If you want pointers on how to look sexier then go to a beauty salon and get a make over, if you cant afford it some places like merle Norman cosmetics offers them free. Treat your self to a make up lesson and new hair style. Go to an expensive dress shop and let the staff pamper you with trying different outfits. Buy one and don?t feel guilty. Let the professionals in the fashion and beauty industry do their job and give you a dynamite make over. Feeling Sexy comes from the inside and everyone idea of what sexy is, is quite different.
Amber I am sure that you have heard it before but I would suggest to start by taking some self empowerment/ self esteem courses or classes. Somewhere in your community there has got to be something for you to attend so that you can feel better and more powerful in your life so that you may make better wiser decisions not only for you but your child because as Cat said children learns from what they see and that includes the non spoken.
Something that I learned is that sex to men is like talking is to women. I believe Men need sex differently then women. When we are all upset and stressed we call our pals and talk, when men are stressed or upset they have sex. Or at least this is what I have noticed working as an escort. However if your bf is seeing a lot of SW he probably has an addiction no different then gambling. If you can live with that fine it is your choice but you can not change him he has to change on his own and that may not happen so I wouldn?t sit around waiting for him to turn over a new leaf unless the benefits really out weigh the negatives. As soon as you get on with your life he will most likely do everything to try and win your attention again. Ask your self why you stay with a man that disrespects you so much. I don?t ask that for you to answer here but to think about nor do I ask to upset you but to hopefully open your eyes as any lady with high self respect for herself and her child wouldn?t put up with that. There are many services in the community that can help if you seek them. Good luck.