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Sorry to hear that happened to you my friend. I wouldn't just throw in the towel because of a shaky start... Who begins a process as an expert? Everyone has to learn. What I do if I'm ever dealing with an SP that is new to me, is , I have a set list of questions that I put to them They address my main queries and concerns: Location, Rates, Restrictions, Extras, Specials, etc. Over the years, I have obviously tweaked my list according to many different factors, (SP feedback, relevant information, pandemic, etc) I just keep this list as a template saved in my notepad on my phone and copy and paste it when texting a new SP It's simple, comprehensive, and with the template, I know I haven't left anything out. Do your research. Think of your expectations what you would like out of a session. Read reviews Go for verified SPs Try to keep your questions brief and to the point SPs get inundated with queries and don't have time to deal with an excessive barrage of questions They will quickly ghost you. I hope my suggestion works for you

nope still looking. have to hit toronto i guess. there are some seriously hot ones working in hrm , mostly fast food places can someone start handing them lyla.com business cards so they check it and find out there’s a way to earn some extra $$ ?!?

Yep, what annapolis said. Could be anything from ghosting to her getting a bad vibe and all sorts of things in between. At this point in my experience, I just say okey doke and move onward. Btw, this rarely, if ever, happens with the well known and reviewed professional ladies. When we, as potential clients take the time to introduce ourselves properly and give her a good impression with our first text, she will respond and even if not available will just say sorry, all booked or something. I find the good escorts always appreciate a gentleman who makes an honest effort at communicating and they will ignore the fools who text the lame shit like "whatsup" or the classic "u avail?" Not that you are that guy OP. Just pointing out all the things that can play a factor. Good luck to you down the road, buddy.

There are so many possibilities , the mind boggles. The phone lost power and she cannot respond. She "lost " her contacts and text messages. She got a "better" offer. She is overbooked and you were bumped (the airline excuse). She left town in a hurry (for whatever a reason). She got tired of interminable text messages with you trying to "close the deal". She saw the light and left the industry. Maybe she is just "unprofessional" .Maybe you texted statements to her she found objectionable. Maybe she was a "scam". And then the darker ones I won't get into . I can think of other reasons but will let the community here weigh in. Could be a fun challenge. I find questions like this on this forum always a great read when folks post their opinion. Perhaps it was for the best. It certainly was not meant to be .

Threatening calls and texts from a number in California. Just a word of advice, they're fishing. They don't know where you live, or anything else for that matter. My call took place on Jan 15th. I blocked them immediately and then they sent threatening texts. Only discovered the texts when I was going through my deleted and blocked folder and decided it might help some of you in here. Apparently the hitmen were already lurking around my house, yet I am a still here. Go figure.

I like all the replies posted so far.....But why is it "ok" for them to ghost us...they could send a quick text OR next day send a text "hello" & if you respond They Should Explain or Apoligize for ghosting a client!! If you don't inundated with queries It's the least they could do!! If we ghost them they have a Discussion Section for them only....where it can be posted "name" ghosted me.....

I know Ada and I cuddle she is Asian with limited English I recomend you look her up in recomendations

If I'm not mistaken this happens every year with them. Hopefully they're back and up running in a day or so.

I had a chance to have a visit with Nina, A very pretty young lady, could she be our 2024 Rookie of the year? She has another job and can be busy. Send her a text, she'll reply. Sure didn't have to watch no clock. A great incall location! PM if more info needed.

Why not just tell all of us

Met Yoyo last week. She was polite and beautiful.

the anxiety is normal at first . But if you’re going to do this and then go home and stress and have anxiety then it might not be worth it. no matter what anyone tells you there is always a risk. You just need to be smart about it. Avoid ads talking about “partying” and “party treats”. Always use protection . If the girl ever offers bareback for more money, then she’s offering it to everyone. ALWAYS trust your intuition. I’ve gotten to a few rooms and turned around and walked back out. Don’t be afraid to do this. Read reviews, do your due diligence & you will be fine. I like to think that the vast majority of us, both worker and client take measures to make it as safe as possible. Nobody wants a life changing illness for 10 minutes of pleasure or a couple hundred bucks. by following these safety measures you’re eliminating 99.99% of the risk. I have hobbied all over the world from the Maritimes to Montreal to Europe and to Thailand. I’ve spent an insane amount of money hobbying - haven’t caught a thing.

Yeah, having chatted with quite a few of the ladies, they just get inundated by so many questions sometimes and just get frustrated by it. They have so many guys asking things. I can usually tell by reading their ad where they stand on safety and again, the reputable ladies in the biz value their safety and ours so it's rarely worth worrying too much about. I do understand your nervousness though. We've all been there but forums like this can help you to feel at ease and safe. It's why we all have to try to help each other. It keeps us all safe and able to just enjoy ourselves.

Thank you for your opinions. I'm only beginning to see how things are going in this business. I also have to learn to think like you peacetryguy. I've already been cancelled by an SP for asking questions about safety and how it works (I'm always polite and never do lame text). She said she didn't have to convince me and she was not interested. I think some SPs have too many clients to choose from to try to appease those who are new and still too anxious. Hahaha I didn't have the courage to try again after that. But now I'll try to move onward too. I wish you all health and prosperity.

This gunna be long, so buckle up, lol. (Summarization is not my strong suit :D) Personally, it's my opinion that sex work, on its own, is morally neutral. We know that sex is a normal and natural human behaviour. Humans are wired for connection and are naturally drawn towards physical contact with others. The reasons to purchase sexual services varies from patron to patron. Things like; stress relief, kink exploration, human contact, engaging conversation, and "mental vacation" are just some of the reasons I've heard. If there are people who are willing to provide a supply for the demand, that's not inherently exploitative just on its own. (From a worker's standpoint, I felt far more exploited while employed by a cafe for just above minimum wage than I do in sex work where I set my own rates and hours.) I would argue that while sex and human contact can have a therapeutic benefit, it is a far cry from an actual form of therapy. The key difference here being that therapy has a mindfully structured and goal-oriented treatment protocol that aligns with specific methodologies. I would encourage people to do away with the idea that sex workers are therapists. (Even if a sex worker is certified in the field, they may be a therapist, but they not your therapist.) To quote a fellow sex worker on this: We are twice as expensive and half as qualified. As far as sex addiction goes, there's a mounting body of evidence that suggests it doesn't actually exist. At least, not in the way people think. This is because "sex addiction" fails to activate the same parts of the brain that typical addictions do. It does not appear in the DSM-5 as a diagnosable mental health condition. An interesting fact is that, on average, self proclaimed "sex addicts" do not engage in sexual activities (intercourse/masturbation) more than the general population. The difference here is the internalized shame that "sex addicts" themselves have attached to the specific activity. That shame is often rooted in religious ideology that has been taught to them about sex throughout the duration of their lives. Alternatively, shame can come just from the moral code of your environmental setting as well. One of the growing pains of the present time is that our society still has a lot of contradictory views around sex and around the morality of how we engage with sex. These views are mostly left over from a more puritanical time. It really wasn't that long ago that even divorce was a whispered subject and children born out of wedlock were widely considered as products of sin. That's not to say that sexual activity can't become problematic. There are many people that engage in sex and masturbation to the point that it does interfere with their day to day life. This is more effectively treated as a symptom of a larger issue, rather than the primary issue itself. It can also be viewed as a compulsive behaviour. The importance of distinguishing between this and a true addiction is that the treatment procedures for addiction vs. lack of impulse control look very different. As far as trafficking goes, you'd be hard pressed to find someone who doesn't agree that it's a tragic evil. The fallacy with your thinking here though is that labour trafficking exists across nearly every sector. I would not say that there are good reasons to see farming, fishing, or hospitality as "evil" industries because of the trafficking that is rampant within them. Labour rights and legal policies that offer protections based in human rights are essential in actually combatting all forms of trafficking. I won't get into the "legal and regulated", because I've already written a novel here, but there is a reason sex workers advocate for a decriminalized legal framework. Legalization models sound great on paper but are often counterintuitive and only cause further harm.

Exactly what happen to @alohan happened to me many years ago. Here is the sad thing, she replied the following week with something in the line of "I'm available in your town this week sweetheart...you can text me back and we can f*ck anytime you want". That's when I was in the pool and my wife heard the phone vibrate and picked up to see who it was. That was a tough one to get out of. When I told her that she had the wrong number, she kept telling me that I could only have sex if I was paying for it, etc... My wife was reading all of this when this was happening.