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Strips Clubs - the new middle ground?
castle replied to ClaRayDeb's topic in Ottawa Discussion - Stripclubs & Dancers
I don't drive either but trust me, Taboo and Pigale are (more often than not) worth the 20-25 minute bus ride if you're looking for friendly, liberal dancers. Day times are good. Nice thing is they're literally across the street from each other. So if you're not having luck at one place you literally just cross the street and try the other. -
Strips Clubs - the new middle ground?
castle replied to ClaRayDeb's topic in Ottawa Discussion - Stripclubs & Dancers
I think you're thinking of the street scene as reputable SP's won't rush you and I've never heard of SP (Escorts) being busted. When it comes to prostitution the only sweeps in this area are of the street scene. As long as he gets a reputable and well reviewed SP he will have nothing to worry about. Sure dancer's don't rush you, because they're raking it in. 30 minutes with a dancer you've just spent somewhere in the area of $150-$200 where you could spend that for an hour with a SP. I don't mean to imply that they're money hungry but it's their job, to seduce you and keep you there longer. I don't mean to bash strip bars, I spend a lot of time and money at stripclubs myself. Spending 10-15 minutes in the CR with a sexy dancer is a thrill, can't deny that. But if I'm looking for a little more intimate kind of encounter than I'll book a SP. The OP mentioned he was looking for a middle ground between strip clubs and full service without going to a MP. Again the most logical solution to me would be to book a SP and mention what he's looking for. The SP's not gonna kick him out the door because he doesn't want full service, he's paying for their time, not their services. That could even include just kissing, cuddling and talking for an hour or two without any actual sexual activities. Or watch a movie while cuddling, etc. Or if he's interested in certain activities but not others....as he said, not the whole shebang, he just needs to say so when making the arrangements with her. Sexual activities are not a must when booking a SP, he would just need to specify with the SP before booking via PM, e-mail, etc exactly what he has in mind. If she's not happy with what he's looking for than he can move on to the next lady he has on mind. I guess it all depends on his budget...me personally, I can relax a lot more, spending $200-250 with a SP for an hour or so and not have to worry about the little dollar sign in my mind going "ka-ching" every time a new song starts. $20/song adds up very quickly. Like I said, nothing against strip bars, I like 'em too depending on my mood. But for a less rushed, more intimate encounter and setting, I'll go with a SP every time. -
Strips Clubs - the new middle ground?
castle replied to ClaRayDeb's topic in Ottawa Discussion - Stripclubs & Dancers
You could always book with a SP and specify before hand exactly what you're looking for and specify that you're not looking for the whole shebang. One thing to keep in mind though is that you're paying for their time, so rates will likely remain the same. -
I know exactly who you're referring to. Last time I saw her she was back at Barefax but that was a few months ago. I've only been back there once or twice since then and haven't seen her. It's possible she's since moved on or that I've been in on her days off. Agreed she's a lot of fun in the CR! Would love to see her again too.
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FINALLY getting my AC set up! It ain't pretty (yay duct tape lol) but at least it's working! Now I can, in good conscience, have me some sexy company ;)
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Yeah I believe in love...I think the problem with high divorce rates is that our culture has become a very disposable one...in the sense that EVERYTHING is disposable. Whether it be a cell phone, a kitchen appliance or a relationship. Once upon a time, when something started showing signs of wear and tear, say, a VCR or something, we didn't automatically kick it to the curb and go out and buy a new one. We would open it up and tinker around with the insides and try to find the problem, often getting a shock, slicing our finger open, and cursing all the while, literally putting our blood, sweat and tears into it....but once it started working again, the feeling of reward and satisfaction was that much greater for the work we put into it. Or, worst case scenario, if we couldn't fix it ourselves we'd take it out and pay to have a professional repair it (read: tv repairman/marriage counselor). And only as a very last result would we even consider going out and buying a new one. This is not the case anymore, I think we've gotten it into our mind that everything is so easily disposable and replaceable, and whether it be consciously or subconsciously, this somehow includes relationships too. I'm not being holier than thou, I'm guilty of this too. I've never been married but I think every relationship I've been in, has ended too easily without putting up much of a fight, neither one of us made the necessary efforts needed to keep things going. Once things started getting boring or stale, we abandoned ship. The problems marriages/long term relationships encounter today are the exact same problems which were encountered 20, 30, 50, 100 years ago. The love felt today between two people is no less powerful than it was by two people in the past. The difference is now, in our culture today, no one is willing to put the necessary work into making something work. We just go on ebay and find a new one, often at what we perceive to be a better price. At least that's how I see it.
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I've been checking out xhamster. Some good amateur stuff on there, user submitted clips and pics, as well as the pornstar stuff.
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Good to know! ;) I think anyone who has taken a gander at my recommendations, or just at the visitor messages on my profile, will be able to tell that I really dig heavily tattooed women lol. And despite the fact that I'm paying for it I still like to make an effort to appear attractive to the other person. But I've always felt a little self conscious being with someone who is heavily inked because I felt they would find me less attractive seeing as I have no ink whatsoever. So it's reassuring to see that's not always the case :) Posted via Mobile Device
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Ahhhh....plAtonic! my bad lol. I learn something new every day.
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Having a completely plutonic female friend freak out on you and give you the silent treatment because she thinks you're texting someone other than who you said you were texting. Which is untrue. Sounds like jealous highschool girlfriend shit doesn't it? I know. Tonight settles it. I'm sticking with SP's!! If this much baggage and drama comes along with a fully plutonic friend, let alone a girlfriend (or worst yet, a wife!), then I just don't think it's worth it. SP's ftw!! :D Posted via Mobile Device
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Soon I will grab my coat and grab my hat and run into the street. Down at the park I'll be watching the lords and the ladies, fixing their hairdos, cursing their lovers, cursing the bible. Everyone will Raise their fists and Yell!! We're gonna dance our heads off and we're gonna keep it tight! No one will be as stiff as my smoking barrel. We'll be going far as we want to go down in Dragontown. And after we've all seen this thing's lonely life unfold on stage, I'm gonna be home soon. I'll be kinda awkward and afraid. Time has changed my point of view. Bodies need rest, we all need our rest, to sleep an easy sleep. But I can't close my eyes, never close my eyes, if I begin to snooze, I hear the big old floppy shoes, I Can't sleep.... the clowns will eat me!! I know they're under the bed, that's where they hide. I know they need to be fed every night. I'll show you wounds that never heal. To them I'm just a happy meal......I've had this nightmare before and I know how it ends.... Short version....I'm going to see Alice Cooper tonight!! :D
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Diva has been more active here on cerb of late. I invite all my fellow fans of hers to drop her a quick hello on her wall and lets all make her feel welcome! :) http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?userid=39036 http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=96484 Cheers!
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Dancers and Devotees
castle replied to a topic in Dancers and Devotees's Dancers and Devotees Topics
Taboo's Diva has been more active here on cerb of late. I invite all my fellow fans of hers to drop her a quick hello on her wall and lets all make her feel welcome! :) http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?userid=39036 -
Typical heat thread
castle replied to Cara Silver's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
I hate, hate, HATE this kind of heat! I too become absolutely useless in this kind of heat. My health takes a nosedive in this kind of heat. Exercising?? Hahahah!! Cooking? Bwaaahahaha! That's even funnier. So it's constant take out and vegging in this kind of heat. And I'm cranky ALL the time. I actually look forward to spending all week at work because it's an air conditioned environment. And you know something is definitely amiss in my usually one track mind when fooling around is the very last thing on it. Hell, even masturbating feels like a chore! But who can stop masturbating? Posted via Mobile Device -
http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showpost.php?p=360052&postcount=2 ;)
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Spending $400 on an A/C unit, getting it home....by bus.....feeling all good about myself. "Finally!" I tell myself. "Finally I can voluntarily freeze my ass off like every one else!......A busted toe, sprained ankle, and pulled muscle later I must admit defeat and accept the fact that it does not fit in any of my windows.......for fuck's sake I just want to be cold!!! Is that so much to ask for?? In Canada of all places?!
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Favorite things to do in Montreal
castle replied to Cleo Catra's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Much like you when I go to Montreal it's mainly to see friends. But I've been to Foufounes a couple of times. It's a pretty good club for people like us, what some would call the "alternative" crowd. Very friendly wait staff, comfortable atmosphere, never too crowded, at least not in my experience. I don't drink anymore but I seem to recall my friends commenting that the drinks were decently priced. Not a "unce unce" kind of music club by any stretch of the imagination. The music is mostly punk/metal/rock/alternative kind of stuff. I like the place. Been to some other pubs and stuff but I honestly can't remember names. That's the only one that sticks out in my mind. http://www.foufounes.qc.ca/news/ Have a blast!! :) Additional Comments: And not sure when you're going but I just looked at the website, and just saw that Fear Factory will be playing there on July 18th, if you're into that kind of metal. -
well....one would always need to take ymmv into consideration. But that being said, with their blessing I can personally recommend the intelligent, gorgeous and hilarious SaraMQ and the naughty, fiery redseductress for this particular act. And although I haven't met her (yet) I'd also like to point out that Angela of Ottawa has often expressed a fondness for facials in similar threads. I've also gotten her blessing to mention her here. I would have also recommended the ever beautiful Cleo Catra for this....but being the eager little kitty that she is, she beat me to it! :p Posted via Mobile Device
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Might sound strange but the casual look is a huge turn on for me. Jeans and a t-shirt, pj's, very little (if any) makeup. Whatever you would normally be seen wearing when your out running errands or around around the house on any other day. Which is one of the reasons why I tend to prefer outcalls. Ladies will generally show up dressed casually for the sake of discretion.....the bonus is that it just so happens to be a huge turn on for me :D I find it helps build the fantasy of this being just a spontaneous, casual hook up rather than a SP/Client thing. Like this person is someone I just met at the grocery store or something and she invited herself back to my place for a fun, no strings attached, romp! Or if it's someone I've seen several times, it gives the impression of a friends with benefits kind of thing. Of course I always have the envelope with the donation handy, right by the door, but I find that the casual look just helps to build that fantasy a bit. Many guys may expect, because he's paying, that the lady take an extra effort to get all dolled up in fancy lingerie or whatever....but not me. I prefer the lady feel casual and comfortable.
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Toys, Toys, Toys! What's ur Fav ?
castle replied to Kiara Kinkz's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
As a child I was always particularly fond of my Castle Greyskull and my Optomis Prime Oh wait......we're not talking about those kind of toys are we? ......Damn!.......carry on. -
An apology regarding rep points
castle replied to Meg O'Ryan's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
I've been a member since '06 and just found out about this last year.....so don't feel bad Meg. :p -
Going to sleep lonely every night....and waking up lonely every morning.. Posted via Mobile Device
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