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I like hfxandy's avatar! Clint forever!! :D

I'm NEVER eating here!! *barf*

Yeah! An R-rated version! ;)

I want to thank all of you for your input on either side of the fence. It gave me much to think about. Many of you are right, that lying seems to be a habit of hers and the hard truth is I have to take everything she tells me with a grain of salt. This is something I've slowly been coming to realize for a while now. Even if I were to win her back....would I ever be able to fully trust her? This isn't new behavior for her. She's cheated on everyone she's every been with. Making myself sick worrying about this when in reality I truly don't believe there's anything I can do to change it is pointless. And I'm no longer even sure I should as everything I think I know about this guy may very well be BS. And for my own health and well-being I need to put this behind me. I've been pretty candid here already, so I may as well share this too...I used to have a pretty serious drinking problem...a few years ago I quit. Close to 3 years now without a drop. I haven't even felt the need for a drink for about a year....been able to go out to bars with friends and not be tempted.....but these last few weeks have been a different story. The stress and frustration of this has been pushing me to that line I haven't crossed in years. If I keep obsessing and worrying about this then I will end up making my own mistakes. I can't let myself go down that path again. So long story short I've decided to stay out of it...I need to figure out some subtle way of letting her know that I'll be there for her........as a friend......when the shit eventually hits the fan...but her mistakes are her own to make and learn from. I need to leave the past where it is....in the past... and start looking forward instead. Every day is a new beginning, and I plan to look at this new day in just that way. Thanks again everyone for your support and advice! I love this little community we've built ourselves here and don't know what I'd do without it! :)

Ratzenberger also had scenes in the first 2 Superman movies. In the first one he's some military grunt, in the second one he's working for NASA. Posted via Mobile Device

I'm a huge fan of westerns! And I agree some maybe could be redone well....but not the Clint Eastwood ones!! No one does Clint like Clint! Especially not the two you mentioned. He delivers some of his best lines in those movies, as only Clint can. That would be like remaking Rocky or Rambo without Stallone...you just can't do it. It would be sacrilegious! :p I think High Planes Drifter is one of my favorite Client Eastwood westerns....so I'm a little touchy on the subject, lol.

According to IMDB there's a Logan's Run remake planned for 2014.

You want to talk about running out of ideas? They already remade Spiderman! It's coming out next summer. Didn't Spiderman JUST come out?? I'm willing to bet money that in 5 years they do the Harry Potter movies all over again :P the new Planet of The Apes was pretty good. But I guess that's more of a prequel than a remake. I'm ok with remakes if it's something based on a novel and the original movie strayed very far from the original source. Basically if there's an actual reason to remake it besides the almighty dollar. Some may disagree with me but I keep hoping for a remake of The Crow. I loved the first movie but the graphic novel it's inspired by is a completely different beast. I'd like to see it finally be properly adapted to film. I am also looking forward to the new Conan. It looks to be a lot more like Robert E. Howards stories than the governator's version was. I'd also like to finally see proper adaptations of Frankenstein and Dracula. The films "Bram Stoker's Dracula" and "Mary Shelley's Frankenstein" were anything but what their titles imply. Posted via Mobile Device

Thanks for your input sweetheart! I value your opinion and always love to hear what you have to say <3 xoxo

Thanks ladies! Still not sure what I'm going to do about it....if anything. But you've all given me much to think about. Gotta love this place! :) Posted via Mobile Device

I hope I speak for most of the other men here when I say I sincerely hope that the good far outweighs the bad. Thank you my lovelies! Don't know what I'd do without you! xoxo

No. Unfortunately I don't really know any of her friends or family. And I'm not even positive that any actual physical violence occured while she was with him the first time. She's told me about his mental abuse and controlling nature. The only thing I ever witnessed first hand was the repeated calling and hang ups. But guys in their early twenties who get dumped are rarely rational. Everything I know about actual abuse is more just things she has told me. For these reasons if I were to speak up it would be to her and no one else...just in case she was full of it. Posted via Mobile Device

As some of you may know early in the year I left the hobby for several months. I had gotten myself a girlfriend and decided to focus all my attentions to her. In reality it was an extra-marital affair. The whole story is pretty complicated (and long) but to really be able to give an informed opinion on my dilemma I feel you'll all need to know the whole story so here it goes. When I was about 19 I started dating this girl. It only lasted a few months but it was a very intense few months. I was never quite able to get her out of my mind. Still can't. Over the years we always remained friends. About a year or two after we broke up she began seeing someone who was mentally (and I suspect) physically abusive. It was a very unhealthy destructive relationship...she eventually broke up with him but he began stalking her and calling her house repeatedly (as in calling, waiting 5 seconds, and then calling again...for hours on end). She eventually had to put a restraining order on him to get him out of the picture. The years went on, we always remained in touch, she eventually got married and had a son. Earlier this year it started to become apparent that we still had strong feelings for each other....so even though knowing her marital status..I decided to persue it. The plan of course was she was going to leave him for me...and I truly feel it was the truth...as he is one of those guys who would rather play on his ps3 than look after his son it was very rare that we would spend any time alone together. So of course when we did all we did was have sex. Even though we live in the same city, for all intents and purposes it was a long distance relationship. Before long she began to raise concerns that we did not have very much in common besides physical attraction and that she didn't really "know" me. I very much shared these concerns. If she left her husband and turned her life and her son's upside down for me and things between us didn't work out....well...then what. She eventually got over her reservations but I never really did. Once on a whim while out with her son she came by my place...we were in no way affectionate around the boy and just acted like friends. But even so after they left she asked her son to lie to his father about where they had been. That was the last straw for me....it became strikingly apparent to me that this whole situation was unhealthy...and that it was virtually impossible to build something healthy from that situation. I told her I felt we should stop seeing each other in a romantic capacity....and that if somewhere down the line she decided to leave her husband...not for me. But truly because she felt it was the best thing for herself and her son...then maybe we could try again to build something healthy...the right way. And if things didn't work out. Then no harm no foul. Even though it was by no means a rejection of her personally...but more a rejection of the situation, she chose to see it as a rejection of her and became very hurt and angry...she still is, and for all intents and purposes not talking to me (the odd facebook comment here and there but that's it). Now I see through facebook that she's started up that exact same kind of affair with the abusive stalker guy from years ago. Obviously this bothers me, considering the type of guy I know him to be. I don't regret my decision...and I'm prepared for the notion of her seeing other people, or staying with her husband if she feels that's the right course...but not this guy. I feel I should express my concerns to her about what she's doing. But at the same time I'm afraid that considering how mad she is with me right now that if I say anything it just might make things worse...in her current state of mind she may proceed things with him even further along just out of spite. But I'm having a lot of trouble just doing nothing and letting her make a colossal mistake which could have severe ramifications for both her and her son...I'm having trouble standing by and not doing (or at least saying) anything. I know it's none of my business but in a way I feel it is as I can't help but feel that my actions put her here. And she is still someone I care for, and yet, still have feelings for. If I saw any other of my friends making the same kind of mistake I would make my opinion known...but there is the fear I have of making things worse in this particular situation. So long story short....what do my fellow cerb-ians think I should do? Speak up or keep quiet and mind my business? Posted via Mobile Device

Thanks for the free advertising Pete! :). However I should point out that the kind of talk in that group shouldn't necessarily reflect how we refer to certain parts or acts in the general threads or serious recommendations or even in everyday life. When I talk dirty I reserve it for the bedroom (if I know ahead of time that she's into that kinda thing) or for that group. Talking that way in every thread runs too high a risk of offending people. Personally I wouldn't be but others might. There's a time and place for that kinda thing. So I really can understand how people who are members of that group may be offended by similar words or phrases in the recos or general discussions. Posted via Mobile Device

A friend of mine found his wife on POF. Which is exactly what most of us here are NOT looking for! And "friends with benefits"? No such thing. When seeing a non-sp there's no such thing as a "no strings" relationship. That friend of mine and his wife? They started out as "friends with benefits". When dealing with sex in the "real world"...attachments will inevitably develop for one or both persons. And if the attachment is not shared by both parties then feelings will be hurt and all kinds of drama will inevitably ensue. Which is exactly what we "fellas" here are trying to avoid. There have been stories here of this kind of drama happening in the SP/client relationship but it's rare....it's a lot more likely to happen on POF. Like rickoshadows said...we're not paying for sex....we're paying for the "no muss, no fuss" aspect of seeing a SP. So for me....at this stage of my life it's the hobby over POF any day. If at some point I decide I'm ready for something more than I may check out POF. But this whole idea of "no strings attached" "friends with benefits" and "free sex" is a myth. Posted via Mobile Device

And even after I took him out and bought him dinner! I was a complete gentleman! I don't get it?? WTF?? :p

Yup....that did it, lol

You think that's bad? I call my favorite pizza joint and not only does the phone guy give me my own address back before I even get a word in. But he reads my order back to me before I've even given it to him. And it's not one of these places that has my address programmed in their computer or anything. I've been there. They have no computer..just an old school cash register. He literally just recognizes my voice and remembers my address and what I usually order....you know it's time to start eating better when...:p Posted via Mobile Device

Damn speedstick! You really got to cut it out with the poetry....you're making the rest of us Angel admirers look bad! :p Posted via Mobile Device

Question: would a sp be upset if I brought a cheat sheet with all this written down on it to our date? :p. I can't realistically be expected to remember all this can I? Hehe. Posted via Mobile Device

I like cheektocheeek's handle. On a cool night that's exactly how I like to lie next to my lover, whoever she may be, and fall asleep that way. Posted via Mobile Device

I agree with this. Something which let's your personality shine through. Cleo's albums are a perfect example. And Julia I can tell from your posts that you have a fun, sexy personality. So something that shows that would be ideal. Something fun and sexy. Either way I can't wait to see what you come up with :) Posted via Mobile Device

When you can't remember how you got along in the hobby before cerb.....oh wait...I remember now....the ottawa sun....*shudder* Posted via Mobile Device