JoyfulC

Are any of the guys who shave here married? If so, how do you explain this to your wives? Especially if you're not very sexually active with them at this point. My husband and I are still very active, but even if we weren't, we spend enough time walking around naked that I'd certainly notice if one day his balls turned up bald as cue balls! I can't see any wife overlooking a detail like this.

Drug stores give seniors' discounts because seniors purchase more pharmaceuticals than any other age demographic. The same cannot be said of seniors and SP services. ;)

Peachy, as long as you're honest and upfront about it, making sure that a new customer knows this before he meets with you, that's fine. I'm not a huge fan of the YMMV disclaimer, though. I don't think it's fair to take someone's money, then blindside him with an excuse for why he doesn't qualify to receive quality service. Especially over something so natural.

And those are all terrific, admirable reasons for you to shave yourself, RG. I'm not at all putting you down for that. I'm sure many SPs do thank you. I have also been known to comment appreciatively on a pair of nicely shaved balls, but that doesn't mean that I enjoy sucking them or playing with them any more or less than I do someone natural. What can I say? I'm very oral. If an SP truly finds oral with someone unshaved unpleasant or would hate it to the point of it refusing to provide oral or having it interfere with her quality of service, then I think she has a responsibility to disclose this prior to meeting with someone, wouldn't you agree? Because not everyone can shave or is comfortable shaving. I don't know your circumstances, but apparently WRT whoever else might see you naked, your being shaved isn't a problem for you. But as I say, I know men for whom that's not the case. And it isn't just wives. I have known men who would be embarrassed to be seen in a medical situation being shaved down there. I just don't want men here to feel that they have to be shaved, or be repugnant to SPs. That's simply not true. And as for myself, after years of requests to go au naturale, I recently did. I never had a great bush when I was younger, but this time, it seems to have grown back more nicely than before. I'm not sure if I'll stay that way, but people seem to be liking it.

Maybe not porn sexy, but inspiring and beautiful from the perspective of two humans being authentic with one another. Skin-to-skin rules! We never stop needing it.

Yikes! It's difficult for me to imagine that there are professionals who feel that way. I have met SPs who, in general, didn't like giving or receiving oral, but they usually didn't last too long in the business. This is, after all, a business in which we are interacting very intimately with people, and I believe that most successful SPs are open-minded, flexible and enjoy their work. Even a guy who is shaved can be unclean. Or worse, have doused himself with enough cologne down there to repel a herd of elephants. You've probably seen more SPs in action than me, RG, but I don't think most reputable SPs would find it "unpleasant" or "hate" giving oral to an otherwise clean and respectful guy just because he sports the hair that nature gave him. Additional Comments: I should note, too, that I work with a lot of older guys who would never consider shaving down there. And also with a number of married guys, for whom shaving might raise some uncomfortable questions on the home front. It isn't even possible for everyone to shave. But that doesn't mean that they can't be clean, or that going down on them can't be just as pleasant as going down on someone completely bald down there. Heaven forbid that should ever be the case!

Either way, it doesn't matter to me. But I want to clear up one misconception: having natural hair down there does not equal being unclean or unhygienic. Nor is it an excuse not to be. Shaved, napalmed, trimmed, unshaved, whatever, you still have to wash thoroughly just prior to getting intimate.

There might be certain circumstances under which an SP would work out an agreement with a REGULAR she knows well and feels comfortable with for 15 minute sessions. For example, the customer might agree to prepay for a number of sessions to occur within some time frame (3 within 7 days, 10 within 30 days, etc.), and agree to step aside, even last minute, if a more lucrative appointment comes up. But customers need to understand that, for a first time appointment, the risks and unknowns on our end are simply too high to consider a 15 minute session, and all the preparation and clean up is exactly the same as it is for a lengthier session. For a touring SP? I honestly don't see how it would be possible. Please remember that they have much higher overhead to cover than a local SP. There may be some SPs who do offer this. I recommend that customers who want this look for those SPs specifically offering it, rather than make a poor impression on someone who doesn't.

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You may even be able to set it up for "silent" ring (no ring, in other words) when they call.

I used to offer free birthday sessions to guys who saw me at least 12 times a year. I offered birthday discounts based on how many times a guy saw me during the previous twelve months. And I still have a few that I honour. But I stopped offering them because interest in them seemed to wane. Maybe it's coming back. I have no problem showing appreciation for regular business, which to me, is the most valuable thing in the world. I enjoyed the birthday sessions too! They were/are always extra special. I should note, too, that I often receive large tips for my birthday, as I'm very hard to buy for (not very materialistic). How many guys here give a lady they see regularly a big tip for her birthday?

Oh c'mon, ladies! Couldn't you at least offer a 15-minute AWE session? ;)

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Let's just say that I wish --some-- people would appreciate that, unlike tongues and dicks, fingers have nails.

She should tell him politely that she thinks there are other fish in the sea for both of them, and that she has no interest in seeing him or continuing to communicate with him further. Then ignore him. He'll eventually go away. Unless he is threatening her, I don't know why she should be afraid of him. I presume the OP is also a customer? If so, I wonder why she's bringing this to him? Looks like drama to me.

THANK YOU! That's exactly what I needed to know. (I swear, CERB is a Knowledge Fountain. I couldn't find this with Google.)

I was listening to a playlist I created of Paul Simon songs on Slacker Radio, and when I got to the song "Duncan" from the 1972 album, Paul Simon, it started playing some entirely different song. The one that I was looking for starts out "Couple in the next room, bound to win a prize. They been going at it all night long..." And although that's the lyrics given on the Slacker entry, the song is different and starts off "My wife and me took a home by the sea in the hopes we'd be raising some children..." Apparently the latter was a 1971 demo version of a song, also entitled Duncan. Can anyone tell me if this ever appeared on any album or collection? I've looked and looked and can't find it anywhere. I'd like to go armed to Slacker with as much info as possible on both versions to help them sort this out. (They're just a bunch of kids there. They're not that familiar with this music. You should see what they did to Leon Russell! ;) ) TIA!

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How much does it cost to smoke? Average costs per week? Month?

Since no one else has said it, I will: WIT... Thanks. For the mammaries. ;)

It's not so much that I treat anyone better. I like everyone to leave here grinning and walking on air. But there are those special clicks that just happen. And it really is just chemistry. I don't think anyone needs to be told when they happen. It's pretty obvious! ;)

I was wondering about that too, if children born into homes with smokers craved or even just were accustomed to the taste/smell. Both my parents were born to heavy smokers, but neither ever smoked. My sister, however, did smoke and last I heard, has been unsuccessful quitting. With her, I'm sure it was peer pressure. She was very cliquey.