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Yup...I simply HAD to nominate that post! ;) And now...finally....the meaning of life...and I'm sharing it first with all of you, my fellow leg humpers, male and female alike! (which reminds me.....actually had a girl hump my leg while giving me a bj once.....that was.......kinda hot actually. Wait....where was I? Oh right! The meaning of life......here you go!

I'd say cleanliness is a big thing for me. I'm a non-smoker but everyone I know are smokers, so I'm used to the smell..not a big deal for me if the place smells a little like smoke (as long as it's not on your breath...like licking an ashtray..yuck!)... but yes, the place has to be clean. Also nice to see is a few things here and there to give an idea of the lady's personality and who she is as a person. Nothing to threaten her identity or discretion. No personal photos or anything like that. Just books and the like, some music. Basically just some good conversation pieces, helps break the ice and helps get to know each other a little better. Essentially what I mean is make the place your own, make it feel like someone's home.

Congrats on your anniversary! Here's hoping you spend it with someone special :) And trust me....it only gets better as time goes on!

I agree with Malika's take on it. It's possible....but don't bet on it. I personally never see a SP with notions of anything else in mind. If it happens, great....but it hasn't yet, and really, as much as we talk about the "GFE", the last thing we're looking for from a SP is a "GF"....and the last thing they're looking for from this is a BF.....it's strings free fun. But as Isabella pointed out. Life does tend to throw us for a curve ball now and then despite our best intentions. I commend you on this decision Sara! I'm very much of the same mind. I refuse to hobby while I'm in a relationship now. I did it in my younger, stupider days, when I first started hobbying and it was the biggest mistake of my life. Don't get me wrong, I love this lifestyle, but I should have just ended it with her if I was unsatisfied enough to seek out SP's....the guilt of that has always stayed with me. So yeah, monogamy is also very important to me now. I would be pretty pissed and hurt to find out she had a guy (or several) on the side. So it would be pretty hypocritical of me to continue hobbying while with her. If we were swingers that might me a different story ;)...but that's simply not my scene. If I were to start dating a SP she would have to find another means of income for things to work....and if you ask me that's a completely unfair demand on my part and not something I could ever bring myself to ask her to do. So for these reasons I don't see myself ever dating a SP. I just want to point out that I'm not judging any of the men on here who do hobby while having a SO. Or any of the SP's here who have SO's. Everyone's views and situations are different. These just happen to be mine. I'm sorry this happened to you Cleo :( I can attest to the fact that you are very much dateable and were circumstances different I for one would jump at the chance ;) the guy was clearly (if he's on here and reading this, I apologize to you whoever you are) a douche. It's one thing to see SP's while having a SO...there's no real emotional attachment from seeing a SP....well..that's not really true...otherwise this hobby wouldn't be any fun....but you know what I mean...but going on an actual "date" with someone while involved in a relationship?...that's unacceptable to me..but maybe that's just me. I don't know you personally Cleo, and like Meg said, our real faces and the faces we show in this lifestyle are quite different...but for anyone to view you, or any of the ladies here as "just a SP" is quite honestly a crime in my mind. As I previously stated I wouldn't consider dating a SP only because I wouldn't ever expect anyone to leave their chosen profession for me, and monogamy is a very important part of a relationship for me. So right there that rules out SP's for me. But surely not because I consider them "just SP's" or not dateable. If I hit it off with a SP, and somewhere down the line after she has left the profession our paths cross and the stars align, then I would most definitely jump at the chance to get to know the real her. This includes you, Cleo :) SP persona aside I can tell that you're a very charming and beautiful woman.....(not to mention the fact that your movie collection is "apparently" bigger than mine, you like Alice Cooper....and you BAKE to boot! Truly you are a woman after my own heart :p ) Seriously though, any man who takes you for granted is ready for the short bus if you ask me.

I've always wanted to try this......but not with Christopher Walken's daughter.....I'm adventurous but not fuckin' nuts....Walken is a scary, scary man.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PMA156c4JUE Or even better: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V_UL9ajNJxI

Me too!! Sounds like we have a lot of things in common Lexy.....well...the naughty things anyway ;)

Simple no strings attached fun. Complete and utter lack of drama (usually :p). The experience of getting naughty with a beautiful woman, who, in my personal life may never have met or would not have had the courage to ask out. Getting to live out certain fetishes or fantasies without judgment which I may never have gotten to do with a SO. Also the variety, by which I mean being able to try all different kinds of women, some kinds who I would not have been interested in in my personal life...venturing outside my sandbox so to speak.

Done!!! :D

Thank God you found out in time! I can't imagine going to see a SP and having my best friend's gf answer the door! Or worst yet be introduced to her and we both recognize each other as SP and Client who have previously already had an encounter together. Talk about awkward!

This one's kinda fun "What?" by Rob Zombie

Agreed. Mind your business. I know it would be hard. I know I'd sure as hell struggle with it. But yeah, I say let things play out.

I think everyone has already suggested the hotels I would have suggested...so I really don't have anything useful to add to this thread except to say..........YESSS!! Best news I've heard in a while!! ;)

I can attest to the fact that Lexy really is just the kind of person :) In the past she's posted a "Hello and Thank You For Visiting" on my profile. And as my profile clearly indicates that I'm in Ottawa I find it hard to believe that she was soliciting someone located halfway across the country :p Love your naughty threads (and equally naughty nature) Lexy! Keep 'em cumming ;)

I think that's a great idea! Wonder why I never thought of doing that myself. Will be updating it the second I get home! :) Posted via Mobile Device

Ooohhh.....artsy AND naughty! Nice! ;)

Great post! And great advice "Move on!" I wish someone had told me these two simple words months ago, although I probably wouldn't have listened. Some time ago I left the lifestyle for several months because I had gotten back together with "The one who got away". One girl I had dated in my younger days but who had always stuck in my mind, my memories painting her in a very rosy light, her serious personality flaws were "cute little quirks" as far as my memory was concerned. Once back together with her, the teenage blinders were off and I was seeing her with a clear headed, adult's mind.....and it quickly became clear that she's fucking nuts! The sex was great but there wasn't much else there... maybe that's a little harsh, she's a sweet girl and has a lot of really great traits but we just weren't compatible as a couple...we weren't back then and we're still not. I've always been able to stay close friends with all of my ex's, all my breakups have been amicable, I've even attended two of my ex's weddings :p....but with her...well, things are very tense and awkward now with someone who I care a great deal about. In all past relationships I'm the one who was dumped and handled it fine which is why I've always been able to remain friends with them. This is the first time I've had to break up with someone....and I guess attractive women aren't used to being broken up with and she doesn't know how to deal with it. We remained really good friends after we broke up the first time, but this time I fear that I may have lost a really good friend...And that hurts. I don't know if our friendship will survive a second break-up. I hope it does...but I just don't know. If months ago I had had your presence of mind and willpower to say "No, we've been down this road before and it didn't work" I would have saved myself a boatload of trouble and yes, a lot of heartache too. So I applaud you! And I give the same advice to anyone reading this who may be thinking about or trying to get back together with the "one that got away"....two simple words..."Move on"....rarely will things work any better the second time around. The reasons you had for parting ways in the first place will still be there. And it may sound harsh to say, but there's plenty of fish in the sea. Somewhere out there is someone who is right for you, I truly believe everyone has a perfect match for them somewhere out there. The one from your past is not that one, or she/he wouldn't be in your past.

Me too! It's been on my to do list for a while now! I have the perfect balcony for it! And it's the perfect time of year for it too! Just have to find a willing partner, lol ;)

Ok I'll cave and join in the puppy-kitty cuteness A rather unique love-hate relationship between a kitten and a pitbull :)

Now I just have to figure out which is Cleo's favorite bar! ;) I'm quite fond of the empty (or near empty) movie theater...always a classic! Gotta love matinees :p

You have an invisible vibrator?? Neat! Boy...you really can get anything on ebay these days! :p

Congrats!! :D (yessss! 1 post closer to Elite myself! ;) )

This might sound strange but I get REALLY horny when I just get back from some family function, thanksgiving dinner, christmas dinner, etc. I guess maybe boredom breeds horniness? :p

I've honestly never noticed particular days...but I do tend to be hornier during the morning/early afternoon than I am at night...not sure why. I'd be interested in hearing the ladies' point of view. Do you ladies have specific days on which you are feeling hornier than others?

Might sounds like a cliche but to me being "young at heart" is everything. I've seen SP's in their 50's who are more energetic and fun than some SP's in the 20's. It's all about personality and attitude.