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Legalization wouldn’t necessarily make us safer. It usually just means more regulation, licensing, and government control over our work and identities. What many of us actually support is decriminalization, not legalization. They’re two very different things. I’d suggest looking into the difference. Here’s a start: https://www.instagram.com/p/C_zdei5puVp/?img_index=9&igsh=MTd3cDcycG92bm1sdA==

Money doesn’t buy consent. You’re paying for her time, not guaranteed acts. If she decides certain services aren’t happening, or even chooses to end the session early, that’s her right. Comparing a human interaction to ordering a cheeseburger is exactly the kind of mindset that misses the point entirely.

My wife decided that she doesn’t like sex anymore and if we do have sex she has a “just get it over” attitude being with a service provider allows me to fulfil fantasies and satisfy my sexual desires as well as have someone to go to that I can forget my problems with for awhile

It's not that your wrong, it's that the reason they won't is founded on experience. Hence why legalization and regulation would put an end to these shenanigans for the most part. This would protect both sides, the vendor and the customer.

I personally got into seeing service providers after a nasty divorce…The ex wife was a narcissist and treated me extremely poorly let’s just say without getting into too many grim details. It truly helped me regain my worth and self esteem again (as I truly felt like a king after a few great encounters) I fully was able to finally heal from that awful marriage and truly get over her! 🙂

I find it all depends on your approach. Most won't answer if you are using a text app. Or if you are looking for short notice appointments. Or if you're not using full sentences. Try a good introduction, like this: Hi, ____ , how are you doing today? My name is YOUR REAL NAME and I saw your ad on Lyla today. I'm wondering if we can meet for 90 minutes on Feb 27 in Halifax at 4:00pm for an incall appointment? I can send ID and a deposit if necessary. Hope to see you soon, thanks. Not saying it's foolproof, but it's been working for me.

Any words from anyone else? Thanks