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I would like to add my thanks for a great event. These socials get better with each time. Again kudos to the organizers and you sure picked a great venue. Hope there will be many more.

What's the reason, pure stupidity. It's illegal and dangerous. As Kisser says the guys trying to arrange a cheap date.

A lot depends on the circumstances and how well you know each other, take your cue from her. She'll give an indication if she's comfortable with acknowledging you.

Everyone has their own preferences, but I personally would opt for the center or west end. Since there are so many ladies out there it cuts down on the list of ladies I would like to see. The problem is that my appetite is greater than my budget allows, so it works out quite well. But of course there's always an exception.

I'm going to be real serious and it might be stretching the topic. I'm sure some of you know from some of my posts that I'm a widower, so my situation was not one that I chose. I now spend much of my time alone. Since I am older and retired this creates a real dilemma. Since I had my family and a reasonably successful marriage, do I risk going out to find a new partner at this stage of my life. There are times when it's dark in the middle of winter and I really do suffer loneliness, and probably have a few drinks too many to compensate. It would be really nice to have someone to chat with at supper and snuggle up to at night. That's not to say I don't find ways to make myself busy, I travel and do a lot of volunteer work, Many of you are younger and will still have long term relationships. I feel a bit cheated, as my wife was fairly young when she passed away, and we had got through the hard slogging of bringing up children, having a career, and arguing about the budget. When the kids leave home and the job isn't a big priority there would have suddenly been time for each other, Time to travel, go out and dine, basically to have a second honey moon. It is quite remarkable to see how devoted many of the older couples you see in their golden years. I guess I'm just saying if you you can find a good partner do it, you can always work out some alone time, but it's still really nice to have someone to share your ups and downs.

Congratulations, just remember to think about your reasons when you have the urge. The only cigarette you have to avoid is the next one. You'll be rewarded time and again when you start to smell the roses, and appreciate the great taste of food again.

I think Samantha at CMJ has been involved in the sport, with a team called the Blackhearts.

Congratulations on your blog. I think the push back you've been getting recently just goes to show you how effective your service is in exposing the bait and switch artists and the agencies that you have been fingering.

Don't use the cell phone that much, but when I need a break I like to have some silence in my life. I turn everything off, the radio, TV and the phone. Nothing like having the whole house to ones self in total silence, very therapeutic.

I am in the camp that tends to stay with a few good ladies, some of whom I've seen for years. I am a widower so I've no problem with giving them my identity which can be a real positive. I expect more than simple sex, but chatting and getting to know each other.This way they can be participate and enjoy the date for themselves and don't have to rely on a formula. Now and then I'll try someone new, as ladies move on in time. Presently, need to add one or two to my short list. I look for women who have been around for a while and have good reputations. I like some maturity and try to find real professionals who take pride in them themselves and are in it as careers. Most become friends, I can be comfortable with them visiting me at home, and am comfortable with them calling if they need a helping hand.

Priceless I had tears running down my cheeks, I was laughing so hard.

I know he was asking about the client smoking. On the other hand I will ask the provider whether she's a smoker, and generally will not see a provider that does. I gave up many years ago when I brought my son home from the maternity ward and although I will not preach to others, will avoid those that do.

I think cash is the way to go. One reason a credit card Might be needed is because as the term indicates "credit" is the operative word here. Maybe you should wait until you have the were with all before you make a date. The only other possible reason I can see, is since the providers name isn't probably on the slip, you're going to slip it through as some sort of expense claim. Call me a cynic.

So is there a question here or are you looking for some justification for your decision to break up. What's the intent of the tread, sympathy. What do you want from the tread.

I also attended the 6 pm show, and enjoyed the evening. Hope Jasmin will organize similar events in the future. Kudos to Jazmin for a great effort, sure it was a lot of work.

I guess my old standby is flowers, although I have given chocolates on occasion. I'll usually put the fee in with the card. One lady I see for massage on a regular basis gets fresh home made muffins. Usually it's first appointment of the morning, so if the next appointment isn't following right away, we'll sit and chat over coffee before moving on to the massage. Not a regular occurrence, but one of the most useful I've twice given girls a serviceable used computer.

I have to agree. I think this is an agreement you've got to make with a lady you've seen before, and have struck a friendship with. I think you just have to make up the rules that you and her can agree to. It's not so much about the sex as bit is about intimacy. I kinda view it as entertaining a lady, supper, a bottle of wine and breakfast in bed.

Look interesting Angel, will give it a try. Since I'm alone this the sort of thing one can do for one, many of the recipes don't work very well for a single. I am a great muffin fan for breakfast, and usually have a supply in the freezer for a quick nuke in the morning. I'll put up a recipe some time this week, ones that I would consider pretty healthy, but would like to see a few more muffin recipes.

There are two other cancers that hit men, especially when they enter their fifties. There are very simple tests that should be done every year. Not checking the stats, but I suspect these are far more common. Colo rectal cancer can affect both genders, and the test is so easy. Get a FOBT kit at the doctor or clinic, take it home , put a fecal sample in the kit, and put it in the mail. There's no cost and the province will send you back the results. Prostate cancer is obviously a male disease. At your annual physical a quick examination and a requisition for a PSA blood test will identify a problem in it's early stages. If you're getting a prostate massage with your regular MA she might even be able to give you a heads up. I do these tests ever year, and I advise all the guys to follow suit. You only come this way once.

Well I think this is just one of the uncomfortable parts of the job, so unless there's a real credible threat bite your tongue and show a little empathy. I think you really have to have some sympathy for these women. Unfortunately the women that call have obviously been hurt by the revelation that their SO has cheated on them. They are probably going to remain in the relationship (kids, money, love) whatever the reason, and they probably don't know how to fix the problem. The betrayal will negatively affect the relationship or marriage for many years. Before my wife died I occasionally stepped out. She had told me that if she ever caught me cheating she and the kids were out the door immediately, and I believed her. I was very careful and didn't ever play in my own backyard because of the severe consequences. Guys should be very aware of whats at stake before the act. As they say, do the crime, do the time,

Not sure how to approach this one, could just PM the Mod, but others may have other opinions or suggestions which would be useful. I'd like to see some of the groups I belong to more active. I wonder if it's possible to send out a PM alert to the members of that group when there is a new message entered in the group. As far I can see the only way you know what's happening is by checking periodically.

I've also joined. I think there will be a wide variety of experience, but I hope we'll help and learn from each other. The motto should be that the is no such thing as a dumb question.

Don't people have anything better to do than write such disgusting emails. Sounds to me that it's a prank and the product of a rather warped juvenile mind, maybe a person that you had the good sense to reject. I can't believe that a lady of your bearing and reputation would have a client that would resort to such means. I sincerely hope the implied treat is empty.

I have to come on here an tell you how valuable your donation can be. I'll approach it from the other side of the fence. My wife had a blood based cancer and went through an initial bone marrow transplant using her own stem cells. Although she initially had great results, the treatment didn't give her a lasting solution. As her condition became fairly grave, it was decided to try again using a donor stem cell. The odds in finding a donor through the registry can take a lot of time and are pretty slim, but fortunately one of her relatives was a match. Unfortunately, there were complications, and my wife is no longer with us. I came across many patients in my visits to the hospital who are hanging on waiting for the generosity of people like us. In this case it rather simple to put you name on the donor registry. The odds that they'll come looking for the donation are slim, but I'll guarantee that the sense of pride is great should you be chosen.

I am quite comfortable giving my real name. I like making friends with the ladies and have an on going relationship. One reason is I try to be selective in my choices, and I think I have pretty good judgement in the service providers that I decide to see. There has to be a degree of trust in her, and there's no incentive for her to give up your identity. It's just a matter of being up front and honest with people, treat them the way you expect them to treat you.