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  1. Look at all these Scorpions. No wonder everyone is so dam sexy. All the best to you! Brandi
  2. Does this mean that you get 21 spankings? Or perhaps I miss counted and it is 22 now. Happy Birthday, go out and do something crazy while you are still young enough to feel guilty about it. Brandi .
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    Brandi GFE

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    Brandi

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    The beach

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    The beach

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  7. Even though you are paying her for a service her compliments are probably genuine, or at least mine are when I give them as I try to see something good in everyone. For example even if someone isn?t good looking they will have something attractive about them weather it be a great smile or friendly personality. Most men are nervous when visiting so compliments help to break the ice and I would think if I was saying anything phony a guy would see right threw it as my clients are pretty smart. If she gave you her other number I would say she likes you. In 10 years I have only done this with 2 men. One was because he was working on my house and needed to call me a lot and I didn?t want to keep tying up my work number. I have always kept my personal life and the business very separate, however, To be honest when I first came to the boards and saw the varied dynamic relationships I was fascinated, disgusted, intrigued and much more. This opened up possibilities in my mind. I did start to cross the line with a few customers and sometimes it worked out and sometimes it didn?t. I realized I couldn?t put a stereo type or rule on whether to do this or not as when dealing with people anything can happen and things are not always as simple or complex as the seem. Looking back over the years I think I missed a lot of great opportunities because I wouldn?t mix out side of my work. Now because I am open to other possibilities I am having some interesting experiences as well as opportunities that I am glad I didn?t let pass by. Sometimes you just have to be able to read people while discerning and other times it is just luck. If she is after a sugar daddy that will show up soon enough and you can make decisions then. At first it was hard for me to see clients out of the ?session time? I have gotten over that awkward stage and maybe your feelings will change in time too. All you can do is go with it, enjoy the journey and at anytime you want out you have that choice. Whether or not you stay with this sp over this who knows, no sp/hobbyist relationship is forever anyways and customers come and go for various reasons. I can?t say at this time I have regretted my experiences. I have no judgments I look at it as something that ?just is?. I have received so many proposals and offers of various kinds to see gentlemen outside of the business so I can only assume other sp?s get the same, therefore I think if this sp has decided to give you her personal number then consider your very fortunate to be a select chosen one. It sounds like you are unsure of your feelings and what is supposed to be. I think everyone has their own rules that they abide by because everyone?s life is different. I never crossed the boundary lines before because I am running a business here not a dating ad. And how would I know if a guy liked me for who I really am or was he just trying to get free sex. There is trust issues on both sides of the fence. My relationships with clients outside of the session time have been with married men in exchange for work around my house and this way I know there is no misunderstanding because they are going home to their wives. Lots of open communication is the key. You won?t have your answers until you speak to her more about this. I like to think that am open to whatever experiences might arise and trust that I will have the wisdom but at the same time realistic with expectations and outcomes.
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    summer

  11. Hey Emma darling, Sorry to hear that you are struggling for info. We have been chatting for years now over emails and you know I will help you out any time, anywhere if I can. Unfortunately I regret to tell you that I don?t know much about Edmonton otherwise I would help. It is a big city spread out. About 15 years ago I did stay at the west Edmonton mall in which you can pick a theme room. I didn?t get a theme room but one that was very nice and elegant with a hot tub which was surrounded with mirrors. I believe the hotel was rather new back then, I have no idea what it is like now. This might be a nice place to stay as then when you are not working you can cruise around the mall. Sorry I can?t be of more help. If you ever come to Kamloops you know you can stay at my place and I can show you the city and surrounding areas. Good luck and stay safe. Brandi xoxo
  12. It happens more then I wish it did. The first time this ever happened was when I worked in a massage parlor my old roommate who I new always had a crush on me came in. I think we were both surprised to see each other. Since I was the one sitting at the front desk I introduced him to all the other girls. I felt very awkward and embarrassed. He had wanted to see me but I said it wasn?t an option. He chose one of the other girls and when he was ready to leave I went to another room so we didn?t have to bump into each other again. This almost made me quite my job. Then when I went independent he called and I didn?t realize it was him on the phone, set up the appointment and I felt totally awkward once again when I opened the door and saw it was him. Since he was already at my in call and I was dressed up I thought I would go ahead and try it. He has come back several times since. The awkwardness has gone away. Some upon meeting have just said ?Do we know each other?? I have not really refused anyone anymore. Upon chatting with one of my regulars we finally figured out we know each other from the gym, another one we realized we went to high school together, the list goes on. When in public I have experienced everything from men who look away to men who come running over and hollering ?Hi Brandi? when they see me. I have had many men who have later told me they felt I didn?t like them because I didn?t acknowledge them when seeing them publicly. I just feel it is best not to because one never knows if either of us is with someone else. Even though you might not see anyone, mine or your friends or family could be not far away and later ask questions like who was that person you said hi to. I never intend to come across as to be insensitive or rude but if I don?t say hi it is because I value both our boundaries of privacy.
  13. No it is not a common thing for sp?s to do that. I would think that they probably felt really comfortable with you. Sometimes when people really click a sp can let her guard down and just be who she really is instead of who you want her to be so I would say take it as a compliment. Maybe after meeting you and seeing that you were a nice guy they thought that telling you their first name was harmless since they probably have all your info depending on how you booked your appointment.
  14. A mans age is unimportant to me, what I do care about is that the gentleman is clean and behaves well. The variety of ages and personalities is what keeps it interesting for me.
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    Brandi

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