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I concur with the earlier comments. I would like to do the same and have several prospects. You have to remember that the majority of an overnight date isn't about pure sex, but about intimacy. Most ladies aren't open to continual sex, any you probably aren't probably able to keep up the pace for an extended time. It's important to find a lady you've already had an opportunity to get to know a bit, because it's about entertaining her with a nice dinner, conversation , and the softer elements of a date like a massage kissing, curdling while watching a video over a glass of wine.

I see that the comment about not confusing this relationship in terms of love, doesn't necessarily enter into the equation. As to the original question, if you have found some chemistry, I don't think you'll need to be told that they want to see you again, as after all this is their lively hood. As for the second part of your original post, yes I do think you can expect a little bit more personal treatment as you repeat and get comfortable with the lady. But this isn't necessarily by design, but simply a genuine desire to please based on you spending the time to get better acquainted and comfortable with each others needs, and yes you also have to be cognizant of her likes and dislikes if you want her to respond and give you her best. An additional comment, what's a regular client?

Check, as I'm sure she had an ad on b p this morning

I don't think it's a matter of an exact number. I've seen so many put up and then seemingly abandon, or maybe the next routine entry appearing after a six week interval. For the blogger sometimes it can be quite artistic and sometimes quite revealing in terms of the posters personality. I know that I check back fairly often and some fairly prolific posters are on every week. When I looked at yours you obviously give each of your entries a lot of thought and take the time to express yourself in a careful manner, and target areas of sexuality which aren't altogether mainstream, really some rather interesting insights.

Go back and enjoy the experience. So you're infatuated, so what, we all go through this on occasion. I would suggest that you also play the field now and then. Always keep in mind though that this is their business, and they job is to give you the experience that brings you back for more. As for funds, that's always the limiting factor. If you still are determined maybe you need a part time job and dedicate your earnings to your hobby.

I would suggest that you're mouth is allowed to engage before your brain. Start to take a breath or count a couple of seconds off before you have something to say, just slow up a bit and maybe the problem will solve itself.

I am a great fan of blogging. I maintain a folder in the adult area in my favorites of blogs I come across during my browsing. I probably go through them several times a week. As for the content, sure I look for your ideas and what you offer in the industry, but I find the ones I return to repeatedly are those that are diverse and show your personality. They other thing I would say, is that many women start blogs and don't maintain them on a regular basis. It's a bit of work, but I do look forward to those that are serious about it, and can share their feelings and thoughts on a regular basis. One of my favorites used to be a lady from Halifax who went by Amelia, just because is was such a fun quirky read. Your's has been entered in my bookmarks, look forward to it in the future.

I am glad we met in Halifax, and had a chance to chat. Well all things come to an end. I'm sure you've taken this decision after a great deal of thought, and you will be missed. Good luck with your future undertakings.

Being online has a certain amount of risks. It's not unlike passwords, where I maintain various levels of security. I might use a fairly generic password for simple less important accounts and at the end of the spectrum strong dedicated ones for something like a bank account. With email I use a similar strategy by maintaining a number of email accounts. Some may be discard able as I use then for a broad range of uses and expect to have some spam build up. There are others that I use in my personal life which have a far narrower distribution. I use a Yahoo account anything to do this industry. I have one hotmail account that I've had for the best part of 7-8 years where I've had relatively little spam because I've limited it to fairly wide but personal use, and last but not least a Gmail account which is totally spam free, but I use only with a trusted mailing list. There are many ways to attack the problem, filtering, using the unsubscribe tool, but at the end of the day I think you can't stop it all, so having a few throw away accounts where the risk is highest makes sense.

I gave this compound a try a number of years ago. I believe that it can be bought in the pure form in the US, but in Canada it is available only as an ingredient of some of the body building supplements. I tried a regime of slowly increasing the amount, but it didn't seem to give me the results I wanted. It may be that I didn't reach a suitable amount or try for long enough to acclimate. So, for me it was a bust, and I can use the little blue pill if I want.

I think you were flirting, obviously you must have been thinking of her in an intimate way, and had already made the decision to take her up on any form of reciprocal response. You're going to have to decide what to do if and probably when the offer is made. You already made the decision to be a hobbyist, so you've got to figure out your risk tolerance, going out with a civilian or staying with the pros.

Look, if you expect that sort of treatment you earn it. That means you've seen her on a regular basis and developed a real good personal relationship. And you've probably been making that extra bit of effort with a nice gift , say flowers, chocolates or a nice bottle of wine now and then. You have to realize that she's like most women, they can be very giving when they are treated generously and with respect.

I rely on my regular therapy sessions to keep mentally fit and physically healthy. Like anything else it's so important to find a few good therapists that you can rely on for the long term. There are many offering services and I have done many interviews to find the right ones that fit my needs. That's why we are really lucky to have this site to give us so many options.

Not sure if it would help, but you might want to go into the control panel under internet properties. Under the general settings there's a place to delete browser history on exit. It seems to suggest that any passwords from the session would be deleted. Let us know if this helps.

Best of luck. Was always a pleasure chatting with you when we met at the various socials.

After seeing Angela's link, I would want to see a lady I knew and could trust.

Number one she's investing in her business and I think this is beneficial to the client. It shows that she is accountable and a local resident. It seems that with so much competition there are an awful lot of women coming to Ottawa for short visits and competing at cutthroat prices and I'm not sure I'd be comfortable seeing them from both a health and safety point of view. Some I would suspect of doing drugs or being coerced. I think some form of regulation makes for better stability, and could be self regulating or the government will eventually step in.

It really depends on the nature of the posting, if it's nasty then it's got to be handled with discretion. Not all boards are created equal, and in fact can be very negative. If it's a bad review and you think the lady is being treated unfairly, then it's up to you to come to her defense. It's almost impossible for her to do so without her getting into a nasty pissing match. If you have had a good time with her then step in and say so.

Well LS I think we are very similar in our profiles. I'm sure you'll fit in well and enjoy yourself. You're welcome to PM if you have any questions.

Bought a new BBQ, retiring the one that's got to be 20 years old.

Count me in. Wouldn't be an Ottawa social without having our representative from PEI.

When you add an album you have several options. You just have to select the appropriate radio button to make it either public or private. If you select private then only your contacts and moderator can see them.

At this stage I'm not actively looking for a new squeeze but wouldn't be put off if someone I liked entered my life. Sure, I can't think of a reason not to have a date and possibly a relationship with a woman that is or has been in this line of work. The trouble in responding to these fairly open topics they can become very complex depending on many factors, e.g how serious do you want to become, and what are the past, present, and future implications. I will assume for arguments sake that it might start casually but could evolve into a serious long term relationship That said it does in my mind raise many, but in particular two serious issues, both of which are relevant to both men and woman. The first is based on the premise that the vast majority of people associated with this pastime maintain two identities. That veil has to fall away if there is to be trust as only disclosure will clear the air. If you're to develop a trusting and open relationship I believe nothing would destroy it faster than to have secrets from each other. The opinion I will express about the second issue is my own personal view. I believe I'm pretty broad minded, but when it comes down to it, either for jealousy or selfish motives it would probably eventually be necessary for the lady to give up the life. I think most men would be hard pressed to accept and share their partner. I admire those few men that can and are able to support a stable long term relationship, with no real expectation of gain.

I've never been there, but ALO's Aqua studio is at the corner of Booth and Albert. You will also find a thread in the Ottawa massage forum about Linda's which is relatively handy to Lebreton flats.

I noticed today there were nine consecutive single photo albums posted by one SP with photos that have been up before. Posting in this manner is obviously a way of putting up an ad, and I think there are already a number of local forums for the SP's to advertise. Photos with an effective narrative have a very real place in promoting a lady but I wouldn't like to see this section become the primary advertising venue.