Nicolette Vaughn

Q is for quickie

I don't think you're going to get an answer you're looking for here as most of us don't like talking about business. I'm certainly not going to discuss and analyze how many hour a week we work while someone is going to do the calculations on the internet. For what's it worth, this profession is pretty much looked down upon by mainstream society and most people think we just lay on our backs and like magic, the money appears. If it were only that easy! So what makes people think SPs are going to even go as far to answer these questions? I realize you are new here and are probably fascinated by this industry and all the lovely ladies but as in other organizations or businesses, there are some questions you do not ask.. even if it's directed at them through a community message board like this one. When people ask these things, I often wonder if they are a writer or investigative journalist? It wouldn't be the first time this sort of thing has happened in this business. "My tell it like it is" 2 cents worth...

Imo, in the last year or so it seems like the line has been drawn in terms of customers exclusively based on the length of the appt while the demographics of a customer has been thrown out the window and replaced with the focus completely on price, not the experience. And then there are those customers who prefer longer appts. While technology becomes more advanced as each year passes and the need for speed increases, could the same be said for this industry? Has being with a woman and all the wonderful things about an intimate exchange between two individuals been replaced for an act iself from those who seek out 15 minutes? I've seen this business evolve in different ways and this particular one seems to be one of the biggest changes I've noticed. IMO, a 15 minute appt is basically "a blow and go" and based on a specific act and then you're done. Never mind everything else and it becomes impersonal. It is what is is and while it's not for everyone, I commend all the ladies who take the time to make it an experience. Like I said before, I don't judge those who offer a quickie but 15 minutes for me is often the amount of time I take teasing a man! lol.

I thought I might add that many providers do not want this sort of traffic at their incall location and preparing for a 15, 30 or 1 hour plus client is all the same. If I had a 15 minute client, I would need to have 2 people at my location that day to make up for a half hour customer and even though two 15 minute customers would bring me more money than a single half hour appt, it is often a matter of discretion rather than money on a provider's end and my incall isn't a drive thru. If I had to see a half hour client and make less money than doing two 15 minutes appt, that is what I prefer to do especially where discretion is concerned. Two half hour appts a day or even just a one hour appt will make me more than two 15 minute appts at the end of the day. I just wanted to mention this as sometimes people do not into account what we go through in terms of preparation for the client and while 15 minute appts don't work for me, if someone else offers them, that's their perogative.

I may be in the minority when I say this and some may not like what I'm about to say but some people just don't want to pay or and often think that paying for sex is just another product or service and think they can haggle with one provider if the other says no. Seeing escorts isn't a need or necessity from a basic needs standpoint but so many guys tend to think that it is and make it a point to tell ladies that they are a commodity. And from what I've heard from other SP friends that I know are telling me that now guys are asking for encounter promising to pay back the next day or regular clients asking for a discount from a discount that has already been given. So where does it end? What we're offering is a more intimate service and while I understand half hour appts serve a purpose and seem to satisfy those who offer them and the customers who endulges in them but 15 minutes? It would definitely make me a clockwatcher. I don't like the mindset of guys I've encountered who are looking for 15 mins. I'm not a fan of them and don't offer them. I'm not a blowup doll and won't be treated like one.

I do remember life and being in this business with no cerb and no sense of community in general. Yeah, it was sucky.lol. A special thanks to the Mod for creating such a great place to go to with no b.s. :)

Happy Birthday Meg! Hope you enjoy your day! xoxo

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There is nothing better than making out and kissing which I really enjoy. As Annessa said, whistle wetter is right!

W is for wild.

I'm going to add to Cat's post as she pretty much summed up everything I was thinking. She made some very good points especially when she mentioned the niceties that potential clients practice and while they may seem subtle or considered just being polite, as service providers we take these types of things into consideration when deciding to meet someone. I know when texting with someone or talking to them on the phone very quickly if I want to meet them or not. When someone texts me as asks "How much for a blowjob?" without even so much as a "Hello" or the good ol "Wassup?"... I ask myself, what is this person going to be like in person? Secondly, many younger men seem focused on the laundry lists of questions and the MSOG part can almost be equated to going to an all you can eat buffet wanting to ensure their stomach is full to capacity while making sure they got their money's worth. I don't have a problem with MOSG as long as it happens within the amount of time the person books for. Many have approached in wanting MSOG without wanting to pay for the extra time. I don't think so... This may be acceptable in other service industries or products consumers buy but SPs are not products, we are human beings who "provide" a service. IMO, many younger men get so caught up in trying to get their rocks off (for a lack of better words) and at the same time almost seems like they have to prove a point with the MSOG. Many forget that this is an intimate service and that we are not machines. With many younger men, I have found myself being told what to do during an encounter almost like they want it to be scripted like how it is seen in porn movies and things don't flow naturally which makes me uneasy. I like to think i know what I'm doing and don't need to be reminded on how to perform a certain act. I'm not a blowup doll. Major turnoff! The lack of consideration many younger men ( not all) have shown to myself and others in this business is very common. Lastly, the word discount is often synonymous with younger men who endulge in this hobby. This is a luxury service that isn't a necessity but many tend to think it is and many think it's perfectly acceptable to negotiate with the provider which is another real turnoff. Having said all of this, I am not against seeing younger men as I used to be. In fact, I have many younger clients in their 20's and they have all been respectable and polite but I am choosy when it comes to meeting clients and it all starts with how they respond to me. This goes for clients of any age. SPs are offering a service and they are free to see who they want or don't want to see. I don't want to make it seem as though I'm making generalizations because I'm not but I'm not a new SP and I only speak from experience and often times hard knocks when seeing younger men.

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Jerking off.. sounds so crude..lol.. couldn't think of anything else.

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From an SP's perspective, if she doesn't answer, there is the good chancee she is busy with a customer or is not available. For me, if 20 minutes has passed and I missed a call, I will not call back for discretion purposes. Most clients will call me back if they want information or an appt at a later date. Some people take offense or consider the SP flaky if she doesn't get back but as I said if I missed the phonecall for whatever reason, I won't be calling back hours later.

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