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Theoretically, yes. But imagine the reviews after a session like that. :)

I guess you are right :)

Oh, thank you:) I started feeling like a villain :) Yes, this is exactly what I meant. The same feeling of buying a luxury car or going on a luxury vacation. I must admit I would love to experience hiring a male escort and enjoy the fact that he has to make himself look handsome for me, has to smile no matter what he thinks of me and I can have sex when I want, the way I want. I would pay for the ultimate power trip, yeah! :) Nothing wrong with it, we all love being pampered.

OK, I knew it would be easy to misunderstand, but maybe the guys know what I am talking about. Having paid for a girl for sex for an hour is basically owning her pussy for at least a few minutes. And having the right to touch her intimately. I wish I had a better word instead of Owning. Maybe having access sounds better...?

Yeah, sure girls:) But without those nice tits and pretty face, would the guys still come to see you if you looked inattractive? You could appreciate them to death they wouldn't be interested. So the truth is somewhere in the middle.... Anyway, there is something that came to my mind when I read this thread. I am sure part of the appeal is the thrill of "owning" another person, if even only for an hour. I remember a few years back my girlfriend took me to a Chippendale show (not sure if they were the real ones, anyway they looked it...). I remember how it felt to have those gorgeous guys smiling at you, dancing for you and taking their clothes off just for you. I remember thinking I could get addicted to this feeling and that now I know what men feel like when they watch exotic dancers. Fortunately, next time we went the show was boring, so I didn't get hooked on it, but it certainly made me understand what does a pretty women's undivided attention do to the ego of men. I think if I was rich I would hire male escorts instead of picking somebody up and taking him home who could rob me, get drunk and/or be unable to perform. I think part of the thrill for men is the feeling of OWNING a woman. All you have to do is to read between the lines when they talk about their adventures... This is not meant in any way as a criticism. As I said I DO understand where they are coming from. It is a thrill to have power over somebody.

Lisa Marie Presley's Blog http://blogs.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=blog.view&friendId=42291868&blogId=497035326 He Knew. Years ago Michael and I were having a deep conversation about life in general. I can't recall the exact subject matter but he may have been questioning me about the circumstances of my Fathers Death. At some point he paused, he stared at me very intensely and he stated with an almost calm certainty, "I am afraid that I am going to end up like him, the way he did." I promptly tried to deter him from the idea, at which point he just shrugged his shoulders and nodded almost matter of fact as if to let me know, he knew what he knew and that was kind of that. 14 years later I am sitting here watching on the news an ambulance leaves the driveway of his home, the big gates, the crowds outside the gates, the coverage, the crowds outside the hospital, the Cause of death and what may have led up to it and the memory of this conversation hit me, as did the unstoppable tears. A predicted ending by him, by loved ones and by me, but what I didn't predict was how much it was going to hurt when it finally happened. The person I failed to help is being transferred right now to the LA County Coroners office for his Autopsy. All of my indifference and detachment that I worked so hard to achieve over the years has just gone into the bowels of hell and right now I am gutted. I am going to say now what I have never said before because I want the truth out there for once. Our relationship was not "a sham" as is being reported in the press. It was an unusual relationship yes, where two unusual people who did not live or know a "Normal life" found a connection, perhaps with some suspect timing on his part. Nonetheless, I do believe he loved me as much as he could love anyone and I loved him very much. I wanted to "save him" I wanted to save him from the inevitable which is what has just happened. His family and his loved ones also wanted to save him from this as well but didn't know how and this was 14 years ago. We all worried that this would be the outcome then. At that time, In trying to save him, I almost lost myself. He was an incredibly dynamic force and power that was not to be underestimated. When he used it for something good, It was the best and when he used it for something bad, It was really, REALLY bad. Mediocrity was not a concept that would even for a second enter Michael Jackson's being or actions. I became very ill and emotionally/ spiritually exhausted in my quest to save him from certain self-destructive behavior and from the awful vampires and leeches he would always manage to magnetize around him. I was in over my head while trying. I had my children to care for, I had to make a decision. The hardest decision I have ever had to make, which was to walk away and let his fate have him, even though I desperately loved him and tried to stop or reverse it somehow. After the Divorce, I spent a few years obsessing about him and what I could have done different, in regret. Then I spent some angry years at the whole situation. At some point, I truly became Indifferent, until now. As I sit here overwhelmed with sadness, reflection and confusion at what was my biggest failure to date, watching on the news almost play by play The exact Scenario I saw happen on August 16th, 1977 happening again right now with Michael (A sight I never wanted to see again) just as he predicted, I am truly, truly gutted. Any ill experience or words I have felt towards him in the past has just died inside of me along with him. He was an amazing person and I am lucky to have gotten as close to him as I did and to have had the many experiences and years that we had together. I desperately hope that he can be relieved from his pain, pressure and turmoil now. He deserves to be free from all of that and I hope he is in a better place or will be. I also hope that anyone else who feels they have failed to help him can be set free because he hopefully finally is. The World is in shock but somehow he knew exactly how his fate would be played out some day more than anyone else knew, and he was right. I really needed to say this right now, thanks for listening. ●LMP

I have thought about this a lot. I think one of the main reasons is that with an sp it's sex on the guy's terms, his timing and it is usually exactly the way he wants it. The girl is his type, she is nice to him and looks perfect. Every "other" sex in life can be a gamble. With other words, it is "custom made" sex, just like a custom made suit that will fit guaranteed.

OK, I understand where you are coming from, but would it be possible to spare us the picture of a loving wife kissing you when you go home after "hobbying"? It makes us look like we have no feelings and we are just money-hungry creatures who don't care about the impact of our work on others as long as we can make a buck. I am sure I am not the only one feeling uncomfortable reading those things.

It seems to be acquired taste. Usually, clients who are new to it tell me it is strange, but feels good.

Truth is we will never know what happened with the little boys..... Regardless, MJ was a genius as far as music is concerned. I have a soft spot for mildly crazy people:) R.I.P.

Sorry, I didn't mean to justify Malarek. What I am saying is that the issue has two sides. On one side the women who are doing this voluntarily, and then there is an ugly, dark side that is being swept under the rug. The truth is somewhere in the middle. I am saying, as long as it is the woman's decision, no other adult profits from it (except escort service fees), and she is treated humanly, there is nothing wrong with it. I don't quite agree with the "feminist" argument. REAL freedom to do with your body would be to have sex with people you are genuinely attracted to, not the ones who can pay for it. But let's be realistic, not too many people can afford real freedom, the rest of us (men, women) have to work for a living. I personally felt a lot worse working from 9 - 5 for $11 an hour, being responsible for millions of dollars, harassed by the boss and back stabbed by my peers. I felt a relief when I decided to become an escort and walked out of there. Everything is relative. It depends on what you compare it to. But I have also seen the dark side, having worked in an office in the skid row area of Vancouver for a few years. I saw the girls standing on the corner in low cut dresses and mini skirts in bitter cold weather, and the pimps collecting money from them. I have seen girls going crazy on drugs and banging their heads against the wall...... I have seen nice looking young girls turning into human wrecks within a few months, raising their skirts and showing their butts to the passing cars. This is what drugs can do to you. And many of the street girls are on drugs. Yes, the profession needs dignity and decriminalization, but more importantly, cracking down on pimps, and rescuing the girls from drugs and from this undignified life on the streets. No woman, or man should ever get in the position of degrading herself/himself in such way. And if you think I am unfair to men, there is a place where guys are selling themselves on the street corner and I feel just as sorry for them. Most of them on drugs, of course.

Then why don't you just do what the monkey does in your avatar? :)

Oh, that's a relief! Because if you want to enbalm Seymour you would have to kill him first, and that is against the law LOL

And now Antlerman, tell us why would you want to "balme" Seymour? Does that have something with "enbalming?" ;)

I am sorry Attila, I didn't mean to hurt your feelings. I guess I just felt sorry for her, kissing her husband who just came home from cheating on her.... But don't listen to me, I am a sentimental fool. I will learn to keep my mouth shut. :)

Mod, you might want to check what the shoutbox looks like on Opera. I am sure you don't want it to be this long.

OK, so make up your mind if this is dehumanizing in your opinion? This kind of prostitution and attitude is very much alive. This guy who writes these "reviews" is very popular, so the majority finds nothing wrong with this tone of voice when it comes to prostitutes. This is just an example. Mod, if you find it disgusting (I agree with you), feel free to delete it. "Yep deja-vue time, same chick as this old thread title on Perb years ago. She used to work for Shayna over on 152nd & 96th in Guildford. What I didn't know about her is that she is Catherine's older sister, Catherine always told me about her sister that I would really like her. Yep that's true alright I had been fucking both of them and didn't know I was bangin sisters, its a small world. Well I stopped at the Esso at 72 & Kg. tonight and as I was leaving this sexy blonde came in. I wasn't sure if she was a Ho but my radar was tingling, I sat in the trickmachine and she walked out and got in another car that was parked further over. I waited a bit and then thought, false alarm and backed out as I was leaving she got out of the car and the car drove off. She started walking towards the hwy and right by the trickmachine, I waved her over and she hopped in. Are you working? I asked yes I am, I think I know you she says, yeah you look faminliar, I'm Rachel I worked with Tanya, that's Shayna's real name. It was great to see her, she's a really nice girl and we talked about her sister Catherine, she went thru some tough times but is all clean and sober and doing well. Both these girls are gorgeous bodied ho's, Rachel is older now, christ its about 5 years since I last saw her and now she's 32 but still great lookin. We parked and I gave her 3 gr, I remember your flashlite she says, she dropped her gear and popped a nice set of tits out of her half bra and proceeded to play with the sweetest lil school girl pussy, what a cute lil peach. Ol throbber didn't waste any time commin to life and I eased him into that tight lil snatch, wow she felt great. She has a bit of meat on her bones and it feels great slidin in and out between those smooth thighs. I took my time and really fucked her good, wound up blowin a good load that rocked me! I dropped her off on KG by Hare Creek, she is working the Hwy cause it don't take her long to get picked up. She gave me her new number and I told her the pussy posse would be commin for her for sure, so I guess I'm addin to the list again. Fuck its great to find a good Ho, now if only I could get ahold of her sister at the same time, that would be a fabulous duo!" And this is not the worst. This guy writes about women who just "been calving" (just had a baby for those who had a proper upbringing :)), and he has a "snatch light" he uses to look for STD's on women. Do you really blame Malarek if this is what he read before he wrote his book? No matter how much I try, I can't find any "looking in the eyes" here :)

Yes, yes, yes! If we want to decriminalize we should make sure we eliminate all the evils that goes with prostitution, or decriminalization will only make it worse for those who are being exploited. And we must understand that voluntary and involuntary prostitution are not the same. One is good, the other is extremely bad. Also, the dehumanizing effect is still very much out there. Just go to other review boards and read the despicable "reviews" on women who can't fight back, like Asian massage parlours or street walkers. Every time I read reviews about a girl on how tight or loose her pussy is, how big her scar on her tummy from the cesarian section, how sagging her breasts are, I am thinking this is terrible, they are being scrutinized like livestock or slaves on the market :( Just go to one of the BC boards where you can read "reviews" on runaway teenagers and drug addict mothers on the streets by disgustingly disrespectful men, while other members are applauding them, finding it hilarious. Yes, the dehumanizing and degrading effect is still out there. We can't stick our heads in the sand and pretend it isn't. But, yes, the other side also exists. There are women who chose this job, are thriving on it and are respected by their clients. Both generalizitions are not only false, but harmful.

Thanks:) I was expecting to get shit for this, but I had to say it anyway :)

Oh, and one more point. Do your SO a favour and clean yourself for her also. She is human, too, you know.... :) The reason why she comes to kiss you on those days is because you look like you did before you started taking her for granted LOL

Oh, thank you:) Yesterday was the Day Of The Bad Breath for me. Two of my clients smelled like they just had a greek food feast added to hangover and insisted on deep breathing directly into my face while I massaged their front. They must have seen a tantric masseuse before and been told to breath deeply or something... Of course, they had to admire me while I massaged them and so they turned their faces directly at mine. I thought I was going to faint, honestly:( I admit thinking, thank God I am not married. I couldn't take this on top of me twice a week :)

CNN's Emily Chang reports prostitutes in China know little about how to prevent the spread of HIV. http://www.cnn.com/video/#/video/world/2009/06/21/chang.sex.work.and.hiv.cnn?iref=mpvideosview

We will have to spank your naked butt ;)

I agree with you Old Spike, but I am sure he thought this was a harmless flirt.

Wanna see how they clean the glasses in the best hotels? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=trl6B11Jb0k&feature=related