Nicolette Vaughn

If I said I did, it might ruin the "fantasy" but I am still human so let's just say I'm always well taken care of in that department by someone who is the male version of me in so many ways. It doesn't get any better than that. I also believe that sex off the job enhances better sessions with clients. If you see me very happy and smiling, you know why. It's a win win for everyone. ;)

There is nothing like being alone on a Sunday morning and having some "time" to yourself. A little urge that suddenly turned into something so much more when all of a sudden that wetness almost gave me a face wash while that quivering took my breath away. Incredible! I'm ready to start my day now...relaxed more than ever.

Il Re, I'll teach the ladies. LMAO!!! Cleo, it's really not that difficult. You just need to find your spot. It is usually found with the fingers and at the back there is a ridge on the wall. You need to keep touching that area and trust me...your eyes will go in the back of your head. Many guys can't find it because they like to finger women so roughly and think we enjoy that so I don't let anyone do it but will let them use toys. I also have a spot on the outside that is just as satisfying.

I think the ladies who last longer in this business are people who are sexually comfortable with themselves and while it's a lucrative business, I'm a firm believer in the fact that if you don't like what you're doing for a living then don't do it. I don't do anything I don't want to do and yes, while --some-- do it for the cash, they are usually in and out of this business fairly quickly. I treat this like a business but at the same rate, many ladies provide good service and are not revolving door when it comes to seeing clients. As for women enjoying sex with less partners, then please explain why married men come to see us? Some wives simply no longer enjoy having sex so that puts that theory right out the window. For the record, I'm not judging married men for doing that as that's what we are here for. In fact, I believe SPs do in fact save many marriages.

I may be able to come early around 7 for an hour. A big thanks to Angela for her hard work.

Damn, I've done every single one of those... and not just once either!

If I were a guy, I would have gotten a hardon at Pier 1 Imports store today. lol.

Happy Birthday Toine! Enjoy your day!

I will PM you because I don't believe in kicking someone while they're down or call them out in public. Although I am a straight shooter kind of person, I'm not a heartless soul either and I consider myself a professional SP. I am very much used to dealing with people, the public and other people working for me and not just in this job either. I do what I can to help people out that's just who I am. However, I don't let people take my kindness for weakness either.

Yay! Congrats! I recently did the same thing.

I stumbled across this on youtube...lol. That's fucking craaaazzzzzy!!! Hahaha. My friend and I can't stop saying it now. LMAO!

I'm very sorry to hear this. May you find peace in this most difficult time and my condolences to you.

The biggest things are crossing someone's boundaries and I don't mean in a sexual kind of way. I think you have to let things fall naturally into place or you're going to seem like an eagar beaver which can be annoying or someone with an agenda which gets the spidey senses going with the ladies. To be honest and just a little constructive criticism here ( not a personal attack) is that you've mentioned things in passing about the ladies in your posts like when such and such a lady told you something. She said that in private and I'm a firm believer that it should never be relayed to anyone else let alone on an internet forum. If you want to piss off an SP and never see her again, this is one of the biggest things you can do. Once you write a recco of that lady and the nice things that transpired, whatever private convos or services that happened that day, should never be spoken of again. The only exception is when someone is asking for a good SP to spend time with. If you speak too fondly about a lady over and over, many may think you are a 'shiller' for her and then others members may begin to question this. Whatever conversations I have with clients in private have never been posted in a thread which I very much appreciate. If a woman is comfortable with you and trusts you, she will open up to you. If she finds all her dets splashed across threads on Cerb, I know if it were me, I'd never be seeing that person again! Personal boundaries and another person's privacy are of the utmost importance in this business and without that you don't have any credibility or trust. No one is out to get anyone here and while we realize you have come into a hobby that you enjoy and are excited to share things but please don't share with us that a lady feel comfortable to tell you her real name. This is not necessary and can be harmful to her and her business. Being too inquisitive will make an SP feel uncomfortable and want to head for the hills. Don't ask too many questions and should you two begin to develop a "business relationship" and the operative word here is "business", then over time she will share things but please whatever you do, don't ask things like it's the Spanish Inquisition. It's the number one pet peeve of providers and while you seem like an open person, please understand that the person you are spending time with may not be. A little goes a long way in this business.

I'm wondering if there is often a link when men who pay for it and have those feelings like they are ashamed/not good enough often think the same as the SP and that she doesn't like her job?? I had one person I see which isn't too often say to me not too long ago "Don't you wish you could quit this job?" What? Are you implying that this is all I can do and I have no other options? To me, this is an insult. It's simply not true and have left this business a number of times to do other things. I always find my way back here not because I couldn't handle other things but because I want to be here. Most people here know that I speak my mind and trust me, I'm not going to do something that I don't want to do! If I hated this job, I would have been gone long ago. It takes a special kind of woman to do this job and I am one of those women. I am a very stubborn and strong willed person! lol. I've been around for a while and am good at what I do. If you don't find me here one day, you will know I've become bored and decided to go another route which I have done in the past. The hours are great, the pay, each day is always different and I call the shots. So I often wonder when some men come to see SPs with negative feelings, do they automatically assume that we don't like what we're doing either? I realize not every hobbyist feels this way but due to the secrecy and taboos of the business, many may feel that this is a negative thing. I've met some great men and I've never made them feel bad because they were paying for it and they never made me feel like I was just doing this because I had no other choice. There are choices in life and this is one I made on my own accord which I don't feel bad about. We as service providers are here to satisy needs and urges and you pay us to leave without any b.s. I would say we are easier to deal with than one night stands or having a high maitenance girlfriend who rarely puts out. And our services are much less expensive in the long run without the headaches or complications as opposed to going the traditional route of getting laid. You only live once so enjoy it while you can! :)

I visited Graceland once. That was interesting! Elvis was a complicated character but that's one of the reasons why people were so drawn to him.

Sigh.. I had a decent sized walk in closet but really not a shoe gal who needs to have hundreds of pairs of shoes but I'd love that kind of space to just go and sit there alone for a few hours when everyone else is trying to find me! Or it would be a nice place to go and have a quickie. lol.

Shortly after posting this, I got a sinus cold but it wasn't nearly close to others that I know who had it really bad. really just a stuffy nose and a bit of phelgm for a few days. I took the time off which explains my absence for not posting ads, got a lot of sleep and took the time to get better. It's gone now and really was nothing that irritated the hell out of me where I wanted to crawl up into a ball and wish I was dead. If you have a strong immune system, it can fight it off on its own which is exactly what I did. I'm not sure why people think we have buy into what the government says is good or bad for us. If it's other viruses such as stds and there are shots for this then I will get them as this has everything to do with the business that I'm in. How did people cope before this flu shot came about? The ones who could fight it off did just that and it's what I still continue to do for years and years. I've been sick with the flu before being in this business and while I've been in this business. If I'm sick, I don't work. I'm not one for imposing my beliefs on others and those who choose not to get the flu shot should not be viewed as people who are laissez faire about their health. However, if you are sick ( flu shot or not) then I'll do my best to stay the hell away from you. It's all about prevention imo. If I choose to get it in the future, I will do just that but I don't go on stats and numbers that's been handed out by the gov't. I can't remember the last time I had one of those terrible body flus with a fever etc. Just that 24 hour bug that makes you puke and is gone as quick as it came. Fought that off too.

I love the era of the 50's. Although this probably isn't true but things seemed a lot easier back then. Women dressed nicely even to clean the house and alot of it was about family. There was an optimistic drive among people to succeed and knowing through opportunity and hard work could acheive what they wanted to. I have always been drawn to the music ( i'm a big Elvis Presley fan), colors, cars, diners and those God awful pink plastic flamingos.

- Took a lot of time off and has helped me take care of a lot of things. - Realizing there is a friendly spirit in my house. The cat has been watching and chasing whoever it at all hours of the day and night. It's like watching someone walk across the room and the cat is looking at someone and always ends up in the empty bathtub with whoever it is since they both like to drink water in there It will be a year tomorrow that my other cat had passed away in my room. I'm convinced he's around and tormenting the s----t out of my much younger orange cat who drove him crazy for years. I believe pets can see things we can't. That, or I'm going insane! LOL. This was my cat shortly before he passed.

Being given pages and pages of paperwork to sign off on a new mortgage and realizing that the lender spelled my name wrong!!!!! Just hurry up and let's get this over with already... Pfffffffttttt!!!!

Imagine the gov't prohibiting bbbjs and DATY and labelling it an "Occupational Hazard"? Oh, the horror! IMO, I don't see a Conservative gov't wanting to get into the sex lives of Canadians let alone sex workers and their customers in the future so it is up to us as a whole to be responsible and be proactive about staying safe. However, it is very scary that there are some STDS like gonnorrhea will become resistant to antibiotics and really can't forsee society in general 'barebacking' it like they did back in the day in this business. Society has made too many strides in being effective about using protection whether it's through social media, charities, organizations about safe sex and all the dangers that come along with it. Can we really change the minds of those who grew up being told to use condoms and all the STDs out there these days? I don't know but in some ways that's like trying to turn a Republican into a Democrat!

Hey I just made that tonight! Had the honey garlic one.

Me playing ring the neighbor's doorbell and run on a dare when friends were over one night.lol. I only realized it the next morning... heheh. Immaturity always comes out when you drink!

Shovelling. Blah!!!!!!