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Nicolette Vaughn

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  1. From a personal point of view, if I'm going on a trip with a regular, only then will I ask for a deposit. As for multiple hours, I don't offer that on a first date anymore because I want to see how reliable they are for an hour. In the past multiple hour appointments even just for 2 hours were the worst type of cancellations and I never count on someone unless they are there in my presence. Once I get an idea of how reliable they are for an hour after a few visits, I may or not ask for a deposit for multiple hours. If someone books other appointments for a half hour or an hour and I've met them just once or not at all and they have a tendency to keep cancelling more than once, I will not bother asking for a deposit. The way I see it is they are not someone I'm acquainted with or barely at all so I will write them off and not see them again. I give them two chances with cancellations and then I'm done. I don't have time to fool around with that and while there are good reasons for cancellations, if the client has any respect for someone else's time, they will reach out to make amends. The provider shouldn't have to. It's the people who act shocked and insulted when you bring up the issue and ask for a deposit are the type who will throw it back on the provider and just disappear so it's an exercise in futility with the chronic ones. I see them as waste of timers. Why even bother? Their actions speak louder than words. I don't want to deal with unreliable people. It's no different than an SP double booking or constantly no showing on a client. They are not going to put up with that behaviour no matter how good looking or how good her services are. We all have our threshold point where it becomes too much. There are many more guys out there who aren't chronic canceller types so I don't think there is a need for deposits upfront unless it's for multiple hours, overnighters or trips. That's a no brainer to get a deposit for those types of appointments. I don't forsee ladies asking for deposits up front for any length of time such as an hour or under. That will never happen because trust has to first be established and that can't be done with virtual strangers. The SP takes her chances with a 2 hour appointment from someone she has never met. It's happened a few times to me so I stopped offering it to people I don't know. The ones who really annoy the providers with their waste of time horse and pony show are the ones who won't pay that deposit so really give them a chance but not too many where they have to only then be viewed as a wot. As the saying goes "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me." I really take appointment bookings with a grain of salt which is why I love same day, last minute appointments because this sort of thing rarely happens within an hour or if they want to visit right away.
  2. I wouldn't say a dumb question but I consider it silly..."Are you available right now?" I understand what they mean but right now at this moment are they going to teleport themselves? Lol. I just laugh when I get texts like this from people I don't even know. "Right now" in their world means 20-30 minutes that it takes for THEM to get there. "Right now" in my world for someone I don't know is about 30-45 minutes and for someone Im already acquainted with could be in as little as 10 minutes. For my regulars I'm good with right now if I'm available to accommodate them.
  3. A vampire facial a.k.a platelet rich plasma rejuvenation treatment.
  4. Caught up with a gentleman I hadn't seen in a while. It was nice to reconnect.
  5. I appreciate when my one of my regulars always brings me the things they know I use. Cases of water, Diet Pepsi ( I need my caffeine) and my favorite tools of the trade so I never have to find myself dashing to the store at the last minute. Lol. He and I have known each other for a while so the little things like this I always find to be very thoughtful. I went downstairs one day after he left and there was Diet Pepsi and bottles of water on the counter. So sweet. I'm a very practical person. Another longstanding gentlemen I see bought me a handheld dirt devil I was interested in. That really helps with my staircase and around the house since it's so light... I use it a lot. Oh and the toys, those are fun too!
  6. I like lingerie gift cards from La Vie En Rose which is where I buy most of my lingerie. Then I will surprise them with the new outfit by wearing it for them next time. Flowers, even just one is a nice touch. While most ladies don't expect anything, it is nice when someone asks us what we like as opposed to receiving a gift because we are told we need it or should be doing this or that or we need to get out more so take this and go do that. Even if someone just gives another person a gift or even something from the heart, I consider that thoughtful but when it comes with strings attached, not so much. I call that conditional gift giving and pretty presumptuous. It's happened to me once and if they had just given it to me, I would have considered it thoughtful but they had to add their two cents with a lecture as to WHY they were giving it to me. It was more insulting than anything else. I decided not to use his gift. I got the feeling he didn't think I was "cultured" enough yet he truly didn't know who I was. Just the many things that were said along with many assumptions of who I was and his thoughts of the business prompted me to stop seeing him. I realized I could no longer spend time with someone like that. So thank you to the gentleman who actually TAKE the time to ask about our interests and what we like instead of assuming what will be best for us.
  7. Just got home from being out with a new friend and winding down watching John Wick 2 on that new streaming site I found the other day.
  8. Fifty Shades of Grey. This movie never interested me when it originally but decided to watch it tonight. I cringed at watching this. LOL.. Not my cup of tea.. I guess this is considered risqué for Hollywood but I found it to be predictable and slow. The leading male character is very manipulative in the beginning where he really puts on the pressure to do things she isn't 100% sure of. That's not what a dominant and submissive relationship is truly about. Consent is everything but this isn't reality so I suppose that's what makes a weak plot more exciting.
  9. One night my girlfriend and I began to watch The Nice Guys with Russell Crowe and Ryan Gossling but then other people showed up so we turned it off. I wanted to finish watching that movie and found this free streaming site with no pop ups and there are also movies on there that are still in the theatre. One of them is Fifty Shades Darker. To be honest, I really had no interest in watching this movie and its sequel but maybe I'll give it a try. The movie Hidden Figures is there too. That looks really good. If you're looking for a funny movie to watch, try The Nice Guys. http://Http://123movies.net.ru
  10. Definitely wish them well and if you wish to give her a gift which is something that she likes, I'm sure that she would consider it thoughtful. As Lily said, if an SP tells you she is going into retirement but will still see you, consider that a compliment. While clients come and go, there are quite a few I don't think I could stop seeing because I really enjoy spending time with them.
  11. It's best to ask what part of town they are in and ask the closest intersection or an identifiable landmark close by which is acceptable. This way the creepy radar doesn't go up immediately. Any time someone does that, I excuse myself and say I'm not available or get the off the phone asap. Many times I have been inundated with text messages like "Address?" and I don't even bother. Big red flag right there of a wot (waste of timer) or someone who is plain creepy/nosy. Asking for an address without even a proper greeting is an extreme example of what we deal with from time to time. For the SP's safety and whether or not she will get a good vibe from the person texting or calling, start out politely and build up. Never ask for a direct address because that's creepy and most likely she will find a way to decline the date if she is using her intuition correctly.
  12. A long overdue trip to a sunny destination.
  13. Clients who attempt to exploit your own personal time and ask to see you off the clock for dinners, movies , drinks . I do not offer social time outside in public off the clock and have stopped offering social time as part of my compensated services. No, I do not consider someone a friend when I have really only met them 3 times in 3 years.
  14. Having the money to be able to buy these shoes and wanting to buy them are two different things. While they are beautiful shoes, my priorities have changed. I can think of so many other things to buy with that kind of cash. Like taking that money and putting it towards remodelling my bathroom. If someone gave them to me as a gift, I would no doubt accept them but as you get older, you wants and needs change. I don't think I could justify the price but I would buy another Louis Vuitton bag if I talked myself into it and did it on a whim.. I'm more into handbags than shoes but I always have less expensive shoes that always look great.
  15. Waiting for a repairman. Furnace not blowing hot air. I'm very cold right now even with a blanket.
  16. https://www.google.ca/amp/nypost.com/2017/03/03/man-found-dead-buried-under-massive-pile-of-porn-mags/amp/
  17. Knowing that the universe ALWAYS has your back.
  18. You will have to find out for yourself! Hello Gentlemen, I will be available in Orleans the following days: Tues March 1 - 11 am - 6 pm Wed March 2 -11 am - 6 pm Thur March 3 -11 am - 6 pm I can be available on short notice with at least 30 minutes provided I can entertain your request. Please call or text. Texting apps or VOIP numbers will be ignored and I consistently check for them. Discretion is assured when booking with me. Should I miss your call or if I am in a session, I do not call back for your discretion so please try again. I will not text back after the 20 minute mark has passed. I see limited gentlemen on a low volume basis so please plan accordingly. About Me I am very voluptuous with a proportioned hourglass figure, round behind and creamy soft skin with dirty blonde highlighted hair standing in at 5'3" (a more statuesque 5'8" in heels) with impressive 40 DD naturals. My beautiful, youthful looking baby face has been blessed with full sensuous lips and seductive captivating blue eyes that are perfect with my impressive skills. I am always well polished from head to toe from my coiffed hair to my manicured nails and feet. I am perfect for those who enjoy more full figured ladies. I seek out mature, respectful gentlemen 30 years of age or older looking to spend a relaxing time with a nice lady. Underneath it all, I possess a distinct prowess and the maturity of a 30's woman who wants to rock your world! An experience with me is passionate, fun and surprisingly relaxing. Be prepared to be mesmerized by my talents. You will feel refreshed when we say goodbye. Photo albums - http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/album.php?u=4180 Recommendations - http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showth...?ltr=N&t=28638 My Location My location is in Orleans and is an upscale, clean, quiet and discreet location. Free parking available. Shower facilities, fresh sheets, towels and all other amenities for your comfort. TRIBUTES I host - You come to visit me. At this time I primarily offer same day availability. My services are all inclusive ( therefore no negotiation) for an unhurried, satisfying, sensual and fun encounter. "I Host" Tributes: ( My location only) Rates are firm. $120 -30 mins $160 -45 mins $200 -1 hour Sorry outcalls are not available CONTACT 613-404-7*8*8*7 - Call or Text is the quickest way to receive a response Blocked calls/Voip/Texting Apps and payphones will be ignored
  19. I think it was because Windsor had a bad rep in the past with bylaw before the laws changed and barely anyone offered incalls as a result. I've been told outcalls are popular there but this is why I never visited for this reason. I don't do late nights and outcalls. Unless incalls became more prevalent there, it may take a while before you see a change.
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