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Can a girlfrind these days not be kinky? Not sure why anoyone would assume that... These are terms referring to style (not services) Styles... 1) mecanical (just get the job one, no chemistry, no real fantasy or intimacy beyond getting the deed done) 2) GFE = Girl Friend Experience (friendly, attempt to stir up some chemistry and you can usually expect a more intimate and sexy encounter. Often kissing, touching, flirting. Not a clock watcher or rushed, etc) 3) PSE = Porn Star Experience (basically what you see in the hardcore movies, stuff like dirty talk, harder sex and more will most likely be offered ) 4) dom = Domination (kinky. Chains whips, paddles, etc...) 5) sub = Submissive (will allow somone to domnate her, restrain/tie, whip, spank, etc... May be offered) 6) switch = comfortable as a dom or sub Hope that helps To assume anything more then above will probably cause you problems,

Hi Ladies, probably the same guy again back from last year who was offering ipods to the ladies in exchange for services. I have removed his latest account but if you get a PM from someone trying to trade you services for ipods it most likely is a scam so please flag it.

Shyla is no longer welcome on this site, i find her comments rude and ignorant... Makes me sad that someone working in this profession looks down on it in such a negative way. This business is just as much a job as any other line of work and should be treated and respected as such. If your self employed working as a indie sp or working for an agency or spa you are still generating an income for yourself and should be proud. Like any job if you are unhappy with your work you should explore other options and another llne of work. The term hooker was used here in a negative way to provoke a reaction (and it worked) but we should not let a small minded person like this get under any of our skins (just not worth the reaction). She stupidly lost cerb as a valuable resource and that is going to hit her where it counts! Not much of a job when you piss off all your customers.

GFE = Girl Friend Experience (Does not mean certain services are include nor should be expected) it just means she offers a non mechanical experience (not a "get it done and over with" call) usually kissing but not always. SAFE = Means Covered oral (CBJ as opposed to BBBJ) also it can imply no oral on her without dental dam or other protection (DATY) or other more safe practices are followed (You would want to clarify this with her if you have certain needs). If they DO NOT say SAFE it still means a condom is used for sex... ALWAYS! We do not allow people to seek out BBFS (Unprotected sex) on cerb nor do we allow anyone to advertise it. It is too high risk and people seeking this out puts other members at higher risk. Always assume a condom will be used for sex and never agree to do it without one for everyones safety including your own.

This really only pertains to the cities that currently have a separate MASSAGE announcements (advertising area) The only acceptable advertising in this section is for anyone offering ONLY BODY RUB (NO SEX ACTS INCLUDING ORAL) Anyone offering massage with "sex acts of any kind for extras" must either advertise in the FS section (or) not mention the 'extras' in the ad text.

we got the chatroom back online tonight, sorry for the delay getting it back. the video and audio stream should be improved as well. any issues please let me know.

Still Down. I have to have the company recompile the software as I need to put it on a new server (it is a BIG hassle and could take a few days) but I am working on it and will post when its back up.

Sure you did. Lol...

Yup. Working on it

Yes, of course we can excuse him and I was a little too blunt and not being sensitive. I have a pet peeve when it comes to people who have a serious lack of common sense (for no better term). I know not everyone has common sense but when I read a post like this I really have this urge to smack myself in the forehead and say "oH GoD ReALlY? Someone Just asked that!?" I know CK is amazing at finding the bad apples (Maybe some people think he has some physic abilities or is a escort oracle or something) but common sense does say that it would be crazy to assume that ANYONE not listed on CK's diary would be considered legit. How would that even be possible? Even a newbie should think that question is silly no??

You should text/call her as rates change all the time.

You really asked this? If she is on the Diary something is wrong but CK can't possibly know everything about everyone. ((SHAKING MY HEAD))

I do NOT move posts into the rec area. It is up to the member to either post in the rec area or discussion area. As a new member with only ONE post he would not be able to start a recommendation either (only add to an existing one)... not sure if one exists already or not but I still do not merge these. If someone feels a recommendation is appropriate they can post where it belongs or if they just want to discuss it or let others know the appointment went well without posting a recommendation they can do it here.

FS clubs would be considered illegal (even in quebec where the laws are a lot less enforced) but the Canadian Criminal code still make any place the is used commonly for the purpose of prostitution illegal. We do not discuss anything that is illegal here (and most certainly do not want to be posting address's for these places - you know why? So our members don't get arrested when you TIP off the police of this location - NOT TO MENTION BRINGING UNWANTED ATTENTION TO THIS WEBSITE!) I have not read all the posts here BUT if anyone has posted info on a current operating club and giving the club name or location please FLAG the post for us to EDIT. PLEASE DO NOT POST ADDRESS'S OF THESE CLUBS OR HINTS AT LOCATIONS!

Sorry, you story you are correct. It's been a while since I read the laws but section 212 is only in regards to procuring (being 3rd party to) ... Procuring 212. Every one who procures a person to enter or leave Canada, for the purpose of prostitution Meaning anyone (agent/pimp) acting as a third party. I am sorry for the misinformation above I try very hard to have accurate prostitution law info on this site. I will correct my earlier post as well.

5 post and 5 days min. being a member (No glitch) but if she has a rec already you can add to it. This helps stop fake (SHILL) posts

Plus lots of guys will only see ladies that are "Safe Everything" including CBJ and on the flip side we have seen our share of guys looking for BBFS as well (and we ask them to leave cerb when they seek this out as it puts the entire community more at risk as we all know). I think guys will seek out the lady they like that offers what they are looking for and risk level is probably a big factor for many as well. I have had countless PM's over the years of guys worried about "bringing a sti/std home" it's probably the BIGGEST concern newbies have cause we all know the media over the years has grouped ALL sex workers into one big pile. In my opinion the ladies online that are truly independent are so far from the "stereotype" that it's very unfair that they have to deal with these stereotypes (drugs, std's, high risk, etc...). In my position I can't really give anyone direct advise but I do tell them that educating themselves on risk is important when they ask. For anyone (not only SP's and Clients) anyone who is sexually active is foolish to think 0 risk is involved unless you are monogamous and your significant other is also that way.

And... he left the site. Hopefully this young lady also read these posts and if she becomes a escort on her own free will we can only hope she leaves this guy and takes care of her own finances (and not his).

REMOVED MY COMMENTS AS INFORMATION WAS INCORRECT - It is only illegal is the place you are visiting has anti prostitution laws. - Down South (Hopefully not USA as most of the USA prostitution is illegal)

Yup. Chalk it up to lesson learned and do your homework first (and avoid places like BP/CL/DL/ECT) Also... make sure you do not name them here (even if someone PM's you asking) as this is NOT the website to do such a thing. Once you become a long time member you can report bait and switch (fake photos) and dangerous situations and scams but you need a little more reputation here first (higher post counts)

Yikes... I will let the other members answer you here but can say you should read the criminal code 210-213 and other areas that touch on prostitution laws and living off the avails in particular. If she is doing this to pay your bills as well as hers your very much breaking the law and publicly posting this is not wise.

absolutely no risks?? NOPE! WHOEVER TOLD YOU THIS IS WRONG! It is low risk for the really bad ones (especially for the man) for hiv & hep C (the biggies) but stuff like cold soars or bleeding gums increases the risk as blood to blood transfer is where it happens. Now... Both parties can get herpes (Cold soar or genital herpes), Gonorrhea and hpv (Genital Warts) as Gonorrhea and HPV can all live in a throat or genitals (so both are risk for oral unprotected) ... also low risk (Much less common for oral transmission but possible) are Hepatitis B, Syphilis, Chlamydia and Chancroid Now... herpes is the most common orally transmitted but really it's only contagious when a soar is developing or developed (Blisters showing) and the person who has the soar knows one is developing cause they BURN! so someone would need to be very irresponsible to have unprotected oral sex knowing that a cold soar is starting or a genital outbreak is starting. New antiviral medicine is available to stop outbreaks or shorten them too so really no excuse for passing herpes to another person. The only ZERO risk is abstinence - anyone who tells you different is an idiot. Know the risks, accept the risks and play within your comfort level. Anyone giving BBBJ as a SP should know the risks already... most people see the risks as non fatal STi/STd's that most can be avoided by a quick inspection of the genitals (warts and soars) and not very risky for HepC and HIV so they are willing to offer those services and accept the low risk level.

i should add that asking "who is better" is considered rude. Remember the ladies read the posts here so wording you questions more poliet will get you a lot further (fyi, one of the ladies reported your post and brought this to my attention). This is a sensitive business as your not dealing with a product that you can easily compare to another product or "just a service" as its much more personal than that and unique to each person in speial ways. Always remember your talking about a real person (or persons) so please make sure that you do not offend or hurt anyones feelings. We do not rate the ladies here or discuss negatives.... Just focus on the good stuff. Snce your thinking about one lady here or the other why not ask "who should i see first"

I shut off access to the shoutbox for guests (only registered members) to free up some resources (speed up page loads) but that is all i did.

Yeah, still climbing but if its a dos attack they are not very good at it. I am still monitoring it, keep in mind the stats shown count any user logged in within the last hour (guest, bot/spider and registered member) average was about 3000 per hour so basicly trippled overnight.... Could be new unknown bots/spiders (the system can nly identify what it knows) or could be googles new changes giving us more search engine listings.