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That is what most of the ladies tell me they do. When it slows down and they need more work the price drops and when they get too much the increase prices. (Supply and demand?)
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True! Maybe I should have borrowed this logo for the elite
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Yes Dreamer, they are people too. I could not agree with you more. The problem is many of them are not doing this willingly (That is the BIG difference). When you pick one up are you taking advantage of her circumstance and exploiting her? No matter how you justify it if she is in a bad situation / circumstance and is not streetwalking because she wants to be than you are taking advantage of that person (another human being). Exceptions do exist (as I already stated) but most of the women on the street are not in a good place and from a brief sexual encounter do you really know? Cap: any lady who works on the street and goes out and buys a computer is the exception to the rule - and chances are she is looking for a better lifestyle and is improving her situation. I would welcome anyone like that to the site with open arms as I am sure most of our members would. Most of the time the money goes to things like pimps and drugs when you are dealing with streetwalkers. Most have very poor living conditions (sometimes homeless). I grew up in Toronto and maybe it's a little different in Ottawa but I do visit Ottawa often and from what I have seen it does not look much different. You see the women on the streets and a block or two away you see the pimps. I have a friend who lives right down in the bad area of Ottawa and tells me some pretty nasty stuff. I really wish this was the case and I am sure some of the SP's who now have computers and even members here may have once been working on the street and found a way to make a better life for themselves. A handful of ladies have told me they started on the street and hated it but were able to escape the streets and make a better life for themselves (but again - it's the exception to the rule). Most of them say that they were lucky to escape the streets when they tell this story. As for not discussing streetwalkers on the site I think the ladies who are members here don't want to see posts encouraging guys to go pay 30.00 for a bj - in fact a previous very popular thread causes a LARGE number of the ladies to PM me in distaste that I was allowing that thread. I let it go as it was 3 pages long before I even read it and it looked like you were all helping a lady who was looking for a way out (and you did). You guys want a SP friendly site where the ladies are comfortable and where they can come and join the discussions with you. I am working hard to make that work for you all and having this topic on the site is not going to help but will hinder these efforts. Obviously it is a controvercial issue and we do not all agree - I don't expect everyone to agree with me. In fact I would not be needed here if everyone agreed with me. I am just looking out for what I beleive is in the best interest of the website and online community. I have been asked a number of times to put a section in for streetwalkers and I said no every time as I would personally feel horrible for encouraging street level prostitution. I have heard first hand horror stories for over 20 years from ladies who worked on the streets. None of those stories are ever good and they are all filled with pain and heartache. Everything from underage runaways being forced to do crack so that they would become addicted and work for the pimps to murders because of very unsafe environments to hiv/std/sti horror stories where they no longer cared about anything except the next hit. No one has every said to me "they wanted to work as a streetwalker" or "they liked working on the streets" all I ever hear is how horrible it is. I can't help promote that, I am sorry to everyone who disagrees. They are people (same as you and I) and they deserve better - I agree 100% with that and if someone asked for help to get off the street I would voluntarily help them in a heart beat. I also feel that when you pick up a streetwalker and pay her for service that you are not helping her (My opinion of course) I feel that you are in fact doing the very opposite (Again this would not be 100% of the time as exceptions do happen but not enough to justify this as helping someone as you are really only helping yourself and taking advantage of another human being's bad situation). Again.. I do know some of you disagree and I can accept that. JustJack & WrinkledIntime: walk on egg shells? All I ask is that you do not post anything "Negative" on the site. Don't fight, slander anyone, bash anyone, etc.. that really should not be too much to ask.
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Keep in mind that most streetwalkers are in a very bad place - no one works the streets because they like to do they? I don't think so. I know every rule has exceptions but I can't see someone hooking because they want to. Most of the streetwalkers are mixed up with drugs & pimps, many are underage girls and most are in a really bad financial situation and by picking them up you really are taking advantage of that. It's not a good life for any of the women and it adds to the already VERY bad stereotypes that plague the escorts/callgirls/courtesans (Like the ladies we have on cerb here). The general public are often not able to differentiate between streetwalkers and escorts (they group them all together) so it causes a horrible stereotype for the legit ladies. Most of the negative stereotypes come from problems with street level prostitution as most of the really bad stuff happens at that level and you will find that most of the stereotypes are very true when you discuss streetwalkers and very opposite when you discuss the legit escorts and SP's that you find online. For heath reasons, You do have a much higher risk of STI/STD infection from having sex or any sexual acts with a streetwalker. Remember her living conditions are probably bad and hygiene and safety are not on the top of the list when you are addicted to heavy drugs. The only think on your mind is your next hit. If that doesn't stop you think about this... if your addicted to drugs and supporting your drug habit with streetwalking are you going to let a little think like a period get in the way of your next fix? (Just something for any of you guys thinking that 80.00 a night is a good deal) As mentioned it is also illegal and highly policed in most cities. Supporting streetwalkers is only helping support the pimps and drug dealers and the negative stereotypes that this industry has to deal with. Most of the time the women never see a penny of the money they make as the pimps take it all. Most of you probably know all this already but maybe it will help you think twice about doing it in the future. I (and many of the members I am sure) would prefer that this site be about escorts/courtesans/callgirls (Not streetwalkers) - technically they are service providers but I sure others feel the way that I do and think it is inappropriate discussion for this site.
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Well, it's not a velor smoking jacket but I added a king's crown and a auto-promotion to anyone who top's 1000 posts. (1000+ Posts)
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Coping! How would you if someone you knew..?
mod replied to Seymour's topic in Ottawa Discussion - Escorts
If it's not going to escalate then I am no longer concerned. Thanks. -
I love Velor! (LOL) You feel like Hugh Hefner!!
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Wow.. you guys could actually bump me out of the top spot. Congratulations Pete. I think people walking around with jackets saying "I posted 1000 times on cerb.ca" or even "CERB ELITE MEMBER" (lol) or something along that nature... would be good advertising for the site in all but... well... we are working on making the industry more acceptable but the public is probably not ready for that yet! ;) Years ago I managed a gentleman's club (Now this may give my identity away to some but I will share)... It was in a smaller town but has a big factory (Car manufacture & all the parts factories that make parts for these cars) and the gentleman's club was 2 minutes from the factory at most. We wanted to do a promotion with t-shirts that the ladies could give out to the customers (That is always a big hit) so we had 1000 shirts printed with the logo (The bar was called "Outskirts" as it was on the outside of town and well - the ladies got out of their skirts so to speak... the slogan on the shirts was "I party with out skirts" and it had a silhouette of a beaver looking up a girls dress (Sounds very tacky and distasteful but honestly - they actually were very tastefully and were on really high quality shirts - but if you looked long enough at the shirt you would figure out what the shirt was all about). The beaver was just a good Canadian symbol! lol... Ok! Tacky stuff like this is a big hit in that business... The ladies would give them out off the stage ... this went on for months and we kept hearing comments come back from the guys. Well it turns out that at least 3 of the factory workers got sent home for wearing the shirts (3 that we heard of - I am sure more of them got in trouble for it that we never heard of) and one guy came in and told us that he was doing physical therapy and the therapist made him leave the office - Told him to go change his shirt and not to wear that shirt back again.... and I am sure a number of guys took the shirts home and got in real shit... anyway... the point to the story (other than it's a funny story) ... something tells me that CERB jackets may not go over well in public yet. (Maybe in a few years! lol)
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If the ladies feel the impact (Business slows down significantly) you will see lower prices but not until it effects them directly - new people enter into the business when the employment rate drops causing more competition.... so the ladies would get hit from two sides (Less guys spending money and more girls working in the same area) Good news is right now business is good for most of the ladies and guys are still spending money for the most part so I don't think your going to see a drop any time soon.
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Five ladies with web address in The Coast
mod replied to boardbrowser's topic in Escort Discussion for Nova Scotia
One by One if that is what it takes. The business does not follow the same rules and conditions that any other business or service does but still people try to compare it to other businesses or try to outline some type of structure to it. It is what it is... a very PERSONAL exchange between people (each exchange with each person will be different and no two visits will be the same - It is way to personal for that to happen and way too many variables - some people will enjoy the time and others will not - If we were all compatible and all had the same likes and dislikes we would not have such a hard time finding a suitable life mate and everyone would probably be monogamous) -
Five ladies with web address in The Coast
mod replied to boardbrowser's topic in Escort Discussion for Nova Scotia
You guys are not going to make friends here is you keep referring to the ladies as meat or any type of tangible item. You can not compare this business to any other business in the world - the ladies are selling a service of companionship. When you find a "Gem at a special value" I would hope you don't take advantage of her and that if you are happy with her service that you tip her appropriately and let her know you appreciate her service. Be assured that as soon as she realizes that she is underpricing (often due to financial situations, new to the business and naive, etc) rest assured the price will go to where it belongs or she would just be too busy to keep up with the demand (and too tired) Quickly the level of service would start to go down as she will get burnt out - she will eventually realize the price needs to go up! If your searching for bargains and deals you should go elsewhere as I will not allow price comments and complaints on cerb. I will also not allow anyone to openly comment in any rude or negative way towards the ladies. Telling someone in this business that they charge too much (no mater what level of service they provide) is considered rude and will not be allowed. Please keep that in mind and be sure you guys don't offend the ladies with your comments - if the ladies flag your post for being rude or negative your account will be suspended (or banned). Just want to let everyone know our policy on these things upfront. -
Coping! How would you if someone you knew..?
mod replied to Seymour's topic in Ottawa Discussion - Escorts
What is wrong with Dreamer asking this? I am not sure why this made you want to jump in with a comment like this here on this thread? Looks to me like a dig at Dreamer? Something going on I should know about?? -
Phone numbers can not be posted on recommendations and asking for the motel she works from is also not permitted to be posted as that is confidential info. The person who made the post may share this info with you in private but Pete says she is a member here Samantha20 (http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=21274) so just PM her or look at her profile for contact info.
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Five ladies with web address in The Coast
mod replied to boardbrowser's topic in Escort Discussion for Nova Scotia
My suggestion is to those who think a ladies price is too high is to move on - find someone that is in your budget and not complain. It is her choice what she charges and asking her to lower the quality of her service for a lower price for you is dumb (and rude) and negative comments about ladies prices are not permitted on cerb as I (and most of the ladies) find this insulting. If a lady actually did this she would be risking her reputation by offering a lower level of service (Mechanical & cold service) to accommodate your price. and the comment about "Toronto Prices" is funny! Toronto has prices from 50.00 to 1000.00+ so making a comment like that is silly! Prices in Halifax should actually be HIGHER than in Toronto because the selection is much LOWER (Supply and Demand). The reason you see high prices is because your selection is limited and the ladies who are in demand can raise prices and stay busy (work with high reputation and quality appointments while being very selective - they raise prices as they do not work off volume). I see people complain cause the selection of ladies is so low but then a few ladies become available offering quality services and now some people are complaining about price. That is crazy! -
Five ladies with web address in The Coast
mod replied to boardbrowser's topic in Escort Discussion for Nova Scotia
Are you affiliated somehow with this agency boardbrowser ?? -
Fun Valerie is on our DNR list (She has asked to not be discussed in public)
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Actually it was in the wrong section but the general Canada discussion is best as it is not specific to any city really.
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Hmm, That could explain some stuff.... but they did manage to get it all back together. This is the third time this month but with all the updates to the hardware I guess we had to expect some problems. A big software update is in beta testing right now so I am sure we will have a few rough days when that is released as well (Probably in March). Murphy's law right. It looks all good now but it does take up to 48 hours for the DNS to resolve so some people may be still having problems (especially outside of Canada) but it should be resolved soon.
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:bddog::bddog: Happy New Years :bddog::bddog:
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I wasn't even thinking "alcohol or drugs" when I read the initial post. I was thinking of porn or toys. LOL... That is a god point however alcohol or drugs are a VERY bad idea (1) they could add to the bad performance ability and (2) many SP's would turn you away if you were noticeably intoxicated. If you are having performance problems Viagra or cialis may be all you need (ask your doctor first however of course).
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A common tip is to look for a lady who is recommended and try to find one that is good with first time clients (certain Sp's have a real skill for this and if you ask around and read some recommendation I am sure you will find those ladies - they are usually older ladies who have been in the business a while and love what they do but occassionally some of the younger ladies are just naturally good at creating chemistry with new clients)... Second you may want to consider a multi-hour booking with this SP as it will give you time to chat and feel more comfort. Look for recommendations of ladies who people have "chemistry" with. These ladies are usually much more capable of creating intamacy and enjoy that part of the experience also.