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  1. 4 points
    ๐’๐š๐ข๐ง๐ญ ๐‰๐จ๐ก๐ง: ๐…๐ซ๐ข๐๐š๐ฒ ๐€๐ฎ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ“๐ญ๐ก-๐Ÿ๐Ÿ•๐ญ๐ก. ๐…๐ซ๐ž๐๐ซ๐ข๐œ๐ญ๐จ๐ง: ๐’๐ฎ๐ง๐๐š๐ฒ ๐€๐ฎ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ•๐ญ๐ก - ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ๐ฌ๐ญ. Please prebook to ensure our time together. โ—ใƒปโ—‹ใƒปโ—ใƒปโ—‹ใƒปโ— โ€œImagine, you're finally here, you made it.. I answer the door, I'm more then you anticipated.. You're greeted with a welcoming smile, a big hug like I haven't seen you in years. I take your hand, we emerge in the room.. all you see if luminous light in the bedroom. In that bedroom we will unlock every hidden fantasy that your heart desires...โ€ โ—ใƒปโ—‹ใƒปโ—ใƒปโ—‹ใƒปโ— about me:My name is Amarra. I have a petite build, mid length brown hair, blue eyes, and an olive skin complexion. My personality is outgoing and giddy; I'm always looking for ways to make people around me laugh and smile. I'm very passionate about the things I care about ๐Ÿ˜‰ โ—ใƒปโ—‹ใƒปโ—ใƒปโ—‹ใƒปโ— Physical Description:Height: 5โ€™1 | Weight: 104lbs | Cup Size: 32 A Cup Sneak Peek: Click Here. โ—ใƒปโ—‹ใƒปโ—ใƒปโ—‹ใƒปโ— Services & Rates. I offer GFE, Duo's and Trio's, multi hours, overnights & much more. (Please just specify in message) I offer basic service as well as non GFE. โ—ใƒปโ—‹ใƒปโ—ใƒปโ—‹ใƒปโ— "cheap service isn't always good & good service isn't cheap" โ—ใƒปโ—‹ใƒปโ—ใƒปโ—‹ใƒปโ— How To Book An Appointment With Me Screening and deposit may be required if we haven't met before. When booking an appointment leave a brief message of getting to know you and what you would like in our time together, please include your age, name, services, how long of a session you would, preferred date/time. I have included an example below. Example: Hello my name is _____, Iโ€™m _____ years old, I'm looking for _____ services. Iโ€™m would like to spend _____ time with you on this preferred date & time _____. โ—ใƒปโ—‹ใƒปโ—ใƒปโ—‹ใƒปโ— **๐€๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ฌ๐ž๐ซ๐ฏ๐ข๐œ๐ž๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ฌ๐š๐Ÿ๐ž ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐š๐ฒ ๐จ๐ง๐ฅ๐ฒ.** ๐’๐ž๐ซ๐ข๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐ˆ๐ง๐ช๐ฎ๐ข๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ ๐Ž๐ง๐ฅ๐ฒ Testimonial #1 Testimonial #2 Testimonial #3 Testimonial #4 Testimonial #5 Testimonial #6 ๐‚๐จ๐ง๐ญ๐š๐œ๐ญ: (902)-704-3503 ๐Ž๐ง๐ฅ๐ฒ๐…๐š๐ง๐ฌ: @geekygirl-amarra
  2. 2 points
    Well @Randomg75 Iโ€™m sorry that you didnโ€™t get to see @babyparadise . Iโ€™ve seen her quite a few times and find her to be not only a great SP, but also a good human being with a high moral compass. As example, when I first started seeing her, I was really impressed at her willingness to accommodate my requests. So one day I slid an extra $30 into her payment. I didnโ€™t mention it, I just handed her the payment plus tip. She counted it out and turned to me and said โ€œoh, you gave me too much moneyโ€. I donโ€™t see that level of honesty in many people these days, let alone in this industry. So I think itโ€™s worth pointing out that thatโ€™s the kind of person your dealing with when you deal with @babyparadise. Regarding your personal experience, itโ€™s a tough world out there and we all (SPs and clients) need to protect ourselves. Some SPs require references or even copies of ID. Others like @babyparadise rely on their instincts. For nervous clients, the typical protocol for verifying SPs is to seek reviews and message other trusted members who have seen her for reference. She has many good reviews on here from lots of longstanding members including me, whoโ€™s been a member for over 12 years. So it should he pretty obvious that I didnโ€™t create this account just to post a fake review of a girl 12 years later. All that to say, @babyparadise is one of the good ones. Making her jump through some weird hoops to prove herself is unnecessary given her reputation and the list of senior members here willing to vouch for her.
  3. 1 point
    I would love it if we could all help each other out. It sucks putting all that time and energy in making myself look amazing and then having the client ghost you. And yes I have also had them try to call back with some sad excuses. Now I just ask for a 30 or 40 $ deposit. Fuck it if they don't like it!!
  4. 1 point
    After a couple years of thinking about it well today I took the plunge the appointment was done via text message short brief and attentive we agreed on a time got the room number when I arrived via text no issues ... Fellas ! ๐Ÿ‘€ this woman is even sexier in the flesh ...everything she offers is legit very very attentive in every way ...I will admit this was my very first SP and I was legit high school kid nervous she assured me I had nothing to be concerned about and well fellas she just has that certain something? Her smile, her curves her sexy bedreom eyes You will have to go visit and see for yourselves ๐Ÿ‘ you will no be disappointed and It will not be my last visit ๐Ÿฅด๐Ÿ˜‰
  5. 1 point
    โ—ใƒปโ—‹ใƒปโ—ใƒปโ—‹ใƒปโ— โ€œImagine, you're finally here, you made it.. I answer the door, I'm more then you anticipated.. You're greeted with a welcoming smile, a big hug like I haven't seen you in years. I take your hand, we emerge in the room.. all you see if luminous light in the bedroom. In that bedroom we will unlock every hidden fantasy that your heart desires...โ€ โ—ใƒปโ—‹ใƒปโ—ใƒปโ—‹ใƒปโ— about me:My name is Amarra. I have a petite build, mid length brown hair, blue eyes, and an olive skin complexion. My personality is outgoing and giddy; I'm always looking for ways to make people around me laugh and smile. I'm very passionate about the things I care about ๐Ÿ˜‰ โ—ใƒปโ—‹ใƒปโ—ใƒปโ—‹ใƒปโ— Physical Description:Height: 5โ€™1 | Weight: 104lbs | Cup Size: 32 A Cup Sneak Peek: Click Here. โ—ใƒปโ—‹ใƒปโ—ใƒปโ—‹ใƒปโ— Services & Rates. I offer GFE, Duo's and Trio's, multi hours, overnights & much more. (Please just specify in message) I offer basic service as well as non GFE. โ—ใƒปโ—‹ใƒปโ—ใƒปโ—‹ใƒปโ— "cheap service isn't always good & good service isn't cheap" โ—ใƒปโ—‹ใƒปโ—ใƒปโ—‹ใƒปโ— How To Book An Appointment With Me Screening and deposit may be required if we haven't met before. When booking an appointment leave a brief message of getting to know you and what you would like in our time together, please include your age, name, services, how long of a session you would, preferred date/time. I have included an example below. Example: Hello my name is _____, Iโ€™m _____ years old, I'm looking for _____ services. Iโ€™m would like to spend _____ time with you on this preferred date & time _____. โ—ใƒปโ—‹ใƒปโ—ใƒปโ—‹ใƒปโ— **๐€๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ฌ๐ž๐ซ๐ฏ๐ข๐œ๐ž๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ฌ๐š๐Ÿ๐ž ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐š๐ฒ ๐จ๐ง๐ฅ๐ฒ.** ๐’๐ž๐ซ๐ข๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐ˆ๐ง๐ช๐ฎ๐ข๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ ๐Ž๐ง๐ฅ๐ฒ Testimonial #1 Testimonial #2 Testimonial #3 Testimonial #4 Testimonial #5 Testimonial #6 ๐‚๐จ๐ง๐ญ๐š๐œ๐ญ: (902)-704-3503 ๐Ž๐ง๐ฅ๐ฒ๐…๐š๐ง๐ฌ: @geekygirl-amarra
  6. 1 point
    Make the most of the rest of your summer! โ˜€๏ธ๐Ÿ–โ˜€๏ธ๐Ÿ–โ˜€๏ธ๐Ÿ– I have an appointment available today *August 8* Screening first if I don't already know you** ๐Ÿค— Book NOW before someone else does! Please email me with your polite introduction and preferred time ๐Ÿ“ง my email is open 24/7 ๐Ÿ“ง [email protected] ๐Ÿ“ง ๐Ÿ“จ๐Ÿ“จ๐Ÿ“จ allow 3 hours notice and you will recieve my very best (presentation, performance, personality) in return! *No rude dudes or picture requests* Need a different day/time to meet? Most days, even if I haven't posted an ad for that specific day/time, I'm actually available anytime between 9 am and 11pm by pre-booking in advance** **see below for booking details, screening information and if I would or wouldn't request a deposit from you for pre-bookings What to expect with me: 100% sober interactions locally grown ๐Ÿ˜‹ Canadian English-speaking no rush, highly engaging worth the premium- I always give 100% in everything I do legit + reputable = looking for something specific? what we discuss is what you get, and ZERO unpleasant surprises Safe only very discreet + clean hosting light massage + (solo) shower Will visit you at your place or hotel* *if the hotel has a private entrance. I do not go to the Landmark Hotel (iykyk). If you are there, you are welcome to visit my location instead and here is my true description: Physical Description Petite (under 5'4) 115-117 lbs (proof in my gallery) Pretty, not perfect Not too young or too old Fit + feminine with toned limbs and a slender, yet soft waist (size 5 or 29" relaxed) Naturally Busty Caucasian (white) No kids, a few tattoos Non smoker/drinker (420 friendly) Clean + Tidy Personality Warm Engaging Confident Bubbly Great eye contact View my impeccable recommendations here: https://www.lyla.ch/topic/18829-misty-rivers-aka-sugar_kayne/?tab=comments#comment-539118 here: https://www.lyla.ch/topic/201794-sugar-kayne-โ€ข-white/ Or here: https://www.lyla.ch/topic/201834-sugar-kayne-โ€ข-white/ A little about how I operate: **ABOUT my SCREENING: If I don't know you, I check ID for my safety before scheduling. Heres how I do that: You send me a picture of your photo ID and a picture of yourself holding a piece of paper with Sugar Kayne written on it. I delete immediately after our encounter. If that doesnt work for you, another option is to verify you via a combo of social media + your place of employment, or online if you have an online presence of any kind. If you can send me a picture and your full name and I can google you and find out you are who you say you are, then we are good! PLEASE NOTE: I reserve the right to refuse service to anyone and if you are under 50 and from Toronto, I can say in advance that I will not meet with you, I am sorry. RATES For bookings between 1pm-7pm, I charge XXX (please inquire) and for bookings between 9am-12pm or 8-11pm, I charge an additional $97. Btw, its NOT required, but I really LOVE to be tipped, but ONLY IF you ESPECIALLY enjoy my service ๐Ÿ˜‡ Do I require a deposit from you? I know how bad the scammers are so.. not if I can help it, but if it is outside my posted hours and I dont know you then yes I require a deposit, unless you are willing to pay an additional $100 at the door just to avoid the deposit -keep in mind that only a deposit comes off the fee. Also, if I suspect you are wasting my time, I definitely won't book you without a deposit. If I know you, but you have a history of frequently cancelling on me, before rebooking, I will ask you upfront to agree to provide a reasonable amount of compensation via amazon gift code if you cancel again. ABOUT THE 100% REFUNDABLE DEPOSIT - **IF** I REQUIRE A DEPOSIT FROM YOU, it would be in the form of a $60 amazon gift card claim code. That way I can and will return a new code for equal value to you, if *I* have to cancel. If you cancel I keep the deposit of course. Please don't waste people's time. It's not cool, okay? Reach me instantly via email: [email protected] between 1 and 7pm TODAY! P.S. Are you a local gentleman? I truly believe that you deserve to have a trusted local companion that will happily provide you with discreet adult entertainment! I would be thrilled to chat about becoming your new favorite legit local professional that can fulfill all your personal companionship needs! email me anytime, I know you'll be polite to me and patient when waiting for a reply ๐Ÿ™‚ x Sugar Kayne aka Julie Adore
  7. 1 point
    GENTLEMEN Allow me to introduce myself. Im Rebecca, the cute girl next door you have dream about, once in your life. Im 32 years old, french Canadian from Montrรฉal with an adorable accent. I stand 5'4 with curvy build, long redhair and nice handful of perky tits. My juicy pink lipz will amaze you in more than one way. My warm and friendly personality will put you at ease just with a smile by opening the door. Kiss? Cuddle? Light caress? Or something a little more spicy? I love it all. Take a look at what others have to say about me.. http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=40938 Located in the SOUTHEND by the airport... Follow me on IG: rebeccaottawa Twitter; rebeccaottawa 613-315-6354
  8. 1 point
    Picture this: moonlit sandsโ€ฆ salty breezesโ€ฆ crashing wavesโ€ฆ and the doting attention of a beautiful siren that will leave you breathless. Letโ€™s dive into a hot and steamy adventure by the sea ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿงœ๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ’ฆ Pre-book your date to avoid disappointment, Iโ€™m hosting at a discreet private residence just outside of Chester ๐Ÿ’‹ Wednesday, August 16 Incall & Outcall 11am-9pm Thursday, August 17 Incall & Outcall 12pm-9pm โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€” I'm Nikki, a charming and playful 36 year old woman with a sexy slim hourglass figure, beautiful face, fun free spirit, and genuine passion for creating private indulgent experiences that will make your toes curl and melt away the world around us. Often called muse or nymph, there is a duality to me that is hard to describe... I'm both a wild temptress and fun girl next door. Intuitive, primal, and sensual, but also laid back, sweet, and often silly. Iโ€™m university educated and well travelled; someone with whom you can be a total hedonist behind closed doors, then discuss philosophy over fine wine. Upon meeting, you'll first notice my striking grey eyes which have a tendency to smile and dance on their own. Beautiful facial features, long platinum blonde hair, natural D's, minimal make-up, and soft curves in all the right places will draw you further into my warmth. Come explore with me, and find out for yourself xox โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€” I offer the following services for discerning gentlemen seeking an upscale, sumptuous and sultry experience: Dinner Dates Multiple Hours Erotic Massage Girlfriend Experience PornStar Experience (I love going to Greece!) Overnights (available to select suitors after our first date) โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€”โ€” Donation: 30 mins - 200 60 mins - 300 90 mins - 450 2 hours - 560 3 hours - 800 โžก๏ธ ๐Ÿ“ฑ TO BOOK: 902-500-6413 โžก๏ธ ๐Ÿ“ง [email protected] Please email (preferred), call, or text your name, age, location, when you would like to meet, and a bit about yourself and interests to start a conversation. Screening info required from all new clients. โฃ๏ธโฃ๏ธโฃ๏ธ Iโ€™m new, but 100% real, sexy, and eager to please. Check out my first review Twitter profile link
  9. 1 point
    I was getting this happen to me all the time I was giving people my address and they said they were on the way some even said they were pulling into the complex where I live and they never showed UP. I started getting really agitated and worried that these people had my address but they didn't have my suite number, as I wait till they arrive to do that and even then people said they arrived and they didn't... so it didn't matter and I started getting really concerned that these people we're in the possession of my address. It isn't just one or two people it was a constant thing for me so now I made a rule and I stick to my rule and I don't waver for my rule and if they don't follow the rule then they don't get to see me. I require a small deposit subtracted from the total when they arrive I don't give out my address until I get the deposit and the deposit is $20. If they're that interested in coming to see you they won't have a problem with that if they say they can't e transfer because of their personal life we're trying lie about some other story tell them, that's not your problem suggests they get someone to do it for them and give them the cash! Don't give out your address unless they pay you the $20 it's simple. I get you may lose some people but you're trusting them in your space your home your safe place wherever you are and they don't trust you with $20? Immediately this shows me disrespect and that they think very low of people in this business that's what I take from that so is that the type of people you want to meet? not me ever since I implemented that rule the problem has pretty much gone away. I still get the odd person that sends me $20 and doesn't show up and that's just fine I got paid for my time getting ready and preparing my surroundings for their arrival and they didn't show up well that's fine make sure you don't go through it again that's all. and that's just the way it is at least you got 20.
  10. 1 point
    Oh boy. I am so excited to dissect all of this. 1. You have unfortunately focused on the negative point. I'm only offering truthful advise, and I have nothing but respect ๐Ÿ˜ฎโ€๐Ÿ’จ. Correct. I have absolutely focussed on the negative points because your argument is based in deposits being a risk for clients. Which is a negative concern of booking a provider. your "advice" **** is UNSOLICITED and it isnt actually advise. telling other clients on a forum like this that you "cant get behind" deposits , is not advice. It is your opinion. And might I ask what your opinion is based in? is it based in anecdotal evidence? Is it from your lived experience of being scammed? You do not get to sit here ans claim you have "nothing but respect" when you are sitting here on a forum where YOU get to be anonymous and talk about your explorations with "high end" escorts while simultaneously suggesting that an extremely common business practice (depositing) is NOT a practice you believe sxx workers should be able to utilize. 2.This isn't going to Home depot or a reputable brick and motor business to give a deposit on materials. It is a virtual add, with a virtual deposit. It is intimidating as a client to filter though fake adds on sites like leolist, 95% of them are scams. Boy oh boy! Im excited for this one. First. I think you meant MORTAR not motor. secondly, comparing HUMAN beings offering an intimate service to giving a deposit to home depoit for "materials" is a perfect example of dehumanizing sxx workers. It displays your inability to distinguish the vast differences between procurring sexual services and buying construction materials. Which btw! You would BUY not put a deposit on. I personally rent from home depot often. virtual ad you say? Yes like most of our ads now a days are virtual - on the radio, TV, websites, via social media etc. you pay for deposits for MANY virtually purchased products and I wonder if you have ever made an online purchase- paid in FULL in advance and then waited for shipping..... ?????? most weed dispensaries require a deposit now. many service providers have a deposit or cancellation fee because of the harmful impacts to a business when people NO SHOW. you speak of the level of intimidation in scouring leolist for clients - have you considered the level of intimidation for providers in meeting up with some random man? our risk of murder is substantially higher and more common than you already on the basis of being "women". And the rates are even higher with adult workers because the violence we experience so often goes unchecked. even when we are murdered, you ever heard the term NHI? it refers to cases labelled by law enforcement as NO HUMAN INVOLVED and is frequently used on cases of sexx workers. so while I absolutely hold some level of understanding and compassion for clients regarding their fears - your fears of losing a deposit are nothing compared to the tribulations that sexx workers face. you fear loss of deposit I fear loss of my life. Tryst literally has a document now detailing how to book workers. you could also apply your knowledge and use transferable experience from other businesses youve procurred services from and paid deposits to figure out how to verify if a business is reputable. 95% is also a huge statistic. I could arguably say 95% of clients on there are aggressive, disrespectful and only text "you available" to a dozen workers at once. Id also like to say that maybbbe if men thought a little bit less with their cocks theyd be able to differentiate between a scam and a real genuine human being. 3.There are tons of shit clients, don't get me wrong. Definitely not denying that lol. But there are two sides to every coin, client and SP both need to understand the other point of view. I've already mentioned that I do often consider the perspective of clients and understand the risks associated with procuring services as a client. With that being said I am wondering if you personally have taken the time to familiarize yourself with the legislation around the adult industry and the risks posed to you as a client simply from a legislative standpoint? I would also like to point out that maybe you should consider hopping onto Twitter and seeing the continuous discourse of sex workers from across the globe around screening and deposits. Most SWs absolutely do consider The things that may or may not impact clients and I was such their own business. So since you are saying that we need to consider each other's plans I will once again reiterate the fact that you have concerns of paying a deposit because you're worried about being scammed, I have concerns about being sexually assaulted physically assaulted, stealthed, Pregnancy, PCOS, endometriosis, vaginal tearing, anal fissures, contracting an STI and having to take time off work or having to be on medication for the rest of my life, stalking, being banned from travelling, having my bank account closed, having my children taken from me, being denied or having accounts shutdown on payment processors or websites - these are just a few off the top of my noggin right now but I am sure if we made a ven diagram of all the concerns clients and sex workers have there would be some that are the same... and there woild be MANY on yhe side of workers that are not a concern for clients. Also. understanding the perspective of one another does not mean that you should be advocating against deposits. If you genuinely understood what it was that was behind this phenomenon and respected it you would not be advocating against it you would be sharing your own knowledge around the risks and how to mitigate those risk . 4.You're obviously real, but not all girls asking for deposits have a tag on a forum, or a Twitter to prove they're legit. One. I'm not a girl. For many reasons one because I don't need a man to infantilize me using language used to refer most commonly to females under the age of 18. But also because I am a non-binary provider and not all sex workers are women. If you wanna misgender me at the bare minimum do me the respect of acknowledging that I am an adult human being. Because you don't see us referring to you clients as "boys" And I just wanna point out the concerns I have with suggesting that because somebody is on a forum that that makes them real. Sure this is one of many places that I exist on the Internet. And you could verify of myriad of other places that I just on the Internet I'm also a face out provider and if you've been paying attention at all recently there are also a lot of fake Twitter's. And many workers have been calling out those pages and also providing clients with a number of different ways to verify that somebody is legitimate such as reverse image search. Searching up their name and seeing what pops up and not just within the first couple pages but doing a deep depth research of the business that you're contacting. 5. Please don't attack me based on my input. I felt my reply would offer valuable insight. your reply literally only said that you cannot get behind deposits I'm unsure what you think is valuable in terms of this or how it is insight when it is merely just your opinion that you are sharing with other prospective clients this is no way helps you other clients or sex workers genuinely find a happy medium of comfort when it comes to the booking process. And you might wanna consider looking into what rejection sensitivity is if you think that I am attacking you. I'm sharing my perspective as a worker who has been in this industry for nearly all of my adult life and for nearly a decade. And I'm calling into question the perspective of an anonymous man on a forum who is telling other men on a forum that they can't get behind adult workers requiring a deposit. 6. I understand this is a sensitive subject. I do not condone violence or disrespect on any level, especially SPs. Just wanted to point out this paragraph doesn't make sense I think he meant to say especially towards SPs. Regardless once again you sitting here on anonymous account telling other men to not provide deposits because you can't get behind it and because there's scammers out there is absolutely direct violence towards sex workers because you are literally sitting here undermining hundreds of workers efforts over the years to acquire deposits now that we have the ability to do so. Yes our safety is absolutely a sensitive subject considering the rates in which we are violently harmed including murdered. And part of our safety protocols includes screening and deposits and it's absolutely a privilege to be able to ask for those things. As a final note -- I regularly see high end SPs when they travel to Winnipeg. I have formed many great relationships with them, and all of which had met me with no depoit due to my referrals. They know I'll show up, pay, treat them well and respect them, all by using the referral system. I just want you to consider how often you may have been referred to some sort of product or business or experience and how the experience of somebody else may not be the experience that you have. And that is why over the last several years providers have begun to reject the referral system due to the fact that you can have an amazing experience with one provider and a horrible experience with another as a client in the same could be said about workers. It is also a classic tactic of abusers to create a support system around them of other reputable individuals that trust and believe in them and will absolutely stand up for their reputation of being a good person it's classic abuser behavior. And we have absolutely seen it with clients who will treat certain providers with the upmost respect and then proceed to treat other workers in disgustingly violent violent manners. And there have been dozens and dozens of cases of workers having a referral for a client and the client becoming violent or not paying or causing harm and some other way. Which is why screening with referral only is almost just as dangerous as seeing a client with absolutely no screening information. There have been so many instances where providers have been angry that their clients asked them for a referral and have lied to other workers either telling them they were terrible clients or telling them that a client was amazing even though that client repeatedly caused them harm. and I would be delighted to know the names of these high-end providers that you are claiming do not require deposits. Since you are sitting here telling people that they shouldn't deposit you should probably consider sharing the providers that don't require deposits and that screen in a way that is comfortable for you and possibly other clients. so to reiterate. Your initial post was not helpful whatsoever. It directly contradicts the current discourse in the community globally and is coming from an anonymous account from a male client, directed to other male clients. and I just want to make an honourable mention: rest in peace to Marilynne Levesque 23 year old women from Quebec who was working at a spa and was seeing a client there who then offered to book a hotel to see her so she could acquire all of the rate and not provide the spa with a cut. This client was out on parole for having violently murdered his ex girlfriend. He brutally murdered her with a hammer and then wrote slurs such as whore across her apartment walls in her blood before he walked himself to the police station and turned himself in. His parole officer allowed him access to a spa so that he would not be as likely to target "the general public". This is a perfect example of how even if you have a "referral" or have met someone in a BRICK AND MORTAR space , that doesnt make them safe. And that goes both ways. At this point I have nothing left to say to you lt any other individual who would like to sit here and try and rationalize advocatinf against business practices sex workers have implemented to protect themselves, but also to legitimize sex work as we continue to advocate for our humans and labour rights in an era where average Americans have been denied access to life saving medical care and body autonomy. I can guarantee you the violence you fear you might experience as a client is absolutely nothing compared to the violence experienced by women on a daily basis and is nothing compared to the violence sex workers experience. Also I wonder... does saying you book "high end" escorts make you feel better about paying for sex? Or was it just inserted so that you could suggest that "there are high end sps doing this!" obviously there are. and I myself have waived deposits so that I could make income to pay my bills, feed and house myself... and 9/10 those people no/show. and 1/10 those humans are lovely anazing AND were willing to pay me a higher rate because they werent depositing. but deposits are screening for me. and my right to safety and security as work and as a human being absolutely take precedence over your desire for anonymity or concerns of being scammed. And with that, I doubt you and I will ever connect. And not that I would know or could stop you from contacting me - but I am NOT interested in seeing you as a client BECAUSE of your original post advocating against deposits. And your subsequent reply where you have absolutely centred yourself. have the very best of times in your search for connection and companionship. i hope you have the life you deserve and I will not be affording you any further unpaid emotional or physical labour in the form of a digital reply. have the day you deserve๐ŸŒŸ
  11. 1 point
    In my experience: some dudes are fantasy bookers. Some get off on wasting our time. Literally knowing we are expecting them and knowing theyve wasted our time. especially true for instances where theres no deposit (Which is why deposits are becoming ever more common) some are scared. And get cold feet. some are messaging multiple providers and seeing who responds with the lower rates regardless THIS is why I implemented a deposit especially when travelling
  12. 1 point
    This is why I do deposits for all new clients and all outcalls... No exceptions. Other providers, people looking after them (usually visiting ones) or even anti sex work groups may try to submit fake bookings to discourage you. And when they try to pull the "I'm afraid of being scammed thing" I say do your research and learn about the many reputable providers in our area. You don't get a great reputation, great reviews by scamming people.
  13. 1 point
    I can confirm this happens often. Some will message, set up appointments, ghost and will text a week later and try to book again acting as though nothing happened. I have recommendations here and still have a hard time with asking for deposits. This is why itโ€™s difficult for me to host as getting accommodation and not having clients show is not only frustrating but often costs SPs. I have reached out to other SPs to discuss potential scammers, no show clients or even dangerous clients; SPs here seem weary to work together.
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