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we banned the person trying to spread the rumors about being raided. Obviously just trying to cause this business problems.

So true... the format works (not for everyone) The software on the other hand... is actually broke... why we had a hacker issue is because the software is OLD and outdated. The new software that is getting customized right now looks and feels very much the same (I got a sneak peek last month).

Server problems started with the certificate expiring 4 months before it should have. We had all sorts of software issues last week. Migrated the site to a new server now so those issues should be gone

Not hackers this time, at least we do not believe it was. I renewed the certificate that makes the site secure and when I installed it something died on the server and none of the php scripts would execute. We tried to patch it but I think the old server was just patched to many times and outdated. It has been moved to a new server now.

Your first 5 posts are moderated (info is in the RULES & FAQ area)

they will address stuff like this with the new update that is being worked on.

Hi All, I am heading out for vacation on Boxing day for 2 weeks. I will have very limited internet access so I will not be able to upload banners or do much from a remote terminal. I will do what I can and I think the another moderator will be here a little (not sure) and a system admin will also be checking in. If you send me a PM it may be a few weeks before we get back. Our billing department will also be taking 2 weeks off so if you send a payment in it will be processed after January 8th

In the past I have had members here contact me telling me that a lady on this site scammed them in this way. I have confronted the ladies (and banned a number of them because of this) but I have had at least 4 ladies over the years that I can recall that I took their side after confronting them. In two cases it was because the guy was intoxicated and not acting stable. One was because the guy smelled very bad even at a distance and one said the guy was demanding things she was not willing to do. In all cases the guys felt ripped off (and in fairness they were! The ladies should have given back the money and asked them to leave and in the cases of the intoxicated guys maybe give back a portion on the money and kept some for wasting the ladies time showing up drunk). The guys either try to post bad things here to discredit the ladies (Usually sign up on the site specifically to warn others about them) or they pm'd me to complain trying to get the ladies banned from the site or trying to convince me to let them post to warn others. My point, it's not always a scam. It is almost always a scam but not 100% and I will ALWAYS listed to what the lady has to say if she wants to share her side of the story. Guys are not always the best behaved when it comes to this business, most are gentlemen but some are the very opposite and sometimes running away is the best choice... just something to think about.

Hi Folks, the SSL certificate ran out and I missed the email so you may have received a SITE NOT SECURE warning. It has been fixed just reload your page and accept the new certificate if it's still giving you the warning.

It's hard to accept posts like this as you created this account today and then posted this as your first and only post here. To close this or remove this thread I am going to need to see some reputable (higher post count) members feedback. Additional comments ... and apparently you now have two accounts. Bucklez27 has logged into cerb using the same computer as Curiousvixen666 so it actually makes you even less credible.

Since this is a growing issue I think it would be acceptable to allow these types of warning posts in the BAIT AND SWITCH area. So... if you show up and the provider baits you into thinking they're offering services and then calls a guy in with a big dog to chase you away, runs away or takes your money and locks the door, asks to go to the driver and pay and not return, etc.. etc... (we know all the scams). Well... technically this is robbery and you should inform the police but with BP it is a growing scam and it can be dangerous as usually a guy is involved in the background so you can post that as well in the warnings section, especially for senior members (Members with higher post counts). Now... if you post a warning like this and it turns out to NOT be true and your just trying to discredit a provider... or say you show up drunk/high/mean/smelly/etc... and they ask you to leave with a good reason and you try to get back at them and post lies about them our good members here will let me know and I will ban you from the site permanently for abusing this feature on the site. If it's a valid dangerous encounter, scam or bait and switch you can post it here in the correct WARNINGS forums ONLY.

This is not a dangerous encounter but it is a bait and switch or sorts so at this time I am going to allow these types of warnings however if someone tells me they have had a good experience recently we will removed this post (just in case) the above poster at this time only has 4 posts so he is not credible yet here lets hope this is a legit warning please use your discretion and good judgement.

It's fine to post dangerous encounters (Robbed) and bait and switch encounters (Fake Photos) or even if you show up and the lady baits you into thinking she is offering services and runs away or takes your money and locks the door. Technically this is robbery and you should inform the police but with BP it is a growing scam and it can be dangerous as usually a guy is involved in the background so you can post that as well in the warnings section, especially for senior members (Members with higher post counts). Thing is if others feel you are abusing that area to discredit the lady then you risk loosing your account as I will take the long time members word over a low post count member. If you create an account on lyla with the sole purpose to post and warn you will not be able to do so. The warning area is not available for new member to post in. Please DO NOT pm the mod with what happened. Our job is to uphold the rules on the site not to screen posts we get 100's of pm's a week we do not need stuff like that.

As of today Heidi Van Horny is not on the DNR/DND (Do not recommend or discuss) list here as she has asked that no one discusses, review or recommend her in public.

Looks like the adult section has been replaced with a dating section now.

Due to a law suit in seattle they closed the escort section. http://www.spokesman.com/stories/2017/oct/03/backpagecom-settles-with-3-women-in-sex-traffickin/

Once again I need to remind everyone that ABUSING the features on the site will get you in trouble. Ladies: - Sending UNSOLICITED / SPAM pm's promoting ones self is not permitted, if the guy did not PM you first or your using the pm system to contact past visitors to drum up business that is NOT permitted. Please understand that if you spam our members you will not be able to use the site. - SHOUT BOX rules are 1 visible post with a MINIMUM 6 posts between, double posting cause all your info did not fit in the allotted space is not permitted Guys: - Do not post NEGATIVE comments about ladies, if it's a bait and switch you can post about it but don't abuse that either - No not post telling people how to find negative info (Google her name) for instance or the other board starting with the letter X has lots of info. Everyone: - Don't be a troll. A troll is someone who posts something just to get a rise out of someone or provoke them into fighting with you or posting in anger. - Don't feed the trolls. Simply report them. I will remove the trolls when we identify them Thanks.

You must have "thick skin" to be online these days (especially when you run a service based business)... so many self entitled trolls who wine and cry about everything and simply hide anonymously behind a screen... Unfortunately not enough people who have positive experiences share them but as soon as something happens that someone can bitch and wine about the trolls are all over it and thrive on it. When you jump in and defend yourself it makes those idiots excited that someone is reading the crap they are spewing .... So by commenting you are doing what we like to call "feeding the trolls" this usually ends up worse for the person trying to defend themselves as other trolls will usually jump in too. Please do not feed the trolls.

The ladies should not have to defend comments like this fantasyman, if you think something is SHILL posted (if maybe you had a bad experience and it contradicts all the good stuff) then just bring it to my attention. We have software in place that tracks IP address's and also does some other stuff to make sure this is not happening. For instance we are well aware when two account are using the same computer. For instance Kylie also shares computers with Babygirl4u Sharing with another lady is fine so no harm done. I see no reason why this should be a concern if someone has had a bad experience that obviously contradicts the nice stuff mentioned here simply PM me if you think these are SHILL posts and I will look into the problem. In this case your comment does not appear to be warranted and you could be harming this ladies reputation (even if you did not intend to) and hurting her business. We want the ladies to feel welcome here and when your hostile like this you make it very unwelcoming as well. Lets try to keep that in mind next time please.

Typical case of "One side of the story" I was going to delete this as he closed his account but it's best to let everyone know it was a council member who brought this to my attention he would post a recommendation ad then BUMP it with "another visit" to the same person. When confronted that it looked like a shill when he did this he got all pissy and said it was a legitimate visit (It could have very well been but when your the only one posting on the recommendation thread and you just BUMP it with basically the same info a second time back to back your not doing the lady and justice as it looks like a shill. I told him if he did this again I would just consider it a shill and delete it his reply "Immediately close and purge my account. I shall not be called a liar by you." to me that says "I got busted so I am leaving" since we do not purge accounts I simply removed him. The mod jobs on boards like this is not easy, I dare anyone to try it. When a problem member tells you to just close his account and over reacts to your comments... well it's a good sign we were right. Problem solved.

I have been informed this person is a member here (imthebestbelieveme and previously allygetsyourrocksoff) I am suspending this account as well as too many people are complaining about this person. I am also allowing this thread to stay

You have no posts and are not credible on the site yet. You joined in Feb of 2016 and have not contributed anything to the site either? You obviously know the rules here by now (No negative reviews) and once you build up some reputation you can post in the bait and switch and dangerous encounters area if the report qualifies. I suggest reading the rules here over again and then contributing a little so you have some reputation points and some posts under your belt... this stops people from trying to damage a legit ladies reputation.

Thanks for updating. Glad you figured it out.

Jafo you PM'd me telling me you were having issues that is why I posted this. You did not need to post here. This is to see if anyone else is experiencing the same problems you are. I logged in without issue and WhereIRoam did too so I suspect it may be a setting, plugin, extension, antivirus, etc... causing you to have problems. Any error message or anything? Just a blank page? whats it doing? (That info would be helpful)

Anyone having any issue logging in with google chrome?