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I am an Ottawa resident, and have a attended a number of the socials. I spent many years in Halifax, and visit on a fairly regular basis. With a little notice I think I would attend one there.

Only had the experience of this once. Without warning it surprised me when it happened, and we were in the 69 position with her on top, I was quite drenched. The girl was one of the few that I would refer to as the real GFE. She was a part timer who enjoyed her sex, and I don't think after that, that she ever left my place without the bed being soaked, Oh how I miss her!

This a very large topic. Like you my father was a physician, so during adolescence my care was close at hand, but there are many people that don't have the luxury of a family doctor. Interestingly there was an article in the Globe and Mail this morning with some strategies for finding one. http://www.theglobeandmail.com/life/health/ask-a-health-expert/the-patient-navigator/whats-the-best-way-to-find-a-family-doctor/article2037854/ When my son was a teen, I sent him to have his own appointment the the doctor and I really think it was great for him to be able to confide with the doctor about any issues he had, and without having to talk to his parents. A lot of teens won't talk to their parents, so I think it a great decision, better the doctor than discussing it among them selves As for getting immediate care, one of the difficulties with the present system, is getting the initial diagnosis, especially if it's a chronic disease. Once you have a serious diagnosis the system responds very quickly. At home and sick, you've pretty well have to give the doctors office or tele health a call for advice. The doctors generally limit there home calls to the geriatrics, and whats more I would surmise that their role isn't to provide critical care. They wind up being the gate keepers for the specialists. One of the problems for them is that they aren't encouraged to do visits because they aren't properly compensated to do it. You are quite right about the waiting room though, and generally even if you do see a doctor at his office for an immediate serious illness nine time out of ten you'll be advised to go to emergency, and hospitals are a great place to get sick. I think you have to tough it out in most instances, but you used the term overcome sickness or die. If you're that serious that you can't get out of bed and you think you're going to die, don't be shy, call 911. A couple of years ago, I was having chest pains but I didn't think I was at deaths door, so after a number of visits to the doc and several tests, he advised me to do exactly that. It meant immediate service and for the cost of an ambulance ride it moved the yard sticks considerably towards a diagnosis. Turned out to be a gastro intestinal problem.

I guess it just proves that guys don't have very good eyesight, can't appreciate what's in front of them. Same girl but a little more makeup and a more vibrant presentation.

I have two suggestions for you which might help. 1. I have an add on to my Foxfire called Tineye. It doesn't get them all but it's a start. Just a right click of the mouse and it will search the web to look for the similar pics. 2. Check in with the Cowboy Kenny's blog before you make that next date. He out's the ladies in Ottawa who scam you with false pictures of them selves.

I've seen several posts which essentially say if it doesn't work out, you have an insurance policy ( you can always come back to the hobby ). Don't go in with that attitude, it's just a recipe for failure.

Summer is a time to stick a little closer to home. Probably look around in Ontario and upstate New York, and a week for Halifax. Lucky to be able to get in the car on a whim, and always got some camping gear in the trunk if I feel like it.

If you are serious about the lady then the answer is pretty simple, you quit the hobby and accept the counseling. Quitting the hobby is difficult as it's almost like an addiction. Once you start it's a real problem kicking the habit. You can't cheat as most women have great antennae and it doesn't take long for them to realize when you're doing the dirty on them. You must be realistic about the counseling though, it's a a big commitment. Both parties have to participate with complete honesty to have a chance of working and the outcome may require that each of you must make unforeseen compromises. If you take the step to reconciling your relationship, best of luck. First step, close your CERB account, and delete all your bookmarks with any sites related to the industry

I think in all fairness I would expect some sort of response within 48 hours. In this fast moving world it's easy enough to forward your email to a smart phone and at least send an acknowledgement of receipt. Send out a automatic vacation stop if you're not available.

I think we have a few more years before they take action on this file. I don't think they will act until the Bedford decision is fully appealed and obviously that is going to be some time. Because Harper got his majority through basically a promise to be fiscally responsible, I think the religious right will have less influence if he has plans to get more than one majority term.

Time to start planting, a weekend to do some gardening. Enjoy an evening at the ball park, think I'll give the Fat Cats a try

I like mrrnice2 am widowed so am not represented by your list. So I guess single but not by choice. It was always a dilemma when and if I needed to remove the wedding band.

Why does a tele marketer waste their time after calling seven or eight times. I've asked them to put me on the do not call. They must really enjoy the abuse that I've started to heap on them.

I saw her earlier this week, and she was in a pretty good humour. She goes in streaks were she gets a little paronoid and is extremely careful. My suggestion is just wait a few weeks and then give her another try.

Since I started the tread I will make a few observations. My intent was to point out that sensitivity to other should be considered when posting new pictures. I didn't really expect the venom towards the Catholic church. The comments were made because in this instance these were those photos posted at the time, but could have just as easily been a portrayal of a child or a national icon. I am not a catholic, but think some of their teachings that have an emphasis on family and children are important. I do however believe that use of such measures as abortion and contraception are important and the right of women to control. There can't be no limits, so there are some limited sensible rules which are in place e.g. no crotch shots. I am against censorship and don't favour expanding restrictions. The value of a thread like this is there is a discussion, and hopefully an evolution to what is a community standard. In this way hopefully there is self control and consideration for others beliefs.

I think you're getting most of the regulars replying to this thread. I log on first thing in the morning, and leave it running in the back ground. I keep my eye on the recent postings, and a look at the latest photos once a day. Now and then I'll take a look at the chat room. I have joined a number of forums which I might check once or twice a day.

I saw a new photo album put up in the last few days, it's one in which the SP poses in a nun's habit. I've seen porn done in this manner, but never expected to see it here. I'm not terribly religious, and this may be a bit prudish, but I just think it's in bad taste. There are many who do value their religion and would be offended. Seeing a nun in a habit standing there with her tits hanging out doesn't turn me on. Many of the SP's here would like to raise the bar and be considered professionals, and by the same token, no doubt a woman who takes vows and dawns the habit do so for very sincere and unselfish reasons. I see no good professional reason to denigrate her in pursuit of a few extra tricks, if indeed that's the reason. Maybe she considers it artistic or funny.

Unfortunately, I'm not in your neck of the woods but would welcome your massage services. I'm always surprised that more SPs don't develop and offer massage services as an option or addition to their service offering. It can be nearly as lucrative, and in someways can be more sensual and interactive than full service.

I'll cast my vote for Jude

You are right on. This is an industry that has so many variations of body style and looks for both the client and provider that there's enough business to go around. I suppose those ladies that use cosmetic surgery think they have a competitive edge, but in reality you gain the most in reputation and repeats because of personality and good service.

In response to Sarah.. Don't get me wrong, it would be great if you organize a carnival. My point was that this last social was in my estimation one of the best. Remember that MOD doesn't want it to reflect on CERB, although it's the members of this community that make it a success. The last was very discrete, the venue really fitted us well. I stood at the bar and chatted with a member that was attending for the first time and is a lurker. I think he enjoyed the evening, and had decided to come because of it's discrete nature, and there were no incidents like those that had occurred previously. I think an occasional social like this is very valuable for the community, evidenced that we actually had some sponsorship. It's a great venue to make contacts and potentially you and the sponsors benefit with some new clients. So, at the end of the day organize a fun event, and I'll probably be there. You're a energetic fun lady who would probably put on something that could be a real hoot. The only thing I would hope is that you don't advertise the CERB connection to strongly, and let the social continue as it has been in it's own right.

I know there are a lot of fun posts here, but you have to look at reality. What's the purpose of these socials, to meet and get a look at each other, make some contacts over a sociable drink. They have got progressively better, and I hope they continue to draw a bigger group. I just think you may draw a smaller group if you turn it into a circus. Why compete, leave the burlesque up to one of our gracious hosts, Jasmin after all hosts the Mingle Mangle at CMJ. Might want a shorter meet and greet, as as I found it was the wrong time, there are some of the ladies I missed meeting. As for an idea, At this time of the year a BBQ might work out really well. It's also a chance to show a little more skin . The only problem it seems to me is finding the right venue, and no guarantee that the weather would cooperate.

New York for Cleo and Emma, but I think for a great cosmopolitan city it would have to be London for me.

Hi Buffy To follow up Megan's suggestion, take a look in the town council forum and check out the posting regarding using your web site URL, otherwise you might get on the mod's wrong side.

This is a thread which can raise many issues. Two that come to mind are the guys attitudes about the sex industry, first that in some ways they are participating in some shady and illegal enterprise, and the second relates to the failure to take ownership for their personal decision to participate with the ladies. Sure there are unscrupulous women who practice the bait and switch and those that have habits and are on the streets. But if you take care there are many wonderful women who are very professional and value this industry as their livelihood. They are careful to maintain there health and are careful to operate in a fairly lawful manner. Most value their privacy, and are not interested in keeping in touch outside the dates they have with you. I try to show them the utmost respect and let them know if they are free to call and leave a message. On the second point, if you are going to cheat then by all means have an anonymous email account and a throw away phone to protect your identity. But, if you are caught man up and accept the consequences. You should have already considered what the negative consequences are for you. I am rather fortunate that I don't have a significant other that I have to hide my activities from, but if I did I would definitely have to reconsider stepping out. At the outset I will say that I do have two phones, one of which is a pay as you go which I have had for many years. I have met many nice ladies in this industry who I'm quite comfortable with giving them my identity. The reason for the second is simply for maintaining my privacy in quite a number of areas. I don't want the telemarketer calling, a clingy client who I have helped as a volunteer, so I use the disposable for many things as well as this activity. It's a number that I can switch off when I want, or abandon if it becomes a problem. The other I expect to have forever and is only given to family, close friends and trusted people and organizations.