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i may have to break the rules at work and go for a woman that just started working for us. i can't stop myself from talking to her! she has the same interests as i do, loves to drink, and go out all night...this could lead to very big trouble guys!

Happy Birthday Dummpy! I think you need to go out and celebrate!!! ;)

Florida eh? Hmmm, I would make that trip to see you Paige ;)

I am 5 minutes from the 417, and have NO PROBLEMS driving to Kanata Paige...totally worth the drive :)

Hope you had a great birthday Pete!

Hey spike, welcome to Ottawa. Not everybody is like that, we can be nice while we're taking your tax money you know! Welcome to CERB, enjoy!

I have one friend who I trust enough to tell about my hobby. His family work in the porn industry, so it wasn't exactly a shock to him. I am by nature not an overly trusting person, so when I do open up to someone, I have put out feelers for a very long time to test their true character. I made the mistake of telling someone who I thought I could trust about what I do in my spare time, and it did not go very well at all! They were less than impressed, since then I really don't say much to anyone about it. I am fortunate to know some people on here who I know I can talk to about this and who seem to be very trustworthy people.

I've started doing some hardcore flirting at work recently, as I know I will be leaving in the next few weeks. This has started to work out very nicely so far, lots of hugs and touching from the young ladies at work. I figure why not? Might as well since I'm leaving and it seems to be working very nicely so far!

I'm loving this thread guys. My ex-wife was a Sunshine Girl once back in 1998. I had met her on a trip back to Ottawa to visit my parents. She may not have been the best wife in the world, but she was hot I must say!!!!

I'm with you there KIH, I don't do any flirting when I have a woman with me

Personally I flirt all the time. I meet lots of very attractive women at work everyday, so I constantly flirt with them. I think flirting is a very healthy thing to do and there is nothing wrong with it. I was flirting with woman yesterday at the gorcery store, everytime I would turn down an aisle she would be coming in the opposite direction. I'd give her a little smile and a slight raise of the eyebrow and she would blush each time. I think it's a lot of fun, and there is nothing better than flirting with an attractive woman :)

it makes both you and the lady you are seeing comfortable with each other, and gives you a great indication as to how the evening is going to go.

for sure it's a scam!

I've had a few encounters at work over the last couple of years. My past job was absolutely wild!!! I had just moved back to Canada in 2005 from the UK, and the women I worked with were very turned by the fact I had been a Royal Marine. It got a little out of had there for a while, so when I left to move over to my current job I promised myself not to get invloved in that scenario again. Of course if Paige was my intern I would have absolutely no problems putting my job on the line for her!!!

I never saw an sp while I was married, before yes and of course ever since the divorce, but never during. Maybe that would have saved the marriage!!!!

...plus most of the ones I know always get in with me, what a hell of a way to start your night off!!!

I agree with you 100% mark2, that time over a drink with her makes it feel much more personal. This way we are both relaxed and can really enjoy ourselves for the evening.

I've had an ongoing relationship with an sp from Montreal as I've mentioned before. It has worked out well for both of us until the last couple of months. It really ended because I chose to move on due to personal reasons with my family back home. It was a wonderfull relationship that worked out well for both of us. So yes it can happen and yes it can work out if you are not the jealous type and fall for the person, not the fantasy.

I think it's a great thing to have a drink with them before hand. I've had some amazing conversations with some incredible sp's over the years. I prefer to talk with the girl I'm with for a while to see what they are really like, that will determine if I want to see them again or not. Having a drink with a beautiful woman is never a bad thing!!! ;)

I find that many of the quality sp will always ask you if you would like to take a shower first. At least that has been my experience if you are visiting them.

I can't wait to meet her, all I've heard from everyone is how amazing she is!!!

That's not actually a bad approach thor, expensive, but if you are looking for an amazing experience that's a great way to find out if you click with them. Trust me when I say strip club girls and sp's are very diferent! I had a great encounter once after I got divorced at the NuDen that I've told all my friends about over and over again! In general though, they are few and far between. I'm sorta new to the Ottawa scene as well. Spent all my time with Montreal girls, but alas like every other woman in my life it was time to move on to something new, and let me tell you there are some wonderful women in Ottawa! Play around for now and you might get lucky and build some great chemistry with a couple of ladies in town. Treat them with a lot of respect and the chemistry will come!

Happy Birthday Cowboy!!!!

I agree with MOD, check to see how many posts a person has made. It may or may not be the SP that was the problem. Or it could be, it's so hard to say. When I see a bad review on a lady I've had a great time with I sometimes wonder if the expectation was too high, or they just have no clue what they are talking about. Personally, I've only ever posted one review on here and I really didn't say to much. If someone really wants to know they can PM me for details. I try to keep my time with an SP as private as possible.

I've been at this a long time, and the first thing I realized was you will not connect with every SP you meet. I have had some amazing experiences and some absolutely terrible ones! You just have to take it all with a grain of salt and not worry about it or get upset, you can't always click with everyone. I clicked huge with a young lady in Montreal a couple of years ago and she will purposely make time for me and has come to Ottawa just to see me. I recently had one hear in Ottawa where it was completely awkward in teenager kinda way and I loved every minute of it. The next one could be a disaster, I've just learned never to take it personally.