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Nicolette Vaughn

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  1. Driving downtown last Friday night and getting off at the Nicholas exit and some person who got off at the Nicholas exit wants to get back onto the highway and jut decides to back up when there is traffic coming off of there! Like wtf?? Good thing I'm a good driver and was able to use my defensive driving skills.. I hope they were hearing ringing in their ears after I honked my horn so loud at them!! That is not the way I'd like to go out!
  2. When I hear any Nickelback song, I just want to cry... lol Game of Love - Santana Ft. Michelle Branch.. I used to hear that song all the time 10 years ago! Thankfully I don't anymore except for the other day. Additional Comments: We Found Love ( In a Hopeless Place) - Rhianna I used to hate hearing that song 20 times a day!
  3. This is the one of the reasons why I don't want to work from my own location. And since being in this business, I've come to the realization that some men love to gossip. And they say women were bad for doing this!
  4. Sunday is my favorite day because I mostly stay in my bedroom with my 2 boys ( my cats) at the end of the bed, sleep in and catch up on watching all my favorite shows while doing laundry. I don't usually watch t.v during the week.
  5. I never want to hear these Adele songs again! Rolling in the Deep Someone Like You Set Fire to the Rain
  6. Hahaha. Awww, marriage ain't that bad. Wait, yes it is!!! Make sure she didn't mistake your balls for her bowling ball! LMAO!
  7. I'll start.. Gangnam Style - Psy http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yd-HdjiMZcg It gets stuck in your head!! And don't forget the dance...lol.
  8. I hope everything works out for you but will you be able to get married and live with what you are going through? If not, delay the wedding and consult a counsellor for both addictions. BTW, not judging because no one here is perfect and we all do things for a reason. And I am in no position to judge. Here's the thing.. Can you live with this secret if you do get married? And ask yourself why you originally sought out this lifestyle? Was it an escape from being unhappy? What are you REALLY running away from? Dancers and gambling don't lead the path of a happy life unless you already enjoy life and have things in check. Find thee answers and the truth shall set you free.
  9. I'm doing a pinup girl photoshoot that is going to be made into a calender. Hehe.
  10. I'm not going to gauge someone and sit there with a clock in my hand while you're taking a shower alone. However, taking a 10 + minute shower on your own does cut into your time and that does affect things because I work with someone else. Now if you ask me to shower with you and some fun foreply is happening in there then that is included in that time. Most clients I see wash up pretty quickly on their own and we go from there unless they ask me to join them. I will still give them the full hour after that. I'm not going to risk losing a potential repeat client over 5 minutes just because when the clock strikes midnight, they have to be gone or I will turn into a pumpkin. I'm pretty relaxed that way but I also don't like being taken advantage of either.
  11. You call us! End of story. Good SPs that understand the need for discretion won't cold call clients and if someone texts or calls me and a significant amount of time passes, I won't call or text back either. When and if they call back, I tell them that.
  12. My take is if you didn't have a good time then no reco is deserved.
  13. I'm sorry if that insulted you. However I speak from personally experience when I am tight lipped and not saying anything to anyone. Ask yourself why? I don't expect to get an answer with my next question but have you tried asking her anything personal yet? If you did, she may not be saying too much because she is not comfortable for whatever reason and it could be a multitude of them. If you didn't ask her personal questions, she is probably a private person in general or she doesn't know you well enough yet. You can't compare the two. Filling out an online survey still offers discretion and you are not about to reveal details of your life that could potentially harm you or your children because of the type of work you chose to do that society doesn't generally approve of. Online surveys offer the consumer a certain degree of privacy under the information and privacy acts when they collect information from people. An escort on the other hand will not reveal personal details because there is an online personna attached to that post and where there's an online personna, there are pictures that are fully or partially idenitfying her, a phone number where they can contact her and finally a location. Unless she has zero issues with what she does with the info she reveals and doesn't really give a damn, she's not giving up all that info especially where children are concerned. SPs who are mothers are still like any other mother. They will protect their children and in doing so not to reveal any info that will lead to this esp on a public board where thousands can see. We do not have privacy acts where our lives are concerned so it is up to us to protect ourselves. We are not like any other business or industry.
  14. I've used Rosetta Stone to assist me in speaking another language and it works!
  15. You need the sound of a chainsaw. A bunch of kids at one house in my neighborhood actually stood there on their lawn with the usual scary decorations with chainsaws in hand! lol. It was a bit unnerving esp for younger kids but all in good fun.
  16. No one is is looking to start fights. If my diplomatic but straightforward reply didn't satisfy you then my apologies. When asking these kinds of questions, you're going to get a wide range of different responses and varying opinions especially when they go against most codes of conduct SPs practice to protect their privacy. And realize that these women have the right to not answer your questions in person or online.
  17. The first question I have to ask which you have NOT cared to provide a specific answer to is WHY you are asking these questions? And why do you feel the need to know? Are you a journalist? Are you writing a book and need material? Or do you just have guilt issues with seeing SPs who are in relationships and/or those who have children? With the personal questions you are asking on an internet forum and SPs here not wanting to answer, why would she tell you point blank when asked in person? With the way you are acting right now, I would be scared too if I were the SP that you visit! And just to speculate here, if she felt open enough with you to tell you the truth about her life, she would have told you little details here and there. It's only natural when you feel comfortable in someone's company. Obviously there are reasons why she hasn't. She very may well see you as a threat. I've had one client in particular trying to do this as even went as so far to get my license plate but I really don't care. Equally important, I know enough pertinent details about him and I stopped seeing him because of certain tendancies like this. No escort likes secret agent/creep/stalker clients who feel that it's their mission to find out everything about them because they happen to take a liking to them. SPs definitely can get vibes from clients and feel them out. I have clients that I don't feel threatened by and they know a few things about my personal life. Others know nothing so what does that tell you? I am also not dating these men so this info is out of bounds if I don't care to share it. And this is where the line is drawn in the sand. I am under no obligation to disclose my personal details. And your job is very different than mine where you do the opportunity if you choose to be open with coworkers/clients about yourself. And why would an SP send you a PM with her personal private details instead of posting it here? And please don't send me a PM. Why would she even give you that info? It is posts like this that make a lot of SPs use cover stories and alot of reasons why we are viewed as being dishonest instead of being able to be ourselves. We do not post details about our private lives if we don't want to because it doesn't apply to the service we're offering. We're providing a fantasy and real life relationships and children basically ruin this fantasy. And we don't want to be put in an uncomfortable postion either. No one wants to hear how many kids you have when you're in the middle of something hot and heavy. The SPs that are professionals know NOT to do this. I really don't think you're going to get the answers you're looking for from SPs here or the SPs you see. And yes, your questions are inappropriate whether you'd like to believe it or not. This is one of the rules of etiquette in this business and the info you're looking for again is on a need to know basis. I don't need to know if clients are married, how many children they have, etc and vice versa. As long as I provide a good service, they have a good time and I get paid is all that is really important. This is the way this business works. Educating yourself on the protocol of a business that demands discretion can go a long way. )
  18. No it's what we are being paid for. There are many ways to entertain myself on my own time.lol. As long as you are hygenic, polite and respectful of the escort's boundaries, it doesn't matter if it's a wham bam encounter or something different. I can't shun someone for whatever it is they want especially if it's in my limits to provide it. The customer walks away happy and so am I. If I don't like the client, I am under no obligation to see them again.
  19. Thi business is not lucrative for men unless you willing to suck cock. Sorry but that's the way it is. I get asked this all the time! While there could be female hobbyists out there, they're few and far between. I would say there could be a better demand for your friend in a male-female duo situation.
  20. I would donate some money to charity of my choice and then take one nice trip to somewhere I've always wanted to go with someone special. Depending on if there was any money left, I'd buy some new furniture, or more clothes and definitely a 60" flat screen for my finished basement.
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