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Boomer

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  1. I had a call from the friendly Tax man today, doesn't think I've been a good boy.
  2. I haven't had a rimming here in Ottawa, but know a few ladies that do this in Toronto. One is a lovely lady that I've seen on an occasional basis for five or six years. She doesn't use a dental dam, but I'm sure she is very careful with ensuring here clients are clean, and I think as she does it on a regular basis that she has built a degree of immunity from infection. Obviously, if a lady does so here she may not publicize the fact, and would contact you privately as you've already indicated your proclivity, and I don't think it could be a form of solicitation since you've made the initial overture.
  3. In retirement I am doing a lot of travelling, and in the last three or four years I've circumnavigated the globe and visited a dozen countries. I think before I stop I'd like to make it fifty. I'm pretty fortunate because my son is employed by a major airline and I get some great deals. At present I'm planning for a couple of months in NZ and Australia starting in January. I am leaving a trail of breadcrumbs with my Geocaching record, and I think it might be time to look into starting a personal travel blog, although my Facebook account keeps a pretty good record. I'm burning through the pages in my passport at a pretty steady clip.
  4. Did a Google search for massage Ottawa and there is an exoticmassageguide second down, with Studio 2000 at the top of the list. http://www.exoticmassageguide.com/index.php?option=com_mtree&task=listcats&cat_id=243 Has been a few years since I was there. Clean nice ladies. It is kind of an institution in Ottawa.
  5. A number of years ago when my wife was ill and had a compromised immune system it was necessary for me to start taking the annual flu shot. I believe it's very important in avoiding the flu, and am still getting it done after eight years.
  6. I think it's pretty straight forward, and personally I enjoy the chance to get acquainted in the shower. You've booked an hour, and you have no way of knowing what else she has planned for the rest of her day, so although it's in their best interests to let you have a shower you shouldn't expect her to give you a whole lot of extra time to freshen up. I know for myself a date isn't full bore for an hour so give or take five to ten minutes shouldn't be a problem, split the difference, and if you're counting the minutes, you probably aren't in the right mood, or it was such a good date you should be giving her tip.
  7. I tried quitting using a variety of methods, but I finally came to the conclusion that the best and most efficient method is called cold turkey. You have to come up with a very good reason to motivate you and then it's a matter of discipline. My reason as the birth of my son, and I will have my 30 year anniversary later this month. I have to say that the benefits are worth the effort. Good luck, and I hope you can find a method that works for you.
  8. I think if you do a little bit of looking through some of the ladies web sites you will find a number that offer a dinner and dessert option. So if you find someone that interests you you could use those examples as a template to negotiate a date.
  9. I would agree with the majority of your post, but would point out several places I have a small difference of opinion. The first is a simple matter of wording, as the term "friends with benefits", suggests a non commercial arrangement, which I don't think you were implying. In the second case, I don't think true friendship has to end with retirement. I think it's quite possible to maintain a friendly relationship into the future.
  10. Sure fall in love if you want, but, and this is a big but, at this point it's her business and treat it as such. Remember that it is her job to play and satisfy on your emotional needs. On the other hand remember she is still a woman that can be courted, and even with a more conventional liaison it takes time to develop a relationship. It will cost you to find out where you stand, so set some limits on what you're willing to invest to find out if she is legitimately interested in furthering the relationship.
  11. Interesting, I just had a birthday that puts me just north of sixty five, and I would argue that age is an important number. But, you see so many comments such as not acting your age or looking younger, the assumption being that somehow age is somewhat of a negative. I disagree, it's just another part of living. Sure, I'm already showing some physical signs that reflect the ravages of time, and are a precursor of things to come. I might not perform sexually as I did 20 years ago, but I know with the right partner I can enjoy the mutual experience probably more than I did in my youth, because the intimacy today has a far broader base, founded on experience. I think also with this journey, I am far less inhibited. The other aspect is rather more personal, now and evolves from the fact that I am now alone. I miss my wife, but have come to terms and developed a certain amount of freedom at this stage. Since I am quite comfortable off, I can afford to experience many new things. I've probably traveled to a dozen countries in the last few years. Rather than dreading the passage of time, embrace it. For most women, I think that they worry about how their beauty is affected. I think that this is unfounded, as I know women in their fifties and sixties that are absolutely gorgeous. They understand that beauty is not all skin deep, as they rely on a twinkle in the eye and a disarming smile as part of their arsenal.
  12. Smack me in the face, but Dawg you might get fucked by a guy instead in this other life. That would be a real eye opener, I'm sure you'd appreciate and empathize more and might really understand how to be a better lover.
  13. I think that I would consider the stuffing to be a side dish, and here it can be made with unlimited variations. From the base which can have bread, potato or rice in it, or additions of things like sausage, shellfish, apple or dried fruit. I try new variations twice a year, Xmas and Thanksgiving.
  14. I go along with Christy, unless you have some obvious child porn sitting there, you should be OK. If you're going to a busy shop they don't have the time or inclination to start going through your emails or exploring your computer. It may be a bit drastic but if you do have to reinstall the operating system which will give you a pristine system, then take a few steps to forestall future problems. Number one get a good virus detector, and many like Norton have got the tools to maintain your computer without you having to be an expert. Back it up periodically and generate a restoration disc so that if a disaster occurs in the future, you'll have the tools to restore it yourself
  15. I'm not sure if this would be qualified as a board game, but if I have the kids home for a week, say Christmas, I put a difficult jig saw out. It's not to often when someone isn't tempted to sit down and do a bit. If it has enough pieces, there's a challenge to see it done before the holiday ends.
  16. It wasn't quite clear if you had actually seen your personal favs, or were entertaining seeing them after observing there participation here. By reputation and having met both, I don't think you could do any better. As Peachy says, they are not mind readers, so be prepared to spend a few minutes at the beginning of the session explaining what you would like. I find that even at the first phone contact, if you ask questions politely and without getting too graphic you can let them know whats important, and most are quite sensitive listeners. I get the impression that you want a lady that is going to lead the way, and that's only possible if you are open and give them a bit of information so that they can structure the date for you. The other thing if you do see a lady you like, go back and see her again and you will find that they can be more intimate as you both get to know each other.
  17. My suggestion is try to take a course. Most cities during the winter offer these for a couple of hours one night a week through continuing ed. I am a fan of life long learning, and find these are pretty inexpensive. You'll also benefit because you're approaching it at the same level of others, and they'll be asking the same questions as you have.
  18. No brothels in Las Vegas, they are limited to other counties in Nevada, probably at least an hour or two away.
  19. I'm an occasional fan, but I'm not sure you can lay all the blame on the replacement refs. This is high profile, and when you get the president, coaches, fans and even players piling on, (a penalty) there s no way that they can make a call that isn't being questioned. This a labor negations, it should be judged on the merits, whether you favor one side or the other.
  20. Little late, but there might be an interesting show on TVO at 9 pm called "The Chubby Chaser". It's a video about the producers love for full bodied women, the image and feminine ideals.
  21. All the best, I am very sympathetic to your desire to help a dying family member, especially one so close. It will take all your emotional strength, and you should be commended for devoting the time to you dad. I hope all goes well for you.
  22. I've had one all my life and haven't had anyone complain, once grown in it's pretty soft.
  23. Recently I enjoyed some time with a lovely lady, and she sent me a text in which she wrote. "I'd write a recco for you any day" I know that's not something you can do, but it sure made my day. If it were possible what would you consider as a reason for a similar compliment. I think it's probably the little things we do, so I'm not really looking for the routine and obvious. Maybe some of your clients will take a hint based on what you have to say. After this I also know that I have a great reference should it ever be required. To the lady, a sincere thanks for the text.
  24. I have a practice of storing the contact information on only one of my email accounts and then syncing it with my phone. As this is my throw away phone, it's really important that the address book is only synced on that phone for that account and the other accounts aren't set up that way. This gives me a good backup. The other thing to do is get an app that will find a phone that is lost, and I believe some of them will deactivate many of the functions if lost. In Google I think it would be the lock out app.
  25. How you dress is really a reflection of who you are, and whether you want to stand out. As for the ladies I don't see a down side to dressing as you would normally. If you are going to hire a lady for a social function, or maybe dinner, then you should talk to her first as she might not want the attention you might generate, or conversely she might want to dress accordingly to compliment you look. As for dealing with the bureaucrats, I would probably do in Rome as the Romans do. I wouldn't jeopardize a business opportunity, by trying to make a fashion statement and distracting from the agenda. But then again it's a calculated business decision.
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