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Bummer. Yeah, I was asking about French Bianca. Thanks.
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Is dark-haired Bianca still around during daytimes?
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Kind of proving my point for me. Part of the purpose of those speaking events would be dispelling this old-guard stereotype that all dancers are uneducated high school/college dropouts. It's worth noting that plenty of dancers and other sex workers are also current students. And that plenty of former dancers are graduates.
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Just off the top of my head, but for strip clubs that want to appear less "shady" for lack of a better term, maybe involving themselves more positively in the community could be a good look for their overall image. Maybe have some willing bar staff and/or dancers participate in community charity events under the banner of the club. Maybe delivering supplies to heavily impacted homes and communities. Not only is that needed right now, but I doubt that it would go unnoticed. Doing charity work with women's shelters would go a long way to dispelling that exploitative image. Or when things are up and running again, willing and able dancers could perhaps do speaking events at colleges and the like, dispelling the myths and stereotypes of the industry while highlighting its positive aspects in an honest and straightforward way. Not so much as a recruitment tool, but more like a Ted Talk type of thing. There are probably some logistical hurdles with some of that (as with anything), but I'm just brainstorming.
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To be fair, the FAQ section of her website lists three screening options, only two of which require you to divulge your name and/or ID. It indicates that her preferred method of screening is actually a "Recent reference from a past provider: her name and preferred contact method". Which, presumably, would not require you to divulge your ID. Unless, of course, you have some reason to think that someone wouldn't be willing to give her a reference on your behalf....in which case, yeah, her screening is working. Don't get me wrong, I'm not implying that you're a bad client, maybe you can't provide a recent reference because it's been well over a year since you've indulged yourself with a SP/MA (which would be my case), or maybe some other totally innocent reason,...but it's easy to see how a more challenging screening process in lieu of a simple reference would weed out a lot of the bad element.
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IMO, it depends on your schedule. I'm mainly a daytime/late afternoon SC guy (on my way home from work) so I've never really felt unsafe going to PM. Now, is it a place I would want to close out the night at on any given day of the week? Nope. But then again, at my age, I'm not closing out any bars anymore, Vanier or otherwise lol. That being said, it's up to everyone to decide their own comfort levels.
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No offense, but I'm getting kind of tired of reading this kind of answer whenever this question or something like it is posed. We're on an escort recommendation board. I think it's a safe bet that everyone here already knows that SP's and MP's are an option. If we needed reminding of that, we wouldn't be members on this board. Nothing against SP's or MP's. God love 'em, and I've seen more than a few in my time. But the fact of the matter is that there's a certain kind of setting and ambiance you get in a club that you can't get with a SP or a MP. SP's definitely have some advantages over stripclubs, no doubt about it, but stripclubs also have qualities that SP's don't. The sense of the unknown, not knowing who you will see as you walk in, maybe seeing someone new and getting butterflies in your stomach because you don't know what your experience will be like with this person. In other words, a fun sense of spontaneity that is often missing from a typical SP experience in which your "final destination" was fully discussed and agreed upon hours, sometimes days, before the actual encounter (and for good reason). For some, that sense of the unknown, that "gamble" can add a significant level of excitement. Or, for some guys, their kink might be the "quasi-exhibitionist" factor of being close with a beautiful, naked woman in a relatively public setting, even if that final destination (to use your analogy) isn't even in the same area code as where you'd end up with a SP behind the wheel. Sometimes the road trip through unknown terrain can be just as satisfying and intriguing as reaching that final destination. You've mentioned that a more adventurous-than-normal CR experience can feel rushed. I'm sure that's probably true, and for some guys, maybe THAT is their kink. Maybe that only adds to that sense of exciting spontaneity. For myself, any and all of these elements play a part in why I enjoy the clubs. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy spending prolonged, more relaxed, more intimate and naughtier time with a beautiful SP as well. But sometimes our urges vary from day to day, or our opportunities to indulge ourselves are a spur of the moment thing. And seeing a reputable SP on a "spur of the moment" basis is a hard thing to do. The clubs are designed to allow you to spend time with a beautiful woman on the fly, on your schedule, no appointment required. Long story short, we all have our kinks, our preferences, and I don't think anybody on this board needs reminding that escorts are a thing. To (finally) answer the OP's original question, in my experience, for last-minute daytime visits my preference leans towards Taboo, Playmate, and BareFax, in that order. But of course, don't ever go in expecting anything more than a dance, YMMV always applies, and every dancer may or may not have different boundaries and those boundaries should always be respected. My philosophy? Just sit back, follow her lead and enjoy the journey wherever it may lead you. Never mind about the destination.
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Barbarellas closing at end of year?
castle replied to hopeful's topic in Ottawa Discussion - Stripclubs & Dancers
I'm a little confused. In a recent thread about Taboo's possibly imminent closure, someone else indicated that the license does NOT automatically transfer over to a new owner. But this comment seems to indicate otherwise. Anyone know for sure? -
Anyone know if this still exists in the city? Maybe like an MA/SP/Haircut hybrid type of thing? Could be hot.
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My time may not be precious (then again, maybe it is in the grand scheme of things), but my dollars certainly are. Not really in a financial position where I can afford to spend hours at a time at stripclub trying my hand with multiple dancers every other day. On the rare occasions that I go, I like to have at least a general, basic idea of what kind of experience I might be in for. S'all good, you more or less answered my question anyway. Thanks.
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Barb's used to be my favorite go-to club, but haven't been back in 7 or 8 years since things got a little too "conservative" for my particular tastes once the bylaws changed IYKWIM. Is that still the case or have things loosened up a bit over the years? It's a shame because Barb's is way more conveniently located for me than some of the other clubs I've come to frequent over the years and I've always enjoyed its ambiance.
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castle started following Issues with "Menus" vs inquiring about a service, 176 Boulevard Moussette, Gatineau, My GF is an MA, is it cheating? and and 6 others
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Spent some hot and sexy time with Lila today. A real French lady (from France), curvy brunette (not BBW but a nice hourglass), milf age, mid to late thirties would be my guess. Based on my experience with her, I can only conclude that the stereotype about the French is true...they sure are a passionate and sensual lot! (While remaining within the boundaries of conventional CR behavior) Said she's going back to France in July for a few months, maybe longer.
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There is this post from a little over a year ago. http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=251771&highlight=moussette I'd also be curious to know if anyone has any more recent experiences to report. PM if need be.
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I've spent time with her occasionally throughout the years at various clubs and that's always been my impression as well. Very hot and sensual but "above board".
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On the topic of duos, I was in there early Monday afternoon two weeks ago. I was hoping to spend time with Grace since I've heard good things about her but she was keeping her time occupied with one or two gents. Very few ladies were working that day. Eventually, Sally came out from hiding, and I decided to take her upstairs since I haven't spent time with her in quite a while and she is dependently pleasing to spend time with. On our way upstairs we passed Grace talking to the DJ. As she does, Sally did not pass up the opportunity to fondle Grace on her way by, which Grace seemed to enjoy quite a bit. I agree with Kilt Boy about duos in general, but I was tempted to ask Grace on the spot if she wished to join Sally and I but she was up on stage next, and I had already been waiting around longer than I intended and was ready and raring to go. So I let the opportunity slip by. In retrospect, it was a huge regret. Don't get me wrong, I had a blast with Sally alone, but I should have asked her if she minded waiting until Grace was done her stage show. I think a duo with those two would have been something else! Maybe next time, but finding both of them unoccupied at the same time seems to be a rarity.