Saying that I could exchange places with a sexworker from a poorer country to see what they go through is ridiculous and a poor attempt at shutting me down.
There will always be someone worse off and it does not invalidate a person's struggles.
I could say similar to the clients who complain including you.
We are in Canada and are discussing issues we face HERE.
If my prices are too high, why would someone book me to begin with only to cancel?
To teach me a lesson?
Just don't fucking book me then.
When I tour, say Mississauga for 2 and 1/2 days, my expenses can reach over $1500.
A few one hour cancelations or 2 hour, 3 hour, even overnight cancelations can be detrimental to my profit ESPECIALLY without deposits.
Yes, I can move onto the next client but that time slot is now gone.
You can refuse to acknowledge this and be purposefully ignorant, but it doesn't change the truth.
During my last Ottawa trip, my duo partner had an overnight booking cancel just 30 minutes prior to the booked time.
It was awful.
You say to just block or blacklist a no show right?
Let me guess though since you mention anonymity... you disagree with SWs requiring real numbers and not text apps?
So please tell me how we block a text app when the person can just create another?
Unless we don't accept text apps, we have no recourse to block bad clients or no shows.
When I work in Kingston, I take one client per day, so YES, a no show is a terrible thing.
I spend at least two hours preparing, showering, doing my hair and makeup for my clients and for what when a no show happens?
It is wasted time and income.
And YES, I am constantly having to turn away bookings for my already booked client whether you want to believe it or not.
I DO have acceptable rates and provide excellent services with going the extra mile, so whatever you are implying is BS.
I'm sure the "part-time drama queen" was directed at me.
How many hours per day I do this makes me no less of a sexworker that others are.
Clients who react the way you did when sexworkers join in conversations regarding this line of work are red flags.
It is your fault and it is why Kingston lacks new talent.
If Kingston was a hotbed of great clients, you guys wouldn't be wondering why this and why that.
The person who liked your post is a complete timewaster who has texted me multiple times to book (and I reply, we speak and try to figure out a date and time) only to text me a day later and brag about how he ended up seeing another lady and how great it was, so he can't afford to see me anymore.
I began to wonder if he was even a real client.
(And the beautiful ladies in question have higher rates than me)