is too. If its business like, curt, cold and to the point, well, that tells you that she won't be talking your ear off and will likely just get to it, which some people do like. To each their own. I know its a lot of leg work, so I would start with recos & google keywords that matter to you. Not fool proof though as not everyone is good at SEOs, many don't make own their sites or know to ensure whoever does uses them, and some webhosts suck, limiting how many you can use. But these methods should help. Good luck in your search! JessyCeleste xoxo xxx