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Megan, I think I need more friends like you! ;)

77.04 Ok, so looks like most of you ladies will outlive me. That's actually a good thing, now I just have to decide which of you lovely ladies to book a session with in 45 years. Ah, screw it, why bother racking my brain choosing one. It's my last time, may as well go out with a bang. You ladies have plans in 45 years?

Sooner rather than later is probably a good idea. That nauseous feeling will just get worse the longer you wait. I speak from experience.

It's a tricky question. Where does one draw the line between an addiction, and just a higher than normal sex drive? I think I view it similar to alcoholism in the sense that there are different levels of alcoholism. There are alcoholics whose addiction ruins every aspect of their lives, threatens their health, job, relationships, finances, etc. They're basically just not able to function as normal people do because of it and basically need to be institutionalized for their own sake. Then there's the alcoholics who probably drink more than is normal but are still able to function and live a normal life, but that still need that daily drink (or 5). For the longest time I was in that second category, still able to function but pretty much getting drunk every night unbeknownst to my friends, family or co-workers. (3 years without a drop now! :) ) I think when it comes to sex I'm in that same place. I need some form of sexual stimulation daily, whether that's self pleasuring, going to a SC or seeing a SP. (sadly, it's usually the first :P). Difference between sex and alcohol is that sexual craving is a natural thing....to an extent. I'm still able to function. I can still manage to control myself enough to keep me living comfortably with a roof over my head and food in my belly, etc. So am I addicted or do I just have a higher than normal sex drive? Sometimes I think I'm just hornier than most but than sometimes I'll think I really am addicted. It's really a tough question to ask yourself. I guess I'm saying that it does indeed exist. There are extreme cases of people, like alcoholism, who are so far gone that they cannot function in society because of their sexual addiction and really do need professional help. Examples like Sabrina's, people whose sexual addiction is actually causing them physical and mental damage. So yes, the addiction does exist, but I don't think that everyone who is horny should be classified as a sexual addict. If you're not hurting yourself or others, and if you don't let it take over every aspect of your life, then why not get laid as often as possible? It's natural, fun, and safe (if you're smart about it). You're not destroying your liver, lungs, etc by having sex regularly. Maybe in clinical terms I am an addict, I really couldn't say, but I definitely don't consider myself one. I'm not spending all my money in SC's or with SP's, it's in no way affecting any other aspect of my life, I know that there is a line and I know where it's drawn. I think a true addict is someone who doesn't even know there is a line. I've always equated an addiction with something that is self destructive. And having sex regularly (within reason), is in no way self destructive (again, so long as you're safe and smart about it).

Is this the same Natasha who works at Pigales, young blond spinner type? (I know, I know, that's a general description of half the dancers in Ottawa, but what can I say, she has no defining tattoos or anything :P). Anyway if that's her, I can concur that yes, she's most definitely a lot of fun.

Mine's one of those Disney urban myth's. It's supposedly a not so hidden phallic looking tower on the castle in the Little Mermaid. The other one on my profile page is just another phallic looking building I found when I googled "phallic castles" ;p

After about a month's worth of naughty PM's, profile posts and photo comments back and forth, I finally had a chance to meet this deliciously beautiful work of art today. Not a lot can be said that hasn't already been said. And yes people, you guessed it, I'm hooked! She provided one of the best GFE experiences I've had to date with just the right amount of PSE thrown in for good measure. Exactly what I needed today!(come to think of it, exactly what I need every day...but one thing at a time :P) Although too brief (30 min apt), I promised her next time we'll take our time so that some of the attention will be on her and I can properly spoil her :D.....and soon! Note, the month long PM's back and forth is in no way an indication that she's hard to get a hold of or difficult to book with, quite the opposite. I just preferred "building the tension" so to speak before booking an apt with her. I actually booked with her yesterday evening via PM which went very smoothly with almost instant replies. And Cleo, I wasn't kidding, you really did look like the cat who caught the mouse......actually, for the sake of my ego let's say the cat who caught the rat.....mice are pretty tiny after all ;)

My new place has a balcony too that I'm just dying to try out. I just have to figure out a subtle way of finding out if the apt next to mine is vacant or not! :P It would have to be a late night romp though. I'm right over the parking lot ;)

Anyone here ever donated hair to make wigs for cancer victims? I've been growing mine out for quite some time for this exact purpose, and right now it's about down to the middle of my back .......and driving me bananas! I'm so anxious to cut it but don't know if it's long enough yet! I've tried going online but some places say the minimum is 6inches, other places say 10inches, some 12, some 14, etc. I want to still have it long enough to have in a ponytail after having cut it. Has anyone here ever done it or know exactly what the required minimum is? Also not sure where to go to do it...does any salon participate? Thanks all!

If you're going to stop, make sure you stop for YOU because it's something you want. Personally, next committed relationship I get into, I'll be stopping of my own volition without anyone having to ask me. The last serious relationship I was in I was hobbying in secret on the side, and felt like a total douche every time I did it and still do to this day. She wasn't making me happy emotionally or sexually but instead of being honest with her about it and trying to work it out, I instead fooled around behind her back. SP's seemed "safer" than a mistress and that's what got me into this hobby in the first place. I never got caught, but never the less I'm sure this hobby and my unspoken guilt about it played a big part in our relationship ending. That's not a mistake I intend to make again. Don't get me wrong, right now I'm single and am enjoying this hobby to it's fullest and guilt free extent. But next woman I'm with, I'll be with that person and no one else, end of story. I am by no means criticizing those men or women on here who do have SO's. Everyone's situation is different. I'm just speaking for me personally.

Finally got to meet Jazy at Taboo last night and had a great time in the CR. Although her pics on here are a little over a year old they're still a very good indication of how sexy and toned she is. Someone mentioned in one of the reco's that she has a pixie-like face and I have to say that was very accurate. She's very cute and has an innocent, "girl next door" look to her. As for the dance, I can say with complete confidence that between the grinding (which she's particularly good at), the way she would let her hands wander (above the belt), and those sexy looks she kept giving me, that she has definitely mastered the art of teasing! Now all I have to do is book a session with her in a SP capacity and experience first hand her skills in the art of pleasing ;)

Her account's no longer active here. Looks like she's retired.

Thanks for the tips everyone! Seems like the best bet for me is to get a variety of different scents as well as unscented. And yes Cleo, cookies and/or cupcakes will be included among the scents (if I can find them...oh yeah, and bacon for Sara :D). At least with a variety I can simply ask the SP in question before hand if she has any preferences or sensitivities, and when in doubt, go with the unscented. And thanks for the tip Mia, I'll definitely try and find some quality ones (and mmmmm...apple crumble...that sounds pretty good!). And thanks to everyone who mentioned the heat aspect. That's not something I'd considered, and would probably not have gone well. I'll have to remember to lower the heat and/or open the window a crack a little before the encounter. If anyone has any other input, keep it coming! Now for the second part of my question (I know, it never ends :P), does anyone know where I would go about getting some quality candles and not a cheap brand?

Was at Taboo yesterday afternoon and it was extremely dead. Only 2 ladies and both were stuck on the slot machines/whatever they are the entire time. Usually I have a good time there but I guess yesterday was the exception. So I stayed about a half hour and than made my way across the street to Pigales for the first time in about 10 years. And i gotta say I LOVE the new CR set up there. Much more private than any other club I've been to in the region since the new "open concept" law in Ottawa. I had a wonderfully wild time with a young blond cutie named Natasha. The privacy of the CR helped a lot too! ;) I'll definitely be making a return trip soon.

Did a google search and found this for you, Angel. http://www.healthyandactive.com/the-secret-dancer-dance-pole.html The add mentions that it can "easily attach to your ceiling whether or not you decide to use the in-place screws. This means that you can easily transport the pole anywhere that you wish." I did a google search for "portable stripper pole" and that was the first find but a lot of different options came up as well. Hope this helps!

Due to circumstances beyond my control since getting into this hobby I've always been a incall guy. I've finally moved into a decent enough place to be able to have "company" over without being ashamed of the state of the place and/or neighborhood or having to worry about discretion. Once I'm done unpacking and everything I'm planning on having my first Outcall experience. I've never been a fan of bright lights during the encounter, but I still like things to be bright enough that I can still see all the wonderfully juicy things going on and the beautiful lady herself. In that sense I'm kind of a voyeur. I was thinking about getting colored (red) bulbs, but then decided that would maybe seem a little too "ghetto". Not to mention the risk of maybe offending a SP with the whole "red light" connotations that may bring up. So finally I decided on candles. Now that the long winded explanation is out of the way (sorry 'bout that), the question is this: Ladies, do you have any preferences when it comes to candles, for example, preferred scents? maybe you prefer non-scented? A particular brand maybe? Basically, anything that gets your juices flowing so to speak ;) Guys, you can answer this too, if there's a particular kind of candle you've noticed that ladies react well to, whether that be your SO or a SP, feel free to chime in. Thanks All!! :)

Thanks Emma!

I'm confused,lol.

Just thought of another one. Saw it years ago and it blew my mind. At the time it was probably the most offbeat movie I had ever seen. "Doom Generation" with Rose McGowan http://www.imdb.com/video/screenplay/vi2582708505/

Sure, I guess you could watch it by yourself....but wouldn't it be a lot more fun to watch it with company? ;)

I say leave an hour window if possible. I used to have a similar problem, unstable work hours, and a SO with equally unstable work hours, which made booking advance appts difficult, and most ladies I would book with required at least an hour before seeing me.

"Teeth" is deliciously wicked, the whole movie I wasn't sure if I should be cringing or laughing, I don't know if this fits the bill of "obscure" but "Suicide Kings" is one of my favorites, and it's not known by many. I just love all things Walken, and this movie proves that only Christopher Walken can still manage to be intimidating even though for most of the movie he's duct taped to a chair and slowly bleeding to death, Also loved Hard Candy, first thing I ever saw with Ellen Page and she impressed the hell out of me. Dog Soldiers, a pretty entertaining british werewolf movie, King of New York, Lesbian Vampire Killers, the title speaks for itself http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oc4llmQYyKY&feature=fvst Severance, a surprisingly funny slasher movie, and yup, another british one, what can I saw, those brits sure know funny, Communion, a supposedly true story about alien abduction, told from the point of view of real life author Whitley Streiber (The Wolfen, The Hunger). Walken gives a pretty strong performance as Streiber, and for the most part the movie seems to take itself seriously.....until Christopher Walken starts break-dancing with the aliens, not sure where that came from, but it's Walken, so it's cool..I guess, lol. http://www.imdb.com/video/screenplay/vi767492377/ Nighthawks, a little known action movie from the early 80's with Stallone, Billy Dee Williams and Rutger Hauer, http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cnvbtAoucPU Always Outnumbered, Always Outgunned, a little known but very powerful movie with Laurence Fishburne, Equilibrium, not sure if it's obscure but not a lot of people I've spoken to know about it, a great movie, Jekyll. Not really a movie, but a very fun miniseries which appeared on the BBC, kinda hard to find on dvd (I had to get it on ebay), but if you can find it, definitely something to check out

Wow....favorite zombie movie. That's a tough one! Not sure if it's technically a zombie movie but I think for me Planet Terror would have to be in there, Brain Dead's definitely up there (yes, directed by THAT Peter Jackson), I was actually kind of disappointed that there was no Sumatran rat-monkey or zombie sex scene in Lord of The Rings. White Zombie with Bela Lugosi's a pretty fun one. Return of The Living Dead if only because it scared the piss out of me as a child, and then I laughed my ass off when I saw it again several years later. Technically not a movie but a zombie themed episode of Masters of Horror, "Homecoming" directed by Joe Dante was VERY interesting. And I haven't seen this yet but I REALLY, REALLY want to for the following reasons A: It's Canadian, B: It's got Billy Connolly as a zombie, C: It just looks freaking hilarious: http://www.imdb.com/video/screenplay/vi2095711001/

One of the first things I look for on an escort site is a detailed description of services offered. Especially for agency sites which feature info on multiple ladies. I don't mean just a general, vague note of "gfe/pse ymmv" for each girl. I'm referring more to specific acronyms such as cbj, bbbj, cim, cimws, facial, greek, dfk, etc. and also a note of which acronyms, if any, come with an extra charge. If a girl's a safe gfe, advertise her as such, don't advertise every single girl as PSE if it's not the case. You would only be doing yourself, the girl, and the client a disservice. Many men are actually only interested in everything being safe, and will even go out of their way to request it from a SP who offers more. I prefer a more PSE type encounter myself, but I love when I see a site advertise a girl as a safe GFE, it tells me that at least the agency is honest about services offered. And makes me more confident that they're a reliable agency. And when someone requests info on an agency, I'll be more inclined to refer them to that agency over one who advertises every single girl as a "crazy, nasty, out of this world PSE". No one likes to play the guessing game in this hobby. By representing every girl as "GFE/PSE" you would just end up with a lot of disappointed customers who feel they've been misled, and you're going to be putting the girls in awkward (and potentially dangerous) situations. It's always best to be upfront about what to expect from a particular SP. Obviously decent, recent pictures are a plus too. And links to actual reviews from actual review boards. A few good examples are the following (hobbyists keep in mind that I haven't used every agency on this list, and am not necessarily recommending any particular one, I'm just using their sites as examples of the kind of service descriptions I usually look for): http://gardenofedenescorts.com/ http://www.sensual-secrets.ca/ http://www.tempted2touch.net/ http://www.dev1.anonymousgfe.com/ T2T doesn't mention specific services however they do a good job of letting you know which girls are Safe GFE, GFE or PSE. And I know from experience that they're really quick to let you know specifics, including additional charges, restrictions,etc via PM or e-mail. And oh yeah, no "surprise" music. That's never a good idea IMO.

I've been trying to do this for a while and can't figure out how, not sure if it's even possible to do it, but I want to slightly edit my handle (screen name) but still keep my account open with the same post history, pm's, etc, basically I just want to remove the "_79" from it and just be known as simply "Castle". The majority of people can probably tell what the number represents so for privacy and discretion reasons I'd like to remove it but can't figure out how, short of closing my account and starting a new one, which I really don't want to do. Am I stuck with it? Little help?