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These sites have been around for years but hardly antiquated you just need to actually learn to use them. Maybe I am just getting too old but the laziness of the millennial age and the lack of willingness to focus on something for more then a few minutes is really a bad thing. I get PM's these days from members who have been a member for a few hours complaining that they can not figure out the site! Just brutal. Harley, this info is in the FAQ/RULES area (You did not read that area as I deleted your firs ad and issued a warning cause it did not follow the site rules). I suggest you start reading that as I am pretty sure it has info on linking banners to the site too but just in case it does not.... Please use our banner linking to http://www.lyla.com LINK TO: http://www.lyla.com with this banner * Make sure you link to our front page only please. Or add a TEXT link on the front page (in a VERY visible spot) If you can not add banners on your site please make sure you have at least a text link in a visible area pointing to our front page http://www.lyla.com(Please DO NOT link to other pages of the site for your mandatory link back)

Post daily (2 times a day even as long as they are 12 hours apart) here: Kitchener Escorts - Schedules & announcements You can ALSO place a classified ad here that you can BUMP every day https://www.lyla.com/classifieds/uploadproduct.php?cat=139 For optional paid advertising see this page Advertise Rates

Back when the whole Ashley Maddison thing happened, over 50 people asked to close their Lyla accounts within a week! So we want to give you some tips to avoid your personal information being exposed if a hack like this happens again (we're sure it won't, but just to be safe). NEVER USE YOUR PERSONAL EMAIL ADDRESS FOR SITES SUCH AS LYLA, ASHLEY MADDISON, LEOLIST ETC. If you use your personal email that others know and a site gets hacked like Ashley Maddison did, you're just asking for problems if you don't want people to know what you are up to! We use ALIAS emails here and the only piece of personal information asked for is an email - so make sure you have hobby emails. Servers get hacked! Even MULTI MILLION DOLLAR COMPANIES so please take precautions in case the worse happens.

If you enter your website into the shoutbox as "http://sensualdiscoveries.wix.com/ottawadiscoveries" (Without the quotes) it is not https it is http You got the infraction cause you were previously warned about the the 120 character limit and did the same thing again (If your going to mention this publicly at least put all the details so people don't think the wrong thing)

We are not relaying through gmail, I tried that and it worked for a day. We are using a third party smtp relay company now and most people seam to be getting the emails. check your BULK/SPAM folder please.

Everyone still getting emails? Some people reported lyla.com as sending SPAM EMAIL so the new system in place lets us know when a complaint it made (5 in the last month) SO I AM BANNING ANYONE REPORTING US AS SPAM! This includes marking the emails in your INBOX from this site as SPAM mail as that can sometimes be enough to register a complaint. When you register here WITH your email address you authorize us to send emails so making it as SPAM is unfair to everyone who wishes to receive emails from the site. In your USERCP you can choose to NOT GET NOTIFICATIONS or DO NOT SUBSCRIBE TO THREADS. Please UNCHECK this and remove all your subscriptions if you do not want to get the notifications. Also... if your account has a DEFUNCT or BAD email address it will get BOUNCED (This also effects of rating) when this happens I will lock out your account until you add a valid email but please check to see if your email in your profile is still a valid email.

I switched to a new SMTP provider. The issue is if too many people report the mail as spam these 3rd party SMTP providers just cancel your account without notice. Even when you pay them!! I found another one today, we are going to try it.

Does anyone know how to set up the email so it works? I have tried all sorts of things. I dont have the time right now available to look into this dmarc thing or anything else for that matter.

You should post this in the recommendation area for her then?

I am very glad to see everyone posting here in a positive way on this thread as it had potential to go very bad. I think londoncapers got his answer.

Anyone advertising sexual services you may want to AVOID since it is now illegal. We do not discuss escorts who advertise such things here any longer either.

If you download the PUFFIN browser app for the ipad the chat room works on it. It is a VPN flash capable chat plugin. I do not think the webcam features will work but the chat itself does.

Plus this thread discusses sexual services being offered (this was LEGAL before Dec 2014) but now is NOT LEGAL to discuss here so please be sure if this discussion continues that no sexual services are not referenced as available, hinted/suggested or anyone looking for.

They officially were forced by apple to ban all adult sites... Tapatalk may be going away we will have to wait and see.

Its not that important really, the https (notice the 's') means the page is secure (encrypted between your browser and the site) helps you stay more private. Stuff like the chatroom will not work is a secure https environment but chatroom is in flash so its pretty secure too on its own). Your browser will warn you when you go from secure to non secure. No worries.

Hi Folks, We have a new sponsor for the lyla.com site. You will probably notice the CAM4 ads kicking around the site now. We do not normally allow sites that contain pornography photos or videos but the head office approved this live cam site for advertising on the network. If your into that please check them out, keeping our sponsors greatly helps keep the site up and running. Thanks.

Others may be taking more of a risk, maybe they operate in Toronto but have servers and business address in Amsterdam (like many have done). The law is not being enforced right now but it could as it is law now and anyone seeking paid for sexual services is breaking the law so the censors help educate people as well as protect anyone who may not know the law. For the ladies they can LEGALLY advertise however no one can ALLOW them to advertise (It's a catch 22) if we allow someone to advertise sexual services they are not at risk but it puts the site and the owners of the site at risk. Legally anyone can advertise NON SEXUAL services here and DISCUSS escorts and let people know they had a good time with one of the ladies, if anything goes on above and beyond a non sexual date we don't want to know about it and it should not be discussed in public, anyone posting and saying "Hey i got such and such from so and so on our date" would technically be admitting to breaking the laws. Don't vote conservative if you dont like the current laws.

I see you are affiliated with a company so yes a paid account is required. PM me for info.

I gave someone a warning for posting negative comments about a lady, they replied by PM with the following (I removed the persons name to keep them anonymous). My Reply to this person... The internet is so anonymous, it makes it easy to exploit/abuse. I don't know if your being honest when posting negative comments or malicious and trying to discredit someone so here on this site we do not say negative things. PERIOD Anyone who does not agree with this policy I tell to go find another discussion site that is more fitting for them to call home. This community was and will continue to be built on POSITIVE comments and people! It shocks me that people still tell me we are doing things wrong by not allowing negative comments here. This site has been running for a LONG time now and has a good community who embraces that core rule. New members continue to join and try to tell me that this is not the way we should do things. Some even go as far as saying they have some sort of right of freedom of speech to say what they want here in our members only website.... i politely tell them to go review the laws and when they educate themselves come back and apologize for the ignorance. Some stats to share and prove our policies work... Cerb/Lyla Purges some old posts each year (a few thousand) but currently we have 525,041 posts We have over 55,600 registered members We have over 9400 members who post and contribute (Active Members) On average we have 1100 people on the site at ANY given time We have OVER 60000 unique visitors a month to the site We have OVER 200000 visits to the site per month On average the site serves 190GB of data per month! ... and that accounts for over 15 MILLION hits! Being positive, being nice to people, focusing on the good! ... IT WORKS!

Remeber under the new law one can not offer sexual services or seek them from a paid provider.

Both accounts has different IP's but the EXACT same thing posted. Both are NEW accounts so I can only assume they are the same person. I MERGED THEM into one account. This new account needs to read the rules. He has been informed that he can not look for paid sexual services here and can not have multiple accounts.

I merged your old account with your new one Steve.

Maybe get a new email address from another company and try that? Most phones will take multiple email accounts and check them all as one account these days.

make sure you check the spam/bulk email folders and add rules when you can (If you see them in spam mark them NOT SPAM so that the system learns to not mark them as spam).

If the bullshit cat fight continues on i am going to start suspending or banning people! I will ask the council to decide who stays and who go's so i suggest you all get out of the schoolyard!