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I spent three weeks in NZ in January, and I found it difficult to hook up. There is very limited advertising, and I visited one massage parlor which was in reality was a bordello, there was a cashier at the entrance where I paid the fee in advance. Definitely the Sps that I talked to where far more reticent to discuss service in advance and were far more restrictive with what was on offer.

I voted for number two. I think that if the court upholds the lower courts that becomes the default and we shouldn't need to have further legislation. I would hate to see someone like the conservatives forced into enacting new legislation. Many of the ills surrounding this industry could easily be dealt with and should be by existing legislation if law enforcement and prosecutors were doing their jobs properly i.e. under age ladies or trafficking.

This a matter of what is most comfortable for both of you. I for one am not uncomfortable with being nude, although I've not got a model body. I think in most cases being draped is a matter that is more important for the massage provider.

I think in North America, mobility and distance are great, and many kids accept jobs all over the world. The family unit is far more dispersed, and many seniors are left alone, respect is still there but the daily contact no longer possible. I am glad that they are making successes of their lives and wouldn't want it any other way. I know that in my own instance one is in the Middle East and the other in the Southern US. I am rather fortunate to be able to travel and visit, but do know that I will have to fend for myself in the future as I age.

Yay! I became a grand dad this morning. My daughter delivered a boy at 5 this morning, and both are doing well. I would appreciate any ladies who can give me a suggestion for a nice gift to the new mother. Not for the baby but for my daughter, just to show her how much I appreciate the the privilege she has given me. It's got to be something that she'll treasure for many years.

Hi, I have also been widowed for eight years and did make a conscious decision not to make any major decisions for several years at the time. I am older and retired with a couple of adult kids and was married to one lady for 25 years. I am not actively pursuing another relationship, but not against it if it happens. We are not alone here as I am aware of half a dozen guys on the board who are in a similar situation. I love time and intimacy with women so this fits me well. I know full well that these sorts of relationships are never fully satisfactory, there's no one to snuggle up to and chat in the night. I think I'm lucky to be open and genuine, and have made a few friends, but the few great liaisons where the lady is open and allows herself to give you a high level of trust and honesty takes time to cultivate and are few and far between. Also, many women are in the industry are transitory and drop out over time.

Staying close to home, my daughter went to the hospital (precautionary) but not yet in labour. Learning how to use Lightroom, need to get my photos organized.

I believe Jennigurl is back in business in Perth..

I spend spare cash on this hobby, and I think the idea of using debt i.e. a credit card isn't my idea of being sensible. It's almost like having that impulse buy available at any time. I think for some people that aren't very good at managing their spending it could lead to a real problem.

Thought I'd erred on my tax return. Turned out I wasn't too far off so today got a cheque for over 3 thousand dollars from Revenue Canada. Guess I can go out and treat myself.

I am in a similar situation. I have done three diagnostic tests and am waiting to see what the results of last weeks MRI mean. I am pretty certain that I'll be off to see a new specialist, but at the end of the day I expect that the resulting diagnosis could be fairly serious. So how to handle it. My wife's gone, and the children have moved on, but I look at my life and think it's been a success. I am north of sixty five, so have come to expect that my medical condition will be an issue, but will not get too exited about any diagnosis until it's made. If worse comes to pass I'll make sure to enjoy life and plan my exit on my terms. I won't hide it from the family, far better to include them.

Have to go for an MRI tomorrow morning, tends to be a bit claustrophobic.

I decided to put a corned beef on to night, and got to thinking what might go well with it. So, I decided on a seasonable fit. The answer fiddle heads. Put them on to simmer for 12-15 minutes, then saute them in a little butter and olive oil. Too bad they are only available for such a short time.

One of the reasons for a board like this is for discussion, and many times my posts are meant to promote that objective. Many of these threads are very one sided and correct and an alternative view needs to be expressed. Don't take everything so literal. I would formally like to ask for your forgiveness, I lied. I do have antiperspirant in my medicine cabinet, and am quite aware of when it is necessary. I have been a hobbyist for 25 years and have never had a complaint about my hygiene. One of the joys of sex is that we are humans and all the senses should be enjoyed, sound , taste, smells and touch, and that doesn't mean we have to be antiseptic to enjoy. I fully understand OD's plea to cover up those objectionable smells as not all clients are so careful with their hygiene. I personally use a nice body wash that I've had complements on as it has a nice but muted overall freshness.

All the supermarkets this week are advertising lobster, so picked one up today. Yum Yum

I am one of those guys who doesn't use these products, simply I've never felt the need. I do shower and brush my teeth before I go to see a lady, and take a breath mint on the way there. If for some reason I haven't had the opportunity, I will ask if I can take a shower before we start. I don't think I'm stinky, and the amount of BO I have under these conditions I feel is nothing to get too concerned about. One odor I occasionally run across with some ladies is one of smoke, which can't generally be masked, and I think this is far more offensive than a mild sent of a clean body. Nature uses a scent related chemical called pheromones, which are natures way of promoting sexual attractions between sexes, and to mask these natural chemicals seems to me to be counter productive. I was once with a lady and was kissing her body all over, and naturally she would also get some licks. I must have been kissing her breasts and inadvertently strayed and got a tongue full of deodorant as my tongue strayed along her side to the area of her armpit, and Oh what an awful taste.

I think Peachy touched on the fallacy of your argument. You paint a picture from your perspective, the client. To have a truly honest and and trusting relationship there must be mutual acceptance of the thesis. In the first post in this thread you state you can ask for things that you don't feel comfortable asking a partner for a variety of reasons. The actress in a good SP will acquiesce even though she might not necessarily enjoy that activity. They are bound by the pressure to give good value for the fee you are paying. You say to her, I'd like a bbbj and she reply's in all honesty, I don't like doing that, which harkens back to a recent tread on the subject that Peachy agonized over. Is it an impasse or does she flutter her eye lashes smile and go down anyway. Your second point about unburdening yourself is nice, but I would venture that it takes a lot of dating to get to that point, and that the majority of women will not be trusting enough to let you in on their lives, and maybe that's not really what you bargained for anyway. I know one very nice SP who I can have very honest conversations with, and she's remarkable open with me, but also knowing that we can never truly be real friends. I am one of the fortunate clients who can be honest and above board. It works well as long as it's a one way street, well paid and you don't have to invest more than you're willing to.

An other option would be Buffy for a real massage, she goes by the handle of Massage21 on the board. If you want contact info you'll have to google massage21 and I'm sure you'll get her site come up.

I think you will find once you follow and get a few followers your universe will expand quickly. Look at your followers profiles and you will probably recognize others of interest. Jump in and have fun. I will be sending a follow request right away.

Count me in.

Maybe it's time for another in your home town.

I think these things go in cycles. Only you can determine what you feel is a reasonable price for your service. I've seen instances where ladies have started to offer specials which I think is really a bad idea, as you get known for it and you drag the price down for everyone. All you can do is work a little harder at getting more calls, maybe a few new photos or adjusting the way you advertise.

It's an old tread, but I guess I can have two a year.

Like others have already said, it's really a matter for the two of you. I would say that if you do form a relationship that you are honest and open with one another, and discuss it thoroughly. You also have to be clear in your own mind what you are prepared to do if you don't get the answers you are hoping for. I think most guys whether they think them selves open minded enough to support your work, they might eventually show some jealously which can be a source of friction.

I know that this is your livelihood, but probably the only real cure is time out and giving the affected tendons and joint a chance to heal, reducing the duration of the problem. You're young and should get the properly treatment to make sure that this doesn't become a chronic condition. Only your physician can quarterback a good treatment plan. The use of an anti inflammatory can some times reduce the pain, but doesn't get at the underlying damage. I am a great fan of getting physio therapy to assist in the recovery from these sort of injuries.