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I look at this as well when I make theses choices. ....and is why I felt I could post this publicly (posting puclicly stop 50 other members from pm'ing me asking why she was removed)

Thanks for the link!

I disagree with you on this. Many new ladies learn the hard way... think no harm done and end up damaging themselves by doing stuff like this. Also... We can not be 100% sure it was a account for SHILL either but it was from the same computer (it could have been a client but it's much more likely to be a shill to boost business)...

This is interesting... http://www.techradar.com/news/computing/apple/how-to-make-your-own-ipad-micro-sim-681020 Anyone tried this? Could make a holder for it to swap back and forth!!

Please DO NOT share computers with other members! If you want to introduce cerb to a SP or CLIENT feel free to show them cerb but do not let them register or login to cerb using your computer. Why? Our system flags this and reports your account as a MULTIPLE ACCOUNT. If you are a male member and you post some nice things about a SP and I see that both the lady and you have accessed cerb using the same computer it looks very much like you are SHILL posting for her (or she made this fake guys account to post recommendations about herself under this fake account). This happens a lot and we catch these accounts all the time! I find out that male members are "Helping" market a lady (some cases trying to get in on the action and pimp her!) sometimes it is a pimp or a agent trying to "help" market her in a very unethical way! Sometimes it is just a guy trying to help her out (unfortunately I don't know for sure if that is true when it happens so I must assume it is NOT true and remove the offending posts and accounts). Most of the time we get excuses like "I let my client use my computer" or "The lady was at my house and she accessed cerb from my PC" and occasionally I get "That is not true! I never shared my PC with anyone" (I like this answer as it confirms 100% that it was a SHILL account when I get this). I have even got... "I left the room to go to the washroom and they used my computer without my permission" - Sure they did! No matter what the excuse is.... it looks VERY bad!! Agencies often try to set up MULTIPLE accounts for each lady or under different agency names (I find this deceitful so I do not allow this either). If you are an agency looking to advertise the ladies as independents you will be caught and removed. Some ladies share computers with other ladies (This is fine as long as you don't have TWO accounts for the same lady. Only Independent ladies who work from the same location are allowed to do this and you should ask me first please - if your friend is coming from out of town to work with you for a week that is fine just give me a heads up! ************************* IMPORTANT NOTE TO ALL MEMBERS ************************* I am considering creating a thread that reports multiple accounts to all the elite members and service providers. If I do this it will show anyone creating multiple accounts and will show all the ladies who work together and access cerb together. If anyone has an issue with this please PM me and explain why before I activate this feature. *************************

I am wondering if the new iphone 4g will have the mini SIM card or the micro SIM card that the iPad uses. If it has the Micro card you will not be able to just swap phones from iphone/bb/android/etc... not until the other companies jump on the micro sim bandwagon. I know I needed a new SIM card (Micro) when I got this Ipad... it would be nice for me to have a micro card in the new iphone than maybe I could swap between the two of them and not have to for TWO data plans!!!

As entertaining as this thread was it was reported (Flagged) with a valid reason for why it really should not be here. I have quoted the reason below and I agree... I removed k3lly401 from the board, we don't want to encourage other "disgruntled" wives into joining and starting other "RANT" threads as they may not all be as "entertaining" as this one.

I buy fish from Big Al! So... are the names ok or should we ask to alter the names. THey are technically the same so the person who registered it first obviously would get to keep the name if we have a dispute but it's better if one of you asks to alter your name (PM ME and I would change it for you)

djfrost32 account was the SAME computer as you Tulsa! We consider this SHILL posting and I am affriad I need to suspend you for 30 days for this and let the board know that you have two accounts from the same computer and you were posting about yourself.

Most of the ladies would take offense to this question. You pay for the ladies time, some have 1/2hour rates but rarely do any have a rate for "just a bj" this is mordant like a street walker thing (and we do not discuss that here). Nor do we allow post for guys looking for cheap services...

Those are very good answer wpg2010 gave you however I don't agree with one of them entirely. You can write recommendations for ANY service provider you see. On this board or off this board. Let others know you found a GEM! The reason we ask that you ask for permission is mostly when starting a NEW recommendation (Commenting on one that already exists is usually ok) but sometimes a lady offers services to you that she may not offer to others... maybe the chemistry was right or she felt comfortable with you and offered you a little "Extra"... she may not want others to know about this as it is not on her normal menu and not available to everyone. You hit the nail on the head with your 5. point about "What should be the PRIMARY motivation for writing a recommendation" ALL OF THE ABOVE is the correct answer!

Correct. A new member can post a comment on a existing recommendation but can not start a NEW recommendation. This stops fake new members from posting SHILL recommendations (a problem we have caught a few times now). It's much harder to get 5+ posts over 5+ days in order to qualify to post a new recommendation and this is just too much work usually for someone who just wishes to post a SHILL. It's a simple solution and makes the recommendations just a little more credible. As for the subject of this thread... (Why should I write a reco if everything has been said???) Posting a comment on a ladies existing recommendation is a thoughtful thing to do for her! It BUMPS the recommendation for her to the main recommendation page, it ads her recommendation in the "New Posts" section (a nice reminder for many to keep her on the must see lists) and also shows a nice sign of appreciation that helps boost the ladies popularity! Reputation like this for the lady is VERY helpful. We don't want the same people purposely bumping recommendations however so a ongoing number of new recommendation comments on an existing recommendation makes it more and more credible and if it's just a bunch of 5 post count members talking about the same lady it's pretty easy to spot the less genuine recommendations!

Testing tapatalk... Posting this from tapatalk off the iPad

Looks like they removed it (Possibly because it is adult) so I have re-listed it and made it so it is SEARCH ONLY so you have to click the "SEARCH" button and type CERB and it will now come up.

It's called CL here as the full name of that site is NOT allowed to be posted or given out to people here on cerb as it's just full of scams and bait and switch ads (Too good to be true, fake photos, credit card scams.... and sometimes much worse) Please do not ask for the URL here. If you come across a site that would fit being called CL... avoid it.

Some SP's do use AFF, Lavalife and even POF but your better off not asking about these places on the escort sites (Some ladies may get offended as you are looking at the places where people go to find "Free Sex") so I will end this thread here.

I merged them - Thanks for pointing this out to him loneskater.

Carrie is correct... The capital one card is NOT a pre-paid card. It is reported to the credit bureaus and is intended to rebuild credit. The money you put down on it is a security deposit so if you use any of that money you will be billed interest!! I know a number of people who have used the capital one card that you put a deposit down to use it (It's not 2000.00 however... I think it's 200.00 or 400.00) and you must be sure to pay it off (Back to the full deposit amount) each month on time! (They are the only ones in Canada with such a card that I am aware of). The pre-paid cards aaa11111 is referring to are such things as the moneymart visa's and the MC mycards and such. These are NON REPORTING cards that you must LOAD up the money onto them. The third option is the VISA/MC gift cards - you can purchase them at places like wallmart. The ADULT and CASINO/CARD websites (and some other places) use advanced screening on the cards (as they are considered high risk) some cards are locked out of being used on these such places. - Many verify the postal code of the credit card bill - Many verify the name of the card holder and billing information because of this any card that is not registered with a billing address may be declined due to fraud verification. Some standard credit card companies also lock these types of sites out as well.

Guys!!! Check the DNR (DO NOT REVIEW - DO NOT DISCUSS) list before posting http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/announcement.php?f=54

Maybe things have changed in the last 10 years. I managed a number of adult clubs and even was part owner of one at one time. Back then if you referred to any of the ladies as a stripper they would see that as derogatory and be pissed (few exceptions with the really easy going girls) ... At that time the girls all liked to be referred to as exotic dancers (more classy than "stripper" or "peeler".... And god forbid if you called a showgirl a dancer or anything else or worse.. If you called a feature a showgirl or dancer....was some sort of status in the clubs back in those days (the strippers hierarchy) Things do change so maybe that is no longer an issue.

The dancers would indeed have a big problem with this also the fact that you called them strippers as most prefer the term dancers. . The big time feature dancers (not really many left I don't think) they would hand out promo posters. Booking agents for these girls post the pictures on the Internet as well. . I have not been to a club in years so i don't even know if they still book feature acts these days.

Good point Pete! I added it above 10) Before you post a recommendation for a lady you should ask her for permission and you should ask her for permission to put one of her photos on the recommendation as well.

Good point. I think the news can be an exception... Discetion should be used however.

I plan to add a FAQ area on Lyla for posting etiquette and I wanted to ask our seasoned members if they have anything to add before I post it. Posting etiquette (Some for clients, some for providers, some for both) 1 ) Do not discuss providers' rates (unless you are the provider or agency doing the posting) 2 ) Do not comment on a service providers rates being too expensive or cheap! 3 ) Do not discuss street walkers 4 ) Please use discretion! Do not discuss drug use, illegal activities, violent acts and anything that would bring unwanted attention to someone, some business or our community here on Lyla. If you are aware of a illegal activity taking place you should contact the police (not post it here) as posting it here brings unwanted attention to Lyla! 5 ) Do not fight or flame anyone (this includes flaming the lurkers or low post count guys and includes fighting with each other in the PM system) 6 ) Do not spread rumors! 7 ) If you have a problem with another member bring it to the attention of the mod and DO NOT post about it in public. 8 ) Do not post a provider's personal info such as addresses or share this info in a PM unless you are the provider. You risk her safety if you do this! 9 ) Do not ask for prices of providers from other members (you should ask them directly) 10 ) Before you post a recommendation for a provider you should ask her for permission and you should ask her for permission to put one of her photos on the recommendation as well. 11 ) Do not post ads to sell products on the site (free ads are for sex workers, massage spas, etc... not toys, web design, etc...) If you wish to promote a different product or service PM the mod first as we may have banners available. 12 ) Do not post links to porn sites 13 ) Do not use the site to complain about a service provider or post negative reviews! 14 ) Keep the site positive and fun! If you have an issue before posting it take a breath and think "Is it a positive contribution to the site?" if the answer is no... it's most likely not welcome! Additional Comments: If you disagree with a decision a moderator has made, you can PM one of us about it (not post publicly about it).

If no one has an aswer for you you may want to visit the tapatalk website here they have a forum for q&a http://www.tapatalk.com/forum/