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No one should get scammed if they do proper research. https://www.lyla.ch/topic/214084-how-to-screen-an-indépendant/

I've been thinking about this. Very sad after all this time we’re blinded to the benefits of this industry. It's because of the laws that the screening burden increases. The moral high ground is being held by politicians, politicians who are in many cases jealous women and wives who see companions as a personal threat, and men and husbands who are only voting no because their wives are watching, white-knuckling through the vote and clearing their browser history the moment they get home. SMH. They make laws to eliminate one of the world's oldest professions, claiming the moral high ground, putting an end to trafficking and exploitation, protecting women. Giving themselves pats on the back and congratulations on the clarity of it all. All while making the very thing they're trying to prevent worse and unnecessarily more dangerous. Denying a basic human need doesn't make it disappear, it just manifests in likely more violent ways. Good grief. The oldest of human desires, connection, touch, intimacy, they don't go away because of a law. As a result screening becomes more stringent, companions have less protection and fewer avenues for recourse. It becomes much more important to know who is coming through the door. THE LAWS MADE THE COMPANION HER OWN LAST LINE OF DEFENCE, RESPONSIBLE FORHER OWN SURVIVAL. There is little talk of the good. I was depressed for years. Clinical settings didn't do it for me. Medication, talking about feelings, no dice. Then one day, from this very site, BAM! Now we're talking gym, diet, reading, appearance, and not to be outdone, fewer vices. This "hobbyist" one replaces those ones, and I think that's a good thing. Been giving myself, you know, all of the positive self care routine. Now that is making a positive change on health care costs for society as a whole, by leaps and bounds. Too bad they wouldn't look at it in terms of societal benefits. I'm proof, and I'm sure there are millions of others. People should be able to charge this shit to Blue Cross and Sun Life for crying out loud. They could look at it in terms of tax revenue, it's a big industry. They did it with cannabis. It would create well paying jobs, though I believe there are very few people who can successfully pull this off, given the emotional intelligence required to be successful. Well spoken, well educated, professional. Able to compartmentalize two lives, deal with clients, uphold boundaries without stepping on toes, very talented human beings. Very pretty. So yeah, all that rambling, I think the laws cause the screening. Please continue to screen, it's reprehensible for people to want to partake anonymously. Shame on those with the inability to put themselves in the shoes of another. 200 plus ponders coming to see hundred and nothing pound angels….anonymously wtf. If you are short on time, apologies if you read this. If you're a companion you will not be compensated for your time reading this, you embarked on this read yourself. I'm bored apparently, but if you're reading this, I am not alone.

No one is entitled to a SWER’s time. If someone isn’t comfortable with an escort who screens, has clear boundaries and remains selective, then they were simply never her target client. And just because you consider yourself a good client doesn’t necessarily mean you are a good client for her. A good client for her is someone who does not question her limits or her screening process. Not all money is good money, and I think it’s positive to see more and more SWERs able to prioritize their safety and their standards. Being selective is a luxury and unfortunately it’s not a reality for everyone in this industry. But those who can do it are also helping normalize healthier boundaries. I also think it’s powerful to see women able to choose, to be free in how they work and to decide what is right for them. Our freedom and autonomy should never be negotiable. No one has control over our choices, our limits or how we choose to manage our careers. We also shouldn’t be afraid to be firm in our boundaries out of fear of blackmail, pressure or fake bad reviews. Setting clear limits from the start isn’t being difficult, it’s simply respecting yourself and protecting your safety. The more we normalize screening, freedom of choice and respect for boundaries, the healthier this industry becomes for everyone.

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There's that ONE time that everyone here likes to bring up from a few years ago; a man that we HAD to identify between us sps, who had used fake aliases for screening with at least 10 girls, then written reviews on a number of sps who claimed to have never met him because he lied about who he was. He tried to use multiple girls as references who had claimed to have never met him, hence how a conversation was even started between us sps He also got wrong info from here and was pretending he knew things about sps - leading to safety issues when someone thinks they're paying for something that was never actually on the table, because they discussed things in the DMs here and assumed, rather than discuss with the sp he was booking 🤦 We couldn't know who we were meeting and the situation raised security issues for a number of us. It took 10 - 15 of us sps chatting and screening to sort out who tf this was. So yes, I'll keep to knowing who's visiting my location, thanks. If anything happens, I need to know who you are Tbh with how some men discuss us and circulate our info behind the scenes here, I wouldn't expect any sp to not thoroughly screen, especially lyla members. I've had a stranger describe my entire incall apartment to me - thanks to the pm system 🙄 Screening isn't some new protocol, it's been around for my entire career, but the newer ID screening here came about from necessity, which you can actually thank a prolific poster on lyla for 👀

Walk away from this one unfortunately. None of this should be negotiated this close to the appointment. Don't beat yourself up about it either. I walked away from an appointment when I was in the room with the SP because she changed the agreed upon service. Some of these scams will use the heightened emotional state your in to make unreasonable demands or changes knowing that you most likely not in the frame of mind to make good decisions. When you are pressured like this, walk away.

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I’m getting a reply from this SP, but I have some concerns. I’ve noticed multiple ads from the same account, which is making me think twice.

Stop turning every thread into your soapbox. You do your thing and let others do what they want. Every thread doesn't need to be the same tired discussion over and over again. No one wins that way.

This is a pretty good take I think. The key being the lack of reviews or presence here combined with those things seems to always mean either trouble or scam.

Yeah I usually find party friendly a red flag for me as well. You're 100% correct in what you assume party friendly is. I would say most often ❄️ but could be other stuff as well

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I was fortunate enough to see Tara again last year. She is still a very beautiful lady and certainly got my heart rate up. I always enjoy my time with her.

I just want to clarify something. Here, we often see members say they won’t see an escort who screens or who has strict boundaries. It’s fine to have preferences. But we also need to be aware of the impact that kind of discourse can have. When new girls in the industry constantly read that screening drives clients away or that too many boundaries are a “turn off,” it can create pressure. Especially for those who need money quickly. It can push them to lower their standards, screen less or accept things they don’t really want to accept. And that can become dangerous. For their safety and for their mental health. If I’m speaking about this, It’s because this is a reality most of us have experienced at one point or another. I’m speaking here for the safety of women in this industry and to normalize having strong boundaries without fear of pressure, retaliation or coercion.

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And interestingly enough, they don't make true crime docs about any of the above .. But they do about what happens to sps Sounds like we're not actually asking too much considering we risk our lives to meet strange men Clearly, even if we find clients in a reputable place like this, it's doesn't mean that we'll automatically be treated with respect People tend to act more respectfully when they leave a trail vs anonymous

Just getting silly now. The amount of things you have to identify yourself for in society. Rent apartment rent car airbnb ride share new patient gym membership on and on and on Deny their personal safety all you want, it’s real. There is no profession more justified in finding out who the hell they’re seeing. And for deposits, I’ve shown hundreds of apartments in a past life , every time there is more no shows than people that show. No shows are a colossal waste of time

I have met with Mia several times. She is a very sweet person and provides incredible service. She does travel a lot, so best to try to plan ahead and give her some time to reply. I will definitely see her again :)

That's the lolz 😂 Whole ID verification is only done by a handful of sps, and for some of us it's situational, not standard I still verify who you are, but I don't usually need your ID card to do that, in the age of the internet My kind of clientele want me to be comfortable anyways, knowing that a happy and safe feeling provider is going to give them the best experience. They don't hassle me about screening because they understand why we do it, and want me to be comfortable, not on edge, when meeting a stranger ❤️

I'll never understand why the prospect of screening is so hard for guys to stomach. These women are bringing strange men into their lives on a daily basis. If it were me I would want to know who the hell I'm sharing my bed with. And let's be honest, as a guy, the same doesn't apply to us. We don't care who the girl is beyond, are they attractive and will they perform the acts I want them to perform. So give the whole "the sp should provide id also" argument a rest. The risk is almost all on the sp in these encounters. If your biggest fear in this hobby is being "outed" maybe don't engage in these activities to start. Protect the safety of these girls and appreciate the service they provide. If you don't like the game, don't play.

Safety and supply demand. There is not much in higher demand than companion time. There is a lot of supply of hobbyist. All the reputable providers have more or less the same requirements protocols/booking requirements, it’s a simple form. You’re just thinning the heard so to speak if you can’t grasp it, so thank you for that. I appreciate that many have trouble with the protocols if it gives an edge to this old man. Nobody irl gives a shit what my name is and if I’ve seen a companion. real name is Mike btw, please don’t out me

When was the last time one of us hobbyists from this board was outed? Over the past numbers of months at least a half dozen times I’ve read posts in which the providers incall location was posted. I’ll continue to trust those providers who screen. You can continue to choose those who don’t. It’s called choice. No one is arguing that. Yet the implications that our id or other information is compromised in the hands of a reputable provider has to stop and before Steve comes at me again to call me me a simp or that I’m hoping to get free pussy. Let me say that I am here because I enjoy hiring beautiful women and paying for their time. Maybe Steve should do that more and stop watching so many Andrew Tate videos

Screening has been standard since at least 2014 🙄 You're going to limit yourself to certain providers, or maybe yfl if you're unwilling to screen No town is too small for sps to use measures that help keep them safe and alive ❤️

I find it all depends on your approach. Most won't answer if you are using a text app. Or if you are looking for short notice appointments. Or if you're not using full sentences. Try a good introduction, like this: Hi, ____ , how are you doing today? My name is YOUR REAL NAME and I saw your ad on Lyla today. I'm wondering if we can meet for 90 minutes on Feb 27 in Halifax at 4:00pm for an incall appointment? I can send ID and a deposit if necessary. Hope to see you soon, thanks. Not saying it's foolproof, but it's been working for me.

Dear providers & clients , I am here today to ask for your cooperation and support. As a provider , I am struggling to find a platform that is not only friendly to Sw , but also affordable. Lyla was once , not only the most popular board , but also the most positive place to share & connect. Since it died , what do we have ? We had Backpage , average affordable, but adds were flagged and scammers started ruining it for everyone. We had Kijiji that was not very sw friendly or popular. We have Terb , pricy and it became extremely hard to even post for providers without being flagged for self advertising or banned. I myself got banned. Twitter that turned to X and banned providers hard work promoting with over 10-20-50k Followers. I got my account banned , like so many other hard working providers. We got Tryst that is slowly starting to be somewhat kind of popular. But again , they take a our money to advertise. We got OIC , Bloom ect .. and …. We got here on Lyla [ FREE , SAFE ,SW FRIENDLY & already established ] If clients are browsing & providers posting , it will get alive again. So I am asking everyone to give it a chance. If you are a provider , please post …Start threads and support your peers. If you are a client , please scroll and see what’s offered here. Participate to conversations and be positive. It is great for new providers that are starting because this platform is full of information and resources. It is great for providers that will be posting here instead of paying ridiculous amount of money to other platforms taking advantage of their popularity. Let’s migrate to a better place. Let’s make it strong and revive our Lyla together. Thanks for your support. Kisses Ali

I did meet her last friday. Give her a deposit and did meet her ! Service was great !

I have never done one of these before so I 'll just cut to the chase... I first came across Tara while casually browsing LeoList, and decided after much deliberation (all of 5 seconds) to contact her. Her website is extremely well-laid out and super easy to use. The contact form is well laid out and easy to follow. Within minutes, I had an e-mail response... Some e-mails later, I showed up, a half-hour late due to the finicky nature of public transit, at her in-call location, which was extremely clean and very tastefully furnished (at least to my untrained eye). She didn't seem to care too much, hugging me after closing the door and sitting down , we chatted for a while and if felt like I had known her for years. I then showered and the fun started! Looks: GORGEOUS with beautiful green eyes, and is curvy in all the right places, with a stunning, natural 34DDD bust. After I showered, I went into the bedroom and then the real fun started! She is an excellent kisser and I was very quickly matching her rhythm, A warning gents, she loves to talk dirty and definitely has a wild streak! I have very mild Cerebral Palsy, but she did not seem to mind at all and adapted to my needs superbly! Overall, I cannot recommend her highly enough, I will definitely be seeing her again! Note: she may require a deposit. dmav522