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Boomer

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  1. Again you will be missed, you are a great contributor to this forum. There will be a big hole in the CERB cooking forum. All the best, and if you don't make it back hope you're successful in your new endeavors.
  2. I think it's great to see a post like this, and hopefully encourages all of to do the little things that can truly positively impact others.
  3. I'm not sure what the point is about assuming volume. Every woman has a mix of tools to generate the volume of business she would like to attain. It's essentially the plan she has for herself and the marketing strategy that she employs. These might include pricing, posting ads, a regular refreshing of her pictures, creating a persona and rep on a board like CERB. The other way is to advertise.through multiple venues. If she can't meet her objectives then it's a simple matter of making adjustments based on the elasticity of supply and demand to find that sweet spot. There are far more problematic assumptions that clients make which should be of concern. For instance, when someone shows up at your door having assumed you are offering a service because you haven't clear explained your restrictions, and they are frustrated that it's not on the menu, or using terms like PSE to generate business when it's not clearly defined and his assumptions don't quite match with yours. I know that a number of ladies I see aren't terribly high volume. This isn't an assumption on my part, but me taking the time to find out.
  4. With age I find the little pill quite helpful on occasion. But to answer the OPs question, I tend to find that I take it about an hour to a hour and a half before arriving at the ladies door and still gives me several hours effectiveness. I do find that depending on the conditions and what you've had to eat the degree of effectiveness can vary. As others have also noted it really only works if the desire is there. As for telling your partner that's really up to you. They can sometimes tell, as sometimes I think it can delay ejaculation, take more coaxing to get off. I guess I'm kinda wondering why you would be setting up a date when you're going to be arriving at the door expecting to in your words, "feeling you will be unable to perform". I get the impression from your comments that you haven't already explored these drugs, so it makes sense to go see the doctor and get first had knowledge. I would comment though that this is not a bad place to explore these issues as not all family physicians are comfortable discussing these issues.
  5. I have taken the flue vaccine for 8 years now and strongly recommend doings so. The reason I started was because I was caring for someone with an immune deficiency. Since that time I have carried on for several reasons, one that I volunteer and have contact with many frail and vulnerable people and I believe we have a duty to protect others we come in contact with. I think that if you are in this industry you are quite exposed to infections, and should take all opportunities to protect yourself. If taken ill you stand to loose business if you have to take time off. As far as travel, I've taken it all. The best way to go here is to pay to visit a travel clinic, they are best informed about what you need depending on your destination. The one med I do take along every trip is a prescription for diarrhea, sometimes you can get in a situation where the Imodium may not be enough. If it's a very hot climate I will take along some hydration pills I can put in my water bottle, they come in orange and lemon flavours. I've done the Malaria pills a few times, but I would contradict BRM on Denge shots. The best thing to do there is to know the risk and practice prevention, use of screens and proper use of Deet at the certain time of the day.
  6. I contribute to my sons effort, but since I sport a full beard and mustache I can't be part of the team. Gotta say I don't have many complain with the gals because of the beard. As far as the ladies are concerned, I seem to think they started their own event last year. I believe it was called Julyna.
  7. I think it really depends on what you want from the site, and that's different for each member. I lurked or many years, but now I'm home with time on my hands, I've tried to contribute to the dialogue. I think too you can get more from a site like this if you do participate, but each to his own.
  8. I think this is a very literal translation of the rules. I believe you should have the expectation that she will tell you about any change in the restrictions she may have adopted since the last session, and not expect you to know about them. But if she does tell you that she can't do something that was on the menu earlier then the old adage "no means no" applies. So accept it gracefully as she may have a good reason, and I don't think this could be considered an assault
  9. It's just a term, and I think I can get relatively close to this experience with a few woman that I see. Obviously it's not something that you achieve overnight (no pun intended) but takes the time to get comfortable and know the lady intimately.
  10. One thing I don't see is the opportunity to bathe together, a shower or a nice time in a hot soapy bath. Very intimate and must allow the time.
  11. I agree with the thesis, but as long as it's not predatory then a PM is totally private. If you feel that the content goes over the top, is say a threat, you can take it to the mod for action. If he feels it contravenes the spirit of the board he may then refer it to the town council. If on the other hand it's an annoyance and isn't repeated I would just ignore it. I would also hope that it doesn't impact on your posting.
  12. Planning on dropping in, it's been quite a while since I have been there. Won't get home to dress up though.
  13. It's good to finally see this case progressing through the courts, as we really need to have clarity. The politicians aren't able to get their act together and enact a sensible set of laws so that the ladies can go about their business in safety. Kudos to the plaintiffs for doggedly pursuing this case as long as they have.
  14. It's not really a big issue with me, mainly because I've nothing to hide. The other reason is that I tend to see woman that I wouldn't be at all ashamed to be seen with, as I'm partial to women that are a little more mature and closer to my age. I guess that I've considered this happening and have thought up a few casual responses, pays to have a few stories in your back pocket. Also if this does happen it's probably inappropriate to use her name as it might not be the one the other person recognizes. The other thing you do is ask the other person a question first and divert the conversation towards him and whats' goin on in his life.. How are you doing, haven't seen you for a while, what are you doing these days?
  15. I think the word paranoia fits this type of individual very well. You are right Sophia to insist on a number, and those that don't have the gumption to comply are just missing out on the opportunity to enjoy the pleasure of of your service. Everyone in this hobby have a right to establish an alternate identity but they also have to realize that a certain amount of trust has to exist on a practical level if you want to participate.
  16. We've done Christmas toy drives at the Ottawa socials and had great success. As far as flags, no such issue as I would suggest that these shouldn't be hand me downs and be purchased so that they can be given without without having to wash them. Make the suggestion, but I don't honestly see why you should feel you have discount your rate to encourage a little charity.
  17. I think you've got the idea, common sense and courtesy go a long way. There are many ladies that don't have recommendations, so I wouldn't limit yourself. One suggestion I would make is to take a look at a ladies posting history, and this can be done right from her profile. This can give you a pretty good idea about her personality.
  18. I'm with you on this, although I keep a file of blog favorites and check them ever week or so. I do like your idea as there are probably blogs out there that I might find interesting but not aware of.
  19. By definition a recommendation is a positive, and luke warm doesn't fit I post very few reviews, mainly because I think it has to be exceptional and probably a long term relationship, and secondly I think the reco reflects on my reputation. The problem occurs when you've had a bad experience, one in which you feel cheated. This has only happened once here in the last five years, and at the time, made me want to out the lady in question as I believed she would do the same thing to other clients. I used a method a few guys use, with a note in a relevant thread, that I had seen her and that if anyone wanted information they could contact me by PM. T inference was made and I was inundated and justified by a thread on a compensator board. I think you have take recos with a grain of salt, and use multiple sources when you are researching a date. It also pays to get familiar with the members who do post recos and get familiar with their reputation and posting style.
  20. It's like having a job, you gain expertise with practice. I suggest you get back in there and give your tongue some more exercise. I bet this is one time you would even be glad to do a little unpaid overtime.
  21. One other neat source is found on CBC radio. There is a show called "C'est la vie". They select a word of the week and then discuss it's meaning and all the ways it can be used. The other nice thing is that you can get it on pod casts, take it on your Ipod when you're out for a walk.
  22. Take a look at what you're asking. The question is so very broad, and as there are a wide variety of ladies who have different motives and situations for this type of work, there are probably an unlimited variety of answers. These women are quite normal and represent the aspirations of any women, and not necessarily in this industry. I suggest you take some time to explore the site and I'm sure you will find many of the answers already discussed here but asked with more limited parameters.
  23. A few years ago I was going to Central America and wanted to learn a bit of Spanish. I tried a service called Live Mocha, and I think you can do the basics free. http://livemocha.com/ The other resources you might want to take a look at are the two school beards. I've done many continuing ed courses that they offer through the winter. They are reasonably priced and you get the chance to practice with others at the same level. http://www.ocdsb.ca/continuweb http://continuingeducation.ottawacatholicschools.ca/
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